I’m 28 already, if working on myself works it would have worked a long time ago, I’m also very introverted nearly autistic, I wouldn’t be surprised if I’m diagnosed to be on certain level of autistic spectrum. I concluded that my disadvantages are not solvable but I think I’m still dateable considering that I’m able to provide for a family

To be honest I would rather have high quality girls who are after my wealth than having nobody

The agency told me that my chance is on the high side and already have some matches in mind, not sure whether is sweet talk or truth but I think they think that way because of my career and income, I was approached by them via LinkedIn which is probably how they source “educated professionals”, high quality girls won’t resort to these services but if the agency approached them to deliver a sales pitch like better matching result than ‘matching by pure chances’ in daily life then is another story

Do you know better alternatives? 5k without success guarantee could be a scam like you said

Half agreed on this. If you keep focusing on yourself and not the girls, you go nowhere. Personal experience.

How old are we looking at?

28

1.65m

60kg

Fairly decent income and career

Own a 140k car

This post has been edited by somewhataut: Jul 12 2023, 11:39 AM

I mean, the girl you want what criteria?

18-28

Chinese

Not overweighted

I think need to consider this.
https://thesmartlocal.com/read/vietnamese-b...e-marriage/amp/

I prefer local

You have any?

5k rom only pay

But how many years we looking at?

Don’t know how many years

Once succeeded matching, you just sit back and wait for the cash to come years later, you won’t need to work all these years

5k doesn't seem like so much worth of waiting for this.

5k for a middle man job is pretty lucrative

You make investment and wait for years also won’t have this much return

I make it one year of dating, okay for you?

Lunch Actually is quite costly, I signed up for RM8K with unlimited dates, min 6 dates, they always matched you with the people you don't want haha

Hi guys, I need your advice. I signed up for OKC a few days ago and I got a match today. We started chatting. Then she gave me her tel no which is a Taiwanese number and ask to continue at Whatsapp. I smell a scam, any experiences you can share here?

Tell her you don't date foreigners.

This post has been edited by Ramjade: Dec 29 2023, 12:37 PM

Yup sounds about right:
1. She's probably pretty
2. Very eager and chatty
3. Overseas
4. Quick to jump to private platform
5. Most decisive one is when she does either one of below:
- ajak go restaurant that is known to house scammers who would order super expensive wine that isn't even good. (Read Google reviews)
- talk about money and eventually shows you a website/app, and hard sells it to you
- asks you to install APK outside play store
- asks you for nudes

Ok, that would be the closing message after I finish probing more

Thank you for the advice. Let's see how much I can extend the conversation to before it comes to the above. I need some practice as well

Cmb have been killed off. Last time you need to wait 24h before who liked you will be shown. Now, even after 24h, won't be shown. To be shown, you need to pay for it. I emailed customer service and that's what they told me.