can PM you also?

how bout me ? i want PM too

Well not that I have entirely given up. Personally I am just not seeking at this point of time.

lmao those crocodile sia

I wan to pm but i sked

If the guy doesn't want children or don't mind having no children, then age maybe is not the problem.

dont worry , we are here to support you

may be late... but to answer TS's question.... yes i would.... and kinda in that situation too

but for more context, my situation is....

1/ 46yo muslim malay divorcee with 1 son (lives with my ex-wife) and do not want anymore kids.
2/ in a relationship with a wonderful 45yo woman whos never married. 1 year of on n off but the last 2 years has been somewhat stable n quite happy.
3/ yes, ive thought about marrying this woman.. n honestly think i quite likely will down the line.
4/ however, my previous marriage was quite toxic n tumultuous hence divorced. if anyones wondering, both of us were toxic to each other... so its not just 1 side. no third party involved.
* this is one of my main apprehensions of marriage and i absolutely refuse to live a life of constant conflict, resentment and anger again.
5/ every single member of my immediate family is divorced (im the last), some remarried and some didnt. so marriage n divorce isnt a big deal for me. i dont mind dying alone but of course better if have a partner. my peace will always be my priority.

so yes TS, there will be someone out there for u. dont fret. despite what people say, dating apps can be a helpful tool. dont completely disregard it. u just have to put in the effort to go through the numerous pervs out there. this is my 2nd relationship after divorce and i met them both thru dating apps.

hell, i was actually one of the pervs on there but my profile was direct yet funny... my gf saw the humour in it and we clicked and here we are now.

good luck!

The right one wouldn't mind. Don't fret about it.

I am in my mid-30s, dated few girls in their early 30s, mid-30s.. and most of the experience are not really good.

To be frank, i am not the crazy rich asian type... well i am not B40 either.. just like most people, the struggling M40 to T20 type..

I have my own car, landed property, condo for investment, some savings, but nothing fancy. Career wise, not really a management or C-level position, but enough to make a living comfortably.

Girls in their mid-30s are looking for more securities especially in terms of financially and personalities. I am the type of person that like to travels, and like to take risk in investment, some marks deducted here..

The girls I dated make around the same or slightly less than me, and yet they are looking to meet someone who can make much more than them, instead of we share the burden.

In the end i gave up dating the girls who are my age / generation. Then I am with a girl 15 years old younger than me.. oh wow, we have a wonderful relationship.

To girls in their mid-30s, I believe you have to figure out what you really want in life, as you have been single and independent enough, to live alone without needing a partner.

However if you have decided to look for a partner, please be realistic and gotta stop expecting your partner to be as good as you hope he can be. Otherwise, you might feel much more comfortable in staying single.

This post has been edited by id3d: Mar 30 2024, 05:13 AM

im 94 guy have serious hairfall problem. cant find a gf either.

there was time i met mid 30s girl, i think i have the confident to secure her. but girl in mid 30s, if want kid then need get married faster, but i duwan to get married so early so i never plan to get the girl. and now here i am still single with my bald head.

if single mother got market, 3x 4x of course no problem.

depend on what kind of guys u can accept.

those who are like 10 years or more senior than u and always quarrel / divorce with their wife, they can easily accept those who are late 3x or 4x. all mostly in managerial role or stuffs.

if u wan find guy younger or same age then hard, because they can easily find a wife below 10 years their age if they are t20

bald is not a problem, just wear those fake hair or whatever.

i got a friend who bald entire top, married 2 times. he always wear those fake hair. now 34 married his gf who is a scientist

You are dating a 20 year old? Nice. 💪

i dont mind if you dont mind... hehehe

Have you considered online matchmaking?

What you pay is what you get, if you chase "high-end" ladies, please expect they also have high expectation no matter how old are they, vice versa to guys.

You are so lucky to grab a lady who is younger than you 15 years, she is 20 years old bok bok chui who just came out from high school not long. She doesn't mind old not good looking guy and not rich enough.

do you think of shaving all your hair like Van Diesel, he looks cool.

Body must also be tall n muscular for that to work.

Bald short fat men not very cool.

This post has been edited by Cubalagi: Apr 3 2024, 07:29 AM

Depends. I see some high end ladies they ok. Yeah they a bit high end but they know I am poor and still call me out and meet. Lol.