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 Can teach me how to woo her?, I just met her for few days...

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cantdecide
post Nov 16 2007, 05:50 PM

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QUOTE(SphinxVille @ Nov 16 2007, 02:28 PM)
I ask already... She dont have bf now.... By the way.. She dont want to paktoh in the mean time cause want to concentrate on study and earn money de....
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Bro...u so keng cheong go ask her abt this already ah?? Wow...she can really tell u want to 'tiap' her already......she might be worry abit....cos after u date her ah...u will very keng cheong want to move on to next step.... tongue.gif

Then, so how do u feel about her explanation? Looks like u might be heading to a wall....no hard feeling.....u want to wait or just have some fun with her until u know what to do...

Added on November 16, 2007, 5:50 pmOh, BTW...this is an interesting thread...will surely follow up......

All the best to u...

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post Nov 19 2007, 11:37 AM

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QUOTE(SphinxVille @ Nov 19 2007, 11:30 AM)
Latest update:

Last Sunday I date her for breakfast in the morning... On that the morning.. Oh my god... I was almost late already.. Woke up at 8.20am that I suppose to reach her house 8.30am... Oh my god.... Fast fast settle myself and get to her place... On the way I sms her whether she wake up already or not... She replied that she was just wake up and not yet ready, ask me to come at 9am... So I replied it doesnt matter... I wait her.... But actually I was late late late liao... Reach her place around 9... but wait until 9.30am... Once she get into my car.... She ask what time I reach... I said almost 9 lorr... She said sorry for that... That time her hair haven dry yet, still very wet.... But looks sweet larr.... She lead me to her place that she always having breakfast de... Quite pack since that day is family day... During breakfast... We chat and laugh alot.... After that I fetch her back to her place.... Got sms and call her the rest of the day and date her tonight whether she want to come out or not for a dinner.. She just replied this morning said that she want to stay at home since she went out so many days already... She want to stay at home to accompany her family de... So agree with her.... She said she will text me if she got free time to come out.... So I replied her I will do so if I got free time de....

So... How you all think about the progress... Should I sms her in these few days? Or I should not sms her until when I want to date her then only sms her....?
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Follow your heart. If you guys click, anything you do will always sweeten her days. But, in my view, I always feel that we should always respect ppl's time and request/privacy. So if she asks you to 'less' SMS her cos to study or what, get the hint.

Best of luck.
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post Nov 29 2007, 12:49 AM

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QUOTE(SphinxVille @ Nov 29 2007, 12:41 AM)
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Bad news to tell you all... That night I went out watching movie with her ... After that night, she start to avoid me.... I call her to chat... She wish to hang up quickly.... I ask her around home at night... She said no... This is the feedback from her.... So I had give up to chase her already.... Thanks for the advise and guidance.... ^ ^
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Did you do anything 'over the line'? Well, don't give up when hit by some minor setbacks. It might not be that bad. Just give her some time perhaps she is really busy now. After awhile sit her down and talk to her nicely if you have the chance. Get a proper closure if given the chance. Perhaps she really just want to focus on study, so then respect her loh.

Best of luck.
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post Dec 11 2007, 10:11 AM

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How about the boyfriend that you mentioned?? Is he still in the picture?

Looking at your progress, it is certainly going very well for you. Take your time to know her and enjoy the moment.
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post Dec 11 2007, 10:16 AM

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QUOTE(suiteng @ Dec 11 2007, 10:14 AM)
Need or not... update woo girls progress here pulak..
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Aiyah....if he wants to update here...let him do it loh.....no harm right??

Then for us...it is always good feeling to know that there is now 2 less lonely ppl in the world ma..... tongue.gif tongue.gif
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post Dec 11 2007, 06:48 PM

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QUOTE(SphinxVille @ Dec 11 2007, 05:27 PM)
HellO!~!~ Guys... Something doubt need to ask you all..... She sent me a testimonial to thanks everything.... Last sentence seems like hinting me... but is a bad sign...
"Appreciate to have u as friend"
Im so doubt about this sentence... So moody about this sentence.. Feels like she just treat me as friend only.... cry.gif
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2 things to say:
1. We only do good thing - treat ppl nice - when we want to tackle them. So that means we have expectation and put some unwanted stress into the equation.
2. When we have expectation and when things do not go our way, we feel sad and sulk about it.

So that is why you are so moody when you saw that remark.

Lastly, though it may not be a wise move, if the remark is eating too much into you, just braven up yourself and ask her.
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post Dec 12 2007, 10:50 AM

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QUOTE(SphinxVille @ Dec 12 2007, 10:43 AM)
cantdecide... You are right..? Im in this dilemma....

I had spoke to few friends and my kaimui about this... They said I should confess to the girl already... No point guessing here and there... If I keep quiet.... They scare I have being play around by the girl.... This coming Thursday I will went out movie with her... I think I should take action... go grab her hand 1st... See what is her reaction.....
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If I can advise you, I would advise you against your move. If you do that, you might just scare her away. Are you willing to endure that? Why am I saying so? Ask yourself, how long have you known this girl? How long has she know you? It is not very long. So in any reality, girl will not really jump onto you in this short period of time. Why not you just enjoy her companion and let her enjoy your companion while you can? You guys will surely come to a better relationship in that way.

