It’s all about mani la, tarak mani don’t ruin plp’s dotter then…

Never loved and mati bujang it’s a very sad thing…

Your shallow thinking deserves a lonely death. Have a good one.

Let me rank what life is from best to worst:

1. Single
2. Married
3. Married with kids

It does not mean that I don't like 2 & 3, they're just different. Life is short, so I feel at least for me it's good to experience it all.

If you marry the right person, you will be happy most of the times. If wrong person, it will be like hell.

Right person: happy to spend time together, can come to an agreement on decision making (negotiation required), can share happiness and sadness without any fear or worry

Wrong person: not responsible to you or family, not working hard enough to provide a living for family (doesn't need to be wealthy rich), doing drugs/alcoholic too much till neglecting family.

You will still get freedom and flexibility after getting married, just need to set expectations.
I am not talking about freedom to have intimate relationship with another person, other than your partner/wife/husband. To my standard, that's consider as betrayal.

With family, you will sacrifice your time and spend more time with growing up with kids and family.
It's tiring in the first 3 years, but after that it's fun coaching kids about different things in life, look at them growing up.

i like to eat salad

Salad vehe only ya. No siham inside. Want siham order kue teow goreng.

salad keep me fit

no money better get single

Unless you are sure you found the one, then stay single. Or if you desperately want a kid of your own, get married.

This post has been edited by abm: Aug 11 2023, 02:29 PM

marriage is a tool for women survival
in this modern world men is translated as cash machine
once the money dries up, woman will make many excuses to leave

So many bitter men here start commenting about women is about money etc. =.=

To me, you'll know when you find the "right one" that you WANT to settle down with. Until you find that one, don't get married. Good partner gives you support when you are down and doesn't restrict your freedom and tbh with partners like that, you would prefer to spend your free time with her anyway.

As for kids... that's another matter

I have old friend, now he is 53 years old age. He is divorced when he is 39 years old, late married and no children, reason wife factor.

Has money and asset but now becoming lonely life cz no companion. He bored as hell daily life. He now targeting to get married cz he almost can't life single anymore

And it’s always the married with kids couple who will “push” or shame and name those others single - but enjoying life with bf/gf.

It’s so typical, ownself already in a shitty life situation - then want to push others into the same lol

How to know a happily married couple with kids? They NEVER talk or care about other friend who married or have kids or not.

Because it’s much easier on their fragile ego to just blame it on money due to their lack of game with girls.

What makes you think their marriage is shitty? Did they tell you

Only the real friends within our closed circle will tell.

Yes, shitty, but everyone thinks it’s all sunshine and rainbows because of “hot” wife.

Ie. U think u can simply disrespect or raba the wife for sex? Fk no if you choose the wrong one.

U think the wife is a half-decent human who logically will at least put rubbish in proper place? Sometimes helpout with house chores? Picking up kids? Fk no - the wife’s personal calander and interest takes priority FIRST.

U think conversations between them is intelligent? The dude’s raking in 300k net annually while the wife’s barely could hold a entree level office job - i’ll let you imagine the rest.

Not alot of couple like this, but quite a few that i know, even acquaintances also hinted their married life is not happy - because people/personalitiy/priorities changes - sex gets stale because of the girl personality just is disgusting after the men gets to bang her few times. Mau divorce but too mafan

In the end most just resort for FLs or fly thai. Sex for men, you could get 7,8, 9’s girls under 800-1k per shot instead of messy affair and stupid scandals etc.

I don’t know how many men/women are happy in their current marriage.
I’m not surprised if majority are not happy although they look happy from the outside.

Too bad for them

Lucky for me I’m in a happy marriage

Can stay single at 20, at 30, at 40 but are you going to continue doing that ?

It is boring to stay single after 40

there is nobody to hang out with, nobody to share your life with.

your parents are aging, in fact everyone around you is aging.

you have a lot of money but spent it all on your investments and boy toys. In the end when you die, who is going to inherit it ?

every night and day you sleep, you sleep alone, you done enjoy the company of a partner.

sure you can snore or you won't hear others snore and you got the whole bed to yourself.

your boss may think because you are single, he or she sweep all the work to you.

If you ready to be shackled...get married...

If you want to be hollow on the inside...stay single...