Im not sure retiring is all what its cut out to be. I think it would get boring even if u r financially free.
FI/RE - Financial Independence / Retire Early, Share your experience
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Aug 23 2018, 08:04 PM
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Im not sure retiring is all what its cut out to be. I think it would get boring even if u r financially free.
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Aug 23 2018, 08:26 PM
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Aug 23 2018, 11:27 PM
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Aug 24 2018, 07:21 AM
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QUOTE(perplexedstill @ Aug 23 2018, 11:27 PM) https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/4600862/+300Starting from post #308 page 16 to page 18 |
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Aug 24 2018, 08:10 AM
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QUOTE(firedfire2018 @ Aug 20 2018, 10:30 AM) FI RE D - Financial Independence Retire Early Done Instead of derail, must well throws some words on above. so i have decided to be fired and need advise from all here. Please only valuable advise. 1. Quit job 17 August 2018 (one of the most stressful workplace) 2. Managed to pay of car and house 3. 1 Kid 4. 1 wife 5. Passive income from interest rm3500 6. No bad habits 7. KWSP 800K (cannot touch for 15 years) 8. Other savings rm600k (including benefits & insurance termination from company) -- in process 8. Other income 7k pm 9. Healthy 10. Family expenses pm rm3k-4k why quit? too much stress and empty promises. what am i considered now? jobless? or retired? plan to just reinvest the cash and generated interest. Waiting for the payout which plan to just put in FD or ASNB ( 4-6% interest ) 2-3k pm Consider generation of monthly income rm3500 + 7000 + 2500 = 13000 with my current expenses only 3-4k pm, can save up another rm10k pm but some months indeed have other expenses like insurance or etc which i say maybe rm10k per annum. so saving per year approx (rm13k-4k) x 12 - 10k = rm98000 and again to be invested in safe deposits to generate interest. did i make a wise decision? I guess you probably around 40 (15 years to go on epf) but not sure how old is ur kids?thus,is edu fund ready? Ur 7K income probably from ur wife, is she plan continuing to work and until when; can u sustain once she stop working? What u plan to do after u after FIRE? Perhaps u can take ur career break and decide later once u had clearer pictures. Actually nobody can judge how wise ur decision is except your own self. |
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Aug 24 2018, 11:25 AM
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QUOTE(Showtime747 @ Aug 23 2018, 03:59 PM) I have gone through a few rounds of crashes. 1987, 1994, 1998, 2008. Since 2008, there is no serious crash. That is when most of the youngsters born in 80s and 90s started to invest. And they never been through the plight of a crash. Some talked very big like investment guru Until they experience their first crash, then I am sure they will learn what is risk and returns. Same thing happened to Greece and Venezuela. Before the crisis, nobody would have thought the country would go bankrupt. There were 101 theories to back up stability of the economy. But you can see what happened to them now... And look at Gary’s friend who only invest in Aussie banks. A big chunk of portfolio was gone Diversification is the universally accepted practice to mitigate investment risk. Because there is no certainty in investment world. Anything could happen. And usually they catch you by surprise. By that time, it would be too late for you to do anything. QUOTE(Showtime747 @ Aug 23 2018, 04:41 PM) I have invested in property since ~30 years ago. To the contrary, the property price has gone up tremendously. Maybe I have better luck ? May I ask what has my credibility got to do here ? In a forum, my point of view is more important than credibility. If it makes sense, that is the thing a reader can take away. If my point of view doesn’t make sense, even if I am the most credible person in the world, how would you benefit from it ? Sorry I cannot remember, did I said something bad about you previously ? Just curious.... Bank of Australia ? Never heard of it You must be talking about Commonwealth Bank of Australia Gary was telling you a real life story. His good friend loss million of dollar by holding substantial shareholdings in banking sector during the financial crisis. I don’t understand what are you trying to get to....are you trying to prove his friend did the wrong thing by selling the shares ? Diversification is trying to address the issue of “what if something goes wrong” Even if a country’s economy is extremely sound, there are also benefits to diversify to other countries. Just look at the thread in this forum. There are SGX, ASX, US stock, ETFs etc. Forummers here do diversify. They don’t put all their eggs in one basket. However, if you feel that your investment objective is to invest in only Malaysia, that is entirely up to you. Nobody here can stop you. Everybody has his