Thank you.

I know. It's okay. Well, in real life, I actually have many friends and I'm quite well-liked. I am often nominated to lead the team, represent the dept or be in committee, or present/ emcee on stage. That's the type of life/exposure I have, so yeah, not really humble/ low-profile.

It's just that online... well, text-based communication can't fully convey/ paint the picture of how a person is truly like. There are some forumers who became my real life friends, and they find me likeable.

Again, the same thing repeats:

You guys know what inferiority complex is?



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Read back Post#55:
Typical Asians upon receiving compliments:
"Eh, your son is so clever in studies hor!"
"No la, actually he's very stupid and lazy one."

"Wah, you are so tall and beautiful!"
"No la, actually still very fat in my tummy."

This is called false humility.

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You can disagree with my personality, it's fine. We all click with diff groups of people.

I revealed some background info & achievements, because: 1) to give contextual info, 2) to prove that I walk the talk, not talking about something impossible, 3) as a form of persuasion to establish credibility. Else, how do you want me to back-up my claims that my suggestions work? Revealing my photos here? CV? Academic transcript?

& When people write autobiographies, publishes, and markets the books, they are self-praising?? ("Wah, why you wrote about yourself oh. Bragging ah? Keep it to yourself lah.")
& if they mention some of their achievements? ("Wah, why need to let people know what you achieved oh, not humble at all. So damn proud xia.")

If my first post is all about bragging, then the post wouldn't be structured this way:

What are the criteria?
How to do it?
What is the outcome?
What do you need to do?

The whole post addressed 5W1H: "Who, When, What, Where, Why" and "How".

Was it solely focused on me? Not at all. If you text-analyse it, 50% of it about what I did & the outcome, whereas the remaining 50% is for the intended audience (women).

You men don't like the topic, it's fine. It's meant for women in the first place.

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OK. Further reading for you all:



To be real honest, I like myself the way I am. If you have the same level of confidence, you can and you will achieve a lot more in life. Whether you choose to express that confidence, it is your choice.

He's ISTJ; I'm INFJ.

He's the systematic and organised type, cool & calm, kinda stoic, macho & chauvinistic type. Honestly, I felt intimidated when I first met him. You know, like there are some males, when you first meet them, you can feel their aura (serious, demand respect).

I'm more of  ... ok, difficult to define INFJ, but when you meet an INFJ, you'd find that they are so damn odd/weird/unusual/contradictory/from another planet, coz they are very rare (<1% of the population), and they are multi-faceted and multi-layered human beings.

What he thinks of me? Make him pening kepala. Feels like "strangling" me sometimes, he says.  hahaha