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post Apr 17 2007, 02:57 AM, updated 19y ago

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post Apr 17 2007, 06:05 PM

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keke....look like its fun woh.....but i dun have a distance relationship or even a gf now...can i join in?
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post Apr 17 2007, 10:16 PM

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QUOTE(firewire @ Apr 17 2007, 06:05 PM)
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You start 1st. biggrin.gif

QUOTE(Ayashi @ Apr 17 2007, 09:12 PM)
keke....look like its fun woh.....but i dun have a distance relationship or even a gf now...can i join in?
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Most welcome rclxms.gif rclxms.gif rclxms.gif

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post Apr 18 2007, 03:06 AM

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Wow, I was the top poster for v2. rclxm9.gif

And, Joshua, nice photo. I was trying to talk to you about that photo on MSN the other day but you were away. smile.gif
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post Apr 18 2007, 12:29 PM

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wow... i am the 3rd poster for V2. hmm... slight decrement from version one. hahaha...
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post Apr 18 2007, 01:08 PM

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yest i mentioned in v2 bout giving my gf a surprise visit... it was a nice one... when i almost reach her house, i purposely called her and say im driving, just out of office going back home kekekeke...
then 10min later i showup infront of her,
1st expression: a scream! biggrin.gif
2nd expression: smile jumping up and down... sweat.gif sweat.gif
3rd expression: gimme a big big hug.... wub.gif wub.gif
4th expression: happy tears start falling down.... rolleyes.gif rolleyes.gif

can see that she is vy vy vy vy happy and surprise lo.. altho this morning i wake up 6am and straight go work from her house (2 hrs drive), but it's all worth it..!!
she appreciate my effort and thank me for that, even till now she is still thanking me in MSN.... blush.gif blush.gif
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post Apr 18 2007, 02:08 PM

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^kokuryo...

that's so sweet! really very very sweet. i can imagine your gf's feeling when she see you. you are really her sweetest gift.
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post Apr 18 2007, 04:22 PM

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QUOTE(miyoko @ Apr 18 2007, 02:08 PM)
^kokuryo...

that's so sweet! really very very sweet. i can imagine your gf's feeling when she see you. you are really her sweetest gift.
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thanks miyoko...
me and my gf so in lov with each other... trust and understanding lead us to this stage.. actually im planing to giv her another surprise kekeke... she will be training in Miss Tourism Malaysia camp in sunway for 1 whole week next week.. which give me more time to plan for the surprise.. ekkeke actually im planning to propose to her... blush.gif blush.gif blush.gif
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Har.. propose sommore ah.. Very good leh.. So means its going to end of the LDR and move on to another stage?
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post Apr 18 2007, 05:19 PM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Apr 18 2007, 04:57 PM)
Har.. propose sommore ah.. Very good leh.. So means its going to end of the LDR and move on to another stage?
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er... hopefully lo... still duno leh.. mayb after marry oso still LDR ler sweat.gif sweat.gif .. coz she need to help her father bizz on accounts... mayb another LDR for 2 more yrs... but i understand and i dont mind.... icon_idea.gif icon_idea.gif
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QUOTE(kokuryo @ Apr 18 2007, 01:08 PM)
Kokuryo reporting in...!

yest i mentioned in v2 bout giving my gf a surprise visit... it was a nice one... when i almost reach her house, i purposely called her and say im driving, just out of office going back home kekekeke...
then 10min later i showup infront of her,
1st expression: a scream!  biggrin.gif
2nd expression: smile jumping up and down...  sweat.gif  sweat.gif
3rd expression: gimme a big big hug....  wub.gif  wub.gif
4th expression: happy tears start falling down....  rolleyes.gif  rolleyes.gif

can see that she is vy vy vy vy happy and surprise lo.. altho this morning i wake up 6am and straight go work from her house (2 hrs drive), but it's all worth it..!!
she appreciate my effort and thank me for that, even till now she is still thanking me in MSN....  blush.gif  blush.gif
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U r lucky coz not every guy is lucky.....

SOme will said, why u come in surprise ar...........

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QUOTE(kokuryo @ Apr 18 2007, 05:19 PM)
er... hopefully lo... still duno leh.. mayb after marry oso still LDR ler sweat.gif  sweat.gif .. coz she need to help her father bizz on accounts... mayb another LDR for 2 more yrs... but i understand and i dont mind....  icon_idea.gif  icon_idea.gif
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Nevermind la, after married at least you both already tied the knot smile.gif
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QUOTE(wangpr @ Apr 18 2007, 05:38 PM)
U r lucky coz not every guy is lucky.....

SOme will said, why u come in surprise ar...........

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got gal dun like surprises 1 a??? i think im not lucky, it's the one who get a gf that dun like surprises UNLUCKY lo.... sweat.gif sweat.gif


QUOTE(BlueWind @ Apr 18 2007, 05:48 PM)
Nevermind la, after married at least you both already tied the knot smile.gif
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actually i dun think like tat ler.. coz even after marry, if u think 'she is already urs aneway', then soon u wont care bout her and may lead to broken marrige ler... so, even after marry, still need to continue giv her surprises geh... agreed??
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Apr 18 2007, 10:03 AM)
Wow, I was the top poster for v2. rclxm9.gif

And, Joshua, nice photo. I was trying to talk to you about that photo on MSN the other day but you were away. smile.gif
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Haha, as usual, I always away from MSN. tongue.gif

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Kokuryo reporting in...!

yest i mentioned in v2 bout giving my gf a surprise visit... it was a nice one... when i almost reach her house, i purposely called her and say im driving, just out of office going back home kekekeke...
then 10min later i showup infront of her,
1st expression: a scream!  biggrin.gif
2nd expression: smile jumping up and down...  sweat.gif  sweat.gif
3rd expression: gimme a big big hug....  wub.gif  wub.gif
4th expression: happy tears start falling down....  rolleyes.gif  rolleyes.gif

can see that she is vy vy vy vy happy and surprise lo.. altho this morning i wake up 6am and straight go work from her house (2 hrs drive), but it's all worth it..!!
she appreciate my effort and thank me for that, even till now she is still thanking me in MSN....  blush.gif  blush.gif
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Wow... Good 1. I been planning for that but always fail. Couldn't find a suitable time. sad.gif
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Apr 18 2007, 06:06 PM)
kokuryo...

double surprise at one time. but then, just an advice, if you wanna propose to her, and if you plan to propose to her at the Miss Tourism camp, then try not to kacau with her job oh... just in case, so that things didnt turn havoc smile.gif just a friendly advice. all the best oh...
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thanks for your advice miyoko... actually i didnt plan to propose to her at the camp la.. iz a close door training camp and if not mistaken they not allow anyone visit them... i sure will let her concentrate on the training lo coz i giv her my full support by not kacau her ma.. kekekeke
actually i planned to book a hotel room, either Hilton KL (near KL sentral) or JW Marriot, i oredi ordered Bouquet of 99 roses, another 100 roses to deco around the room, a propose ring and booked for a romantic dinner @ Bonton...
actually i not yet calculate the total cost leh... mayb iz a good time to do it now..
Hotel - RM500
200 roses - RM220 (cheap coz know people from cameron.. kkeke)
ring - RM3K
dinner - RM250
TOTAL: almost 4K...! sweat.gif sweat.gif sweat.gif

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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Apr 18 2007, 06:20 PM)
Wow... Good 1. I been planning for that but always fail. Couldn't find a suitable time. sad.gif
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the time sure will come... just be patient... thumbup.gif thumbup.gif thumbup.gif

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QUOTE(kokuryo @ Apr 18 2007, 06:23 PM)
thanks for your advice miyoko... actually i didnt plan to propose to her at the camp la.. iz a close door training camp and if not mistaken they not allow anyone visit them... i sure will let her concentrate on the training lo coz i giv her my full support by not kacau her ma.. kekekeke
actually i planned to book a hotel room, either Hilton KL (near KL sentral) or JW Marriot, i oredi ordered Bouquet of 99 roses, another 100 roses to deco around the room, a propose ring and booked for a romantic dinner @ Bonton...
actually i not yet calculate the total cost leh... mayb iz a good time to do it now..
Hotel - RM500
200 roses - RM220 (cheap coz know people from cameron.. kkeke)
ring - RM3K
dinner - RM250
TOTAL: almost 4K...!  sweat.gif  sweat.gif  sweat.gif
Wow, sweet! haha... i love surprises. hmm... i wonder whether i'll get mine or not. i mean surprises, not proposal. well, maybe let me comment on your plan. how are you gonna show the flower and the room to her? are you gonna propose to her first, or show her the room first? well, maybe my expectation is high, if it's me, i would prefer not to be done in hotel cos it seems to be a common place to me. I dont want many people at the place of proposal. Cos i want it to be exclusive to only me and my love. cos i dont want any other people copy my dear's idea. i want it to belong only to me ---> selfish leh... hehehe... I would prefer the proposal to be done at somewhere memorable to both me and my dear. but of course with lots and lots of preparation before hand. smile.gif
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Apr 18 2007, 06:31 PM)
Wow, sweet! haha... i love surprises. hmm... i wonder whether i'll get mine or not. i mean surprises, not proposal. well, maybe let me comment on your plan. how are you gonna show the flower and the room to her? are you gonna propose to her first, or show her the room first? well, maybe my expectation is high, if it's me, i would prefer not to be done in hotel cos it seems to be a common place to me. I dont want many people at the place of proposal. Cos i want it to be exclusive to only me and my love. cos i dont want any other people copy my dear's idea. i want it to belong only to me ---> selfish leh... hehehe... I would prefer the proposal to be done at somewhere memorable to both me and my dear. but of course with lots and lots of preparation before hand. smile.gif
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good idea u hav... hope your dear will know wat u thinking then he will fulfill your wish... kekekek

sure sure pls giv any comment to me, actually im still wondering the sequence of event... kekeke i will make a heart shape on the bed using 花瓣 (duno wat call in english) and the ring cover by 1 of it.
actually i will ask her to close her eyes 1st b4 enter the room.. after that lead her to the center of the room b4 open her eyes, banquet of 99 roses oredi in my hand... then ask her open her eyes and i straight hand over the flower 'darling, just for you...' then let her hav a look on the surrounding... after she sattle down, ask her to sit on the bed, and i will take the propose ring and ask the golden question.... icon_idea.gif icon_idea.gif any comment fellow LDRs???
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i cant see the chinese character that you typed. but anyway, how are you gonna close her eyes when you are holding the flower? dont tell me you gonna ask her to just close her eyes... she might peep and spoil the fun. hmm... maybe prepare a black piece of ribbon to seal her eyes?

then, you could let her open the "dunno what's that" one by one and let her find it herself.