own choice and preference. QUOTE(Showtime747 @ Aug 24 2018, 07:21 AM) For a 50/60 y.o unker to buy property 30 years ago is consistent with people to buy their first home at that period, is nothing to shout about. property price appreciate at about inflation rate in the long term, any property bought many years ago would have appreciated. whether is a worthwhile investment is another matter. those experienced a few economic recession know it is debt that brought people and business down and every bull run will come to an end. when bullrun end, those over leveraged are often the first batch of casualty. property investment is illiquid and highly leveraged. only those suffer inferiority complex and reject from regular fraternity would dig out people previous post for personal attack and names calling. This post has been edited by icemanfx: Aug 24 2018, 04:10 PM |
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Sep 8 2018, 03:35 PM
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since you were an extreme frugal, read this and perhaps it sparks you an new perspective. https://www.reddit.com/r/financialindepende...i_have_learned/ |
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Sep 8 2018, 05:41 PM
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QUOTE(sky18 @ Sep 8 2018, 03:35 PM) Ramjade Well for me, very simple. Seeing my account grows and money coming in without working is extremely satisfying. since you were an extreme frugal, read this and perhaps it sparks you an new perspective. https://www.reddit.com/r/financialindepende...i_have_learned/ People look forward to paycheck every month as they are living paycheck to pay check. I look forward to it so that you chest is refilled and I have more money to invest Know what you want and work on it and be happy with it as you are responsible for your own action. |
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Sep 8 2018, 07:00 PM
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QUOTE(sky18 @ Sep 8 2018, 03:35 PM) Ramjade That is really an impactful piece of writing ! Thanks for the link since you were an extreme frugal, read this and perhaps it sparks you an new perspective. https://www.reddit.com/r/financialindepende...i_have_learned/ Especially point #4 and 5 For everybody's ease of reading : QUOTE What I Have Learned So having participated in many threads here in recent months, as well as other financial forums going back to before the 2008 crash, and having been at various points in my life a broke college student/graduate student, having net worth at my absolute lowest point somewhere in the neighborhood of -$155,000 (negative number), quickly digging myself out of debt, marrying into more debt and helping my wife pay her debt off, putting my wife through school and teaching her about investing even when she wasn't entirely on board but agreed to get started (and now is saving aggressively), these are some of the general principles I have learned: 1. No matter how much of your income you save every month, there is always someone on some message board who will claim to save more and say you aren't doing enough. You save 70%? Well someone else saves 80% and plans to save even more moving forward. It doesn't matter. Comparing yourself to people on this forum in this regard is just as futile as comparing your vehicle to people on the opposite end of the spectrum and wondering why they have a nicer car than you do. They might have more income, more debt, more help from family, an inheritance, a wealthy SO. So don't come here and ask "is saving 20% enough?" any more than you would ask the guy in the BMW 5 series, "is driving a 10 year old toyota enough?" 2. There is no shame in enjoying "things" on occasion, even if those "things" cost money. 3. Given #1 and #2, it is a worthwhile exercise to sit down and look at exactly how many hours you have to work to pay your fixed monthly expenses. Want a new car? Calculate exactly how many hours you have to work every month to pay for it. Ask yourself if the tradeoff is worth it. If the answer is "yes, it is worth it" don't fret about the fact that some person on a forum tells you it is an expense you should avoid, or how it might delay your retirement in 1-2 decades, or how you could buy a car for $5K and that would be plenty adequate and you should be happy because you have more than people do in third world countries. 4. When your entire goal is to stop working as soon as feasible, a negativity creeps in about the value of your work, and what it means to be employed and contribute in some way. I am not in any way rationalizing being in a terrible work environment. I fully recognize the work place can be malignant and unpleasant, depending on your supervisors and the culture of your job. I am just pointing out there is a certain value in doing something to feel like you are contributing to the world and helping others and trying to approach your job with a positive frame of mind. If you are a young person who is a decade or more away from retirement, and you are already approaching work with an attitude of, "I don't want to do this a day more than I have to", you would serve yourself well to find a new line of work or change your attitude/perspective just as much as you would by saving every penny available to get out as soon as possible. And sometimes treating yourself a little bit will make you feel better about your work, more so than watching your account balances go up with the goal being to "get out as soon as possible". If you are too extreme with saving a substantial portion of your earnings, your work immediately feels less rewarding because you are not seeing the fruits of your labor other than on paper, which leads me to #5.... 