Parents who regret having children
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 Apr 24 2024, 09:17 AM
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Life is hard, but life has a noble purpose. But this is lost in the generation of social media and radical feminism. Why can't I have all the nice things my Instagram friend are having. For me its nothing to regret about. It is fulfilling and it is purposeful. It is tough , yes but if you are the kind that gets satisfaction seeing tough work done, its worth it. |
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Apr 24 2024, 11:30 AM
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QUOTE(zstan @ Apr 24 2024, 11:22 AM) i've seen more happy childless old folks than old folks with many children who dumped them in old folks or go overseas and never visit eventhough dying in hospital beed Humans are truly confused being. On one hand people shout, it is not OK to expect your kids to take care of you. They have their lives to live. On the other hand same people shout, oh look that that poor old person alone in old folks home. See I told you having kids is a waste of time. |
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Apr 24 2024, 12:58 PM
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QUOTE(thxxht @ Apr 24 2024, 12:56 PM) having children is hard nowadays due to our work/social life and expectations for the children and the stress brought about in order to have the perfect family. back in the days parents have to fight off barbarian hordes and banditsback in the days when everyone is poor, everyone make babies like crazy |
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Apr 24 2024, 05:50 PM
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QUOTE(Avangelice @ Apr 24 2024, 04:36 PM) My son was an accident and this is coming from a couple that die die don't wanna have a child (we got a little carried away during the covid lock downs, and we were married for a year) and I remember that night she telling me I'm pregnant and I gave it a long thought and asked should we abort? She said no. Finding out you're going to be a parent is scary. Some people are so scared of it they do mental gymnastics to convince the whole world they are the smart ones avoiding it to compensate.My boy is 3 now and I wouldn't trade anything in the world for him and he's been a gem in everyone's life. On the other spectrum, my two friends married. Wanted to have kids. Got one daughter and the father and mom are using her to prop their ego up and constantly tries to compare their daughter to my son. And I can say their marriage has been toxic since the birth of their child. Two different spectrums on either side. Nt everyone is the same Any decent respectable person cannot help but to acknowledge having a child brings purpose to your existence. Life is not just about consuming and having fun. Wait till your kids gets older and is able to discuss with you his ideas on morality and common sense... its 100x more satisfying than doing that with the try-hards in /k This post has been edited by killdavid: Apr 24 2024, 05:51 PM |
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Apr 24 2024, 10:31 PM
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Poor you. Your kid is 1 year old. No time for your games.
Yes, people regret because not willing to let go of games. Games is more important or at least just as important as the child you chose to have. It's true some people are not cut out to be parents because their priorities in life were never suited to be a parent. It's not that the child was the problem |
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