Or... you could buy lots of roses, with a few different colours. then, take out the rose petals of one colour and put it all over the bed. maybe you make a few spots of petals with different colours---> maybe pink, yellow, white, bla bla bla... and you hide your ring below one of the group. on others, hide aluminium tin cap, or any cheap ring. and ask her to guess which one and open one by one. hint: maybe you put the ring below the one with the colour she loves the most.

just an idea...
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QUOTE(kokuryo @ Apr 18 2007, 06:04 PM)
actually i dun think like tat ler.. coz even after marry, if u think 'she is already urs aneway', then soon u wont care bout her and may lead to broken marrige ler... so, even after marry, still need to continue giv her surprises geh... agreed??
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Ya I agree - Dude, as long as you don't think that way then it should be fine. It all matters with the way you think and also your gf la. smile.gif
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Wah................I am soooooooooooooooo slow sad.gif

Anyway, I'm reporting in tongue.gif

Kokuryo..so sweet of you! Best of luck to you ya!
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Apr 18 2007, 06:58 PM)
i cant see the chinese character that you typed. but anyway, how are you gonna close her eyes when you are holding the flower? dont tell me you gonna ask her to just close her eyes... she might peep and spoil the fun. hmm... maybe prepare a black piece of ribbon to seal her eyes?

then, you could let her open the "dunno what's that" one by one and let her find it herself.

Or... you could buy lots of roses, with a few different colours. then, take out the rose petals of one colour and put it all over the bed. maybe you make a few spots of petals with different colours---> maybe pink, yellow, white, bla bla bla... and you hide your ring below one of the group. on others, hide aluminium tin cap, or any cheap ring. and ask her to guess which one and open one by one. hint: maybe you put the ring below the one with the colour she loves the most.

just an idea...
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the chinese character is rose petals... kekekeke
the flower already in the room b4 she enter lo.. but i believe if i just ask her to close her eyes, she wont peep 1... thanks for your idea..
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Now, my relationship is quite tough... Not smooth.... sad.gif
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What happen leh...?
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Why ar?

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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Apr 19 2007, 10:35 AM)
Now, my relationship is quite tough... Not smooth.... sad.gif
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can share??? mayb we able to give some opinion??
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Joshua, read your blog this morning. What happened? Mind to share?
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Joshua, read your blog this morning. What happened? Mind to share?
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Emn, actually it's his friendster blog oh. Do you have his friendster nick?
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Emn, actually it's his friendster blog oh. Do you have his friendster nick?
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HEY ppl~ back here~..happy for ya kokuryo..so sweet to ya GF..all the best for ya proposal..

Anyway my girl's quite okie now...will keep on encouraging her no matter what happens...results will be out in the beginning of May *keeping fingers cross* hope everything goes the good way smile.gif
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HEY ppl~ back here~..happy for ya kokuryo..so sweet to ya GF..all the best for ya proposal..

Anyway my girl's quite okie now...will keep on encouraging her no matter what happens...results will be out in the beginning of May *keeping fingers cross* hope everything goes the good way smile.gif
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your encouragement to your gf is priceless and so meaningful... she will be fine..
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reporting....photo will be up later. XD

EDIT: OR how about now? Hehehehe.
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This was taken when he came to Japan to visit me for two weeks during my spring break holidays.

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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Apr 19 2007, 03:38 PM)
reporting....photo will be up later. XD

EDIT: OR how about now? Hehehehe.
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This was taken when he came to Japan to visit me for two weeks during my spring break holidays.
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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Apr 19 2007, 11:04 AM)
What happen leh...?
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Why ar?

BTW travox, how's everything?
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can share??? mayb we able to give some opinion??
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Joshua, read your blog this morning. What happened? Mind to share?
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Actually, I dun plan to tell. I am too stress now for my assignment, so decide to have a break and tell you guys my story.

Recently, her house rental increase and she start to face financial problem. I tried to advice her, console her, help her, etc.... In the end... She said I am kaypo. That's the 1st thing. Then I keep quiet and continue my kindness and try to help her... Again, she said none of my business and it is her business. sleep.gif Come on man.. 1 time is enough, 2 times to hurt me? Fine fine fine.. I understand her situation and forget about it... Complained to her that I am unhappy.

Ok, the next day... She told me she wanted to go for cabin crew interview. Although I don't like her doing this work as I know it is very complicated in this line(my brother told me as he was air steward before), but I just support her all the way because I knew I must support her and not to stop her future or her ambition. So, I find all the interview procedure and so on. Told her everything, advice her, blah blah blah... She said it is because of the salary is interesting that's the reason she wanted to go for that interview. But she worried about her future, her studies and so on.. I advice her again... She then she said she will just find a rich man and just marry him. I really got upsad. Come on man... This is not the way to get merajuk, lepas geram also lar not this way. Over the limit already.

Seems like she treat me like outsider. Sigh... I don't know what to say lar... I just tell her she did not respect me at all blah blah blah.... She said it is all because of her 'Qi Hua'(angry word in chinese), but that's not the way.... SIGH

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wats the URL for his blog? can share???
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no wor.... i dun hav his friendster nick oso...
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You can add me. Joshua_0718@yahoo.com

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reporting....photo will be up later. XD

EDIT: OR how about now? Hehehehe.
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Will add into the 1st post.

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Joshua_0718, sad to hear that.... hum.... actually u are exacly like my style, u know somehow u dun like your gf do something but u will still support her all the way, help her all the way... me same too, coz we really cant stop what the other party wish to do, if u stopped it will turn out ugly...
but after we support even we not really agree on what they wannt do, all we need is they APPRECIATE our effort, understand why we support them so much...
*touchwood* my gf really appreciate things that ive done.... but as what i can see, mayb your gf oso appreciate wat u did, just that currently she hav some financial problem and that bother much of her thinking now, so she really doesnt mean to say something to hurt you gua.... unsure.gif unsure.gif
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QUOTE(kokuryo @ Apr 19 2007, 04:45 PM)
Joshua_0718, sad to hear that.... hum.... actually u are exacly like my style, u know somehow u dun like your gf do something but u will still support her all the way, help her all the way... me same too, coz we really cant stop what the other party wish to do, if u stopped it will turn out ugly...
but after we support even we not really agree on what they wannt do, all we need is they APPRECIATE our effort, understand why we support them so much...
*touchwood* my gf really appreciate things that ive done.... but as what i can see, mayb your gf oso appreciate wat u did, just that currently she hav some financial problem and that bother much of her thinking now, so she really doesnt mean to say something to hurt you gua....  unsure.gif  unsure.gif
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I know she doens't mean it. But.... sometime it is just too much, and I got feeling too.... sad.gif
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I know she doens't mean it. But.... sometime it is just too much, and I got feeling too.... sad.gif
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i duno izzit most of the girl are like tat.. sometimes when something bothering my gf, her mood will change, say things that kinna rude and yes sometimes hurts me too... but i will have to understand her situation and juz dun add oil into the fire.. normally i will just diam diam let her say watever she wanna say...
after her mood back to normal, she will apologize to me...
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kokuryo,

your action might be correct. can avoid quarrel. however, sometimes, you need to let the girls aware of their mistake too. you get what i mean? sometimes i did that too. my bf will keep quiet. then when i'm calm down, he will say out his feeling and say my wrong doings that i hurt him. i apologize and i try to correct my mistake. he in turn try to guide and of course, gave me time to improve myself.
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Well, also sometimes for us guys, have to look at our luck.. Not trying to be funny here but it's true that sometimes the PMS tend to make the girls emotionally unstable.. That's where our luck runs away.. - Like me two days ago, I just told my gf's mistake but it ended up her being getting hurt by the words I said.. I think I told her too frankly.. But at the same time.. if I were to keep quiet, I'm afraid that problems may occur in the future.. I really want to create as less problem as possible.. Anyway, about the yesterday thing, it was my fault too.. But now at least we got the problem solved.. Anyway, it's all about give and take. - There are limits when it comes to give and take too.. So both sides have to compromise.. The main key thing is communication.. But hey, in this world nothing is perfect though.. Haih....
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Apr 19 2007, 06:02 PM)
kokuryo,

your action might be correct. can avoid quarrel. however, sometimes, you need to let the girls aware of their mistake too. you get what i mean? sometimes i did that too. my bf will keep quiet. then when i'm calm down, he will say out his feeling and say my wrong doings that i hurt him. i apologize and i try to correct my mistake. he in turn try to guide and of course, gave me time to improve myself.
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i agreed with you to let them know their mistake.. but my gf, thatz her style, she behave like that since long time ago and i personality think that dun 'ASK' your lover to change something that is already build inside her... coz she can change now but i think her behavior will still come out 1 coz itz inside her... i will have to learn to accept her behavior to aviod quarrel lo....
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if ur asking my gf, she's Pisces...
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Actually, I dun plan to tell. I am too stress now for my assignment, so decide to have a break and tell you guys my story.

Recently, her house rental increase and she start to face financial problem. I tried to advice her, console her, help her, etc.... In the end... She said I am kaypo. That's the 1st thing. Then I keep quiet and continue my kindness and try to help her... Again, she said none of my business and it is her business. sleep.gif Come on man.. 1 time is enough, 2 times to hurt me? Fine fine fine.. I understand her situation and forget about it... Complained to her that I am unhappy.

Ok, the next day... She told me she wanted to go for cabin crew interview. Although I don't like her doing this work as I know it is very complicated in this line(my brother told me as he was air steward before), but I just support her all the way because I knew I must support her and not to stop her future or her ambition. So, I find all the interview procedure and so on. Told her everything, advice her, blah blah blah... She said it is because of the salary is interesting that's the reason she wanted to go for that interview. But she worried about her future, her studies and so on.. I advice her again... She then she said she will just find a rich man and just marry him. I really got upsad. Come on man... This is not the way to get merajuk, lepas geram also lar not this way. Over the limit already.

Seems like she treat me like outsider. Sigh... I don't know what to say lar... I just tell her she did not respect me at all blah blah blah.... She said it is all because of her 'Qi Hua'(angry word in chinese), but that's not the way.... SIGH

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I can understand your feeling. Well, from what you typed here, I really can say it's really her 'Qi Hua' cause gals tend to say things that they dont really mean at all for e.g. you are kaypoh, none of your business..it's my business or even find a rich man and get married..honestly I will also say those things to my bf too blush.gif It's because gals' behaviours are greatly affected by their feeling at that very moment but after they have calmed down, they will realise automatically their mistakes without need to be told. Joshua, honestly to tell you that sometimes we dont realise that what we are saying will hurt the feeling for those who listen them cause 'shuo zhe wu yi, ting zhe you xin'

Well, like you said, what has been said, cant be taken back. All just depend on both of you on how to mend back the mistakes and you also have to try to forget what has past. Hope that this wont affect the relationship between both of you. Well, my advice to you is that at the time you feel very disappointed with the relationship, why dont sit back and think back on the sweet memories between both of you?For sure, after that, you will think that it's kind of silly to be upset over such small matters nod.gif

Dont be unhappy anymore oh ok smile.gif
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QUOTE(kokuryo @ Apr 19 2007, 09:55 PM)
i agreed with you to let them know their mistake.. but my gf, thatz her style, she behave like that since long time ago and i personality think that dun 'ASK' your lover to change something that is already build inside her... coz she can change now but i think her behavior will still come out 1 coz itz inside her... i will have to learn to accept her behavior to aviod quarrel lo....
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yeah, the changing has to be done by her for HERSELF. not for you. you get what i mean? well, like me, i changed cos i wanna be a better me. cos sometimes, my bf could take my attitude and compromise it but not other people. so it's for my own good also.
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Apr 20 2007, 11:35 AM)
yeah, the changing has to be done by her for HERSELF. not for you. you get what i mean? well, like me, i changed cos i wanna be a better me. cos sometimes, my bf could take my attitude and compromise it but not other people. so it's for my own good also.
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from my understanding, you mean to say girls like to let it all out instead of keeping something inside? words hurt and kill even more when it's being uttered from someone so important to you. *sigh*
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from my understanding, you mean to say girls like to let it all out instead of keeping something inside? words hurt and kill even more when it's being uttered from someone so important to you. *sigh*
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I understand what do you mean but for what I have said just now does not really apply to ALL gals. Some gals will tend to speak out all from their hearts while there are some who tend to keep all those in their heart. But I tell you, it doesnt mean that when the gal prefers to keep all in her heart is better cause it might be more hurtful and killing in the end. Well, you can try to tell them their mistakes after they have calm down and if they really care about you, they are sure willing to change their bad habits smile.gif
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QUOTE(firewire @ Apr 20 2007, 01:03 PM)
from my understanding, you mean to say girls like to let it all out instead of keeping something inside? words hurt and kill even more when it's being uttered from someone so important to you. *sigh*
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Well, it goes with mood and situation. i tend to let all things out if i couldnt handle it myself. but some of the time, i keep it to myself if i know that it would hurt the one whom i love.
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I strongly agree with miyoko.. She's right it depends on the mood and the situation. - You know one different situation can mean a lot of difference when it comes to talking about subjects that might heart one another..
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I just know I am suffering with stress of my assignments. Do not want to bother about relationship already, bother later. But, my heart still uncomfortable... Sigh
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Like read a book...play an instrument...
I find banging on the piano to release tension really helpful..like I play whatever song I feel like playing...
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Why girls really that naughty huh? I really don't understand why.

