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post Dec 1 2019, 10:37 PM

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QUOTE(Dd2318 @ Dec 1 2019, 08:44 PM)
My wealthy Mgr tells me... Unless you have million-million in the bank, don't retire.

Nothing more depressing than having too much free time, but not enuf passive-replacement income.

A better alternative is work, maintain 100% income lifestyle, till u drop dead.

I hope to work till 60, 62, 65, 67...whichever later.
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For me, will probably "retire" from my job at around 50-55 depending on how my investments pan out. Then I'll probably start contributing more to open source code and maybe some freelance consulting and lecturing. I'll be free from working to have a comfortable lifestyle to doing whatever pleases me.
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post Dec 2 2019, 09:35 AM

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QUOTE(Dd2318 @ Dec 1 2019, 08:44 PM)
My wealthy Mgr tells me... Unless you have million-million in the bank, don't retire.

Nothing more depressing than having too much free time, but not enuf passive-replacement income.

A better alternative is work, maintain 100% income lifestyle, till u drop dead.

I hope to work till 60, 62, 65, 67...whichever later.
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Its the same conundrum everytime. High earners would not quit earning. Most people will always say they planned to retire at a certain age but when the time comes, and they realised the income they have been earning, there will be lots of excuses.


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post Dec 2 2019, 11:20 AM

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QUOTE(hksgmy @ Dec 1 2019, 09:26 PM)
I used to think that way too. But, to be honest, I can’t tell whether it would make that big a difference between say, $30,000,000.00 vs $60,000,00.00 - once it gets to a certain point, I find it rather meaningless. Especially for our existing lifestyles and the fact that we have no children to worry about it.

Different priorities for different people, obviously - but if I ever needed a reminder of knowing when to quit when I’m ahead, I just look up the former PM of Malaysia, Najib Razak. If he only knew how to call it a day, he might still be the PM today, no?
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I think you have mistaken Najib with Mahathir biggrin.gif
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post Dec 2 2019, 11:51 AM

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QUOTE(zstan @ Dec 2 2019, 11:20 AM)
I think you have mistaken Najib with Mahathir biggrin.gif
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The sad thing is, EVERY politician is in it for himself, never for the rakyat. Doesn't matter who... the outcome and behaviour is exactly the same. Sigh.
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post Dec 2 2019, 11:55 AM

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QUOTE(magika @ Dec 2 2019, 09:35 AM)
Its the same conundrum everytime. High earners would not quit earning. Most people will always say they planned to retire at a certain age but when the time comes, and they realised the income they have been earning, there will be lots of excuses.
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I know what you mean. I tried to semi-retire 5 years ago after I passed 45y of age, and failed because I thought it was premature to cut short my professional and financial potential. This time, I'm super determined not to make the same mistake.

Hopefully, in 2 years' time, my plan will be executed and I'll be posting to this forum from Sydney.
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QUOTE(hksgmy @ Dec 2 2019, 11:55 AM)
I know what you mean. I tried to semi-retire 5 years ago after I passed 45y of age, and failed because I thought it was premature to cut short my professional and financial potential. This time, I'm super determined not to make the same mistake.

Hopefully, in 2 years' time, my plan will be executed and I'll be posting to this forum from Sydney.
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i believe you can do it smile.gif
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post Dec 2 2019, 09:46 PM

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QUOTE(magika @ Dec 2 2019, 09:35 AM)
Its the same conundrum everytime. High earners would not quit earning. Most people will always say they planned to retire at a certain age but when the time comes, and they realised the income they have been earning, there will be lots of excuses.
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QUOTE(hksgmy @ Dec 2 2019, 11:55 AM)
I know what you mean. I tried to semi-retire 5 years ago after I passed 45y of age, and failed because I thought it was premature to cut short my professional and financial potential. This time, I'm super determined not to make the same mistake.

Hopefully, in 2 years' time, my plan will be executed and I'll be posting to this forum from Sydney.
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This is very true. The opportunity cost of high income earners retiring is high. Perhaps lower income earners can take solace in knowing they did not give up much. The “worst” ones are profitable business with ongoing debtors ... if they can’t find buyers for their businesses (not easy), then they have to continue to slog it out...I think for professionals, it is slightly easier in that you can reduce your consultation time, and there is no uncollected debt...still, to really fully give up 100% is not easy too, I think.. more often than not, will not be early retirement
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post Dec 2 2019, 10:06 PM

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QUOTE(aspartame @ Dec 2 2019, 09:46 PM)
This is very true. The opportunity cost of high income earners retiring is high. Perhaps lower income earners can take solace in knowing they did not give up much. The “worst” ones are profitable business with ongoing debtors ... if they can’t find buyers for their businesses (not easy), then they have to continue to slog it out...I think for professionals, it is slightly easier in that you can reduce your consultation time, and there is no uncollected debt...still, to really fully give up 100% is not easy too, I think.. more often than not, will not be early retirement
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Another major factor to retire early or not is have children or child less.
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post Dec 2 2019, 10:07 PM

