like i said.. put some guts.. jus farking go grab kao her hands
then u know the answer straight..... be a man tonite

she might slap kau u

ya... juz hold her hands!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hmm
seems progressing very nice
bro keep up the good work

Haha seems u are more excite than TS himself , keep on want to grab sth ...

TS progress is good so far, but lets see if the bomb drops... I support you!

Go cinema? Choose the ghost movie if any; she will get scare and jump to you. Then..

Updated:
Bad news to tell you all... That night I went out watching movie with her ... After that night, she start to avoid me.... I call her to chat... She wish to hang up quickly.... I ask her around home at night... She said no... This is the feedback from her.... So I had give up to chase her already.... Thanks for the advise and guidance.... ^ ^

Did you do anything 'over the line'? Well, don't give up when hit by some minor setbacks. It might not be that bad. Just give her some time perhaps she is really busy now. After awhile sit her down and talk to her nicely if you have the chance. Get a proper closure if given the chance. Perhaps she really just want to focus on study, so then respect her loh.

Best of luck.

You actually didn't done something nasty to her right? Well, perhaps you kept buzzing her too often and she might have thought even when your chasing her you also damn " fan " what more if she really became your gf. Then no more freedom for her. At the begining of your courtship, if you want to test her really she is also interested in you the first step is to flirt with her and don't contact her quite often as you did. Just say something like:

Bright side
You: Got miss me a not?
Her: No woh
You: Hah?!? Lil bit also don't have meh? My heart broken already.
Her: [Laughs] Perhaps got a lil lo.
You: Damn girl, now you made me miss you even more.

Dark side
You: Got miss me a not?
Her: Errrr.....
You: I missed you since last time we met
Her: Hey, tell you what. Im quite busy right now. Chat with you sometime around

Worst side
You: Got miss me a not?
Her: Errrr ..... Wrong number *toooooooooooot*

This post has been edited by sykz: Nov 29 2007, 01:17 AM

do u think she saw this thread ?? haha.. joking only. u better ask her she got masuk lowyat.net or not hahahah
like i farking said alady.. grab kao her hands n u wil know the answers ... since u also in bad situation now.. .. must use secret weapon alady... GRAB KAO HER HANDS.. win or lose u will know in a second.
better than u guessing here guessing there... gona suck up more of ur money going out with her

ts .. ask u ah .. when u all go out .. who pays ?

i think ts is just a casual frens... the girl start to avoid him is bcos wanted to stop sending wrong signal... possible .

But TS:
you did 1 thing very correct... is not showing you too desperate. Just let go for now. Maybe got other time...

If you all saying like that... Now I just can wait until next Monday only text her want to come out or not.... Just can wait the result until Monday larr.... I dont want to call her in this moment cause she is rushing for her project de.... Let it be.... Pray for Monday her reply....

Must have been something you said / did to her when u guys went out, or her BF come back from overseas edi hehehe... its possible ...

maybe she feels that u're moving in too fast?

TS,

Wooing girl is like go fishing, you need to be patient, more setbacks and difficulty are more challenging, dont give up so easily. Don't be too rushy (set a time 3 months, 6 months), don't always have mindset to woo her or nails her. That's a big problem, because girl sense is very strong, slow slow, use your sincere to win her heart. Like accompany her that time, try to observe what can make the situation more happier, let her know you try to make something to make her happy and not actually woo her.

Slowly la...once you have it. You can terbalik her anyhow you like, starting is the hardest part, enjoy the fruitful(juicy) result later.

This post has been edited by vaio_me: Nov 29 2007, 11:43 AM

ah...i'm too late! i just read this about taking her to a movie. my advice would be NO! NO! NO! never take a girl to a dark room with lots of strangers where you concentrate on a flickering screen as a "date"!

dating is so you can see face to face, talk talk talk, do things together. not sit in silence watching some d@mn movie! your minds, both of you, are "captured" in the movie not on each other.

if you hold her hand she might think you are too forward, too touchy, or think you are manipulating a movie just to hold her hands.

when i read further down this page i said: ah i'm too late!

you give up too easy man. faint hearts don't win no fair lady...

yea thats true.. going movie during the kau lui process is a big no no if u're going one on one.. cuz..

1) u dont spend time getting to know each other and communicate
2) dark and scary

I dont think going to movie is not a good idea. This is the best reason to initiate a date, by the way. Girl can observe and give point during the movie session, like I always use is to hold their hand in the movie, but not that fast, probably 2-3 months. You can ask them cold or not, if she say yes, then hold her hand to warm her, if no then u say u are cold, can you warm me? but this always work for me.

Talk can talk during dinner.