My gf read what I wrote over here, and she keep on tease me saying my heart uncomfortable, blah blah blah... Asking me whether my heart really uncomfortable blah blah blah....

Really KEK SI WA. It is her to make me like this, and yet she still playing me... rclxub.gif rclxub.gif

Naughty naughty shakehead.gif

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Haha.. Just had a hard time with me and my gf.. We managed solved it now.. Finally she could express herself.. She's doing great when she expressing herself to me that time smile.gif
Anyway here's my only pic with my gf smile.gif It's not nice one hor so paiseh ya blush.gif

Sorry pic deleted coz she doesn't want to show..

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Haha.. Just had a hard time with me and my gf.. We managed solved it now.. Finally she could express herself.. She's doing great when she expressing herself to me that time smile.gif
Anyway here's my only pic with my gf smile.gif It's not nice one hor so paiseh ya  blush.gif
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Guys, for picture you guys upload, I will auto resize and upload to image shack. Reason I do this is because for our convenience sake of thread starter for V4. All he/she need to is COPY PASTE. biggrin.gif
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aiyah, as if I'm not naughty with my bf. XD
my gosh all the innuendo I can come up with in a normal conversation.

I adore him. hahahahaha!!
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aiyah, as if I'm not naughty with my bf. XD
my gosh all the innuendo I can come up with in a normal conversation.

I adore him. hahahahaha!!
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Hehehehe.. so many sweet couple here. Too bad I already broke up, if not I also can join the club and upload blush.gif
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Hehehehe.. so many sweet couple here. Too bad I already broke up, if not I also can join the club and upload blush.gif
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If it is in joking way, of course everyone can take it. Of course we can know when you are joking, and we will of course don't bother or return the 'attack'  tongue.gif
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hey...i am also in an ldr...

got a small problem... lately my gf has been returning to her room late.. like past 2am (i know coz i call her room then no 1 answer, then the following day i ask her what time she come back then she says 2am)... she says that she was in a friends room watching drama and chatting...

would you guys allow your gf to behave like this?? especially since you are so far away and dont know what shes up to.

i dont know but i just cant help felling insecure because of this...

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hey...i am also in an ldr...

got a small problem... lately my gf has been returning to her room late.. like past 2am (i know coz i call her room then no 1 answer, then the following day i ask her what time she come back then she says 2am)... she says that she was in a friends room watching drama and chatting...

would you guys allow your gf to behave like this?? especially since you are so far away and dont know what shes up to.

i dont know but i just cant help felling insecure because of this...
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joking of course. XD
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lelong1234... listen to Joshua's advice... be in LDR, TRUST is vy vy important.. dun ever try control your gf... give her space...
hope she can see your effort and appreciate the relationship..

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Ya in LDR you won't be able to know what's your partner doing and that you must trust your partner and believe what he/she says.. - That's what I'm facing sometimes but after she told me that she gone somewhere then without any hesitation I accepted her explanation.
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lelong1234... listen to Joshua's advice... be in LDR, TRUST is vy vy important.. dun ever try control your gf... give her space...
hope she can see your effort and appreciate the relationship..

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let the gal know u will always be able to get it over with if she leaves u, and make it darn clear that u are able to get better gal than her. then ur relationship is secured
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let the gal know u will always be able to get it over with if she leaves u, and make it darn clear that u are able to get better gal than her. then ur relationship is secured
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sweat.gif sweat.gif I don't think this is a good idea leh. This could lead to misunderstanding and make loved one think you are not serious in the relationship nod.gif
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sweat.gif  sweat.gif  I don't think this is a good idea leh. This could lead to misunderstanding and make loved one think you are not serious in the relationship nod.gif
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QUOTE(lelong1234 @ Apr 22 2007, 10:14 PM)
hey...i am also in an ldr...

got a small problem... lately my gf has been returning to her room late.. like past 2am (i know coz i call her room then no 1 answer, then the following day i ask her what time she come back then she says 2am)... she says that she was in a friends room watching drama and chatting...

would you guys allow your gf to behave like this?? especially since you are so far away and dont know what shes up to.

i dont know but i just cant help felling insecure because of this...
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Guys, I got my gf into trouble accidentally. We were on MSN and I ask her some question, which I don't know she suddenly went toilet and left her MSN on. Her colleague went and read her MSN. mad.gif

And now, she is angry of me..... I feel very 'Nei Jiu' and feel very sorry to her. How? Grrrr... Stupid me....

Recently, she keep on say I ask too much questions, and she said asking much questions will bring trouble. She now blaming me that..... sad.gif
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Aih.. I also sometimes ask her a lot of questions as well.. Many times some more.. - She didn't say anything all she said was 'I don't mind'.. Actually I also know that if I keep on like this she will get annoyed someday.. sad.gif
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Aih.. I also sometimes ask her a lot of questions as well.. Many times some more.. - She didn't say anything all she said was 'I don't mind'.. Actually I also know that if I keep on like this she will get annoyed someday.. sad.gif
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Actually... Mmm... Sometime, I ask some question just to start some topic. As she do not want us always keep quiet on the phone. So...... Haiz....

She now having her bath, she said she got some matter to talk to me sweat.gif Kinda scare now actually sad.gif
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I feel you man.. Same here.. Sometimes I tend to ask her some questions just to start a topic.. - Like few days before.. she sms me telling me that she got something to talk to me.. And I was like, scared.. It was kinda scary when she told me she has got something to tell me and ask me to online.. But phew.. It turned out to be expressing her own feelings which she didn't really do it previously.. So I was like glad that she did that so right now everything is fine now smile.gif
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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Apr 23 2007, 10:49 PM)
Actually... Mmm... Sometime, I ask some question just to start some topic. As she do not want us always keep quiet on the phone. So...... Haiz....

She now having her bath, she said she got some matter to talk to me  sweat.gif  Kinda scare now actually sad.gif
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how how Josh... wat she talked to you???
hope nothing serious....

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Me and my darling taken last month then she won the 1st runner up and miss personality of Miss Tourism Pahang 2007... wub.gif wub.gif wub.gif
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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Apr 23 2007, 09:02 PM)
Guys, I got my gf into trouble accidentally. We were on MSN and I ask her some question, which I don't know she suddenly went toilet and left her MSN on. Her colleague went and read her MSN.  mad.gif

And now, she is angry of me..... I feel very 'Nei Jiu' and feel very sorry to her. How? Grrrr... Stupid me....

Recently, she keep on say I ask too much questions, and she said asking much questions will bring trouble. She now blaming me that..... sad.gif
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actually, it isnt your fault that her colleague saw what you asked in MSN. it's in fact her colleague's fault for going to see her things without your gf's permission.

and believe it or not, it is also your gf's fault for not turning off the screen or her msn chatting before she goes to washroom.

Added on April 24, 2007, 3:21 pmkokuryo...

Aren't so proud of your gf. she's pretty... that's so sweet ... wub.gif


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QUOTE(miyoko @ Apr 24 2007, 03:18 PM)
actually, it isnt your fault that her colleague saw what you asked in MSN. it's in fact her colleague's fault for going to see her things without your gf's permission.

and believe it or not, it is also your gf's fault for not turning off the screen or her msn chatting before she goes to washroom.

Added on April 24, 2007, 3:21 pmkokuryo...

Aren't so proud of your gf. she's pretty... that's so sweet ... wub.gif
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i agreed with miyoko here, it for sure isnt your fault...
thanks for your compliment miyoko... even thou our distance is near now, im in cheras and she in sunway, but we still canot meet each other.. cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif
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definitely not your fault. it's everybody's. One, you shouldn't have asked her the question then. Two, she should have known better than to go to the bathroom without turning off or locking her screen. Three, that stupid nosy colleague it's none of his/her business!
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Apr 24 2007, 04:18 PM)
definitely not your fault. it's everybody's. One, you shouldn't have asked her the question then. Two, she should have known better than to go to the bathroom without turning off or locking her screen. Three, that stupid nosy colleague it's none of his/her business!
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Apr 24 2007, 03:18 PM)
actually, it isnt your fault that her colleague saw what you asked in MSN. it's in fact her colleague's fault for going to see her things without your gf's permission.

and believe it or not, it is also your gf's fault for not turning off the screen or her msn chatting before she goes to washroom.

Added on April 24, 2007, 3:21 pmkokuryo...

Aren't so proud of your gf. she's pretty... that's so sweet ... wub.gif
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i agreed with miyoko here, it for sure isnt your fault...
thanks for your compliment miyoko... even thou our distance is near now, im in cheras and she in sunway, but we still canot meet each other.. cry.gif  cry.gif  cry.gif
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definitely not your fault. it's everybody's. One, you shouldn't have asked her the question then. Two, she should have known better than to go to the bathroom without turning off or locking her screen. Three, that stupid nosy colleague it's none of his/her business!
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yalo... i hate those vy bz body punya people...  vmad.gif  vmad.gif  vmad.gif
spoiled people's life onli....
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If I dun ask, these problem won't occur right?
I didn't think the consequence and ask.

Anyway, yesterday phone call. I nearly can't breath. When I call her, she start the conversation with "Wo Yao Gen Ni Jiang......."(I want to say that.... )... Then she pause. I that time try to be as calm as possible... Told her got anything just say it out.... She then said forget about the matter, let's just hope her colleague didn't say anything. Phew..... Luckily.. I thought she talk about.... Guess? tongue.gif

She scolded me for thinking that 'end' blush.gif

Added on April 24, 2007, 5:56 pmkokuryo, you and your gf photo has been posted in post #1.

Really really sweet couple. I can see your smile with full of TEETH (HAPPINESS) tongue.gif tongue.gif

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Waah.. Really nerve-wrecking leh.. Say wo yao gen ni jiang then pause for while.. For me I will certainly get heart attack.. lol..

