you can’t be wasting time trying everything. Need to work smart too. Good luck

My friends ask me to look for white guys and move to western countries they are not stringent to partners’ age like oriental guys see what comments I got from them here.

not to pour cold water, but those that already wants to marry has gotten marry and carry on with their lives
Basically, what you are left are 'leftovers' either LGBT , picky, high expectation,not normal person or mainly missed the boat etc
@ this age

join those single speed date event, normally they costs ~RM250 with some sort of food and drinks, it may sounds weird but it is not.

and refuse to put myself in a position to be conned like a desperate sucker, I steered clear of dating apps completely.

In investment, we're told to look at ROI.

Throwing the dice thru dating apps ain't part of my investment strategy, sorry.

Tbh if you mix around with more guys, I'm sure plenty of guys would date you, especially if they are not looking to have kids, which is pretty common nowadays.

I actually used TanTan last year and I met an expatriate from Australia, he was in his mid 40s, we chatted a while then he asked me out so I met him in person.
This guy was quite straight forward on his purpose, after long talk, he started to tell me he could support my financial and I didn't need to work, just follow him to everywhere when he relocated to other country that time he was gonna leave Malaysia and moved to Singapore, he said if I got pregnant, we would stay in his country if I wanted, he some more asked me to follow him back to his country, he could be my tour guide. I was like what? I was looking for a partner in dating app, he really freaked me off... that's my bad experience.

perhaps too choosy. got money and got look, not easy to find a man to match her standard?
my single women colleagues are like that. earning 5 digits in early 40s, go yoga, go home hug dogs and go travel. no need man.