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post Aug 12 2023, 02:28 AM

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QUOTE(ayamxxx @ Aug 11 2023, 04:27 PM)
I have old friend, now he is 53 years old age. He is divorced when he is 39 years old, late married and no children, reason wife factor.

Has money and asset but now becoming lonely life cz no companion. He bored as hell daily life. He now targeting to get married cz he almost can't life single anymore
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how hes bored if he has money
he can use the money to bodybuild and travel abroad until he died
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post Aug 12 2023, 02:30 AM

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QUOTE(HappyA_Q @ Aug 11 2023, 12:13 PM)
If you marry the right person, you will be happy most of the times. If wrong person, it will be like hell.

Right person: happy to spend time together, can come to an agreement on decision making (negotiation required), can share happiness and sadness without any fear or worry.
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If you look at the grand scale of human condition nowadays
how many people deserve to be parents according to their behavioral pattern, and imagine how they're going to affect the future children behavior. Lol
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post Aug 12 2023, 04:56 AM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Aug 12 2023, 02:28 AM)
how hes bored if he has money
he can use the money to bodybuild and travel abroad until he died
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travel not for every1 la....(after a few travel) nothing much get u exited liao

body building lagi not for every1

This post has been edited by poco loco: Aug 12 2023, 05:01 AM
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post Aug 12 2023, 05:52 AM

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QUOTE(Lembu Goreng @ Aug 11 2023, 09:55 AM)
Let me rank what life is from best to worst:

1. Single
2. Married
3. Married with kids

It does not mean that I don't like 2 & 3, they're just different. Life is short, so I feel at least for me it's good to experience it all.
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post Aug 12 2023, 06:35 AM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Aug 12 2023, 02:28 AM)
how hes bored if he has money
he can use the money to bodybuild and travel abroad until he died
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He had money from 45 to now. Heading top post but without companion, kids, he bored as hell. Not younger anymore, wont go to club, travel abroad alone
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post Aug 20 2023, 01:37 AM

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post Aug 20 2023, 10:56 AM

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QUOTE(ayamxxx @ Aug 11 2023, 04:27 PM)
He now targeting to get married cz he almost can't life single anymore
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how can you target unless you are born to be a pussy magnet?
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post Aug 20 2023, 12:13 PM

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If i have money and if i'm single, I would just travel to a country and live there for a few months. Once I get bored, I'll move to another country.
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post Aug 20 2023, 12:31 PM

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Tbh as a single dude in my thirties, I have been thinking what can marriage offer for a guy? Most of my colleagues who are married, I see them like so stress..everyday after work rush back to pick up kids, morning rush to put kids at tadika, night no sleep baby always cry..weekend barely can enjoy themselves if wanna go out anywhere have to bring kids and jaga them.

Besides kid, if got nagging husband or wife lagi mental stress..so besides sex and companionship, what else is there to look forward in marriage? I feel being married is more stressful, money also koyak, no freedom, more stress..

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post Aug 20 2023, 01:54 PM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Aug 12 2023, 02:28 AM)
how hes bored if he has money
he can use the money to bodybuild and travel abroad until he died
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Dont say old like 50, i got aged 40 colleague, no gf yes la got some saving.
Willingly to spent on china/vietmois without return as long they give hug love kiss.

But eventually he got into some feeling/relationship towards the girl for some while, ended up the moi say only have fun why so serious
Now he very negative each every day


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post Aug 20 2023, 01:58 PM

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Hmm,... I think,... the secret is,....Marry wives who is each easy-going and who will support you in all your endeavours and who gives you a lot of time to pursue your interests. Let her parents stay with you, they will look after the kids together with her.

Of course, financial strength needs to be there to support all these initiatives.

Just quoting from personal experience.
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post Aug 20 2023, 01:59 PM

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QUOTE(submergedx @ Aug 20 2023, 01:54 PM)
Dont say old like 50, i got aged 40 colleague, no gf yes la got some saving.
Willingly to spent on china/vietmois without return as long they give hug love kiss.

But eventually he got into some feeling/relationship towards the girl for some while, ended up the moi say only have fun why so serious
Now he very negative each every day
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I always telling ppl forever alone problem is the problem , their thinking is so hard to understand, every time picking bone from egg , later become ini tak approved itu tak approved until no idea what documents to summit only she approved knn....
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post Aug 20 2023, 02:00 PM

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QUOTE(GambitFire @ Aug 20 2023, 12:31 PM)
Tbh as a single dude in my thirties, I have been thinking what can marriage offer for a guy? Most of my colleagues who are married, I see them like so stress..everyday after work rush back to pick up kids, morning rush to put kids at tadika, night no sleep baby always cry..weekend barely can enjoy themselves if wanna go out anywhere have to bring kids and jaga them.

