Hi guys, I need your advice. I signed up for OKC a few days ago and I got a match today. We started chatting. Then she gave me her tel no which is a Taiwanese number and ask to continue at Whatsapp. I smell a scam, any experiences you can share here?

Ok, that would be the closing message after I finish probing more

Thank you for the advice. Let's see how much I can extend the conversation to before it comes to the above. I need some practice as well

No wonder. I have been waiting for days and those likes are still not revealed to me. Oh well, looks like i joined CMB too late

I got a match on CMB last week. She literally asked me for a lunch this week as we both worked nearby. I was surprised and a little bit cautious about it (thought she might be an mlm seller etc).

Anyway, I accepted her invitation and she was late to the lunch 20 min lol. And what follows was not something I expected in the 1st meetup.

She was very direct in her questions, its basically talking terms. Ie What is my plan for the relationship, What restrictions I have (vegan, religion etc), What do I want in life.

Honestly, I gave the crappiest answers that can ever be and she definitely was not impressed. She also kept telling me to meet more girls.

Well, there's that then. Is this kind of meetup via dating apps normal moreso in the 1st meetup?

I see your point and obviously it was a 'Today I Learn' moment. It was a shock to the system but I have to thank her cuz now it made me reevaluate my goals and what do i really want from the relationship.


Haha she immediately unmatch me on the app that day so i cant see her profile anymore. Brutal game this is

Would you mind sharing some of your non-negotiables? Mine was pretty standard; no beef, no vegan, no 'has children', no smoking, no tattoo. My friend told me I was being unreasonable lol