Kokuryo, very sweet leh.. Nice photo you got there man haha biggrin.gif
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that's me in the boys' bathroom in school. HAHAHAHA
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.... Nobody was there? Weird... Wahhh really notworthy.gif notworthy.gif

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oh and this has nothing to do with LDRs...but isn't my avatar awesome? XD
that's me in the boys' bathroom in school. HAHAHAHA
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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Apr 24 2007, 08:05 PM)
Waah.. Really nerve-wrecking leh.. Say wo yao gen ni jiang then pause for while.. For me I will certainly get heart attack.. lol..

Kokuryo, very sweet leh.. Nice photo you got there man haha biggrin.gif
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Joshua, thank you too... yeah.. i was pretty excited that time... kekekekek blush.gif blush.gif tongue.gif
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nice photo. i so wanted to do something like that, but i couldnt get a male toilet with no one in it. hahaha... cool. love the posture. hehehe...
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Come to think of it, I was chased out of the ladies before. The makcik tot I'm a guy cry.gif
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doh.gif deng......
Come to think of it, I was chased out of the ladies before. The makcik tot I'm a guy cry.gif
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sweat.gif sweat.gif sweat.gif must be embarrassing... sweat.gif sweat.gif sweat.gif
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me dear's birthday coming! gotta get him present. Suggestions please...
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hehe , this idea used by 1 lyn forumer here ...
make a special glass fame , inside u put in a paper which u use ur creativity to write words on tat paper ..use blink blink shinny stuff , small paper flower to decorate , buy a magnet turtle or magnet flower n (gam)stick it to the paper ..the paper u can use those recycle paper which is very nice , thick thick 1....
u can draw a cute couple on that paper also ..or 2 little "ying yeung duck" in it .. it shows ur sincerity happy.gif
plus u can buy him a small gift , like a man perfume or underwear (u can seek for the shop that do special design too )
make it unique happy.gif

or make his fav food for him ,,he will happy..or home made cake ??
man always like to eat happy.gif

that's just my opinion ler....

Added on April 25, 2007, 1:01 pmwow ~ Miss pahang!! u have pretty gf wo happy.gif kokuryo!! heheh , congrats!!!

Joshua , no need so worry !!
sometimes , gals memang bla 1..dun care tham , say u not caring , care too much ask too much , say u "fan " !
u just do ur best ... okay ??
we here all know u loves n cares her a lot .. n support u for sure !!
who knows she din off her msn ~ cant blame you also ma ~
good luck good luck^_^
not easy to get along ...fall in love is easier o ...

hhhehe , saw some lovely couple pic on the 1st pic ...
i also want to post eerrrr.....



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me dear's birthday coming! gotta get him present. Suggestions please...
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something out of the blue or something conventional ?

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hhhehe , saw some lovely couple pic on the 1st pic ...
i also want to post eerrrr.....
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POST POST POST!! WE WANT TO SEE biggrin.gif

Rena about the thing thing that you described just now I don't understand leh.. Can post a picture?
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QUOTE(Rena_blue @ Apr 25 2007, 12:54 PM)
wow ~ Miss pahang!!  u have pretty gf wo happy.gif kokuryo!! heheh , congrats!!!

hhhehe , saw some lovely couple pic on the 1st pic ...
i also want to post eerrrr.....
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thanks Rene... not miss pahang la.. 1st runner up nia... but no doubt she is lovely for me... and since she got the 1st runner up title, newspapers post her pics up and u know wat coming next... guyssss starting to tackle her... smses, calls etc etc... but she said she gonna prove to me that she is loyal... and i trusted her!!! rolleyes.gif rolleyes.gif rolleyes.gif

come come... we are waiting for your lovely couple pics leh.... kekekek thumbup.gif thumbup.gif
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Joshua , no need so worry !!
sometimes , gals memang bla 1..dun care tham , say u not caring , care too much ask too much , say u "fan " !
u just do ur best ... okay ??


hhhehe , saw some lovely couple pic on the 1st pic ...
i also want to post eerrrr.....
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This is pretty rare. A female who admits the occasional flaws of her own gender (not saying all females are like that). Hats off. smile.gif

Post the pics.
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Haha Kokuryo also need not to worry at all because he has confidence in his gf. - Keep it up man thumbup.gif thumbup.gif
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Haha Kokuryo also need not to worry at all because he has confidence in his gf. - Keep it up man thumbup.gif thumbup.gif
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when she at her hometown we cant see each other.. now both in KL oso cant see each other... even just now saw her oso canot talk to her...
just get a call from her, just back to hotel... she told me she was sooooo surprise i show up there and give her support.... she appreciate it vy vy much and vy vy vy happy... wub.gif wub.gif wub.gif
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Waaah~ Good lor so happy thumbup.gif

Wish I could give her surprise one day
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QUOTE(kokuryo @ Apr 24 2007, 02:36 PM)
Me and my darling taken last month then she won the 1st runner up and miss personality of Miss Tourism Pahang 2007...  wub.gif  wub.gif  wub.gif
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Wahaha you look like hamsaplou smiling smiling like 'haaa i am going to eat this girl tonight' biggrin.gif

no offense yar just saying.

and actual contribution to the thread, well, if your girl* going to go overseas, and she wants to break up with you cos she thinks LDR no hope, let it go and don't bother trying to convince her otherwise, cos in the long run even if u get her to say 'ok la we try' now, when she goes over she'll eventually stop giving a f*ck about you and it'll be gradual one-way-street.

*applies to guys too
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Uh, but this is already LDR thread? Not SDR??
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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Apr 25 2007, 05:47 PM)
Waaah~ Good lor so happy thumbup.gif

Wish I could give her surprise one day
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Yeah..!! later i got a chance to see her again...!!! maybe for a short while.. but it's all worth..!!!

QUOTE(deodorant @ Apr 25 2007, 05:57 PM)
Wahaha you look like hamsaplou smiling smiling like 'haaa i am going to eat this girl tonight' biggrin.gif

no offense yar just saying.
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Uh, but this is already LDR thread? Not SDR??
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Agreed... we are all LDR supporters... kekekekek
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Walao kokuryo, you so excited until can reply every single message ah wah~ notworthy.gif biggrin.gif
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Hi, just to ask around..what do u guys normally talk about in phone with ur LDR partner? I having some problem duno what to talk about in the phone..if i started to talk about my day i scare it might bore her..normally talk about small small thing and then stuck there since she had a very simple life and nothing special happen always..
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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Apr 25 2007, 07:56 PM)
Walao kokuryo, you so excited until can reply every single message ah wah~ notworthy.gif biggrin.gif
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Truly an ldr supporter biggrin.gif
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Being in LDR, have to lo.... right? icon_rolleyes.gif icon_rolleyes.gif

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Hi, just to ask around..what do u guys normally talk about in phone with ur LDR partner? I having some problem duno what to talk about in the phone..if i started to talk about my day i scare it might bore her..normally talk about small small thing and then stuck there since she had a very simple life and nothing special happen always..
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we always tok nonsence tongue.gif tongue.gif tongue.gif
jokes bout any thing...
normally will start with tok bout my day 1st, then start toking nonsence, nonsence will make her laugh and happier... came into my mind 2 days ago when i 3G with her after her training, like normal we joke and she laugh like hell, then her roommate ask her "wa... tok till so happy".. she replied "soli a, we always like that 1..." sweat.gif sweat.gif sweat.gif

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She has been smsing & msging me these few days. She says she's depressed, tired and pressured. All that. She has been complaining about her new bf, this and that.

What can I do?
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QUOTE(knight @ Apr 26 2007, 04:19 AM)
Hi, just to ask around..what do u guys normally talk about in phone with ur LDR partner? I having some problem duno what to talk about in the phone..if i started to talk about my day i scare it might bore her..normally talk about small small thing and then stuck there since she had a very simple life and nothing special happen always..
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For me, we talk about almost everything.. - Sometimes we just paused for quite a while.. Actually it's pretty normal for us.. I mean in LDR we can't really do anything except for this phone, IM, etc.. So whatever is on our mind we talk about it..

QUOTE(jdreamer @ Apr 26 2007, 10:49 AM)
She has been smsing & msging me these few days. She says she's depressed, tired and pressured. All that. She has been complaining about her new bf, this and that.

What can I do?
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I don't know... I never experience that before.. blush.gif
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Apr 26 2007, 10:49 AM)
She has been smsing & msging me these few days. She says she's depressed, tired and pressured. All that. She has been complaining about her new bf, this and that.
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hum... i think she has been comparing you with her current bf... and found out that you are better, mayb iz a hint for u to go and get her back??? hmm.gif hmm.gif hmm.gif
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Apr 26 2007, 10:49 AM)
She has been smsing & msging me these few days. She says she's depressed, tired and pressured. All that. She has been complaining about her new bf, this and that.

What can I do?
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Just don't bother about her and don't think too much. smile.gif
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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Apr 26 2007, 11:04 AM)
For me, we talk about almost everything.. - Sometimes we just paused for quite a while.. Actually it's pretty normal for us.. I mean in LDR we can't really do anything except for this phone, IM, etc.. So whatever is on our mind we talk about it..
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pause for quite awhile...that's what always happen...I dun have a car as I'm not local...I now in KL and she's in Cyber...It's really kinda hard for us to meet. so sometime i just borrow car from my fren but think about fuel really headache as I'm still studying..sad that she dun play IM..so I need to phone her always..
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Apr 26 2007, 10:49 AM)
She has been smsing & msging me these few days. She says she's depressed, tired and pressured. All that. She has been complaining about her new bf, this and that.

What can I do?
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jdreamer, dont care her la! later you made yourself more depressed.
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^^ Good point.

And JT, u deserved a slap from me!
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hehe ...
this is the pic ....
u can't see me also ...
i am so mysterious..nyu nyu nyu nyu laugh.gif
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LDR supporter ....ke ke ke

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I replied her.. Whether I'm fine already or not, I don't think that telling me about him is a good idea still. After all, you leave me for him. So, what do you want me to say? Encourage you to quarrel with him or wish you two good luck? If you understand.

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ahahhahaha you know, there really isn't a point in posting pics if you can't see the faces. XD
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dunwan see face la . uugly ma ..hhaha!!
Jdreamer , just ignore her la...
she dumped u edi!!!!
she dunwan u edi!!!!!
even she comes back to u , u say got meaning or not ? u want ar??
good horse wont eat behind grass!

come on , move on !!
although is hard , u will sad ... "erm gam yuin"
many chics around!! find the good 1 ....good 1 happy.gif ok ???

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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Apr 26 2007, 06:02 PM)
I replied her.. Whether I'm fine already or not, I don't think that telling me about him is a good idea still. After all, you leave me for him. So, what do you want me to say? Encourage you to quarrel with him or wish you two good luck? If you understand.

