wah..wht were the interviews all about?

Again, see, didn't read my other posts. I can't be putting everything into the first post, can I? That would be too long.

Read Post#17, in which I wrote: "Just last night, I was sleepless, as I was planning my life up to age 40. I have many goals to achieve in life, so I plan from year 2018 to 2027 (10 years). I'm a highly future-oriented person, very practical and strong in executing plans and goals."

What these plans are, well, biz plans, including CSR. I emailed him about it. As for my savings, it's used for other purposes; he knows where it goes to. Otherwise, he'd have complained long ago, thinking that I'm leeching him.
Yeah, based on this: More than 85% of young adults and adolescents aged 12 to 25 are affected by acne, a common skin disease

If having acne = poor gene, then what? >85% young Malaysians have defective genes? 

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About giving back to the society, yes I do volunteer.

IMO, being rich is one thing, but being rich + influential + contributing to the society is another story. If we want Malaysia to be high-income nation, people need to change their mindset from poor to rich. Therefore, financial literacy is important, but sadly it's not taught in schools. That's why many young adults getting bankrupt. After PH won the election, we decided to move from SG back to KL, to serve the nation.

Long way to go, but will definitely wanna give back to the society. & If I don't pursue aggressively in my prime time before having a family, then when? After having kids? In my 40s? When?

wah..wht were the interviews all about?

I doubt the interview was about her...

Of course, there were not about me; mostly about social and educational issues. We've done things differently to make a change, so were interviewed to share more about our initiatives and opinions.

It's only the film-making one focused more on my life stories, plus other people's stories too. They wanna collect inspiring stories of Malaysians.

Thats why the rich will go for the 25%, who is rich and not sought for premium product

100% - 85% =15%. Do your Math right; otherwise, explain how you get the stats.

If you wanna marry a rich man, you gotta have the qualities that they want, and be as perfect as possible. You gotta work on yourself first.

Based on my experience & feedback from them, their checklist of ideal wife material is as follows:

1) Appearance (tall, pretty, attractive) -- presentable when bringing her to attend biz functions
2) Brain (intelligent, ambitious, highly educated) -- to be their partner, and help them in biz & career
3) Filial to his parents -- most of them are the only/eldest son, so what their mum thinks of their woman is very important
4) Can be a good mum -- they want to produce the best offspring
5) Talented -- have other hobbies or talents, e.g. singing, dancing, cooking, socialising etc

It took me 5 years to perfect myself so that I could attract the men I want. Yeah, I stayed single & unavailable for many years, just to polish myself to near-perfection.

How did I do it?

In terms of looks, I have spent nearly RM50k in the past few years on various skincare treatments to look beautiful, such as going for facials, mani/pedicure, hair treatments (rebonding, colouring), doing my eyebrows, lips, skin hair removal & polishing, body massages etc. Yeah, I look naturally pretty without any makeup; no need to edit photos too. With makeup, I look way more gorgeous. (Yeah, spent so much $$$, will of coz look fabulous.)

On a side note, a woman being able to spend RM10k a year on beauty enhancements without getting bankrupt or in bad debt is a sign of high earning power & prudent financial management. Men find rich/high-earning women attractive too, so be one. (Yeah, easier said than done, but can be done.)

Having good looks alone is not enough. If you are an empty flower vase = look good on the outside but have nothing solid inside, rich men will lose interest fast, coz you're no different from those hot chicks they meet.

So yeah, I spent lots of time reading books, esp. biz, finance, investments etc ("dry & boring" for most women), so that I know what to chat with them, and impress them. Then I also developed side interests, and learnt how to cook delicious meals, sing songs etc. & I work out to shape & tone my body; going to be age 30 but still look around mid-20s. 

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Hard work does pay off.

The outcome? Attracted many high-earning professionals, and went on dates with them. (Birds of a feather flock together  )

Also attracted several rich men, who pursued/proposed to me:

1) M, eldest son of a bizman who owns a transportation company. Lives in double-storey semi-D, now runs his father's company. Stole my first kiss without consent. Yeah, punched him after that, but he was still happy.

