I thought you were looking for GF 😜

Enjoy your hols.

Thanks bro.

I have 2 more weeks to burn, so I might be trawling thru some old posts here and there still. I could actually get used to this semi retired life hahaha

Get married lah......think of your future and old age.

We humans are designed to be with another person. We are not designed to be alone.

Look for a proper woman with character. Dont look for the visual only.

You dont want to self check in into an old folks home.

But what about those marriages that end in messy divorces? Women nowadays are financially independent unlike my mother’s or grandmother’s time. They don’t like the way you leave the toilet seat up, or the way you squeeze the toothpaste from the middle, they’ll walk out on you….

Sure, I exaggerate, but you know what I mean.

Totally hear you... I know a few relationships end this way as well. Petty things.

In this modern world, men alone cant be the bread winner. Women too need to work and thus they gained some independence.

Old days, women are submissive because men are sustaining them.

So for the men, choose wisely. Dont be a simp. Stand your ground.

For the women, well, dont become like Vivica A Fox.....at 60 now she wants to look for a man to marry. LOL.....at one point they will regret not choosing the normal man during younger days.

To @hksgmy.... just because there are some failures, doenst mean we must let this concept go. There are also many success stories.

Unless you plan to have kids, marriage is overrated nowadays....

most stories are deemed unsuccessful
because human beings can be calculative in their existence
imagine if all people lived as one entity instead of separate ones
how prosperous will most countries become

Its greed that cultivates selfishness in human psyches

Ur comment is not wrong but hey dun give up in meeting real love to that willing to withstand challenges in life with u ya

Sorry to hear that you hear more unsuccessful stories with marriage.

But there are more successful marriages stories out there.

Given the value of marriage is diminishing but that doesnt mean we all have to give up on love.....

Heal and open yourself up.......bound to find someone....

as superficial as looking for money, fulfill lusts first

LOL.....thas one way to live ...... just dont regret later.....

play the game until society collapses

But wouldn’t this put you at risk of a certain unconscious bias? Wouldn’t it mean that you approach every new relationship like it’s a game waiting to be played until the final denouement and then the lights turn on when the show is over?

Then, wouldn’t that mean you’re entering into a relationship with the intention to fail, and the same expectation, so when it does fail, you have a ready excuse to protect yourself against the hurt by consoling yourself that “it was only a game to be played”?

There's no inherent meaning of life
you can choose to play the primary actor, or secondary actor
when the secondary gets the award, does that mean primary actor sucks?

No, it's just a cycle of life

This post has been edited by -mystery-: Jun 6 2024, 03:38 PM

This could just mean you’ve not yet met the right one. It’s all fun and games until it isn’t.

life is supposed to be fun, regardless whether it's casual or serious relationship. All "image" are impermanence

it's human nature to have a companion.
But not necessarily get married.
Getting married & having a legitimate child is the right thing to do for mankind.

You say that now, but let’s see what tune you’ll be singing when you’ve met the “one” hahaha

I meet myself whenever im talking to a different female.

Just out of curiosity bro, how long do you think your ‘player’ days will go on for? While men may age somewhat slightly slower than female in terms of viability and attractiveness factor, we will nonetheless age…

And aren’t you worried that one day the player will end up being the one being played?