5. Reaching financial milestones is not as gratifying as you may imagine. I have met many of them, including paying off significant CC debt and student loans, building up retirement accounts, etc. I have yet to join the "two comma" net worth club but I am not far away. None of the financial milestones have been nearly as meaningful as I imagined they would be when I was younger and my net worth was a large negative number. The reason for this is I know how much I have sacrificed for each of them. When I reach the "two comma" net worth I suspect that day will be no different than any other day of my life thus far or any other milestone I have met. I thought the six figure net worth would be a big milestone for me. I felt no different than the day before. Same with 250K and 500K. You get there and there is no celebratory moment or major life change other than realizing you put a lot of things on hold to get there. It ain't all bad but it certainly isn't the way I imagined it when I was younger. 6. There is a wisdom in pursuing hobbies/outside interests that are inexpensive, but if there is something you feel you need or want to do it might be worth shelling out the money. I have never owned a boat but I would love to and could afford it, could have years ago. I sometimes wonder if I am putting off things that I won't enjoy as much when I am older, whenever I choose it is finally "the right time". You might even find yourself more motivated to work more to support a hobby that makes you happy, if the cheap or free ones don't quite do it for you. What is my point? I am not sure I have one. I still to this day spend a lot of time on financial forums, here and elsewhere. I still spend a lot less than I earn, although I have loosened up a little recently. But I have noticed in forums such as these there is such an extreme point of view in some cases that doesn't sit well with me. It seems as if many are recommending what I would consider extreme measures which in some cases make people less happy. There are people who go through life spending way too much money, more than they have, and they are miserable. There are also people who save every last penny and they are miserable too. Each may have their own regrets later in life. The best balance is somewhere in between and there are some extreme points of view in this forum, which may not always be the best way to proceed. |
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QUOTE(Showtime747 @ Sep 8 2018, 07:00 PM) That is really an impactful piece of writing ! Thanks for the link My #4 is splurging on a car that I don't mind driving and yet within my affordability - something that makes me want to drive to work every morning. Especially point #4 and 5 For everybody's ease of reading : #5, one of my first milestones when I was younger was more materialistic, a watch costing me one whole month wage. Years later, upgraded to a 2 months salary piece... another milestone achieved. This post has been edited by j.passing.by: Sep 8 2018, 09:03 PM |
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Sep 8 2018, 09:19 PM
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QUOTE(j.passing.by @ Sep 8 2018, 08:41 PM) My #4 is splurging on a car that I don't mind driving and yet within my affordability - something that makes me want to drive to work every morning. Yea....having lots of money is not always the only goal in life.#5, one of my first milestones when I was younger was more materialistic, a watch costing me one whole month wage. Years later, upgraded to a 2 months salary piece... another milestone achieved. Job satisfaction will bring joy money can't buy. Like a doctor saving lives, an engineer building a tall building, an artist drawing a masterpiece, a teacher's students score straight As, bosses who created jobs and indirectly support many families etc etc. If a person's only goal is to make money so that he does not have to work again, I doubt he will enjoy his job. He would drag himself to work everyday, and life is like hell to him Instead, if everyday a person achieves something, reaches a milestone, people thank him for his work (like saving a person's life).... he won't rank money highly. Volunteers social workers are this category of people. They are not after money, but they are happy contributing back to the society. They are selfless people, compared to people who only want FIRE. |
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Sep 8 2018, 11:05 PM
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Hi guys, thought I would join the discussion how much do you think is enough to FIRE on per month in KL with a fully paid off home?