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QUOTE(icemanfx @ Dec 2 2019, 10:06 PM)
Another major factor to retire early or not is have children or child less.
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Agree. Wife and I have no children - one less variable to consider.
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post Dec 2 2019, 10:17 PM

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QUOTE(icemanfx @ Dec 2 2019, 10:06 PM)
Another major factor to retire early or not is have children or child less.
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QUOTE(hksgmy @ Dec 2 2019, 10:07 PM)
Agree. Wife and I have no children - one less variable to consider.
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Yes. Kids can cause parents to delay retirement significantly , both in terms of ongoing educational expenses and also to earn as much as possible to pass on to kids. Not likely to retire if income is high in that case.
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post Dec 3 2019, 09:15 AM

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QUOTE(icemanfx @ Nov 30 2019, 02:33 PM)
Also means the potential return/profit on the 1% is similarly insignificant.
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True but for the oomph a little investment indulgence



QUOTE(hksgmy @ Nov 30 2019, 05:41 PM)
The $300,000 to $500,000 you mentioned may not hurt you one bit but it will me. Every dollar is 血汗钱, blood sweat and tears, and I owe it to myself and wife (and the patients that endorse and continue to support me financially) to be responsible with how I take care of it.

It’s a very conservative philosophy but it ensures that I am a good custodian of that which has been put in my charge.
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Wow so attached to it.... cant bring it to next life...


QUOTE(vanitas @ Nov 30 2019, 06:04 PM)
Isn't this gambling? With the same mindset, everyday lose 1%, you will be in trouble.
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No, unlike gambling not easy to lose them all, i mean no need waste too much time
for this portion of money, get rich quick scams excluded.
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post Dec 3 2019, 09:27 AM

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QUOTE(guy3288 @ Dec 3 2019, 09:15 AM)

Wow so attached to it.... cant bring it to next life...

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I believe you might have mistaken "obligation" for "attachment". Like I said, it's not a philosophy everyone can understand - but, I come from a school of thought as follows, as taught to me by an old professor way back in medical school:

If you over-invest or over-stretch and you find yourself in need to make more money to fill up the hole you dug for yourself, you put your patients at risk. The doctor that loses money on the stock market may be tempted to over-diagnose and over-interpret a 40% calcium build up on coronary CT screening in a 45y.o as clinically life threatening and recommend a stent.

The doctor that gets asked to top up his margin calls may over-prescribe antibiotics to patients with viral infections who would have otherwise benefited from simple conservative treatment.

As doctors, we are entrusted with the well being and care and lives of patients, because of the unequal distribution of and access to information we possess. We are also beholden to do no harm to our patients. Whilst over-interpreting a 40% calcium build up and placing a stent may seem harmless, the fact that the patient, post-stent, may be put on a life-long regimen of NOACs and Clopidogrel and other blood thinners that may interfere with his normal diet and routine and other medications - that's secondary harm.

Similarly, overuse and abuse of antibiotics will breed superbugs that may end up spreading their resistance elsewhere.

Every action WILL have a ramification. I happen to be in a profession that shuns unnecessary speculation and eschews unjustifiable risks.

Your mileage may vary, obviously.
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post Dec 3 2019, 09:44 AM

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QUOTE(hksgmy @ Nov 30 2019, 11:39 AM)
It's the classic conundrum - when you come to a certain stage/age in life, you get comfortable with the way things are done and you can't risk upsetting the status quo. If I do something that eats into my portfolio because of massive losses, then I set back my retirement plans. And at my age, I rather be happy with what works than to be greedy and try what might.

Things might have turned out differently if I started earlier.
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Its a really a matter of your earning capabilities. High income earners who can safely accumulate their retirement fund by their own earnings does not have to take any risk or should take any risk. Middle income earners with their projected savings who most likely could not meet their targeted amount should take more risk and worse to worse they will work until they drop.

Those who retired with achieved targetted fund should be very much risk averse in order to peacefully enjoy their retirement.


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post Dec 3 2019, 09:52 AM

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QUOTE(magika @ Dec 3 2019, 09:44 AM)
Its a really a matter of your earning capabilities. High income earners who can safely accumulate their retirement fund  by their own earnings does not have to take any risk or should take any risk. Middle income earners with their projected savings who most likely could not meet their targeted amount should take more risk and worse to worse they will work until they drop.

Those who retired with acheived targetted fund should be very much risk averse in order to peacefully enjoy their retirement.
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My farewell post to all respected contributors,

Company approved my posting to Singapore. Gonna be foreign worker there by end Dec, n family stay back Malaysia.

Thank you all for the sharing n daring. I wish everyone a safe n meaningful journey.
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post Dec 3 2019, 09:56 AM

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QUOTE(magika @ Dec 3 2019, 09:44 AM)
Its a really a matter of your earning capabilities. High income earners who can safely accumulate their retirement fund  by their own earnings does not have to take any risk or should take any risk. Middle income earners with their projected savings who most likely could not meet their targeted amount should take more risk and worse to worse they will work until they drop.

