Hello... Nice to meet you all... I have some doubt on how to woo this girl named A that I just met her few days back....

The Story goes like this... I met her last Saturday at Maxis fair... She approach me and introduce Maxis plan to me... I replied her that I applied long time already... Before this I notice her quite along time... I dont want to miss this chance to get to know her.. So I decide to get her hp number... Chating with her that time and finally I got her hp number... On the next day morning... I smsed her and said that I got something for her and ask her for a dinner if she wanted to.... So she agreed and we went out for a meet... At that time.. Im not so happy yet cause I think that she might bring along her bf since she want to meet me for dinner.... When we meet up... She came alone... Oh my god.. I was so happy... We get some place to eat and chit chat about everything... Almost reach 4 hours... I end up the session cause it is late at night... I was so excited that night cause she attracted me... and my mind keep thinking of her.... Next day morning... I smsed her again and chat until evening... How I going to woo this girl? Is sms and call the only way to mix with her..? I scare I sms her too much will get her realise that Im chasing her indirectly... Oh my god.... Help.... I dont have experience on this matter lerr.... Last few times I always fail on this kind of matter...

Hey.. Guys and girls... Thanks for your feedback....

I got ask her she got bf or not.. but she said dont want paktoh in the mean time... Concentrate on study and career is most important for her because having a relationship quite wasting time if her bf stick too much on her.... This is what she mention...

I got smsed her this morning to send my morning regards to her.... wait wait wait... luckily she got replied with a nice forward msg.... I scare that I sms her... She feel annoying then dont want to reply me.... I just sms her now... Haven get reply from her yet... Her reply sms may make my day de... Oh my god.... keep thinkning of her.. Suffering ;lerr..... Can you people tell me what to do next arr..? Especially for girls readers... What would you think and any suggestion from girls point of view....

What is glhf?

Wow.... So much reply already... Guys and girls ... thanks for your concern o....

Updates:

I just call up her... She is busy doing her stuff so sometimes she cant reply me... Just normal chat... I will try to date her this weekend... Will update you all about it ...

Yesterday night I msn chating with her... that time she is working... and then she said she gtg so I goodbye to her lorr.. After a while... I still saw her msn online... So I call her and ask whether she is still working or not... She said yes... and I remind her to off the msn when leaving...

I think I care too much on this tiny things de.... Yesterday night chit chat with my roommate.. They said dont always sms regarding of what are you doing larr... dinner already or not arr... This might make the girl frustrated if we are not so close de... They suggest to forward some meaningful msg to her... Once per day.... Just to keep her remind of me.... If can... sms at the same time.. So that she will used to it receive the msg at the same time.... How you all think arr..?

Yalorr.... I shouldnt be so desperate... Just treat her as normal friend 1st... When get close enough to each other... Then only I chase her.... Should be like this... Thanks guys and girls...

Latest Update:

Last Saturday... I went to The Curve find her... That time, she having lunch time... So when I came to her working place... I cant find her.... Wait wait wait for so long time... Finally meet her... She is window shopping that time... She was so surprise when I was there... And then we chat quite some times and I pass a souvenier to her that I bought from Melaka... Just a simple bookmark... Anyway... I had date her for a meet a Sunway Pyramid on Monday night for matter and she agreed. The gathering session end up by her friend ask her to accompany her to shopping... So we left....

Sunday night, she call up me saidthat she might bring her friend too when meet up with me... Since the time quite time for you.. So I suggest that we meet up next time and I dont want her to rush here and there... So she said ok... After that... We chat alot of things... End up she received a call and she said she will call me back.... After a while I received a sms from her said that she extremely tired and she want to rest already.. chat next time and make the appointment again for next time...

From the 2 incident above, I think she treat me as a friend and do not have any feel that will lead her to avoid me.... How you all think arr..? What should I do for the next step...?

Thanks for the guidance... guys and girls ... I will gambateh lorr... Will update you if there is any progress... thanks.. ^^

I try to date her this Thursday... She said she cant confirm with me.... Will let me know later.... Now still waiting for her reply....

Do you all know why I dont want to woo her so fast... It is because we just get to know each other not more than 2 weeks only.... If I approach too fast.... This might scare her away... In the end... I spoilt everything....

Latest Update:

Yesterday I called her...

Me : HellO...
She : Hello...
Me : Where are you now arr..? Got songs play de...
She : Im at Wing's Cafe...
Me : ooO!~!~ So enjoy.... Yum cha...
She : You dont want come to find me... then ma find friends yum cha lorr...
[I was like ]
Me : Not I dont want find you larr... Just that you busy with your assignment and works.... So I dont want to disturb you lorr... How about this Thursday arr.. ? Decided already..?
She : Erm... ok... What time we meet arr..?
Me : 7pm.. ok?
She : ok..
Me : See you then... Enjoy your yum cha session larr..
She : See you....

Wow.... She claims that I dont go to find her.... Ermm Ermm... I think is a good sign for me... How you all think arr..?

What do you mean infatuated arr..?

Latest Update :

Before I meet up with her yesterday... She sms around 4 something to ask whether I can fetch her out or not.... So I do reply her sure...

So after work... I rush to her place to fetch her... While she getting into my car... I ask her...

Me : HellO!~!~
She : Hi....
Me : Why you ask me to come to fetch you arr..? You dont scare that later I will bring you to somewhere else and doing something bad to you..?
[She smiled and replied]
She : Its ok for me... because I trust you...
Me : ok... thanks...
[I smiled back to her]

The dating quite nice.... Just as normal lorr...