2) L, eldest son of a bizman who owns a timber lodging company. Lives in double-storey bungalow, drove a Mercedez to fetch me at my house before, for an expensive lunch date. Confessed to me and wished to bring me home to meet his parents.

3) C, only son of a rich family, lives in single-storey bungalow, works in Oil & Gas, earning 5-digit MYR a month. Came to my house one late night (around 10pm+) to give me a box of imported chocolates. Parents are family friends.

4) W, only son of a rich biz family, studied in the U.K. Lives in a bungalow, inherits his family business to supply automobile parts to major car manufacturers. Wished to bring me home to meet his parents.

5) K, eldest son of a rich biz family, studied in the U.K. Inherited family wealth, earning 5-digit SGD a month. We're engaged now. Our anniversary trip this year is to Phuket, pre-wedding photoshoot will be in Taiwan, and the reception + honeymoon (destination wedding) will be in Maldives ← he suggested these countries.

Btw, I'm not working currently; he's supporting me financially. I have 1-2 years to relax and go travel, and upgrade myself to tip-top condition so that we can start own biz and family. He and I have discussed earning in MYR and also in USD, and sending our kids to international school.

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When you become the best, you will deserve the best. I didn't come from a rich family; was poor and starving before, but I worked hard to the top in terms of studies and career. That made me into a confident and ambitious lady, and not just sit there dressed in rags with self-pity, and passively waiting & daydreaming for some prince to rescue me. Nah, it doesn't happen that way in real life.

A few things to take note:

Firstly, rich guys don't like it when girls covet their wealth. They can easily sense if you are after them, or after their money. Money is important, but greed and materialism is a huge turn-off.

Secondly, of course, not all of us have the luck to meet/date rich men. It depends on the social circles/social class you are in. If you life is confined to just work and home, then chances are, you ain't gonna meet any of them. You need to actively go out and express yourself, be it in events or gatherings, or online.

Thirdly, it's not easy to manage wealth and multiply it. If you only wanna be a rich tai-tai who can't help much in your husband's biz/career, chances are, years down the road, you're out of the game, as you become liability and no longer asset. With great power (privileges) comes great responsibility and expectations.

Fourthly, if you're dating a guy who is earning an average income, please develop his potential and push him to success. Your aspiration, dreams and energy level can fuel his ambition to give you the life both of you want -- enjoy comfort without worry, and perhaps, a life of luxury one day. Don't just sit there and complain about him (look down on him and make him feel like a loser) when you yourself have done nothing much to upgrade yourself. It must go both ways/ reciprocal. In order to receive, you need to give first. Sow first, and reap later.

Btw, if a man feels he can't catch up on you, he'll either level up his game to be on par with you (great!), or feel insecure enough to let you go/ become controlling.

Lastly, love a man not for his money, but for his personality, his character, dreams and ambitions, and earning potential. The truly rich man is one who can lose everything, smile and start all over again, and earn the same pot of gold in a decade or two. Now that is what I call true wealth. :thumbsup:

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OK, done sharing my part. Feel free to add on any tips and comments. No trolls pls; it's annoying. 

Btw, if you're a rich guy, feel free to share what you think/ what qualities you're looking for in a woman/ what type of women deserve you. & maybe give a tip or two about how you achieve success/ build wealth for our fellow forumers to learn from.

Wait...

So RICH is
1. Live in double storey semi d
2. Own merc
3. earn 5 digit SGD monthyl (or its equivalent)

holycrud! I must rush home and tell my wife i'm actually RICH!

Congrats to TS. It was an interesting read indeed. You explained your back ground and the environment you were so judging you by the situation you were in it was no surprise to me that you chose your current path.

Guys a winner mindset does not necessarily need to acquire wealth and there are fine woman looking for average income man with qualities they desire. TS's mindset doesn't represents the mind set of many wonderful ladies.

