I am in my mid-30s, dated few girls in their early 30s, mid-30s.. and most of the experience are not really good.

To be frank, i am not the crazy rich asian type... well i am not B40 either.. just like most people, the struggling M40 to T20 type..

I have my own car, landed property, condo for investment, some savings, but nothing fancy. Career wise, not really a management or C-level position, but enough to make a living comfortably.

Girls in their mid-30s are looking for more securities especially in terms of financially and personalities. I am the type of person that like to travels, and like to take risk in investment, some marks deducted here..

The girls I dated make around the same or slightly less than me, and yet they are looking to meet someone who can make much more than them, instead of we share the burden.

In the end i gave up dating the girls who are my age / generation. Then I am with a girl 15 years old younger than me.. oh wow, we have a wonderful relationship.

To girls in their mid-30s, I believe you have to figure out what you really want in life, as you have been single and independent enough, to live alone without needing a partner.

However if you have decided to look for a partner, please be realistic and gotta stop expecting your partner to be as good as you hope he can be. Otherwise, you might feel much more comfortable in staying single.

This post has been edited by id3d: Mar 30 2024, 05:13 AM