Hello late 30s fellows, similarly still single but I chose to prioritize my other goals during my 20s so here I am.
My philosophy now is that there are many ways and pros/cons to live alone or with family, or even just two person without kids.
Though, people around me like to ask about this which I think is the main issue... haha

This post has been edited by Dark Lord: Feb 16 2024, 03:38 PM

If she's freaking hot why not

hey! wow there are quite number of late 30s - mid forties singles here, maybe we can form up a group to chit chat.

Yeah! Anyone else interested? XD

I try very hard to think a reason why man will take up a late 30s to mid 40s lady as wife or gf!

My answer is you are sugar mummy or free sex for him only! I know the answer is harsh but true n open secret.

If he got money, why not look for 18 years old girl!?

Not everyone thinks like you. I knew my wife then she was 32 yo and i was 26 yo. Then i wasn't earning alot, renting a walk up apartment and only driving a Waja. She was hot looking, kind and well educated. Got married 2 years later and she helped alot on finances for new house and other expenses.

16 years later i'm earning 3X more than her, happily married with 2 kids, we've 3 cars, staying in a new 2.1M G&G semi-d house and sex is great 1-2x weekly.

Age difference counts for nothing compared to personality and compatibility.

This post has been edited by kkkw80: Feb 19 2024, 03:55 PM

For me, as long as we are clicked, why not have a relationship or even marriage.

Most importantly, we have similar mindset towards life, marriage and family.

Btw, I am mid-thirties. =)

End thirties here and considered as single. Well, I wouldn't mind to chat up a little.

I didn't want to be rude but sorry for my ignorant. your wife nw aged of 48, does this impact to your husband and wife intercourse activity?

This post has been edited by giftfre: Apr 1 2024, 02:28 PM

Not all, in fact we've a very healthy sexual relationship.

why not? it's great to marry someone with matured mindset

If you are looking for guys at the age of early 30s. It could be hard to find. Unless you are way more attractive than average people. If you are looking for guys at age around 40. They are quite many for you to choose, but some of them (especially those who are more attractive and financially stable) might be divorcee with/without kids.

This post has been edited by justapawn: Feb 21 2024, 03:31 PM

if love happens with someone that divorced or widowed with kids, it doesn't matter.

Maybe both of you can chat and see if things vibe.
redracer2004

Yeap, I did chat with her.

got vibe?

After 1 or two chats only, haven't reply my next one yet.

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This post has been edited by miromiro: Feb 22 2024, 09:14 PM

if can match in terms of character why not.
money is secondary for people at late 40. already financially capable.

i dont mind if you dont mind hahha