Then, I ignored her next few sms. Ah, did I make the right move? unsure.gif
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Good job jdreamer!! I am so proud of you! You are telling her the truth and I believe that she will aware that she doesnt really care about your feeling...
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QUOTE(mandysu @ Apr 26 2007, 08:57 PM)
Good job jdreamer!! I am so proud of you! You are telling her the truth and I believe that she will aware that she doesnt really care about your feeling...
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second that... if she can did that to you 1 time, she can do that the 2nd time...
jdreamer, u did the right thing... thumbup.gif thumbup.gif thumbup.gif
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Thanks for the advise and support. Walking on...
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ahahhahaha you know, there really isn't a point in posting pics if you can't see the faces. XD
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QUOTE(firewire @ Apr 26 2007, 11:30 PM)
i guess joshua showed a very bad example laugh.gif
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Yeah.. Joshua.. Your fault! laugh.gif
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QUOTE(kokuryo @ Apr 27 2007, 09:40 AM)
lol.... Joshua, time to put a pic with face liao...  thumbup.gif  thumbup.gif  thumbup.gif  tongue.gif
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Anyway, sorry lar guys... If want to put pic with face, I put my pic only, can? blush.gif

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Haha.. Don't lar put all the blame on me. I wish to, but my gf doesn't want to. I told you guys that my gf will come to this lowyat and read this thread for fun sometime, remember?

Anyway, sorry lar guys... If want to put pic with face, I put my pic only, can?  blush.gif
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u all ar ..kepoh ppl face look 1 wo >.< unsure.gif
good good wanna show the closeness n "art" of taking pic also canot >.< cry.gif
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Don't get it why you people are so scared to put your faces up. Y'all know each other no? It;s not like everyone's got a conspiracy against you.
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ofcoz can la... lol.... sensored your gf face mai ok lo...  sweat.gif  sweat.gif
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LoL. Don't want.

QUOTE(Rena_blue @ Apr 27 2007, 12:51 PM)
u all ar ..kepoh ppl face look 1 wo >.< unsure.gif
good good wanna show the closeness n "art" of taking pic also canot >.< cry.gif
later i put a panda pic with me ... icon_idea.gif
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I saw the art. Couple t-shirt. Sweet. I and my gf also have one. But she doesn't like to wear together, she just too shy.... laugh.gif

Okok, better than nothing.. rclxms.gif

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QUOTE(darklight79 @ Apr 27 2007, 01:04 PM)
Don't get it why you people are so scared to put your faces up. Y'all know each other no? It;s  not like everyone's got a conspiracy against you.
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There are too many reason... Especially online. smile.gif

Even offline, people just don't simply show pic or give pic wink.gif
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There are too many reason... Especially online. smile.gif

Even offline, people just don't simply show pic or give pic wink.gif
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Ok, well that's your reason. Our Health section, we post our face pics in there a lot. We're all friends over there. No problems there. I think it's lovely to see couple pics. Pictures say a thousand words with just watching the expressions of bliss on their faces.
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QUOTE(darklight79 @ Apr 27 2007, 01:08 PM)
Ok, well that's your reason. Our Health section, we post our face pics in there a lot. We're all friends over there. No problems there. I think it's lovely to see couple pics. Pictures say a thousand words with just watching the expressions of bliss on their faces.
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All those muscle pic? Later will go and see... Nice body you have....
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All those muscle pic? Later will go and see... Nice body you have....
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Thanks bro. No, not only body pics. We have pretty regular gatherings although i haven't been to an official one yet, just met one or 2 Health regs at a time. I'm going for the one this Saturday thoguh. At Williams. We've got a progress pic thread there, so quite a lot of the member's faces are there.

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hehe ...
this is the pic ....
u can't see me also ...
i am so mysterious..nyu nyu nyu nyu laugh.gif
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For example, if you actually had faces in there instead of looking like someone chopped off your heads, it would've looked a lot better. I'll bet both of your expressions would be pretty sweet with both of you holding each other like that.

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QUOTE(darklight79 @ Apr 27 2007, 01:12 PM)
Thanks bro. No, not only body pics. We have pretty regular gatherings although i haven't been to an official one yet, just met one or 2 Health regs at a time. I'm going for the one this Saturday thoguh. At Williams. We've got a progress pic thread there, so quite a lot of the member's faces are there.

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For example, if you actually had faces in there instead of looking like someone chopped off your heads, it would've looked a lot better. I'll bet both of your expressions would be pretty sweet with both of you holding each other like that.
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You're being an idiot. I'm talking about them posting couple (gf/bf) pics. What has that got to do with conversion of any kind? You know what's your problem? You read posts too fast and jump to conclusions at the speed of light. Who said anything about asking them to take body shots?

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my hamster babie just died ><
n his/her family eat it ...

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ok.. i think iz time to put a full stop on this..
i think iz ok if a person decided not to put pics with faces... it'z their own rights...
just do watever u think iz ok for you.. PEACE.. icon_rolleyes.gif icon_rolleyes.gif icon_rolleyes.gif

Lets back to LDR topic... rclxms.gif rclxms.gif

actually i hav a small prob now.. i duno can that consider as a prob as it doesnt reli affect our relationship... we all know that LDR is hard to maintain.. but LDR + a high profile gf sweat.gif sweat.gif sweat.gif
last time a lot of guys try to tackle my gf.. but after she won the 1st runner up and now going for miss tourism malaysia, her face is on the paper more often... and those jokers trying to do stupid things to shake our relationship... mad.gif mad.gif

she getting unknown callers toking craps, unknown smses and not only that.. recently there is a friendster fwd msg insulting me as well... but there is where all the trust, believe and understanding kicked in... i told her bout the fwd msg and she said she believe in me.. she said 1 thing that i feel so warm in my heart... she said: Those jokers 'pandang ringan' in our relationship... wub.gif wub.gif wub.gif

this is the consequences to have a high profile gf... unsure.gif unsure.gif

I just wanna thank her for all the believes in this relationship... thumbup.gif thumbup.gif

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my hamster babie just died ><
n his/her family eat it ...
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i heard iz normal.. how many weeks is the babie? i heard their parents will eat their babies if they found out that they canot take care too many or them... duno izzit true... sweat.gif sweat.gif sweat.gif

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Nice!!! Go get 'em tiger!

Btw, she's beautiful.

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Nice!!! Go get 'em tiger!

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Haha here she is:-

LDR too. I get to see her just once or twice a week. Maybe even less. No possessiveness involved, no problems with trust, and total freedom within limits of respect.

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QUOTE(darklight79 @ Apr 27 2007, 04:06 PM)
Haha here she is:-

LDR too. I get to see her just once or twice a week. Maybe even less. No possessiveness involved, no problems with trust, and total freedom within limits of respect.

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Haha here she is:-

LDR too. I get to see her just once or twice a week. Maybe even less. No possessiveness involved, no problems with trust, and total freedom within limits of respect.
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This couple had been seperated by 400km for 5 years and yet they made it to meet 2days a week! Been married lately!
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Wow good to hear that smile.gif Gratz man GRATZ biggrin.gif rclxms.gif

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Bro, is your girl name Radiance Leong? sweat.gif
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Who is she btw?

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Haha here she is:-

LDR too. I get to see her just once or twice a week. Maybe even less. No possessiveness involved, no problems with trust, and total freedom within limits of respect.

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Hottie spotted!!! Beauty and the beast.. I mean buffed... rclxms.gif
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Wooo nice pics.!! Wow..this thread already reached version 3 liao!! Congrats man.. and keep on going all of you

Me.. I don't know if I was in version 1 or not.. but I was in an LDR 2 years ago..for about 2 years. I still miss her and I think that maybe I still love her. Although a lot of things have passed..I had a gf after we broke up..but it just wasn't the same as my ex. sad.gif Now I'm single again.. She's single too..We're both communicating.. but don't know how it's going to work out. Any thoughts, questions?
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Guys, is there anything you can do when you really feel like hugging your partner?
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Guys, is there anything you can do when you really feel like hugging your partner?
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QUOTE(darklight79 @ Apr 27 2007, 09:08 PM)
Ok. This is like the 3rd time people have asked me this. No, no and i repeat, no! Lol.

Who is she btw?

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Thanks bro. She's one of the blessings in my life.
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She is someone from Penang.

The 1st time doesn't look like her, but the 2nd pic really do look like her.
I think I have ask u before, do I? blush.gif

http://www.friendster.com/user.php?statpos=bc&uid=3246569
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She is someone from Penang.

The 1st time doesn't look like her, but the 2nd pic really do look like her.
I think I have ask u before, do I? blush.gif

http://www.friendster.com/user.php?statpos=bc&uid=3246569
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Haha. Ok ok. I admit there's a slight resemblance I guess.

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Wooo nice pics.!! Wow..this thread already reached version 3 liao!! Congrats man.. and keep on going all of you

Me.. I don't know if I was in version 1 or not.. but I was in an LDR 2 years ago..for about 2 years. I still miss her and I think that maybe I still love her. Although a lot of things have passed..I had a gf after we broke up..but it just wasn't the same as my ex. sad.gif Now I'm single again.. She's single too..We're both communicating.. but don't know how it's going to work out. Any thoughts, questions?
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Guys, is there anything you can do when you really feel like hugging your partner?
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i feel the same way too... even she is in sunway now oso I CANT fill up the petrol and ready for a ride..! sigh.... cry.gif cry.gif but we are in 3G.. but i reli wanan hug her... icon_question.gif icon_question.gif icon_question.gif
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Okay...I've got something for you guys. Need advice.

So you all know I've been in a long distance relationship for about a little over four months now...and it's been going pretty okay. My bf and I play Warcraft III DotA together...and last night was one of those nights. After the game, he started to tell me off about my attitude and how I didn't listen to him when he told me which items to buy first. It escalated into a big argument. No worries, slept on it and we're okay again today.

Then we get on the subject of my two tattoos and the two piercings that I'm planning to get when I get back to KL. Turns out he doesn't like one of the piercings that I want to get (rook) and says it's disgusting. Just the other day too, he was telling me No Physical Contact With Any Other Guys.

Is it just me, or is he getting a little more possessive and irritating me?
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Ahh.. Ok, you do know that a girl-boy relationship only involves 2 person.. - He told you he doesn't like one of the piercings that you wanted to get, and IMHO maybe you could compromise a little with him and select the other one? He told you that he only doesn't like ONE of the piercings and not totally disallowing you to have piercings.. Just my 2 cents smile.gif

Ok, when it comes to this some guys are quite possessive(like me) but I'm not saying that your partner is possessive, for me I'm not very clear with your partner's definition of 'No physical contact with other guys' because for me there are lots meaning for some people.. - Have you asked him what he really meant by this word?

Anyway, just my 2 cents not sure whether it helps.. So Good luck! smile.gif

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Okay...I've got something for you guys. Need advice.

So you all know I've been in a long distance relationship for about a little over four months now...and it's been going pretty okay. My bf and I play Warcraft III DotA together...and last night was one of those nights. After the game, he started to tell me off about my attitude and how I didn't listen to him when he told me which items to buy first. It escalated into a big argument. No worries, slept on it and we're okay again today.

Then we get on the subject of my two tattoos and the two piercings that I'm planning to get when I get back to KL. Turns out he doesn't like one of the piercings that I want to get (rook) and says it's disgusting. Just the other day too, he was telling me No Physical Contact With Any Other Guys.

Is it just me, or is he getting a little more possessive and irritating me?
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I...... think the no physical contact with other guys may be fine, but it's all relative. About the rest, he's being a d!ck. It's YOUR body, you have every right to do what you want with it and he should respect that.
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I thought so. I understand the no physical contact with other guys...but I thought that it's MY body and I can do whatever I please with it. He said he thinks they're disgusting and look very painful so he doesn't want me to get them...