I became a SGD millionaire by 26 because I was lucky to work in an industry that pays too well and didn't give me time to spend my money.. I was so busy and focused at work that I just wanted a woman that looks decent enough,  will be a good mother, daughter in law, be intelligent enough to bounce ideas with me and above all a good fit to my personality. I wasn't interested in the sophisticated and beautiful high paid banker girls I meet and work with. While single I was more determined than normal guys to get the girl with the right fit to me. I grew up in a broken home with childhood depression as a result so I was more concern about her fit to me and the family I want to build than she being a trophy wife. It is just me and I don't represent every high earning guys out there though I admit my choice are odd among my colleagues.

TS told us what her desire was in context of her background. I appreciate the sharing. Do see her story in the context of her environment

If one day your husband to be got struck in a string of bad luck, hit the ground badly, what would u do ?

like get sued, bankrupted that type

Before I create a strawman out this "sharing" and beat the crap out of it; may I know what's the objective of this sharing?

Rich men do comes with pretty good anti golddigger radar. Correct me if i'm wrong, u seemed found a way to get around it.
It's either u got around it or he has a broken radar.

But that's not the point. The point is, that doesn't change the fact that you are still gold digger u know that right? 

The title should be "Golddigger's Guide to Effective True Gem Disguising to Con Rich Men".  

P.S. That's pretty good title. Maybe u should write a book about it. And I will write "Men's Guide to Walkaway from a Bad Deal". 
Like u do, I do understand where she comes from. But, I don't think it rationalizes some malpractice and the malicious intent.
Focus should be betterman by improvement via one's labour instead of deceit. E.g. The intent to read up on business times not to understand economic conditions and implications but to "pretend" interested in economics & business to chat some rich dude up. That's sick man.

I agree if I come up with a topic "Men's guide to get under women's pants with average penis" would be sick too and judged the same if it is"Men's guide to get under RICH women's pants with average penis and get them cumming for more".

Again, see, didn't read my other posts. I can't be putting everything into the first post, can I? That would be too long.

Read Post#17, in which I wrote: "Just last night, I was sleepless, as I was planning my life up to age 40. I have many goals to achieve in life, so I plan from year 2018 to 2027 (10 years). I'm a highly future-oriented person, very practical and strong in executing plans and goals."

What these plans are, well, biz plans, including CSR. I emailed him about it. As for my savings, it's used for other purposes; he knows where it goes to. Otherwise, he'd have complained long ago, thinking that I'm leeching him.

Well, you could just share again on your plans to make money with your own abilities. While you're at it, please share which stage are you on your goals. Does your goals involve only your own money?

How much do you take from your fiance every month? 5 digits? Do you have the intention to pay him back?

Congrats TS for achievement (this 1 sincere without jealous)

You keep self improving, focus, and works towards your direction, you know what you want
but but... frankly, you sounds too pride and not everyone can take it.. it is not humble at all

Where are you now boss

Thank you.

I know. It's okay. Well, in real life, I actually have many friends and I'm quite well-liked. I am often nominated to lead the team, represent the dept or be in committee, or present/ emcee on stage. That's the type of life/exposure I have, so yeah, not really humble/ low-profile.

It's just that online... well, text-based communication can't fully convey/ paint the picture of how a person is truly like. There are some forumers who became my real life friends, and they find me likeable.

Thank you.

I know. It's okay. Well, in real life, I actually have many friends and I'm quite well-liked. I am often nominated to lead the team, represent the dept or be in committee, or present/ emcee on stage. That's the type of life/exposure I have, so yeah, not really humble/ low-profile.

It's just that online... well, text-based communication can't fully convey/ paint the picture of how a person is truly like. There are some forumers who became my real life friends, and they find me likeable.

I know. It's okay. Well, I can't be talking about my skin conditions in the first post, can I? That would be kinda off-topic. My point is, I put in efforts to look good (for whatever reasons), coz appearance is important.
Having acne = poor gene? Man, go read some books on dermatology.

AS IF your genes are so perfect and flawless.