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Cubalagi
post Feb 2 2024, 07:04 PM

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I was married and divorced once. But I still hope to be married again as there are many beautiful and pratical things about marriage.

Even my first marriage, its sad how it ended, but there were plenty of good times. I liken it to the HBO Game of Thrones TV series, the last season sucked big time, but the earlier seasons were good. Overall, it was still an amazing tv series.

Now Im hoping for a better one.

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Cubalagi
post Feb 3 2024, 12:17 PM

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QUOTE(Imaginebreaker @ Feb 2 2024, 08:50 PM)
"We are here for a good time, not a long time"

I think this is the general mentality of the current generation (of cuz not all) which is probably the opposite of the idea of long lasting marriage.
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Women sooner or later will ask for marriage. Most men are the same too. You just havent found the person.

When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible - Harry met Sally (1989)
Cubalagi
post Feb 3 2024, 09:41 PM

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QUOTE(Imaginebreaker @ Feb 3 2024, 05:59 PM)
Thats why people roll the dice. Move from 1 partner to another in order to find the right one.

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Thst why u need more experience with women.



Cubalagi
post Feb 4 2024, 10:00 AM

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QUOTE(parisiansky @ Feb 3 2024, 11:26 PM)
And that's the reason why I chose to remain single. Best decision ever 😎
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So how do you satisfy your sexual needs?

Or u dont have any more?

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post Feb 5 2024, 03:21 PM

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QUOTE(Imaginebreaker @ Feb 5 2024, 11:42 AM)
Lets say I do want to build a family and is really committed to this at the start. What if halfway through, I grew weaker as the relationship progresses and then think I cant do this anymore?

Some people told me if their 20-year old self had known their married life at 40 would be as it as, they would not get married if they get to redo their life.
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All these what ifs.. 🙄

I think this is just a cover/excuse for your insecurity to go out there and hunt for a girl. You are probably scared of rejection and failure. Understandable. Its esp daunting when you are already 40 and has no experience.









Cubalagi
post Feb 6 2024, 02:24 PM

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QUOTE(Imaginebreaker @ Feb 6 2024, 11:01 AM)
I am contended by being by myself but I know there are many things that I cannot do by myself which I want to do, for eg: travel to an oversea country. I don't prefer solo travel for safety reasons.

On the sharing life part, my life is quite boring so I am not sure it is worth to share with someone. But I do believe it can be more interesting once I get a partner.

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Going for holiday travelling with gf/wife/child are probably the best of ones memory in life.

But if you are taking your gf/wife/child for holiday, better be ready to be their protector and provider. Its a higher duty than travelling alone.

So I would suggest that, while you are single, you do try to experience travel alone. You will be better company in the future.

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The fact I have been single all this while and I don't feel anything lacking with it, so the devil's advocate is why not try the other side which may give a better enjoyment in life. From the comments I gather here, the nutshell is you will have regrets whether you are married or single. It's just how deep/bad the regret is which is what I wanted to know from this thread.
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Life is too short to live in regret. If you make mistakes in life, just learn what you can from it, improve yourself and move on. Better things could be waiting.

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post May 13 2024, 04:32 PM

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QUOTE(kesvani @ May 12 2024, 12:26 AM)
I want companionship and intimacy with no string attach but not those FWB or one night type as that always about sex but no connection feeling. Got answer?
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If u have enuff money then get a Sugarbaby.

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post Jun 5 2024, 10:39 AM

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QUOTE(hksgmy @ Jun 4 2024, 08:35 PM)
Hear hear. It’s good to find oneself in a marriage like that.

Waifu and I’ve been together for nigh 30 years, and it’s a commitment we’re looking forward to keeping intact till one of us draws our last breath.
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Lucky man

But makes me wonder why u starting active in this sub forum 😜
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post Jun 6 2024, 07:46 AM

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QUOTE(hksgmy @ Jun 5 2024, 10:42 AM)
Bored… on holiday and everyday raining so cannot go out.
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I thought you were looking for GF 😜

Enjoy your hols.

 

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