Most people just enjoy the fruit, not the labour.....
Blissful marriage is actually a result of continuous labour from both sides....

the key to a happy marriage is to keep quiet when you are angry.

of course, good sex helps

This post has been edited by cfa28: Feb 29 2024, 02:27 PM

Marriage is a long journey full of trials and tribulations.
For me, its mostly good and learned to give and take.
Nobody is perfect.

1. Plan to married without kid. Why married please!?

2. Late 30, plan to married with kid. Are you plan to work until 60 or 70 please!?

3. Without right Character n Morality. Please stop create problem for this world!

that's right , give and take one of the most important thing in marriage

There's no right or wrong to this question. Boils down to experience.

Mindset do change as you age, but sadly time and tide wait for no men.

Dude.. I can’t live without my wife.. I can’t say it’s the same for her but I think the feeling is mutual..

Assuming you're a guy, unless you're willing and intend to change, and ACTUALLY SUCCEEDED in changing yourself for her, don't bother.

It's a shit show where you'd be compared to to other people's husband for not doing enough while she's up and high on her pedestal.

And no, she'll never forget nor truly forgive that mistake you made 10 years ago.

Bro, don't just look at all the case here, ppl came here because they have issue that need helps. There is a lot of successful marriage couple surrounding live happily. Don't get demotivated by negative case, it's wise to think carefully before commit to marriage, but do not over think. Marriage for love and commitment, do not marriage for the sake of marriage. Good luck.

You gained some, you lose some... satisfactions, regrets, whatever, it really depends on whether or not you cherish what you gain vs what you lose.

I keep follow this topic hope to get insight whether i need to continue marry with GF1 this end of year or with GF2. Time runnning out for me to think

This post has been edited by kesvani: May 8 2024, 11:50 PM

Bro, let me give you the real world answer!

If you want money, just go for sugar mummy! Money = Freedom.

If you have money, just go for virgin or under 21 years old girl! I dont believe you love pigmentation, sagging or loose vagina.....

I want companionship and intimacy with no string attach but not those FWB or one night type as that always about sex but no connection feeling. Got answer?

Base on what you looking for.....you can try your luck in AIDS club, STD club n Zoo.......101% a lot of choice! Anyway, I know you have "STD"!!! Open secret in Lowyat Forum!!!!

Serious, if a girl with little bit of brain 101% they will not give free! Beside that, they can easily to get money for the service!

MONEY = FREEDOM

This post has been edited by w19: May 12 2024, 01:25 AM

If u have enuff money then get a Sugarbaby.

If no money, then need to up your game.

Hear hear. It’s good to find oneself in a marriage like that.

Waifu and I’ve been together for nigh 30 years, and it’s a commitment we’re looking forward to keeping intact till one of us draws our last breath.

Lucky man

But makes me wonder why u starting active in this sub forum 😜

Bored… on holiday and everyday raining so cannot go out.

Nothing is perfect. There will always be regrets here and there..Even if you stayed single, you will still have regrets....Similarly if you are going to get married there will also be regrets...

Sometimes ppl overanalyzed the "regrets" and thus making the decision to be single...

There is no perfect man or woman out there ....

The only perfect man or woman is the one that you have yet to meet….