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Get Married or Stay Single
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ShadowR1
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Feb 25 2025, 05:25 PM
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QUOTE(poco loco @ Feb 25 2025, 08:20 AM) for me stay single aka stay single = easy mode in life merid = hard mode merid with kids = sucidal mode if one can choose the mode in life,why not on easy mode since the end game is the same. This.
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Singh_Kalan
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Feb 25 2025, 09:30 PM
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QUOTE(BL98 @ Aug 2 2023, 10:50 PM) Do single people feel lonely because they are single? or is it because they see their friends getting married, having kids, moving on with life...doing things normal people do? Approaching 30 and the feel is getting real. Contrary to popular believe, married people are more susceptible to loneliness. Thats why they need companionship. Single people on the other hand embrace solitude. Being single/alone make them more comfortable.
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kkkw80
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Feb 25 2025, 09:38 PM
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Remember real purpose of any living being life is to produce
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ericcheng2021
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Feb 25 2025, 10:20 PM
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QUOTE(kkkw80 @ Feb 25 2025, 09:38 PM) Remember real purpose of any living being life is to produce Actually I always wonder this purpose comes from where? Or said by who?
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BL98
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Feb 25 2025, 10:20 PM
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QUOTE(Singh_Kalan @ Feb 25 2025, 09:30 PM) Contrary to popular believe, married people are more susceptible to loneliness. Thats why they need companionship. Single people on the other hand embrace solitude. Being single/alone make them more comfortable. Thanks for the reply. 1.5 years later and I am still single. This feeling sucks.
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romuluz777
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Feb 25 2025, 11:37 PM
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The singles are totally fine with loneliness because that is the only feeling they have ever been accustomed to.
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kidmad
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Feb 26 2025, 07:37 AM
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QUOTE(netflix2019 @ Feb 25 2025, 12:17 PM) THIS. Also don't make 1 kid only. Single child is worse than having no kid. DUnno wtf those ppl thinking. Horrible fate for that child, grow up lonely, upbringing also damn challenging cos lack of interaction with other kids other than school. Then suddenly join workforce with all the social drama. The scale is against them. Then old time the poor child going to solo handle two retired self centered old fart. They are fucking self centered because most of the time main reason stop 1 child because they not ready to handle the trouble and expenses for more kids. Choosing easy way out. And very short sighted just want to get a kid like some kind of life trophy. i have single kid and what's wrong with that? that's what you think only.. how many families grow up with a bunch of kids and ask their offspring mingles around until their death bed? none I've seen so far. just because you can afford doesn't mean you want more. i rather put all my time in grooming one rather than having many and couldn't handle. u one of those got plenty of kid and turn them into a horror story when going out?
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kidmad
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Feb 26 2025, 07:38 AM
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QUOTE(swanlover @ Feb 25 2025, 12:44 PM) Usually single kid mean he/she dem 7 lansi, knowing ‘u both guarantee can’t live without me’ mentality Lolx good news i also damn 7 lanc what's wrong with it? now I'm liking it cause some folks couldn't handle it apparently.
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netflix2019
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Feb 26 2025, 08:08 AM
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QUOTE(kidmad @ Feb 26 2025, 07:37 AM) i have single kid and what's wrong with that? that's what you think only.. how many families grow up with a bunch of kids and ask their offspring mingles around until their death bed? none I've seen so far. just because you can afford doesn't mean you want more. i rather put all my time in grooming one rather than having many and couldn't handle. u one of those got plenty of kid and turn them into a horror story when going out? So u the type order grab for old parent ask them to climb into it themselves while u work in another state? Or u the type that force your spouse to be caretaker for ur frail parent? Talk so loud. Wait till u start doing hospital run for elderly. Then u will know the difference between 1 and 2 kid. 190% increase in manpower. If u only have enough attention and effort to raise only ONE child. U really shouldnt have one at all. Self centered to max. U treating them like life achievement trophy. U did it without thinking of wellbeing of your ONLY kid. That kid going to be in living hell when one of u get cancer.
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alternativehype
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Feb 26 2025, 09:48 AM
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Dont impose ones values, beliefs and culture onto another. We all live in different circumstances. We each have to decide our own lives. One man's meat is another man's poison
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kidmad
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Feb 27 2025, 06:04 AM
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QUOTE(netflix2019 @ Feb 26 2025, 08:08 AM) So u the type order grab for old parent ask them to climb into it themselves while u work in another state? Or u the type that force your spouse to be caretaker for ur frail parent? Talk so loud. Wait till u start doing hospital run for elderly. Then u will know the difference between 1 and 2 kid. 190% increase in manpower. If u only have enough attention and effort to raise only ONE child. U really shouldnt have one at all. Self centered to max. U treating them like life achievement trophy. U did it without thinking of wellbeing of your ONLY kid. That kid going to be in living hell when one of u get cancer. wow that's your conclusion? have more kids so that hospital run will be easier for u? pandai. thats what i call bloody selfish. so happen next month ill be bringing my mum to umsc for her angiogram ops. im bringing her there, im paying for everything. never once i thought of how inconvenient it is.. guess that's the difference when a kid raised well vs not enough attention char siew.
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MGM
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Feb 27 2025, 06:41 AM
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Get married but childless cos it is going to be tough road ahead to accumulate wealth. But marriage is also a gamble to get the right match.
Why childless? Unless you r multimillionaire to pass down your wealth, your kids will find it hard to achieve financial freedom as with d advent of AI, many jobs will be replaced, n remaining one r mostly contract or gig jobs. It will be harder to accumulate wealth with employment like b4. So don't plan for your children to take care of u in old age, yourself have to plan this out.
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SUSsomewhataut
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Feb 27 2025, 08:18 AM
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QUOTE(romuluz777 @ Feb 25 2025, 11:37 PM) The singles are totally fine with loneliness because that is the only feeling they have ever been accustomed to. Incels no choice but to stay single, yearning mate but cannot get, brutal kesian
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romuluz777
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Feb 27 2025, 09:11 AM
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QUOTE(somewhataut @ Feb 27 2025, 09:18 AM) Incels no choice but to stay single, yearning mate but cannot get, brutal kesian There is always Mrs Hand and her 5 daughters
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