If you wanna marry a rich man, you gotta have the qualities that they want, and be as perfect as possible. You gotta work on yourself first.

Based on my experience & feedback from them, their checklist of ideal wife material is as follows:

1) Appearance (tall, pretty, attractive) -- presentable when bringing her to attend biz functions
2) Brain (intelligent, ambitious, highly educated) -- to be their partner, and help them in biz & career
3) Filial to his parents -- most of them are the only/eldest son, so what their mum thinks of their woman is very important
4) Can be a good mum -- they want to produce the best offspring
5) Talented -- have other hobbies or talents, e.g. singing, dancing, cooking, socialising etc

If you wanna marry a rich man, you gotta have the qualities that they want, and be as perfect as possible. You gotta work on yourself first.

Based on my experience & feedback from them, their checklist of ideal wife material is as follows:

1) Appearance (tall, pretty, attractive) -- presentable when bringing her to attend biz functions
2) Brain (intelligent, ambitious, highly educated) -- to be their partner, and help them in biz & career
3) Filial to his parents -- most of them are the only/eldest son, so what their mum thinks of their woman is very important
4) Can be a good mum -- they want to produce the best offspring
5) Talented -- have other hobbies or talents, e.g. singing, dancing, cooking, socialising etc

It took me 5 years to perfect myself so that I could attract the men I want. Yeah, I stayed single & unavailable for many years, just to polish myself to near-perfection.

How did I do it?

In terms of looks, I have spent nearly RM50k in the past few years on various skincare treatments to look beautiful, such as going for facials, mani/pedicure, hair treatments (rebonding, colouring), doing my eyebrows, lips, skin hair removal & polishing, body massages etc. Yeah, I look naturally pretty without any makeup; no need to edit photos too. With makeup, I look way more gorgeous. (Yeah, spent so much $$$, will of coz look fabulous.)

On a side note, a woman being able to spend RM10k a year on beauty enhancements without getting bankrupt or in bad debt is a sign of high earning power & prudent financial management. Men find rich/high-earning women attractive too, so be one. (Yeah, easier said than done, but can be done.)

Having good looks alone is not enough. If you are an empty flower vase = look good on the outside but have nothing solid inside, rich men will lose interest fast, coz you're no different from those hot chicks they meet.

So yeah, I spent lots of time reading books, esp. biz, finance, investments etc ("dry & boring" for most women), so that I know what to chat with them, and impress them. Then I also developed side interests, and learnt how to cook delicious meals, sing songs etc. & I work out to shape & tone my body; going to be age 30 but still look around mid-20s. 

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Hard work does pay off.

The outcome? Attracted many high-earning professionals, and went on dates with them. (Birds of a feather flock together  )

Also attracted several rich men, who pursued/proposed to me:

1) M, eldest son of a bizman who owns a transportation company. Lives in double-storey semi-D, now runs his father's company. Stole my first kiss without consent. Yeah, punched him after that, but he was still happy.

2) L, eldest son of a bizman who owns a timber lodging company. Lives in double-storey bungalow, drove a Mercedez to fetch me at my house before, for an expensive lunch date. Confessed to me and wished to bring me home to meet his parents.

3) C, only son of a rich family, lives in single-storey bungalow, works in Oil & Gas, earning 5-digit MYR a month. Came to my house one late night (around 10pm+) to give me a box of imported chocolates. Parents are family friends.

4) W, only son of a rich biz family, studied in the U.K. Lives in a bungalow, inherits his family business to supply automobile parts to major car manufacturers. Wished to bring me home to meet his parents.

5) K, eldest son of a rich biz family, studied in the U.K. Inherited family wealth, earning 5-digit SGD a month. We're engaged now. Our anniversary trip this year is to Phuket, pre-wedding photoshoot will be in Taiwan, and the reception + honeymoon (destination wedding) will be in Maldives ← he suggested these countries.

Btw, I'm not working currently; he's supporting me financially. I have 1-2 years to relax and go travel, and upgrade myself to tip-top condition so that we can start own biz and family. He and I have discussed earning in MYR and also in USD, and sending our kids to international school.

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When you become the best, you will deserve the best. I didn't come from a rich family; was poor and starving before, but I worked hard to the top in terms of studies and career. That made me into a confident and ambitious lady, and not just sit there dressed in rags with self-pity, and passively waiting & daydreaming for some prince to rescue me. Nah, it doesn't happen that way in real life.

A few things to take note:

Firstly, rich guys don't like it when girls covet their wealth. They can easily sense if you are after them, or after their money. Money is important, but greed and materialism is a huge turn-off.

Secondly, of course, not all of us have the luck to meet/date rich men. It depends on the social circles/social class you are in. If you life is confined to just work and home, then chances are, you ain't gonna meet any of them. You need to actively go out and express yourself, be it in events or gatherings, or online.

Thirdly, it's not easy to manage wealth and multiply it. If you only wanna be a rich tai-tai who can't help much in your husband's biz/career, chances are, years down the road, you're out of the game, as you become liability and no longer asset. With great power (privileges) comes great responsibility and expectations.

Fourthly, if you're dating a guy who is earning an average income, please develop his potential and push him to success. Your aspiration, dreams and energy level can fuel his ambition to give you the life both of you want -- enjoy comfort without worry, and perhaps, a life of luxury one day. Don't just sit there and complain about him (look down on him and make him feel like a loser) when you yourself have done nothing much to upgrade yourself. It must go both ways/ reciprocal. In order to receive, you need to give first. Sow first, and reap later.

