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submergedx
post Aug 20 2023, 01:54 PM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Aug 12 2023, 02:28 AM)
how hes bored if he has money
he can use the money to bodybuild and travel abroad until he died
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Dont say old like 50, i got aged 40 colleague, no gf yes la got some saving.
Willingly to spent on china/vietmois without return as long they give hug love kiss.

But eventually he got into some feeling/relationship towards the girl for some while, ended up the moi say only have fun why so serious
Now he very negative each every day


submergedx
post Aug 20 2023, 02:00 PM

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QUOTE(GambitFire @ Aug 20 2023, 12:31 PM)
Tbh as a single dude in my thirties, I have been thinking what can marriage offer for a guy? Most of my colleagues who are married, I see them like so stress..everyday after work rush back to pick up kids, morning rush to put kids at tadika, night no sleep baby always cry..weekend barely can enjoy themselves if wanna go out anywhere have to bring kids and jaga them.

Besides kid, if got nagging husband or wife lagi mental stress..so besides sex and companionship, what else is there to look forward in marriage? I feel being married is more stressful, money also koyak, no freedom, more stress..
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That is the negative sides. There is a lot happiness couple, families out there.
I think the main factor are monies when you building a quality family.

We always work hard for more income and provide a better living environment for family, that's why sometimes you see parents are exhausted dont have enough rest.
But those who are rich, has more time, more companion, can provide more decent living are more happy.

Summary: Only marry and have kids when you are rich.
If you pocket not much deep, sorry to expect the unexpected.
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post Aug 20 2023, 02:04 PM

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QUOTE(Hansel @ Aug 20 2023, 01:58 PM)
Hmm,... I think,... the secret is,....Marry wives who is each easy-going and who will support you in all your endeavours and who gives you a lot of time to pursue your interests. Let her parents stay with you, they will look after the kids together with her.

Of course, financial strength needs to be there to support all these initiatives.

Just quoting from personal experience.
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Keyword: support from family. Some of the family dont give a fuck.

My friend in law's parents age around 50, but already say clearly dun want to jaga kids.
So either wife resign jaga anak, or send nursery whole day.
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post Aug 20 2023, 02:07 PM

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QUOTE(lonestar2017 @ Aug 20 2023, 12:13 PM)
If i have money and if i'm single, I would just travel to a country and live there for a few months. Once I get bored, I'll move to another country.
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In this era 2023, you can even WFH remotely at Bali while your HQ in KL.


 

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