it has been said again. it will be said once more. more and more people are choosing to remain single. nowadays difficult to find wife material. why suffer by getting married. life is already stressful enough, why add another level of stress.

Opt for a single life. Having full control over your own life is often better than taking care of others. A husband's main role is to provide, and if you can't do that well, it might be better to be alone. This advice is for guys. For girls, there's not much to lose because men are naturally inclined to seek the opposite sex, especially for sexual reasons. This is how nature designed things.

So old unmarried uncles automatically turn gay?

This is another topic lah

GF yes married no

i took a gamble and lost.. think properly my friend

Wimmenz always bitter when single too long. X kesah what they may say. Man on the other hand... Can go both ways😂

If single, by mid 30 can be financially freedom, no debt and with savings to live with 2-3% fd rate

Sorry,.. don't understand,... you mean your wives don't need financial support from you ? Help me to understand your question so that I can contribute,...

meaning if i marry someone who earns much less than me, and expects me to foot the bill for most of the stuff....while contributing almost nothing.

plus shes not even good at cooking etc , youd expect if someone cannot earn much she would make up for it right, but no.
plus seems like on and off she gets some depressed mood. saying she doesnt know what shes living for et.

have u ever seen anyone happy marrying such people? the only good thing i can foresee is i can makan luar without any guilt if i marry her

This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: Aug 25 2023, 04:53 PM

The male will say "no more wife material"/"pompuan jual mahal".
The female will say "no more husband material'/"all want piap only no true love".

On and on it goes, yet - wedding banquets are still fully book all year round (pls don't kira the pandemic ya).

And of course it is a gamble.
You wake up this morning, go toilet to take a piss, also gamble - you could probably slip - fall, crack your skull on the toilet-bowl, maybe you die on the spot OR you live a long life but paralyzed and confined to a wheelchair, who knows - still you went to piss.
Same thing when it comes to buy ToTo or investing in stock market - win some lose some.
Life itself is a gamble. We are all playing it. How you enrich it is up to you.

End of the day, it's really a "you do you" world. Go after what you want and if it happens to also fit your needs - that's a bonus itself
There will always be some form of pressure (whether it be from peers or family), how much you want to let it affect your decisions in life - it entirely up to you as well.

Hmm,.... if like that,.... "married wrong person", bro,...

Yeah, have seen,....

Love is very hard to define,...

Stay single

Until you find that perfect partner, then married

Don't rush that decision, take your time

Tried this, it just. does. not. work

Vacation does not feel like vacation

Better to work on passive income streams

single better, tak menyusahkan org when live or even dieded, only the neighbours (if any, with the smell), authorities (their job anyway) and people u got hutang to.

all assets/wealth either family fight each other to get all or the most, or no one will bother and become WTD later.

SME means local cinaman?

married is about love.

if you asked so, meaning you havent meet a person who you really loved?

it comes naturally. don't for the sake for the marriage then marry also not to overthink.

you loved someone, you wanted him/her to be with you till old. simple as that.

if you judged in too many factors... sometimes you need take a step back and relax.. this is a life.. make it colorful

ps* if your couple is someone normal la.

Then why lah in the first place would you pick her to be your wife?

0:48 - 1. They Overthink
1:50 - 2. Love their independence
2:35 - 3. Prioritize their goals
3:12 - 4. Have high standards
3:28 - Pretty strong boundaries.
3:44 - 5. Think with head not guts
4:28 - 6. Single by choice


This post has been edited by ApocalypseSoon: Aug 26 2023, 09:39 AM