QUOTE(j.passing.by @ Sep 9 2018, 10:49 PM)

you are right.
To be really FI/RE at a young age of 45 and below, you would need much more if you are married with several children still in school/college.
Those, me inclusive, who were talking about retiring a few years earlier than the mandatory retirement age were talking about retirement in general.
To be really FI/RE, I don't think working part time or having a business that doesn't require your presence all the time counts as 'retirement'.
FI/RE is possible if your spouse is working!
On the other hand, you can plan not to have a family and children.
If getting married, marry someone who is financially independence and don’t have to rely on you financially. In fact, this will cut down your housing cost, be it renting or owning, as each of you are booting half the cost.
Being debt free is not really that difficult. The biggest expenses are on houses and cars. So don’t own a house or a car. Rent and use public transport. And Grab is as convenient as having your own car. In fact, you are living the high life with a chauffeur at your beck and call.
Think of all the maintenance costs you can save by not owning a house or car, and not to forget the cost of interest you don’t need to spend on the loans in making these purchases.
How much you need to retire early depends on you. How you want it to be is up to you. There is always a way if you want to do it.
What stopping some people from doing it is also due to personal reasons, like the job has fringe benefits like flying on business class and 5-star hotel stays and it is hard to give them up. Or the job and position comes with ‘power’ and everyone is nice and courteous to you because of the position… the attention and ego fawning which you shall no longer get when you step down.
The major decision on early retirement is still on money. And making this decision is not that difficult as you think… since we can count money while other things as mentioned above is more difficult to analyse.
Do you think you have enough money or do you think you need more? Do you need to be greedy for more and more? Any particular reason you have to live in an expensive place like KL? Would it not be nice to live in a quieter place? Would it not be nicer to move around and staying a few months in different towns and cities?
So how much do you really need?
You can break this money issue into 2 parts, if there is EPF. This is the untouched nest egg that you need to carry you over the final part of your life. Determine how much you need to have in EPF at age 55.
At about 5.5% annual dividend, it would take 13 years of compounding interest to double the initial amount. So work backwards on the initial amount you need to have in EPF. This will set you a figure to target to achieve when you reach the age you want to stop work.
The second part is the shorter term savings you need to have before the supplementary income from EPF kicks in. If the income from EPF is inadequate, then you need to put aside some money for the longer term too.
You might or might not need to let the dividend in EPF compound itself a few more years till age 60 or later before touching it. The main concern here is running out of money before we run out of time. That is the money dries up before we are dead. Living on the dividends and not touching the principal amount ensures this from happening.
And since if the plan is to rent and not own any living space, and if you happen to live till a ripe old age, you will need to ensure that the longer term savings and EPF savings is enough to get you register into a private nursing home for the final years of your life.
If there is a will, there is a way. Go see “Captain Fantastic” for inspiration on living cheaply at low cost. There are parts that you can learn from… but not the part of being so cheap until funeral cost is saved by flushing the wife’s ashes down the toilet!
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BTW FI/RE is nothing new. In one of Somerset Maugham’s short stories, there was an Englishman who quit his banking job with enough money to last ten years living cheaply in Spain, and when the time comes to return back to London and work, he found that he could not step back into his former working life… so becomes a homeless drifter living on scraps given by other Brits on vacation.
There was also a blog – years and years ago - by an IT guy on quitting early in his late thirties, who was fortunate to be given shares for being one of the first few employees in a IT start-up, and getting his “drop dead money” when the firm was listed. Quit the city life and bought a ranch or something in Rocky Mountains. Our equivalent would be Sg. Lembing or somewhere more exotic like Laos or Vietnam.