Tbh as a single dude in my thirties, I have been thinking what can marriage offer for a guy? Most of my colleagues who are married, I see them like so stress..everyday after work rush back to pick up kids, morning rush to put kids at tadika, night no sleep baby always cry..weekend barely can enjoy themselves if wanna go out anywhere have to bring kids and jaga them.

Besides kid, if got nagging husband or wife lagi mental stress..so besides sex and companionship, what else is there to look forward in marriage? I feel being married is more stressful, money also koyak, no freedom, more stress..

Some men want Girlfriend Experience (GFE) in order to be able to achieve orgasm. But they take it too far,... Err,... I took it too far too many times in my life,... This is life, I giuessed. We must be able to ctrl our emo's....

I'm not married too and have the same thoughts. But I think the benefits will come when you get old & sickly. Imagine being all alone in your 60s / 70s. Kinda sad.

problem is people being trained to be calculative. Raising a child is not guaranteed you to have the best outcome you imagine

if you cant give yourself love, no matter what kind of love externally you trying to reach out its never going to be enough

True but it raises the odds to 50% rather than 0%

problem is people being trained to be calculative. Raising a child is not guaranteed you to have the best outcome you imagine

If you expect to have 100% return based on 100% effort you put in, most of the times you will be disappointed because reality will not give us 100%

and when the person is whining and complain, that means he or she has not grown up

Emm,... raising children is for the experience of life,... just like having (at least) a son and a daughter is an experience of life in itself,.... Stages of life,...

issue is most parents are not equipped financially or emotionally to have children

insaflah

In this era 2023, you can even WFH remotely at Bali while your HQ in KL.

Its better to stay single.

In KL, lots of single old uncles going to public swimming pool wearing shiny color thong pants seducing young boys

they also going to air-coned gym like fitness-fisrt and others searching for young boys especially active in the changing room and sauna room

Hmm,... I think,... the secret is,....Marry wives who is each easy-going and who will support you in all your endeavours and who gives you a lot of time to pursue your interests. Let her parents stay with you, they will look after the kids together with her.

Of course, financial strength needs to be there to support all these initiatives.

Just quoting from personal experience.

is this the correct thread, because it's discussing marriage. those old uncle in thongs wanna marry young boys?