Those who retired with achieved targetted fund should be very much risk averse in order to peacefully enjoy their retirement.
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THIS. thumbsup.gif

As I mentioned, I'm at the stage of consolidation and preservation of wealth. This, coupled with my naturally risk-adverse nature, is why I'm happy with my average returns of 4-5%, and I've never been tempted by the 10% or so that some have achieved.

Having said that, I will admit that I have index-tracked funds that have consistently returned 8% (when I get knocked out) - but I limit that to the funds I already put in when I was much younger (in my 40's, nearly 10 years ago). I've never added fresh capital to that portion of my portfolio, and in fact, that portion has shrunk over the last decade, from nearly 25% of my total portfolio, to about 10% today. Happy to keep it that way - itch definitely satisfyingly scratched.
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post Dec 3 2019, 09:57 AM

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QUOTE(Dd2318 @ Dec 3 2019, 09:52 AM)
My farewell post to all respected contributors,

Company approved my posting to Singapore. Gonna be foreign  worker there by end Dec, n family stay back Malaysia.

Thank you all for the sharing n daring. I wish everyone a safe n meaningful journey.
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Congratulations on coming over to Singapore and beginning a new journey here! Who knows, you might end up having even more time to post!
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post Dec 3 2019, 10:33 AM

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QUOTE(hksgmy @ Nov 30 2019, 05:41 PM)
The $300,000 to $500,000 you mentioned may not hurt you one bit but it will me. Every dollar is 血汗钱, blood sweat and tears, and I owe it to myself and wife (and the patients that endorse and continue to support me financially) to be responsible with how I take care of it.

It’s a very conservative philosophy but it ensures that I am a good custodian of that which has been put in my charge.
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Maslow's hierarchy of needs. When earning more doesn't matter and doesn't excite you. Like your example of doctor on high margin call, they fall to the lower tier of needs. Thus for the best of your patients, your are consistently at stete of "self-actualization". Thus for those who render care as their profession, nursing, teacher and caregiver to be paid reasonably.

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post Dec 3 2019, 10:59 AM

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QUOTE(hksgmy @ Dec 2 2019, 10:07 PM)
Agree. Wife and I have no children - one less variable to consider.
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QUOTE(aspartame @ Dec 2 2019, 10:17 PM)
Yes. Kids can cause parents to delay retirement significantly , both in terms of ongoing educational expenses and also to earn as much as possible to pass on to kids. Not likely to retire if income is high in that case.
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Money is not everything in life, although no money cannot live.

There is something called family as well.

If money is everything, no wife is even better, less one liability. laugh.gif
Can always change new fresh girl friend.. devil.gif

When you old time, and see friends' family and kids so cute, then it is like missing something in life.
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post Dec 3 2019, 11:46 AM

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QUOTE(cheefai7 @ Dec 3 2019, 10:33 AM)
Maslow's hierarchy of needs. When earning more doesn't matter and doesn't excite you. Like your example of doctor on high margin call, they fall to the lower tier of needs. Thus for the best of your patients, your are consistently at stete of "self-actualization". Thus for those who render care as their profession, nursing, teacher and caregiver to be paid reasonably.
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I agree wholeheartedly on the fair remuneration packages for essential professions - but, not to the extent where people are tempted to get into these professions solely for the sake of good pay. Medicine, teaching, nursing - these are callings, not mere professions. I never got into medicine to become rich. I got into medicine to help patients, and in doing so, I received my fair reward. The sequence is important.

In Singapore (I'm just a PR, although I've been a pendatang here for the past 30 years), politicians use the same argument to justify their high pay packets - apparently, a high pay helps in reducing corruption. But, then Singaporeans sometime can't help but feel that these career politicians are doing it ONLY for the high pay, not for the good of the country and its citizens. So, a fine balance needs to be struck, in my opinion.

You've summarized Maslow's pyramid perfectly. I wouldn't say that I'm already at the very apex of it, but I strive and I aim to get there, hence the measured replies and consistent responses thus far.

This post has been edited by hksgmy: Dec 3 2019, 01:28 PM
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QUOTE(guy3288 @ Dec 3 2019, 09:15 AM)
True but for the oomph a little investment indulgence
Wow so attached to it.... cant bring it to next life...
No, unlike gambling not easy to lose them all, i mean no need waste too much time
for this portion of money, get rich quick scams excluded.
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There are many ways one could spend or loss substantially amount of money easily in a short time.

QUOTE(Dd2318 @ Dec 3 2019, 09:52 AM)
My farewell post to all respected contributors,

Company approved my posting to Singapore. Gonna be foreign  worker there by end Dec, n family stay back Malaysia.

Thank you all for the sharing n daring. I wish everyone a safe n meaningful journey.
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Congratulations, with higher income is a quicker path to financial freedom.

QUOTE(wayton @ Dec 3 2019, 10:59 AM)
Money is not everything in life, although no money cannot live.

There is something called family as well.

If money is everything, no wife is even better, less one liability.  laugh.gif
Can always change new fresh girl friend..  devil.gif 

When you old time, and see friends' family and kids so cute, then it is like missing something in life.
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Provided fresh girl friends don't over spend, which is unlikely.

Adopt orphan or giving to charity could give similar happiness.

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