Ermm... Very nice... Quite a long time I do not have this strong feelings already... I had woo 4 girls before and never get success... All fail.... That makes me still virgin in having a love relationship... I never get into a courtship before.... That is why woo a girl is a tough things for me.... What type of clue she gave arr..? So far... I think she just treat me as a friend.... I do not think too much or desperate on it... Just make it as normal.... You all know why .... because I always end up fail to woo a girl because I was too desperate showing I like a girl... That why the girl afraid of me lorr...

Im 24.... High success rate.. Hope so....

Ya... I agree with you...

I ask already... She dont have bf now.... By the way.. She dont want to paktoh in the mean time cause want to concentrate on study and earn money de....

Yup... She is student...

Latest update:

Last Sunday I date her for breakfast in the morning... On that the morning.. Oh my god... I was almost late already.. Woke up at 8.20am that I suppose to reach her house 8.30am... Oh my god.... Fast fast settle myself and get to her place... On the way I sms her whether she wake up already or not... She replied that she was just wake up and not yet ready, ask me to come at 9am... So I replied it doesnt matter... I wait her.... But actually I was late late late liao... Reach her place around 9... but wait until 9.30am... Once she get into my car.... She ask what time I reach... I said almost 9 lorr... She said sorry for that... That time her hair haven dry yet, still very wet.... But looks sweet larr.... She lead me to her place that she always having breakfast de... Quite pack since that day is family day... During breakfast... We chat and laugh alot.... After that I fetch her back to her place.... Got sms and call her the rest of the day and date her tonight whether she want to come out or not for a dinner.. She just replied this morning said that she want to stay at home since she went out so many days already... She want to stay at home to accompany her family de... So agree with her.... She said she will text me if she got free time to come out.... So I replied her I will do so if I got free time de....

So... How you all think about the progress... Should I sms her in these few days? Or I should not sms her until when I want to date her then only sms her....?

This post has been edited by SphinxVille: Nov 19 2007, 11:31 AM

Updated:

Since last time, I date her last Saturday morning for breakfast... After that... Accompany her to do assignment from Saturday night until next Sunday morning at Mc D..... I think she knows that Im going after her already... But until now.. She din hint anything to me yet.... I also dont know she likes me or not....

Tonight I will having a movie with her then after that continue accompany her doing assignment de.... Might be whole night again.... I had think of holding her hand when watching movie... But I scare she will let of it... Dont know what to do also....

Updated:
Bad news to tell you all... That night I went out watching movie with her ... After that night, she start to avoid me.... I call her to chat... She wish to hang up quickly.... I ask her around home at night... She said no... This is the feedback from her.... So I had give up to chase her already.... Thanks for the advise and guidance.... ^ ^

If you all saying like that... Now I just can wait until next Monday only text her want to come out or not.... Just can wait the result until Monday larr.... I dont want to call her in this moment cause she is rushing for her project de.... Let it be.... Pray for Monday her reply....

Thanks for reply... guys... I think I need to tell you all in more details... So that you all can tell what should I do now....

Back to Monday night.... I go over to her convo to fetch her.... So reach her place.... Call her that I reach already... Then she came out... on the way to my car... She said got a bit headache and keep massage her head... So I ask her ok or not... She said is ok.... So we proceed to watch movie....

In the car... I talk much than her.... She seems like not feeling well... And I ask her is she ok..? She said feel like want to vomit de... then I care of her and said might be she do assignment too late... not enough sleep de...

So when I reach GSC.... I go to find some seat for her since she is not feeling well... Go round and round... No place.... She is following me... but a bit blur blur de... walk slowly... So we come to sport shop... and there are some seat... So I ask her to sit there 1st... I go to buy some drinks for her.... She said buy later larr... I said... I buy 1st since she is resting over here... So I went to buy drinks... After came back... She is trying shoes... and ask me nice or not... I said nice... I like those style as well... but just test only... She din buy de... After that she said she headache again... then I ask her where is the spot... she showed me and I ask I massage for her... She said ok.... then I massage lorr...

Time reach.. We get into cinema... She sat down and keep on massage her head... then I said sit properly... I massage for you.. She do it as what I said... then after that watch movie... care of her... cover my jacket to her so that she is not feel cool... In the mid of movie.. She receive a call from her bf and she rush out.... After a while.. came back to seat but didnt say anything... After finish movie... We went out and go home... When almost reach her home... She cannot tahan and ask me to stop... go down and vomit.... I comfort her back so that she feel better... then she siad ok already.... After that send her home de..... When I heading home... I smsed her rest earlier... if not ok.. then see doctor lorr.. She replied.. ok.. thanks for helping just now... good night...

Next day morning.. I smsed her and ask her feel better... She replied ok already... just a bit headache but not so serious larr... then after that I ask want to proceed doing assignment tonight... and she said no need my help already.. Just send whatever I had done to her... She will do it at her friend's house since she want to discuss assignment with her friends de... At night I call her up and then said I send to her already.. She received it already..? She said will check later... then she hang up phone quite fast de...

Next day morning... I ask her want to go to Pasar Malam..? She siad cannot ... want to complete assignment and pass up on Monday.... then ok larr... After that I ask her got around or not at night... She said no... then I ask what time she went out... She said not at home also... then I got noithing to say liao.. just said I will bring the things to her next time... hang up like that....

Until now... I dint give a call to her already.... Cause my hp credit out of limit...

This is what happen lorr... What should I do arr..?