Besides kid, if got nagging husband or wife lagi mental stress..so besides sex and companionship, what else is there to look forward in marriage? I feel being married is more stressful, money also koyak, no freedom, more stress..
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That is the negative sides. There is a lot happiness couple, families out there.
I think the main factor are monies when you building a quality family.

We always work hard for more income and provide a better living environment for family, that's why sometimes you see parents are exhausted dont have enough rest.
But those who are rich, has more time, more companion, can provide more decent living are more happy.

Summary: Only marry and have kids when you are rich.
If you pocket not much deep, sorry to expect the unexpected.
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post Aug 20 2023, 02:04 PM

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QUOTE(Hansel @ Aug 20 2023, 01:58 PM)
Hmm,... I think,... the secret is,....Marry wives who is each easy-going and who will support you in all your endeavours and who gives you a lot of time to pursue your interests. Let her parents stay with you, they will look after the kids together with her.

Of course, financial strength needs to be there to support all these initiatives.

Just quoting from personal experience.
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Keyword: support from family. Some of the family dont give a fuck.

My friend in law's parents age around 50, but already say clearly dun want to jaga kids.
So either wife resign jaga anak, or send nursery whole day.
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post Aug 20 2023, 02:07 PM

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QUOTE(lonestar2017 @ Aug 20 2023, 12:13 PM)
If i have money and if i'm single, I would just travel to a country and live there for a few months. Once I get bored, I'll move to another country.
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In this era 2023, you can even WFH remotely at Bali while your HQ in KL.

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post Aug 20 2023, 02:09 PM

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QUOTE(submergedx @ Aug 20 2023, 01:54 PM)
Dont say old like 50, i got aged 40 colleague, no gf yes la got some saving.
Willingly to spent on china/vietmois without return as long they give hug love kiss.

But eventually he got into some feeling/relationship towards the girl for some while, ended up the moi say only have fun why so serious
Now he very negative each every day
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prostitute and escorts they're there for money only
If the guy falls in love its his problem, cause the girl can also use sad stories to make him feel touched or relatable

In conclusion, most guys who visit prostitutes they're not there for just sex, they're looking for a way to feel they have a sense of ownership
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post Aug 20 2023, 02:10 PM

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QUOTE(GambitFire @ Aug 20 2023, 12:31 PM)
Tbh as a single dude in my thirties, I have been thinking what can marriage offer for a guy? Most of my colleagues who are married, I see them like so stress..everyday after work rush back to pick up kids, morning rush to put kids at tadika, night no sleep baby always cry..weekend barely can enjoy themselves if wanna go out anywhere have to bring kids and jaga them.

Besides kid, if got nagging husband or wife lagi mental stress..so besides sex and companionship, what else is there to look forward in marriage? I feel being married is more stressful, money also koyak, no freedom, more stress..
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rm5000 barely can survive in kl if want to form a family
and the minimum salary is just rm1700 being a waiter or waitress wtf
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post Aug 20 2023, 02:18 PM

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QUOTE(submergedx @ Aug 20 2023, 02:04 PM)
Keyword: support from family. Some of the family dont give a fuck.

My friend in law's parents age around 50, but already say clearly dun want to jaga kids.
So either wife resign jaga anak, or send nursery whole day.
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I thank all my wives day and night for being supportive in what I wished to do.

Two of them even helped me packed and prepared medical supplies for contribution at Line 0. My friends told me,... their wives wouldn't let them go and some even threatened divorce if they insisted to go,...

Thank you for replying.
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post Aug 20 2023, 02:21 PM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Aug 20 2023, 02:09 PM)
prostitute and escorts they're there for money only
If the guy falls in love its his problem, cause the girl can also use sad stories to make him feel touched or relatable

In conclusion, most guys who visit prostitutes they're not there for just sex, they're looking for a way to feel they have a sense of ownership
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Some men want Girlfriend Experience (GFE) in order to be able to achieve orgasm. But they take it too far,... Err,... I took it too far too many times in my life,... This is life, I giuessed. We must be able to ctrl our emo's....
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post Aug 20 2023, 02:36 PM

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