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Sep 9 2018, 01:26 AM
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Jack Ma, age 54, just announced his retirement.
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Sep 9 2018, 01:52 AM
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QUOTE(AvenueX @ Sep 8 2018, 11:05 PM) Hi guys, thought I would join the discussion how much do you think is enough to FIRE on per month in KL with a fully paid off home? Do read the long post above on making comparison between yourself and others... it can be meaningless.Just like comparing how much one should save, it all depends on one's individuality and lifestyle. Years ago when James Clavell wrote Noble House, the drop dead money was 2 million. I guess it should be 5 million now. But of course it could be less and enough for anyone to retire. With house, car and other assets fully paid, the minimal can be as low as 2k. Or 24k per year. At 4% interest from a fixed deposit, the untouched nest egg to generate this 24k is 600k. This post has been edited by j.passing.by: Sep 9 2018, 01:55 AM |
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Sep 9 2018, 06:11 AM
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QUOTE(Showtime747 @ Sep 8 2018, 09:19 PM) Yea....having lots of money is not always the only goal in life. I think a person's attitude to life is very important (to be happy) whether in retirement or working. Now if we are able to appreciate/value our hard-earned assets/possessions more easily than others, we generally tend to be happier than others. I think the secret is being able to feel gratitude (感恩) for the things we have. If we are able to do this, we will feel that a lot of times, we really don't need more (money) in life. Job satisfaction will bring joy money can't buy. Like a doctor saving lives, an engineer building a tall building, an artist drawing a masterpiece, a teacher's students score straight As, bosses who created jobs and indirectly support many families etc etc. If a person's only goal is to make money so that he does not have to work again, I doubt he will enjoy his job. He would drag himself to work everyday, and life is like hell to him Instead, if everyday a person achieves something, reaches a milestone, people thank him for his work (like saving a person's life).... he won't rank money highly. Volunteers social workers are this category of people. They are not after money, but they are happy contributing back to the society. They are selfless people, compared to people who only want FIRE. Like in my case, compared to my group of Msians friends (all migrated to Sydney in 70s/80s), i am probably one of the poorest in the group but i am one of the happiest. Most of them have built up retirement/income-producing assets of more A$4-5mil (doesn't include their house) but yet they feel poor. They are all in their 60s/70s and they keep telling me to working to generate more assets/retirement funds. I ask them how much they need in retirement and they don't really know because they don't really calculate/plan. I don't really compare myself with these friends (they all have a few kids so may need a bit more to help the kids out A very good link by sky18 - must say i learnt a few things from it. This post has been edited by Garysydney: Sep 9 2018, 06:15 AM |
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QUOTE(Garysydney @ Sep 9 2018, 06:11 AM) I think a person's attitude to life is very important (to be happy) whether in retirement or working. Now if we are able to appreciate/value our hard-earned assets/possessions more easily than others, we generally tend to be happier than others. I think the secret is being able to feel gratitude (感恩) for the things we have. If we are able to do this, we will feel that a lot of times, we really don't need more (money) in life. I personally think right attitude comes with life experience. When a person gets older, the attitude will change and align to a person’s goal. Cannot be taught, but have to learn and realise it himself at some stage.Like in my case, compared to my group of Msians friends (all migrated to Sydney in 70s/80s), i am probably one of the poorest in the group but i am one of the happiest. Most of them have built up retirement/income-producing assets of more A$4-5mil (doesn't include their house) but yet they feel poor. They are all in their 60s/70s and they keep telling me to working to generate more assets/retirement funds. I ask them how much they need in retirement and they don't really know because they don't really calculate/plan. I don't really compare myself with these friends (they all have a few kids so may need a bit more to help the kids out A very good link by sky18 - must say i learnt a few things from it. It takes a lot of wisdom to understand that our life is not only about making a lot of money. I totally agree with you as I have also many business associates whom is filthy rich but not necessarily happier I think only old chaps like us can truly understand what we are talking about |