...when I've been wanting to get them for a year now.
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What kind of physical contact? Pat at the shoulder, touch your hair, hold your hands?

Hmm.. if normal physical contact, it should be fine right?

For the stuff that you wanna buy, just go for it.
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What kind of physical contact? Pat at the shoulder, touch your hair, hold your hands?

Hmm.. if normal physical contact, it should be fine right?

For the stuff that you wanna buy, just go for it.
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it was to the point I couldn't hug other guys..but I told him off about it. It's like he didn't trust me anymore...and that bugged me.
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Apr 29 2007, 10:32 PM)
it was to the point I couldn't hug other guys..but I told him off about it. It's like he didn't trust me anymore...and that bugged me.
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actually for me this is no right / wrong answer.. iz all bout tolerate.. give and take kinna thing.. you both are 2 individual and for sure there is something that your partner dun like bout each other.. so iz the matter of either he have to understand you and just love the way you are OR you have to understand him and stop hugging guys...

juz my 2 cents..
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actually for me this is no right / wrong answer.. iz all bout tolerate.. give and take kinna thing.. you both are 2 individual and for sure there is something that your partner dun like bout each other.. so iz the matter of either he have to understand you and just love the way you are OR you have to understand him and stop hugging guys...
That's what I'm trying to say............... laugh.gif

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thanks. I know that already...but I think he's being a little bit too much sometimes. *sigh*
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Ooh.. like this ah... then it's up to you then.. Haha I don't know whatelse to say but good luck to you! smile.gif
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thanks. I know that already...but I think he's being a little bit too much sometimes. *sigh*
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actually is there anything that u stopped him for doing something that u dun like?
did he actually stopped? iz same thing... he might think u r too much oso but as i said, GIVE AND TAKE...
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Apr 26 2007, 10:49 AM)
She has been smsing & msging me these few days. She says she's depressed, tired and pressured. All that. She has been complaining about her new bf, this and that.

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you dont have to do anything. the fact is that she left you for this guy whom she think is better than you. so what's with the complaining? made me wonder whether she got complain about you to other guy who have feeling for her or not when you guys are together. i totally feel that complaing about current bf to an ex-bf is totally wrong. no respect at all, both to the ex-bf and bf. she's really got attitude problem.

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I replied her.. Whether I'm fine already or not, I don't think that telling me about him is a good idea still. After all, you leave me for him. So, what do you want me to say? Encourage you to quarrel with him or wish you two good luck? If you understand.

Then, I ignored her next few sms. Ah, did I make the right move? unsure.gif
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yeah, correct, you absolutely have the right to ignore her stupid sms complaining about bf to you. you have no obligation to reply to her.

QUOTE(spunkberry @ Apr 29 2007, 05:27 PM)
Okay...I've got something for you guys. Need advice.

So you all know I've been in a long distance relationship for about a little over four months now...and it's been going pretty okay. My bf and I play Warcraft III DotA together...and last night was one of those nights. After the game, he started to tell me off about my attitude and how I didn't listen to him when he told me which items to buy first. It escalated into a big argument. No worries, slept on it and we're okay again today.

Then we get on the subject of my two tattoos and the two piercings that I'm planning to get when I get back to KL. Turns out he doesn't like one of the piercings that I want to get (rook) and says it's disgusting. Just the other day too, he was telling me No Physical Contact With Any Other Guys.

Is it just me, or is he getting a little more possessive and irritating me?
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Apr 29 2007, 10:32 PM)
it was to the point I couldn't hug other guys..but I told him off about it. It's like he didn't trust me anymore...and that bugged me.
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erm... i think about tattooing and piercing, your bf can give his opinion, but it's absolutely your decision on your body. he gotta respect you decision. whether he likes it or not, he gotta learn to accept it cos it is how you think and how you see things. respecting each others decision and respecting each other's different point of view is really important. maybe you ought to talk to him nicely about this.

As to him stopping you from hugging other guy, what kind of hugging do you mean? is it placing the hand on the shoulder type of hugging or hugging front to front, or romantic kind of hugging, or friendly hug. well, i guess, this you gotta try to judge for yourself. there some kind of hugging or physical contact that you might think is OK, but he think is being not respectful of him. so, what you ought to do is compromise. i wish you all the best yeah.
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thanks. I know that already...but I think he's being a little bit too much sometimes. *sigh*
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Tell him to stop being such a control freak. Over possessive guys are a major turn off to a lot of women and screws up relationships, period. I never ever tell my girl how to dress or what not to do with her body. Mutual respect is very important in a relationship and your guy needs to learn some of that respect.


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QUOTE(darklight79 @ Apr 30 2007, 12:00 PM)
Tell him to stop being such a control freak. Over possessive guys are a major turn off to a lot of women and screws up relationships, period. I never ever tell my girl how to dress or what not to do with her body. Mutual respect is very important in a relationship and your guy needs to learn some of that respect.
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QUOTE(kokuryo @ Apr 30 2007, 12:09 PM)
actually is there anything that u stopped him for doing something that u dun like?
did he actually stopped? iz same thing... he might think u r too much oso but as i said, GIVE AND TAKE...
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No, I've never told him what not to do.

Physical contact by him meant all sorts of touching with other guys, including arm around the shoulder, friendly hugging and all that...which I thought was over the line. I talked to him about that, and he's withdrawn the order.

I have two tattoos, one on my lower back and one on my ankle. I currently have four ear piercings and will want to get two more the next time I'm back in KL. One of these piercings (rook piercing as mentioned) is the one he said was "disgusting" and asked me if I would still get it even if he didn't approve. I said yes.

I'm not one who likes being controlled or restricted. I know my limits and I stick to them. I don't need someone else to tell me those limitations. He IS a possessive person, and maybe the thing that makes us so different is that I'm English ed and he's Chinese Ed.

I don't discriminate nor want to stereotype, but there ARE differences between the two eds and you can tell.
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No, I've never told him what not to do.

Physical contact by him meant all sorts of touching with other guys, including arm around the shoulder, friendly hugging and all that...which I thought was over the line. I talked to him about that, and he's withdrawn the order.

I have two tattoos, one on my lower back and one on my ankle. I currently have four ear piercings and will want to get two more the next time I'm back in KL. One of these piercings (rook piercing as mentioned) is the one he said was "disgusting" and asked me if I would still get it even if he didn't approve. I said yes.

I'm not one who likes being controlled or restricted. I know my limits and I stick to them. I don't need someone else to tell me those limitations. He IS a possessive person, and maybe the thing that makes us so different is that I'm English ed and he's Chinese Ed.

I don't discriminate nor want to stereotype, but there ARE differences between the two eds and you can tell.
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Apr 30 2007, 12:13 PM)
No, I've never told him what not to do.

Physical contact by him meant all sorts of touching with other guys, including arm around the shoulder, friendly hugging and all that...which I thought was over the line. I talked to him about that, and he's withdrawn the order.

I have two tattoos, one on my lower back and one on my ankle. I currently have four ear piercings and will want to get two more the next time I'm back in KL. One of these piercings (rook piercing as mentioned) is the one he said was "disgusting" and asked me if I would still get it even if he didn't approve. I said yes.

I'm not one who likes being controlled or restricted. I know my limits and I stick to them. I don't need someone else to tell me those limitations. He IS a possessive person, and maybe the thing that makes us so different is that I'm English ed and he's Chinese Ed.

I don't discriminate nor want to stereotype, but there ARE differences between the two eds and you can tell.
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since you have made up your decision, then try to talk to him nicely lorr... sure will ok geh...

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Yalor.. Aih, why ask us for advice leh.. I mean you could but it already seems like you made up your mind.. - We CAN give you opinions.. Not to offend you la.. Just wondering why only.. anyway spunk since you made up your mind then do what you should do lor.. But one thing in reminder is TRY NOT TO ARGUE AND ALWAYS REMEMBER TO HAVE SOME COMPROMISE IF YOU CAN

IMHO, since you two now are having different view I kinda have the feeling of uhh arguement.. so CALM DOWN smile.gif
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sad.gif I guess i won't be getting that tattoo shot.
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Apr 30 2007, 12:13 PM)
No, I've never told him what not to do.

Physical contact by him meant all sorts of touching with other guys, including arm around the shoulder, friendly hugging and all that...which I thought was over the line. I talked to him about that, and he's withdrawn the order.

I have two tattoos, one on my lower back and one on my ankle. I currently have four ear piercings and will want to get two more the next time I'm back in KL. One of these piercings (rook piercing as mentioned) is the one he said was "disgusting" and asked me if I would still get it even if he didn't approve. I said yes.

I'm not one who likes being controlled or restricted. I know my limits and I stick to them. I don't need someone else to tell me those limitations. He IS a possessive person, and maybe the thing that makes us so different is that I'm English ed and he's Chinese Ed.

I don't discriminate nor want to stereotype, but there ARE differences between the two eds and you can tell.
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Ah.. physical contact is ok lah.. but not too extreme. My ex dun like me to have close physical contact with guy or gals.. sweat.gif But I still do, dun let her know can already. Hehe.. right now I have freedom coz I'm single tongue.gif

Same like u, I have 8 piercings on my ear itself. Have a tattoo on my back. And might be getting one on my arms. My ex ok with those, as long as I dun have close physical contact with people.

QUOTE(darklight79 @ Apr 30 2007, 01:09 PM)
sad.gif I guess i won't be getting that tattoo shot.
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QUOTE(suiteng @ Apr 30 2007, 02:39 PM)
Ah.. physical contact is ok lah.. but not too extreme. My ex dun like me to have close physical contact with guy or gals..  sweat.gif But I still do, dun let her know can already. Hehe.. right now I have freedom coz I'm single tongue.gif

Same like u, I have 8 piercings on my ear itself. Have a tattoo on my back. And might be getting one on my arms. My ex ok with those, as long as I dun have close physical contact with people.
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Ah.. physical contact is ok lah.. but not too extreme. My ex dun like me to have close physical contact with guy or gals..  sweat.gif But I still do, dun let her know can already. Hehe.. right now I have freedom coz I'm single tongue.gif

Same like u, I have 8 piercings on my ear itself. Have a tattoo on my back. And might be getting one on my arms. My ex ok with those, as long as I dun have close physical contact with people.
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i want! i want!  drool.gif  drool.gif
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i dont have one, though i wanna have one. i'm still looking for a nice pattern and gathering my courage to have it done. i'm very damn afraid of pain. hahaha... i know i'm gonna love it when it's done.
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Apr 30 2007, 03:55 PM)
i dont have one, though i wanna have one. i'm still looking for a nice pattern and gathering my courage to have it done. i'm very damn afraid of pain. hahaha... i know i'm gonna love it when it's done.
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yeah I suppose I'm gonna calm down for abit...

I reckon i'm better off single for life though.

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jahahhaha miyoko dear, I'm deathly afraid of pain too...but I got two done. smile.gif
yeah I suppose I'm gonna calm down for abit...

