If you dont compare or have prejudices, it's better for every ody, not just a marriage.

when you know someone who's down to earth you know he or she relatable cause he doesnt have much ego floating around

find a woman who's curious but not invading your personal finance or boundaries but also content with whatever she has at that particular period of the relationship

pretty women have an inflated sense of ego thanks to bunch of simps in this world, they lack critical thinking and be a slave to consumerism. If you do not have an internal sense of self worth you will easily be a victim to anything exterior.

What kind of demotivation?
It only takes a year or two for (self sufficient) adults to reconsider having a child in their late 30s or 40s, life is unpredictable

I saw you written you early 40s already
whats your relationship experiences so far?

It only takes one or two excuse to start considering cheating sexually outside. The world is full of temptations, marriage itself is only useful to give the child have a "proper" upbringing

still a virgin?
or had some sexual experiences before?
just watch out some potential female predator that goes for your resources

thats why its better to choose a quality partner before married, otherwise why would you associate with a negative person?

The relationship with your own spouse will directly influence your performance at work, and with children as well

most people would rather buy a new one than fixing it
thats why consumerism strives
because people are brainwashed there's always something good next
next.... next....and next...
until they completely lose their soul in the process

Some bachelors aimed to travel to all countries (possible)
having a spouse who wants steady lifestyle wiill not allow that

they get to see different species of people
the culture and the taste of different girls
marriage has its benefit but its for the process of raising one that opens up your soul

as long as each individual knows what they desire

you can only speculate based on your subjective experiences, because you dont know someone stories unless if you knew them for years

what fallacy?
there's no truth in this world
only facts that are created via imagination and personal experiences
If there was truth, everybody would have an ideal sense of output in this world hence there's zero sufferings happen

If human beings did not have imagination, how would it differ from animals and beasts that we're able to achieve things faster and more efficient. There must be real practices and along with tons of imagination. Even religion and equality are human constructs by imagination.

Again, out of the original topic.

most men still have to initiate the dance with women
how many 5% of guys is visible within an average guy life
probably, will never be able to mix around with those guys

for both sexes, as they achieving their capabilities
they get to screen harder.

most stories are deemed unsuccessful
because human beings can be calculative in their existence
imagine if all people lived as one entity instead of separate ones
how prosperous will most countries become

Its greed that cultivates selfishness in human psyches

as superficial as looking for money, fulfill lusts first

play the game until society collapses

There's no inherent meaning of life
you can choose to play the primary actor, or secondary actor
when the secondary gets the award, does that mean primary actor sucks?

No, it's just a cycle of life

This post has been edited by -mystery-: Jun 6 2024, 03:38 PM

life is supposed to be fun, regardless whether it's casual or serious relationship. All "image" are impermanence

I meet myself whenever im talking to a different female.

The players who end up being played are usually those who got married after being in the field for long, they settle down with an average mary jane while slowly losing his overall frame, in a more understanding term, being a people pleaser

when a woman smells weakness, she will pounce on it, same goes to a gold digger, if you're weak in your core essence, no matter how much wealth you've, you're always going to be a target for these seductresses

The true player of life, is someone who's unattached on whatever life circumstances thrown at him. Whether he's going to get married, or get an accident or slowly die within a disease time frame

whenever i meet someone new
whether we're going to make a solid friendship/business
or we're going to have sex or making a longer sustainable relationship
when you follow the Dao, instead of just Tsu
you'll realize the unlimited capability of every little details you come across
whether its a tree, or even a girl you want to have
you're just witnessing the beauty of a facade
there's no absolute meaning of life
because you just take it in, take it out

enjoy the life, itself.

This post has been edited by -mystery-: Jun 7 2024, 10:47 PM