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Sep 9 2018, 09:20 AM
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QUOTE(Ramjade @ Sep 8 2018, 05:41 PM) Well for me, very simple. Seeing my account grows and money coming in without working is extremely satisfying. Find your balance point, else, your burn out is much higher, dont let yourself "hate" your jobs especially there're more years away from FI. People look forward to paycheck every month as they are living paycheck to pay check. I look forward to it so that you chest is refilled and I have more money to invest Know what you want and work on it and be happy with it as you are responsible for your own action. One of my key believe is there is no absolute black or white, almost most of them fall in between. Go checkout the millionaires interviews. (https://esimoney.com/category/millionaires/), you'll noticed there're many way to reach the goal and common trait among them too. I wish read all these sharing a decade+ ago prior my journey is started. And trust me, there is no different than the day before when you hit a million or multi-million. |
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QUOTE(sky18 @ Sep 9 2018, 09:20 AM) Find your balance point, else, your burn out is much higher, dont let yourself "hate" your jobs especially there're more years away from FI. Yes - i agree with you. My group of friends still worry when DJIA drops 500 pts!! They don't sleep till around 2am because they want to see what happens when the US market opens! I think the more money one has the more worried (something will happen) they become. They keep telling me to work another 10 years and i will be able to hit the A$3mil mark (combined with my wife) in income-earning assets. I keep telling them that i don't need that much partially because i don't have kids. I now don't even bother checking my super balance (updated every 2 days online). I used to always check it regularly as i feel that i don't have enough!! Sometimes it drops more than A$10k in 2 days and i will start worrying but now i feel that there is no use to worry because even if there is another GFC, i should be able to weather the storm. My colleague told me that my International Shares portfolio is very risky as they are partially geared so they move up and down very quickly (dropped about 52% in 2 years during the GFC) but i told him in the last 5 years it went up 100%!! I guess i will have to lower my risk appetite after i retire as i won't have guaranteed income like i do now. My balance in 2008 is much lower than what i have now - in fact my retirement balance has doubled in the last 5 years because i have all my entire balance in International Shares (all quoted in US dollars which is good as the A$ has been dropping). I am not the type to brag One of my key believe is there is no absolute black or white, almost most of them fall in between. Go checkout the millionaires interviews. (https://esimoney.com/category/millionaires/), you'll noticed there're many way to reach the goal and common trait among them too. I wish read all these sharing a decade+ ago prior my journey is started. And trust me, there is no different than the day before when you hit a million or multi-million. |
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QUOTE(Showtime747 @ Sep 8 2018, 07:00 PM) That is really an impactful piece of writing ! Thanks for the link Totally agree and point 4 & 5 really resonances meEspecially point #4 and 5 For everybody's ease of reading : With FI in mind one can really tend to think "I don't want to do this a day more than I have to" or the like Sure, we want FI but one have to at least be serious with our work and do the necessary. One shouldn't let the negativity creeps in and affects one's life, this is not the right way If possible, love what we do in our job while having the clear goal of FI is probably the best possible scenario - enjoy working at the same time of seeing the capital growing And yes, as the author says, when the capital gets big could make no difference in feelings when you finally make it, which is in big contrast to the previous day that one imagine "once I have this amount that amount I can..." Therefore I realise the mportance of spending the money and rewarding ourselves at times e.g., travelling and buy some stuff that we want I know it is hard to see the capital goes down but appropriately withdrawing the capital can make us feel very good and the sense of rewarding is priceless After all, balance & moderation, I would say, is the way in FI, and in many other things in life |
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