Btw, if a man feels he can't catch up on you, he'll either level up his game to be on par with you (great!), or feel insecure enough to let you go/ become controlling.

Lastly, love a man not for his money, but for his personality, his character, dreams and ambitions, and earning potential. The truly rich man is one who can lose everything, smile and start all over again, and earn the same pot of gold in a decade or two. Now that is what I call true wealth.

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OK, done sharing my part. Feel free to add on any tips and comments. No trolls pls; it's annoying. 

Btw, if you're a rich guy, feel free to share what you think/ what qualities you're looking for in a woman/ what type of women deserve you. & maybe give a tip or two about how you achieve success/ build wealth for our fellow forumers to learn from.

The journey of life is very long and uncertain.

I hope that you find happiness in the choices that you make and remember that nothing is permanent.

On a side note to guys, just wish TS well and don't move on.

The more in tune we become with our mortality, the more apt we are to making this time count. We know that our time is precious and not something to be squandered. Trivial things like entertainment take a back seat while we make moves that truly matter.

Given our finite timeline we must make an effort to cut through the many distractions of life and prioritize things of importance. Guarding our time like a silent guardian only to relinquish these moments to activities of substance.

Rather than giving in to those eager to pull you away from your mission you must stand with a steadfast resolve forever pushing towards your goals in an unrelenting fashion. Taking each day more seriously than the last as our internal timers continue to dwindle.

https://addicted2success.com/life/the-impor...-own-mortality/

Where would you suggest to meet such woman? 

Self Empowerment, Live like no one else, so later, you can Live like no one else.
Congratz

only the people who had experienced hardcore poverty before can have such mindset like TS, while some people in similar situation chose to be trapped by endless self-lamenting, TS belongs to the other end of the spectrum which chose to fight her way out of the poverty instead.

you mentioned that some of the rich dudes you dated before were having complacent mindset, which is not unusual due to their upbringings

since you like to plan way ahead of your time, you should plan the upbringing of your children as not to overindulge them with too much material possession, to avoid them from developing 富二代 attitude, usually kids study in international schools tend to be exposed to such environments

Hobby classes, self-improvement courses, gym?, biz events (career fairs, talks, workshops etc) and hobby gatherings (e.g. discussion groups)
FYI, I have attended those myself, and met other women of similar qualities.

Commercial gym with classes, yes, no doubt, i've seen it.

For the others that you've mentioned, are these exclusive events with private invites or normal public events? How do you get to know such events? Online, papers?

p/s: i think i've been spending too much time at work till i've neglected my social life, so i'm trying to fix it before it's too late 

Commercial gym with classes, yes, no doubt, i've seen it.

For the others that you've mentioned, are these exclusive events with private invites or normal public events? How do you get to know such events? Online, papers?

p/s: i think i've been spending too much time at work till i've neglected my social life, so i'm trying to fix it before it's too late 

off topic but most of the so-called "seminars" are nothing more than preview classes which lure you to swipe your CC to sign up for classes like online business, investment, lucky number readings, etc etc

you can find alot of these in FB ads or Eventbrite

Commercial gym with classes, yes, no doubt, i've seen it.

For the others that you've mentioned, are these exclusive events with private invites or normal public events? How do you get to know such events? Online, papers?

p/s: i think i've been spending too much time at work till i've neglected my social life, so i'm trying to fix it before it's too late 

Btw, if you're a rich guy, feel free to share what you think/ what qualities you're looking for in a woman/ what type of women deserve you. & maybe give a tip or two about how you achieve success/ build wealth for our fellow forumers to learn from.

Btw, if you're a rich guy, feel free to share what you think/ what qualities you're looking for in a woman/ what type of women deserve you. & maybe give a tip or two about how you achieve success/ build wealth for our fellow forumers to learn from.

Law of attraction is horseshit. It's not even a law like gravity is, having blind optimism isn't gonna do shit for you.

off topic but most of the so-called "seminars" are nothing more than preview classes which lure you to swipe your CC to sign up for classes like online business, investment, lucky number readings, etc etc

you can find alot of these in FB ads or Eventbrite

Public events-- EventBrite, FB Events, sponsored Ads, posts that your friends share (public runs, group outings etc)
Hobby classes-- purchase on Fave, go with friends
Gatherings- Meetup app, learning circles (in SG), join local clubs (e.g. Toastmasters), NGOs, e.g. https://www.dosomething.gd/

Another way is to join FB communities where you can meet like-minded individuals.

There are also men who use LinkedIn to chat up with women; I've made friends with a few there, but please don't abuse it okay.
Yeah, but there are also some good ones. Just need to be selective. & keep your CC at home if you are curious but afraid to get persuaded to sign up.

You are not looking hard enough 😬

There are, there are but many are too, probably too young for me.

Recently meet a (chinese) artist/vj/actor, another a beauty consultant who works at the famous, famous XX XXX clinic (quite big name & has several franchises) and she supposedly one hellava dancer too 💃 (sigh all too young)

All this was, well my friend brought me to attend an “cafe opening” (me gatecrasher, he wasn’t), every men there was some “Datuk” (their cards all listed their titles & business) when there is such a “gatherings”, sure there will be magnet of LL

I was probably the only few non-wealthy men there, well I’ll group myself with some of the (local) actors.

Pretty girls out there, I believe there are. “Single & available” they are not. More like “it’s complicated” status for them. I know some rather have such to fend off some (not my type) guys, even though they probably aren’t ready to settle down that one they are going out with.