What's full name of CMB?

Do you guys pay for CMB premium or just go for free stuff? RM70/month seems not bad.

For CMB, do you click heart and wait for them to like you back or straight message them?

Sorry new to this. Lol.

Thanks. Cause so far I just click like. Never tried to chat yes. Yes. I am on free CMB. Not paid version.

I gave hearts but no reciprocal yet. Give a month and see what happen.

Yeah. It was suggested section. I click heart instead of message.
Yeah use beans. Next time I will just message then like/heart them.

This post has been edited by Ramjade: Aug 18 2022, 05:02 PM

Thanks.

Getting old la. Need to settle down.

Thanks for the tips. Yike. I have just been leaving likes without any messages. No wonder no text or likes back

What's your recommendation range? I put 80km. Don't know if it's too big area.

This post has been edited by Ramjade: Aug 18 2022, 10:58 PM

30-31

Be realistic. For me I dont swipe on those model type or super gorgeous type or fat profile (health reason). I choose wifey material. So far few people responded. Going on my date form CMB this weekend.

Whether it work out or not yet to be seen. I will asked them out after around a month of chatting with them. Those don't want to go out, I just move on.

Take it slow. Don't rush. Sometimes girls get scared if you rush them. Go out makan2, chit chat, hiking, window shopping.

For me if the girl fit my criteria, I will ask them out after say a month of chatting. If they don't want to come out I asked a second time. 2nd time don't want, I don't bother already.


This post has been edited by Ramjade: Oct 20 2022, 12:00 AM

Is not so fast. Some times it take like 1 month for them to like me back.

Write as much thing as you can on your profile and don't just leave it blank.

I will tell you. You don't need to pay for cmb. Went out for a date with a girl from CMB. She didn't ghost me yet and said want to hang out in the future.

Btw my friend a girl who recommended me CMB also told me don't pay for it. Now she got BF and getting married soon. BF comes from CMB.

If you feel you want to support them, just pay. For me I am happy with the free version.

Also depends on what you want. Hookup/ONS/FWB. If serious relationship go with CMB. If hookup/ONS/FWB go for tinder.

This post has been edited by Ramjade: Oct 26 2022, 12:04 AM

How to analyse activity report? What do you look out for?

Yes I am using the free version. For now I am happy. But I am curious about those activity reports.

Damn. Just curious.

Since KitKat ask me to ask you, what activity report shows? Can you give me some example about how it become obvious who doesn't care about matches?
kitkat86 ask already

This post has been edited by Ramjade: Oct 26 2022, 09:59 PM

Thanks.

For me if they reply I am ok cause they reply doesn't matter if it takes them like 1 day. Cause not everyone is free to reply. Hate those that like you back but basically no reply.

Filter it based off Hindu in your setting.. You should see your Indian girls.

First always ask yourself. What is your end goal?
1. Is it bed the girl and do FWB
2. Long term relationship.

I can only advise based off long term relationship cause that's what I am doing.
1. Filter out the girls based off chatting with her.
2. From there you can see if you want to ask her out or just move on.
3. If she agree to come out, now the ball is in your park.
i) You can either be genuine and show her who you are and hope she likes the real you (easier cause just be yourself)
ii) Play mind games and eventually show her who you are (harder as it requires some learning)

For me, I choose option (i) and then proceed with the date/meeting.

4. For me the first meeting is always to get to know her better. Don't rush anything sit down somewhere where ideally only 2 of you and talk. Yes talk. Do not be a creep. Always make sure she is comfortable. At the end of the date you should be able to feel how it goes. Don't ask her for 2nd date first. 2nd date should come 2weeks or 1 month later. Don't push and don't hurry her.

5. Once reach home, just message the girl and tell her how you feel about the date. Always thank her for her time and hint of possible of looking forward to next meeting. Now depending on how you perform or if there is any chemistry, you might or might not get a second date. If you feel it went good and she refuse to come out again, well just move on. Cause some how she's not interested in you after the first date.

For my case I got my 2nd date. But I don't know how it will go. Yes I was myself the whole time, be honest, no mind games. Yes we talk and talk for hours and didn't feel the time fly by. No touching, or holding hands on my part. I make sure she's comfortable and didn't do anything uncomfortable. We just seat down next to each other and talk.

How to know if the girl is interested in you from chatting?
1. She replies all your message
2. Sometimes she does the messaging.
3. Your chat is not dead or boring.
4. She will ask how are you? How's your work? Etc..

For me, I ask her out usually after 1 month of chatting or 3 weeks. That way she knows roughly a little bit about you and you roughly about her. I won't straight ask her out.
You have to ask her out to know her more in detail (my friend who is girl taught me this). There's no escaping it. If she refuse to come out, try rescheduling. If after 3x she refuse, just walk away. Cause you already gave her 3 chance to come out. If she's interested to know you further, she will take up the opportunity to meet you. If she's not, well she won't want to meet up.

I went out with a girl (my friend from work) 2x, 3rd time try to get her out she keep saying busy like 5x so I just move on. If a girl likes you and you ask her out on her free day, she will come out even though she is busy that day cause she will make time for you. If she doesn't like you much well, she won't come out. It's just that simple.

Some girls don't like to play mind games rather you be honest, open and direct with them.
Some girls like mind games and like to feel being "chased"
So different storke of brush for different girls. Find the one that suits you the best.

Hope my little experience helps you.

This post has been edited by Ramjade: Nov 9 2022, 02:42 PM