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Advice Wanted Mod please close the thread, I got enough advice., Thank you every1 for your advice.
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Ramjade
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 Feb 1 2024, 02:59 AM
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QUOTE(moon88 @ Jan 31 2024, 10:08 PM) I'm a single lady in my late 30s.I consider myself average or above looking, caring and friendly. Undergone medical check up, my body is still heathy and fit for fertility. I have a stable job, my social cycle is narrow, hardly know single guys in the past. Will you marry a late 30s- mid 40s lady who has never married? Any suggestion to know those guys around my age or elder than me real person not dating apps? How late 30s? For me no la. Sorry. Need to be truthful. My last age is 30years old. If you don't mind divorcee, there is one guy here who is looking for woman around your age. Reason for divorcee, wife cheated on him or something like that. Don't follow mystery advise unless you want to do hookup (have sex with strangers). This post has been edited by Ramjade: Feb 1 2024, 03:04 AM |
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Ramjade
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Feb 1 2024, 08:32 AM
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QUOTE(moon88 @ Feb 1 2024, 08:00 AM) I’m not sure how old r u now, in my generation when we were young in 20s we liked young and good looking guys, we were willing to put effort together with those guys. Young generation girls don’t like old guys , guys are not like ladies we take good care of our skin and beauty, sorry to say that when guys are old they are usually have winkles, grey hair, oily and big tummy unless u have money and willing to support their financial in return. It is like system barter u pay what u get lol I am in my early 30s. Actually you are wrong. Majority of girls I know will only date older or same age guys. Also older guys are more attractive to females Vs younger guys. I prefer girls who don't care about skin/makeup. I like next door type of girls. One of the question I always asked girls whom I meet on dating apps are do you do facial? How often a month facial. If yes they drop in preferences for me. Haha... Btw, I am not that divorcee. If you want, I can ping him. That's stereotyping about guys being old, grey hairbig tummy. This post has been edited by Ramjade: Feb 1 2024, 08:52 AM |
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Ramjade
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Feb 1 2024, 08:53 AM
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QUOTE(moon88 @ Feb 1 2024, 08:45 AM) Haha a guy on behalf of lady to pin pointed a lady’s opinion is wrong, u really a good man. It's true. Go watch YouTube about relationship stuff. |
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Ramjade
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Feb 1 2024, 08:56 AM
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QUOTE(labamba @ Feb 1 2024, 08:47 AM) A lady maintaining her looks is not a bad thing for me.. as long as not going overboard  You'll come to appreciate she maintains her skin/looks especially as she ages in 40s.. I don't really care about looks. That's why I date all girls even those that usually guys won't take a second look. Most cannot match what I am looking for in terms of personality. This post has been edited by Ramjade: Feb 1 2024, 09:02 AM |
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Ramjade
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Feb 1 2024, 09:11 AM
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QUOTE(moon88 @ Feb 1 2024, 08:58 AM) U picked YouTube videos to watch or u like ‘Green tea’ girls… be realistic la u men already like young and beautiful women. Up to you to decide what you want to believe in. I am being honest here. For me looks is not on my criteria for a girlfriend. In fact as mentioned I prefer girls with normal looks and no makeup. I already stated that in my dating profile. Few older girls like me in the dating app. I don't even respond cause as mentioned, my last age which I accept is 30 years old. That's even one here 35 years old. I think single mum showed me her profile. Straight reject her. For me personality + habit always come first over looks/hot body. Looks, hot body are just bonus which degrade with time. You want someone you are going to be with forever. Looks and hot body is not going to be there forever. That is why those pretty or hot body, I don't even bother swiping them. I swipe normal looking girls. This post has been edited by Ramjade: Feb 1 2024, 09:13 AM |
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Ramjade
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Feb 1 2024, 09:15 AM
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QUOTE(moon88 @ Feb 1 2024, 09:11 AM) Proper planning or live happily without kids. 3) proper check up, IVF. Those are solutions Ivf is just to help you get pregnant. It have nothing to do with pregnancy health. Pregnancy health is entirely your own body. |
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Ramjade
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Feb 1 2024, 09:26 AM
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Yes there are men who are looking at 30-40 year old lady. But that's not me. But you need to understand that you need to compete with younger girls. How? Be mature, nice. Guys don't want drama in relationship. They want stability, person who support them and not going to find fault with them.