If you worry that you will get cheated then do dutch for your outing. I am sure she is OK with that right? So with that arrangement, you enjoy the best of everything. You enjoy her companion, you get to know her better, you get to see/talk to her, you get to give her a chance to know you and appreciate you. I know your 'brother' might be telling you can can't tahan to wait so long. Just be patient and delay-gratification. You will surely better enjoy the fruit you harbour when the time is right.

Anyway, it's up to you entirely.

Good luck. All the best.
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post Dec 12 2007, 10:59 AM

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QUOTE(eXPeri3nc3 @ Dec 12 2007, 10:55 AM)
Hmm, can I quote you? Oh wait I did. Lol.
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Err...a bit lost here....quote me for what reason?
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post Dec 12 2007, 12:00 PM

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QUOTE(eXPeri3nc3 @ Dec 12 2007, 11:03 AM)
Quoted for truth, and quoted in my blog. smile.gif
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Oh, ok....quoted for that reason...

Anyway, side track, do you know how to do the wordpress snapshot thingy?
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post Dec 12 2007, 12:27 PM

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QUOTE(SphinxVille @ Dec 12 2007, 12:20 PM)
Cantdecide..... You are right... I should enjoy the moment being together with her... What for I rush so fast to get into relationship..... Good good good... Thanks Cantdecide....
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OK, since i have give so much of my 2cents....now a favour from you in return.....show me her piccha piccha..... tongue.gif tongue.gif tongue.gif sweat.gif sweat.gif sweat.gif
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post Dec 12 2007, 02:31 PM

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QUOTE(SphinxVille @ Dec 12 2007, 01:21 PM)
HellO!~!~ Brother... Cannot larr in this moment... Wait until I success 1st....
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Just kidding la......no worry.....we don't practise spanner one..... tongue.gif tongue.gif
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post Dec 13 2007, 05:40 PM

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QUOTE(SphinxVille @ Dec 13 2007, 04:08 PM)
Hey guys... Got updates o...

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Finally I got contact with her de... Aihh... She change to another SIM Card... No wonder cant contact her larrr sweat.gif
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QUOTE(beelzebob13 @ Dec 13 2007, 04:16 PM)
ah yo, so fortunate one. changed her sim card and remember to call you to update one. ho seh liao. rclxms.gif
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Well, it is definitely a good sign for you!!! She changed her SIM and yet she remember to call you to let you know about the new number and (I assume) went to movie with you. Dude, however, please do not let this get over your head. You have to take it slowly especially she had drop you so many hints that friendship is better for both of you now.

Then, the other thing is that you are killing yourself still. The way I see it is that you are still putting a lot of hope to be able to tackle her. That is why you so 'geng cheong' when you lost contact with her. Beware dude. If you put so much hope, you might end up telling us some other silly statement you throw at you. Take it as friend and slowly let her 'get onto' you. brows.gif brows.gif brows.gif I think you will enjoy more when she 'get onto' you on her own.

Anyway, I will keep coming back here for more update but meantime my focus has been swifted to vey99 and Miss Maggi-Mee-Hairstyle. tongue.gif tongue.gif tongue.gif
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post Dec 14 2007, 12:42 PM

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QUOTE(SphinxVille @ Dec 14 2007, 12:01 PM)
I think she knows that I chase her already...  You see...

I call her to chat
I date her for movie
I date her for exercise
I help her in her assignment
I share everthing with her and she does too
I decorate her room with Christmas theme with her

Do you all think that a normal guy a friend who just met for a month willing to do this for her, she dont know at all about he have feelings to her arr..? I dont think so... She knew it already... I think she just to wait me to confess to her...

If she accept me, then my effort was not sacrificed
If she reject me, then now Im still doing stupid things and make used by her to do her things
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Expectation, expectation and expectation.

Well, enough said. Looks like you have set your heart to get this girl or nothing. If that is what you want to do then just take your guts out and confess to her.

All the best.
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post Dec 19 2007, 09:42 AM

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QUOTE(SphinxVille @ Dec 18 2007, 07:12 PM)
"why not try ask her wht her bf will think he bring u back home and decorate his room?"

I asked her already... He said her bf know she want to decorate her room... but her bf do not take any action to decorate for her de... She is so disappointed about it....

"why she not ask her bf help but ask u ?"

I dont dare to ask cause this might lead to confession already.... Later she ask me back... Why I offer to decorate for her de...
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TS, does your target stay with parents or on her own? How come you can always be in her room? Please do not censor anything that you did in her room as if you do that then we will not be able to help you analyse the situation better. tongue.gif tongue.gif tongue.gif

Hmmm......interesting fact that the girl actually let you into her room and be together with you alone. This kind of girls worry me a lot especially when she is not my girl and she knows that I want to tackle her. Anyway, this is just my 2 cents.
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post Dec 19 2007, 12:03 PM

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QUOTE(SphinxVille @ Dec 19 2007, 10:53 AM)
Ya... She stay with her family de.... In the room... We just chit chat only ... Nothing much doing....

Updated:
Yesterday night I had did something stupid... I went to her house to help her decorate her Xmas tree... And then chit chating... Dont know what give me guts... I go and hold her hand and ask her whether she will consider to accept a Taurus guy(Me) as her bf de,.... She smile and turn her face around... let go my hand and said... She will consider.... after that ... we talk about her study.... I was like jerk larr.. that time.... Shimata... What I had done.... I scare next time I ask her out... She dont want to come out anymore....
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I am not going to say much.....

Just something to make your day.....dude....'you have gotten rice' (in cantonese - direct translation). You will be able to do more in her room next time. tongue.gif tongue.gif tongue.gif
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