QUOTE(GambitFire @ Aug 20 2023, 12:31 PM)
Tbh as a single dude in my thirties, I have been thinking what can marriage offer for a guy? Most of my colleagues who are married, I see them like so stress..everyday after work rush back to pick up kids, morning rush to put kids at tadika, night no sleep baby always cry..weekend barely can enjoy themselves if wanna go out anywhere have to bring kids and jaga them.
Besides kid, if got nagging husband or wife lagi mental stress..so besides sex and companionship, what else is there to look forward in marriage? I feel being married is more stressful, money also koyak, no freedom, more stress..
That is the negative sides. There is a lot happiness couple, families out there.
I think the main factor are monies when you building a quality family.
We always work hard for more income and provide a better living environment for family, that's why sometimes you see parents are exhausted dont have enough rest.
But those who are rich, has more time, more companion, can provide more decent living are more happy.
Summary: Only marry and have kids when you are rich.
If you pocket not much deep, sorry to expect the unexpected.