I reckon i'm better off single for life though.
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I got your pm. That's very good stuff! They look great on you. My sis has got a gothic design in the middle of her back, something with a red rose. It's pretty big though not as large as your design.
All i can say is you know what to do with your body and it shows well. Your bf must be blind not to appreciate what you've done to enhance its appearance. Great work!
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I got your pm. That's very good stuff! They look great on you. My sis has got a gothic design in the middle of her back, something with a red rose. It's pretty big though not as large as your design.
All i can say is you know what to do with your body and it shows well. Your bf must be blind not to appreciate what you've done to enhance its appearance. Great work!
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Thanks a lot. smile.gif

you know what my bf says? he got jealous cos my tattoo artist is/was a guy. *sigh* I don't know what to do with him sometimes. He loves me for who I am...but he gets jealous and possessive really easily. Sometimes I feel like just running off...not with someone else, just RUNNING OFF.
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Thanks a lot. smile.gif

you know what my bf says? he got jealous cos my tattoo artist is/was a guy. *sigh* I don't know what to do with him sometimes. He loves me for who I am...but he gets jealous and possessive really easily. Sometimes I feel like just running off...not with someone else, just RUNNING OFF.
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Your bf seems to have some serious insecurity issues if he cannot trust a guy who's profession is to tattoo designs on your body. Lol. you need to have a serious talk with him before it starts boiling over and believe me you don't want that. I sent you a pm. Take it easy babe. You'll be fine. You can talk to me anytime.
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Apr 30 2007, 06:33 PM)
jahahhaha miyoko dear, I'm deathly afraid of pain too...but I got two done. smile.gif
yeah I suppose I'm gonna calm down for abit...

I reckon i'm better off single for life though.
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My friend had it done in Japan. The design is super nice. I wanna have a butterfly design. been looking through around KL, but didnt seems to find a nice design and i didnt get a shop which i have faith on. hehehe... most of the time, i got chicken out cos i'm afraid of pain. hahaha... malu...

hey, i want a photo of your tattoo too! send it to my PM, yeah. thanks.
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QUOTE(miyoko @ May 1 2007, 06:47 PM)
My friend had it done in Japan. The design is super nice. I wanna have a butterfly design. been looking through around KL, but didnt seems to find a nice design and i didnt get a shop which i have faith on. hehehe... most of the time, i got chicken out cos i'm afraid of pain. hahaha... malu...

hey, i want a photo of your tattoo too! send it to my PM, yeah. thanks.
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I specifically avoided butterflies and roses and scorpions cos EVERYBODY gets those...it's boring now. lol
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See my friendster for my tattoo shot lor.. It was taken when ngam ngam done so a bit bruised tongue.gif Now it looks much better.

BTW, no worries about those who don't appreciate you. They will regret it. Be yourself.
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I specifically avoided butterflies and roses and scorpions cos EVERYBODY gets those...it's boring now. lol
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I wanna have something that me/my dear design for me. waiting for him to have the mood to start designing for me. i'm not artistic, but he is. My friend's a butterfly, but she designed it herself. so very special and pretty.
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QUOTE(miyoko @ May 2 2007, 04:02 PM)
I wanna have something that me/my dear design for me. waiting for him to have the mood to start designing for me. i'm not artistic, but he is. My friend's a butterfly, but she designed it herself. so very special and pretty.
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hey Ive sent you my tats. )
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Haha. Talk talk talk till tatoo pulak... whistling.gif
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Why not we start a new topic? Let's get retarded yeah~!

So, this question goes to everyone in LDR, what's your age now?

Just curious wanted to know just for fun.. Nothing else.. laugh.gif
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Spunkberry,
nice tattoo you've got there. Big one too. I dont intend to get a big one. hehe... just a small one smile.gif
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I also want the tattoo shot sad.gif
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tatoo pulak here...if later dun like the tatoo edi , bored with it edi ..have to "delete" susah lo ...hohohoho....

Bluewind , i am 20 yrold.

2 days holiday,how u spend it o ?with gf or without gf there?
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Rena, haha I spend my holiday without my gf lor.. smile.gif

You leh? How did you spend your holiday with or without your bf? smile.gif

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Wow... spunkberry's tattoo looks nice~
I'm 21 years old and 60 months.

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Hey guys and gals, have you all receive any news from trafox?
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Oh ya, trafox is gone.. Hmm.. maybe busy with gf..
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must really suck y'know, losing someone...

I lost my great grand-aunt to a sudden heart attack on the 2nd day of CNY. The thing that hit me the most was that I talked to her the day before.
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hope her condition is better now ^^

Suiteng ,clever ar!! " 21 yrs old n 60 months "

bluewind , me too ..but din go anywhere ....>.<
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I was in shock. I was just walking around the house in shock.
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My aunty passed away yesterday morning.. guess the last time I saw her alive was when I hold her hand and stroke her forehead a few hours before that..
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I am actually waiting for miyoko couple picture. She pretends not to say anything and thought we don't know also... whistling.gif

MIYOKO... your pic!!! come come... rclxms.gif
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ahahhaa I might wanna change mine. XD
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spunkberry- r u studying in japan? wat course? (i m curious bcos not many msians go there for studies)

btw, u n ur bf look lovely in the couple pics!!! make me feel like getting a bf too..haha
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Ya hor, MIYOKO~ LAI LAI dun be scared~ PICTURE~ biggrin.gif
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QUOTE(Elephant^^ @ May 5 2007, 07:42 PM)
spunkberry- r u studying in japan? wat course? (i m curious bcos not many msians go there for studies)

btw, u n ur bf look lovely in the couple pics!!! make me feel like getting a bf too..haha
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I'm in my final year of high school (I came here in 2004). In the middle of exams right now smile.gif I did the International Baccalaureate course...google it and you'll know it's HELL...

and about my bf...I've decided I'm going to end us before I leave for America. It's for the best...sad.gif

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Ok.. Sounds like you already made your final decision spunk, I shall support you then. - Anyway, spunk I wish you good luck in your future and for U.S. smile.gif

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Honestly...at this point, I feel like the spark's gone. Maybe it'll come back when I See him...I dunno..
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That happens most of the time, especially in LDR... Many problems la to be honest..
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ofcoz LDR many problems.. but i believe many of us can take the challenge!!!...

rclxm9.gif rclxm9.gif rclxm9.gif rclxm9.gif I AM GETTING MARRY!!!!!!! rclxm9.gif rclxm9.gif rclxm9.gif rclxm9.gif

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ofcoz LDR many problems.. but i believe many of us can take the challenge!!!...

rclxm9.gif  rclxm9.gif  rclxm9.gif  rclxm9.gif I AM GETTING MARRY!!!!!!!  rclxm9.gif  rclxm9.gif  rclxm9.gif  rclxm9.gif

she was just so touched.....  icon_idea.gif  icon_idea.gif  icon_idea.gif  icon_idea.gif  icon_idea.gif
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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ May 7 2007, 11:14 AM)
Yooooo dude... CONGRATE~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Remember to open table for we forumer over here o.....  biggrin.gif
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hum.... mayb no wedding dinner ler... coz both family oso dun wanna 'fan' on the wedding dinner... mayb just open house on both sides onli... so can save more money for honeymoon... kekekek honeymoon might be Maldives / Italy... icon_idea.gif icon_idea.gif icon_idea.gif

or u guys have any ideal place for honeymoon ??
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Wow.. Another happy ending for an LDR story smile.gif

Dude CONGRATULATIONS MAN!! biggrin.gif

When I read that Kokuryo is getting married I was like wow happy ending.. Hopefully we can be like you one day man smile.gif


Spunk, just one question how long have you been with your partner? Just my curiosity..

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ May 7 2007, 11:50 AM)
Wow.. Another happy ending for an LDR story smile.gif

Dude CONGRATULATIONS MAN!! biggrin.gif

When I read that Kokuryo is getting married I was like wow happy ending.. Hopefully we can be like you one day man smile.gif
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Edit: 1st pic: This is the Ring. I shoot this Ring, edit it and put in a poem, develop this pic in A4 size and laminate it... I put this pic togather with the ring itself when i proposed... keekekeke
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Waah.. Very touching ler.. Anyway, you opened another chapter of your life with your partner liao and can end the LDR chapter ya? smile.gif
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Waah.. Very touching ler.. Anyway, you opened another chapter of your life with your partner liao and can end the LDR chapter ya? smile.gif
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.... lol but still you both tie the knot smile.gif
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hi all , this was my first post on LDR thread actually i wanna start a relationship with a girl that live at sabah n i stay at k.l today we start sms each other n last time we chat on msn. LDR really hard to maintain? sorry this was my first LDR n my first love if success tackle her , she know i like her n she also got feel on me . but she say distance problem i told her i like u distance doesn't matter. so anyone can give me so opinion?
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QUOTE(BlueWind @ May 7 2007, 01:32 PM)
.... lol but still you both tie the knot smile.gif
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QUOTE(ericsoon @ May 7 2007, 01:40 PM)
hi all , this was my first post on LDR thread actually i wanna start a relationship with a girl that live at sabah n i stay at k.l today we start sms each other n last time we chat on msn. LDR really hard to maintain? sorry this was my first LDR n my first love if success tackle her ,  she know i like her n she also got feel on me . but she say distance problem i told her i like u distance doesn't matter. so anyone can give me so opinion?
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Well, yeah LDR is hard to maintain. - As you know it requires lots of patience commitments and things like that.. So if you both are really ready to commit this then I will say give it a try, but if the other side isn't ready yet then don't force her.. You know la SDR or LDR both need two sides to maintain it.. To be honest, this is my first love and it is also my first LDR, but we've been together for almost 9 months and we want to keep it going even though our future is uncertain but we still want it because if we really can manage to go through this I believe our story will be like Kokuryo's one smile.gif

Good luck man~ smile.gif


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hehehe... me paiseh to post my picture leh... dont want lah... can ah?
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I am in Spore n my GF in KL. We have been together for 8months. It is hard. Before i started it i thought distance is not a problem, but in fact it will start to have effect on us even though we meet once a month. I wud say try to avoid LDR if u can or be ready for the hard future ahead. It takes more and more courage as time goes by. G luck!
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hehehe... me paiseh to post my picture leh... dont want lah... can ah?
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QUOTE(Futurisco @ May 7 2007, 03:00 PM)
I am in Spore n my GF in KL. We have been together for 8months. It is hard. Before i started it i thought distance is not a problem, but in fact it will start to have effect on us even though we meet once a month. I wud say try to avoid LDR if u can or be ready for the hard future ahead. It takes more and more courage as time goes by. G luck!
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hehehe congrats kokuryo. to be honest, marriage scares the crap outta me. XD
but I do sometimes dream of a romantic proposal and planning my wedding...

Nuh-uh. Scares the crap outta me. XD
Or even if I do get married, I don't want kids.

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kokuryo,
congratulation! and celebration! really sweet of you and really very nice ring you've got there.

BlueWind,
dont like that lah... it's not that i dont wanna let you guys see my photo. it's just that i dont feel comfortable posting photo's into open cyberspace. ehehe...
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hehehe congrats kokuryo. to be honest, marriage scares the crap outta me. XD
but I do sometimes dream of a romantic proposal and planning my wedding...

