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Advice Wanted Mod please close the thread, I got enough advice., Thank you every1 for your advice.

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post Mar 20 2024, 01:33 PM

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QUOTE(moon88 @ Jan 31 2024, 10:08 PM)
I'm a single lady in my late 30s.I consider myself average or above looking, caring and friendly.
Undergone medical check up, my body is still heathy and fit for fertility.
I have a stable job, my social cycle is narrow, hardly know single guys in the past.
Will you marry a late 30s- mid 40s lady who has never married?
Any suggestion to know those guys around my age or elder than me real person not dating apps?
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may be late... but to answer TS's question.... yes i would.... and kinda in that situation too

but for more context, my situation is....

1/ 46yo muslim malay divorcee with 1 son (lives with my ex-wife) and do not want anymore kids.
2/ in a relationship with a wonderful 45yo woman whos never married. 1 year of on n off but the last 2 years has been somewhat stable n quite happy.
3/ yes, ive thought about marrying this woman.. n honestly think i quite likely will down the line.
4/ however, my previous marriage was quite toxic n tumultuous hence divorced. if anyones wondering, both of us were toxic to each other... so its not just 1 side. no third party involved.
* this is one of my main apprehensions of marriage and i absolutely refuse to live a life of constant conflict, resentment and anger again.
5/ every single member of my immediate family is divorced (im the last), some remarried and some didnt. so marriage n divorce isnt a big deal for me. i dont mind dying alone but of course better if have a partner. my peace will always be my priority.

so yes TS, there will be someone out there for u. dont fret. despite what people say, dating apps can be a helpful tool. dont completely disregard it. u just have to put in the effort to go through the numerous pervs out there. this is my 2nd relationship after divorce and i met them both thru dating apps.

hell, i was actually one of the pervs on there but my profile was direct yet funny... my gf saw the humour in it and we clicked and here we are now.

good luck!

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