So you need to up your game and not compete in looks alone. You need to show the guy that you have something that a 2x lady does not have.
Anyways it's a number game. You need to meet with as many guys as possible. Daring app, event, volunteering etc.
I got no life so dating app is my only way.
This post has been edited by Ramjade: Feb 1 2024, 09:30 AM
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Ramjade
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Feb 1 2024, 09:33 AM
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QUOTE(moon88 @ Feb 1 2024, 09:31 AM) With IVF process it helps couple to choose the healthy eggs and sperms to get women pregnant, that’s only part of it. U are right women’s fertility ability plays important role too to carry and grow babies, normal women should be able to get pregnant by 45 unless they are unhealthy according Fertility doctor. I am not sure the doctor told you everything or not. Once you cross 35, you are counted as advance maternal age. Just Google and read it. Need to be prepared. Not necessarily will happen to everyone. That's why I stick to only below 30 years old. This post has been edited by Ramjade: Feb 1 2024, 09:35 AM |
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Ramjade
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Feb 6 2024, 07:27 AM
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QUOTE(Takudan @ Feb 5 2024, 10:08 PM) Furthermore about your preferences and constraints... First of all, let's not deceive ourselves: men generally like bokbokchui younger What is bokbokchui? QUOTE(Takudan @ Feb 6 2024, 12:33 AM) What was your bad experience there? Personally I've stopped using ever since I committed to my current relationship, but before that I used two apps: FB dating and CMB (go do homework a bit, read the pinned thread ya). CMB change their protocol recently. Even if you like the person and person have never seen your profile, the other person won't be able to see you even after few days . Last time you needed to wait 24H then it will be reveal. Then the like will disappear and other person won't even get to see you. However if the other person saw your profile on those profile that they show you and like you then yes it's match. Those restrictions are apparently removed for paying customer. This post has been edited by Ramjade: Feb 6 2024, 07:28 AM |
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Ramjade
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Feb 22 2024, 11:17 AM
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QUOTE(moon88 @ Feb 22 2024, 10:39 AM) if love happens with someone that divorced or widowed with kids, it doesn't matter. Maybe both of you can chat and see if things vibe. redracer2004 |
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Ramjade
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Apr 3 2024, 11:17 AM
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QUOTE(moon88 @ Apr 2 2024, 10:40 PM) What you pay is what you get, if you chase "high-end" ladies, please expect they also have high expectation no matter how old are they, vice versa to guys. You are so lucky to grab a lady who is younger than you 15 years, she is 20 years old bok bok chui who just came out from high school not long. She doesn't mind old not good looking guy and not rich enough. Depends. I see some high end ladies they ok. Yeah they a bit high end but they know I am poor and still call me out and meet. Lol. |
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Ramjade
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Apr 3 2024, 09:23 PM
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QUOTE(moon88 @ Apr 3 2024, 08:34 PM) asked you out to kill time or help them do something.  Spend time with me. I was shocked. We talk for around 3h+ Now still on and off call me over the phone and talk. This post has been edited by Ramjade: Apr 3 2024, 09:24 PM |
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Ramjade
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Apr 4 2024, 06:33 PM
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QUOTE(Cubalagi @ Apr 4 2024, 06:22 PM) What is the meaning of high end? And how old is this woman? Maybe my high end is those form upper class girls. 29 this year. |
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Ramjade
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Apr 4 2024, 07:42 PM
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QUOTE(Cubalagi @ Apr 4 2024, 07:30 PM) Wealthy family or high class style? 29 yo...thats in your tick box age. Apa tunggu? Long distance. Working in Singapore but she said want to come back Malaysia. She also seems unsure about future. She la how. |
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Ramjade
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Apr 5 2024, 10:51 PM
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QUOTE(moon88 @ Apr 5 2024, 08:33 PM) High end = good looking, good educational background, good finance status. ATAS women Yup. One of the girl I am seeing fulfilled all your criteria. My atas = what you decribe. This post has been edited by Ramjade: Apr 5 2024, 10:54 PM |
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