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hksgmy
post Aug 2 2023, 07:05 AM

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QUOTE(tyrionlannister99 @ Aug 2 2023, 06:02 AM)
If financial is good, then proceed For marriage la. Have kids.

I love my waifu and kids. They love me too. Every time go To work i miss them. Come back from work See their faces is all i want. I am blessed.

I hope you find your love too.
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You, sir, are much blessed. Happy for you biggrin.gif
hksgmy
post Aug 3 2023, 09:18 AM

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QUOTE(B0ss_ku @ Aug 3 2023, 09:12 AM)
Starting a family Is the best way to learn responsibility and sacrification
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Or, it could be argued that the best time to start a family is only AFTER one has learned responsibility and the need for sacrifices (and delayed gratification). smile.gif
hksgmy
post Aug 3 2023, 12:07 PM

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QUOTE(ernie ball @ Aug 3 2023, 11:54 AM)
It's a personal choice to get married or not. Don't wanna argue about it.
When I deal with unmarried individuals over a certain age, can feel they are
- self centered
- unrefined
- childish
- seldom think of repercussions.
- vulnerable, easy to manipulate.

Hence I avoid trying to deal with them. This is why you see unmarried individuals usually don't maintain a good relationship with their happily married peers. They fall out quickly, and singles always wondered what happens.
Only people who would meet them are those in toxic relationships looking for an escape, or someone who pity them.

You can already see all the behaviour I listed above here in this topic.
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Surely you can’t generalise every unmarried person that way? I’m sure you would have come across people who are single but didn’t behave the way you outlined above.
hksgmy
post Aug 3 2023, 02:36 PM

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QUOTE(B0ss_ku @ Aug 3 2023, 02:03 PM)
We all talk about majority and generalization here

Otherwise nothing can be talk about human except death because every single person dies.
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Thank you for your clarification
hksgmy
post Aug 3 2023, 08:52 PM

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Never marry someone you can live with. Marry someone you can’t live without.
hksgmy
post Aug 10 2023, 04:06 PM

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QUOTE(megadisc @ Aug 10 2023, 03:52 PM)
yes a choice

friendship blossomde during uni days

went thru thick and this

wasnt smooth sailing

but i'm thankful she and i together
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Yes. My wife and I met in STPM. None of us had a reputation or any money. Yet we stuck together. Thick and thin.
hksgmy
post Aug 10 2023, 06:56 PM

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You can see from the varied and different answers here that there's absolutely no one size fits all solution. Whatever works for you may not work for anyone else.

Good luck in your own journey, TS
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post Aug 12 2023, 05:52 AM

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QUOTE(Lembu Goreng @ Aug 11 2023, 09:55 AM)
Let me rank what life is from best to worst:

1. Single
2. Married
3. Married with kids

It does not mean that I don't like 2 & 3, they're just different. Life is short, so I feel at least for me it's good to experience it all.
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You, sir, are a wise man thumbsup.gif

 

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