Nuh-uh. Scares the crap outta me. XD
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QUOTE(kokuryo @ May 7 2007, 02:09 PM)
Yeah... ur right..!  icon_idea.gif  icon_idea.gif  icon_idea.gif
Well, hard to maintain if you think iz hard... LDR need a lot of TRUST and UNDERSTANDING... if you both trusted each other then just go ahead... Good Luck !!
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ya , trust n understand is the main problem . anyway is good to have a try on it . smile.gif
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Haha, miyoko I'm not that unreasonable one la. - I understand geh, I was just joking anyway haha smile.gif

Oh well, who says being a parent to a kid is easy huh? XD


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oh and people...I've broken up with my bf. sad.gif
I just didn't love him in that special way anymore...
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ May 8 2007, 09:51 PM)
oh and people...I've broken up with my bf. sad.gif
I just didn't love him in that special way anymore...
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Do you know what you talking about? In just such a short period?
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Do you know what you talking about? In just such a short period?
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yes I know what I'm talking about. I've been thinking about it for a very long time...and right now I'm feeling really down about it because I wanted it to work. but 1. the distance is proving too much...and 2. he was getting on my nerves a lot lately.

I'm just really REALLY down right now...but I know it's for the best because it's unfair to him to have it so one-sided. Just...*sigh*..I love him very much...but there's a different tone to it now...sad.gif sad.gif

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Frankly speaking I don't think you really love him. No offence though, I mean love someone don't really need the SPECIAL way to love someone..
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ May 8 2007, 10:51 PM)
yes I know what I'm talking about. I've been thinking about it for a very long time...and right now I'm feeling really down about it because I wanted it to work. but 1. the distance is proving too much...and 2. he was getting on my nerves a lot lately.

I'm just really REALLY down right now...but I know it's for the best because it's unfair to him to have it so one-sided. Just...*sigh*..I love him very much...but there's a different tone to it now...sad.gif sad.gif
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Sigh. What is done is done. Carry on with your life. If you guys have the fate, you guys will be together again. smile.gif
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QUOTE(BlueWind @ May 8 2007, 11:53 PM)
Frankly speaking I don't think you really love him. No offence though, I mean love someone don't really need the SPECIAL way to love someone..
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that's just it. I love him, but I also know that I don't love him enough to stay with him like this for any longer. Thanks BlueWind smile.gif
but now I just need time to get over this..
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Whatever it is, I wish you the best of luck in the future smile.gif
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QUOTE(kokuryo @ May 9 2007, 11:16 AM)
be strong spunkberry... njoy your life... good things are coming your way...  flex.gif
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Eh Kokuryo, just curious I want to know how long you and your going-to-be wife together? biggrin.gif
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Eh Kokuryo, just curious I want to know how long you and your going-to-be wife together? biggrin.gif
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QUOTE(kokuryo @ May 9 2007, 03:30 PM)
less than a year.. actually our love story are kinna interesting.. kekeke only if u guys wanna know...
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I know you're dying to tell it. Asking us here is just a formality for something you already intend to do so type away. smile.gif

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QUOTE(darklight79 @ May 9 2007, 03:32 PM)
I know you're dying to tell it. Asking us here is just a formality for something you already intend to do so type away. smile.gif
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i will tell la but not now.. long story... type it out when i got time...
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he's dying to spill...XD
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Haha spunk. They way you use your smilies and the way you type reminds me a lot of my friend. She's real fun to chat with.
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May the XD trend start? XD?

Dude c'mon man spit it out, tell us your story XD


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Haha spunk. They way you use your smilies and the way you type reminds me a lot of my friend. She's real fun to chat with.
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Hiya bluewind ~ biggrin.gif Just to say ... Im still with my bf ~ hehe

Of cos... still in LDR ~ wub.gif
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hehhee and I'll say this with confidence: So am I. XD
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Hiya bluewind ~ biggrin.gif Just to say ... Im still with my bf ~ hehe

Of cos... still in LDR ~ wub.gif
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Wahahaha good good~ biggrin.gif

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My 3-year LDR will end come next week when fiance comes down to tie the knot. XD
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Wah, another happy ending story woooo~ CONGRATULATIONS rclxms.gif rclxms.gif

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My 3-year LDR will end come next week when fiance comes down to tie the knot. XD
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Blue Wind: Thanks...who else is getting hitched ar? So many pages cannot keep track. LOL.
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hyper ??  sweat.gif  sweat.gif  sweat.gif
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When are you going to belanja all of us here makan? drool.gif
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hyper ??  sweat.gif  sweat.gif  sweat.gif
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Why don't you think so? You're so happy now and keep putting exclamation mark laugh.gif

But well I'm just saying smile.gif tongue.gif

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come to my open house on the day b4 my wedding day.. then i all can eat all u can... lol... thumbup.gif thumbup.gif thumbup.gif
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is that good or bad? LOL
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My 3-year LDR will end come next week when fiance comes down to tie the knot. XD
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come to my open house on the day b4 my wedding day.. then i all can eat all u can... lol...  thumbup.gif  thumbup.gif  thumbup.gif
but still duno the date yet... kekekekeke
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You invite us, we sure go. Just don't by the time say 'Who are you?' rclxub.gif tongue.gif
We wanna see your pretty wife. biggrin.gif
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One of my girlfriends was Gemini. Crazy and fun describes her. Patience wasn't a virtue for her though. Very impulsive but what the heck, I'm impulsive too.
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haahahahaha..I'm vry impatient too. biggrin.gif
impulsive...maybe not....spontaneous...very.
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QUOTE(darklight79 @ May 10 2007, 05:42 PM)
One of my girlfriends was Gemini. Crazy and fun describes her. Patience wasn't a virtue for her though. Very impulsive but what the heck, I'm impulsive too.
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Bro, You got how many girlfriends? rolleyes.gif

Added on May 14, 2007, 4:14 pmEveryone busy dating? yawn.gif yawn.gif yawn.gif

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Everyone busy dating? yawn.gif yawn.gif yawn.gif yawn.gif
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kekekeke... guess that absolutely right... weekend went to melaka with my colleagues and ofcoz also my lovely fiancee.. great trip..! thumbup.gif thumbup.gif thumbup.gif

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kekekeke... guess that absolutely right... weekend went to melaka with my colleagues and ofcoz also my lovely fiancee.. great trip..!  thumbup.gif  thumbup.gif  thumbup.gif
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Wuuuuuuu........... Nice nice..... I wish to meet up with my girl too.. But end up, staying in front of the PC doh.gif
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No gf.. how to pakto? sweat.gif
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hahaha I don't even have someone to paktor with anymore...but I'm still in this thread as a member BECAUSE my two relationships in my life so far were BOTH LDR. XD

and Josh, could you get rid of my picture in the front if you haven't already? thanks.
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just to share some pic taken on the day i proposed to my gf... Hilton KL(next to KL Sentral)... RM550++ per nite...

decorations...
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One word.. FUUUUIYOH~ (Not Digi user XD) Definitely worth lor with RM 550.. rclxms.gif rclxms.gif
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QUOTE(BlueWind @ May 15 2007, 11:12 AM)
One word.. FUUUUIYOH~ (Not Digi user XD) Definitely worth lor with RM 550..  rclxms.gif rclxms.gif
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once a lifetime... money worth to spend...
with 100 pink roses all over the room, bathroom, toilets... basically everywhere...
and 99 roses...
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VERY NICE!! I'm jealous...and not jealous at the same time. XD
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no need jealous 1 la.. u still young ma.. sure can find someone better.. ganbateh..!!

another view.. the bed is actually attached togather with the bath room...
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Staring our new life TOGATHER...!
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ May 15 2007, 09:58 AM)
hahaha I don't even have someone to paktor with anymore...but I'm still in this thread as a member BECAUSE my two relationships in my life so far were BOTH LDR. XD

and Josh, could you get rid of my picture in the front if you haven't already? thanks.
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You ask me to remove it before? blush.gif
Sure, no problem... I will move it right now

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no need jealous 1 la.. u still young ma.. sure can find someone better.. ganbateh..!!

another view.. the bed is actually attached togather with the bath room...
Staring our new life TOGATHER...!
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Q: Who is the one who taking the photo? All using camera phone or digital camera? hehe
A: I know already, DC, Sony T30... biggrin.gif

Anyway, want me to include in the 1st post a not? biggrin.gif

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very sweet. but in my opinion, if trim a bit of the leaves and thorn from the roses would look even better smile.gif anyway, congrats yeah.

p/s: sorry, hope you dont mind my comment, just the perfectionist attitude in me, kicking in.
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Haha but it's already over, his what we shall call wife accepted his proposal XD biggrin.gif


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Haha but it's already over, his what we shall call wife accepted his proposal XD biggrin.gif
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QUOTE(miyoko @ May 15 2007, 01:52 PM)
kokuryo,

very sweet. but in my opinion, if trim a bit of the leaves and thorn from the roses would look even better smile.gif anyway, congrats yeah.

p/s: sorry, hope you dont mind my comment, just the perfectionist attitude in me, kicking in.
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walao~~ Kokuryo!!!
Nice NiCe!!
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Lovely photos. smile.gif
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What you mean actually? sweat.gif  blush.gif
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Kokuryo gets what I mean biggrin.gif

And hor kokuryo you made everyone envy leh.. wahhh... Very happy la hor tongue.gif


Haih.. now my gf is sick.. I don't know what to do.. Ask her go see doctor don't want.. So... stubborn.. What am I supposed to do......?

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Kokuryo gets what I mean biggrin.gif

And hor kokuryo you made everyone envy leh.. wahhh... Very happy la hor tongue.gif
Haih.. now my gf is sick.. I don't know what to do.. Ask her go see doctor don't want.. So... stubborn.. What am I supposed to do......?
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What sick is it? shocking.gif
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Bring a doctor to her house.

Okie, jk. laugh.gif
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Bring a doctor to her house.

Okie, jk. laugh.gif
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hum.. gf asked me to join her bunch of 20 friends to Tioman depart tomoro night.. i would like to... BUT my work keep me away from it.. iz a hard time to apply leave even just 1 day leave... but i will still giv a try and apply leave today... pray for me fellows..... icon_question.gif icon_question.gif icon_question.gif anyway, i reli need a break out of office to recharge my battery....
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Many ppl flu la...fever la...
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dunno isit got virus like in "resident evil" ????
my self also kena yesterday!!
sob ..sob!!

everybody . take care urself good good lai o ^^
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Well, normal kind of sick la like keep coughing then feeling terrible lor.. But then right she don't like medicine one... haiz.. But then finally she's going to see doctor today.. smile.gif

Rena, you ok liao mah? smile.gif
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wa... sick season came... take care everyone...

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QUOTE(kokuryo @ May 16 2007, 10:06 AM)
hum.. gf asked me to join her bunch of 20 friends to Tioman depart tomoro night.. i would like to... BUT my work keep me away from it.. iz a hard time to apply leave even just 1 day leave...  but i will still giv a try and apply leave today... pray for me fellows.....  icon_question.gif  icon_question.gif  icon_question.gif anyway, i reli need a break out of office to recharge my battery....
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Last minute planning?

Sigh, I understand the work life situation, don't know how is my working life for next year, sigh. Take MC leave tongue.gif
Will pray for u then... biggrin.gif

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wa... sick season came... take care everyone...
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Choi!!! Is happy season came. The more we happy and smile, the more powerful medicine that can cure sickness

Laugh is always the best medicine

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QUOTE(kokuryo @ May 9 2007, 03:30 PM)
less than a year.. actually our love story are kinna interesting.. kekeke only if u guys wanna know...
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I am still waiting for your story... biggrin.gif
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Part1: History
start with our history 1st.. for me, me and my ex been togather for almost 2 yrs (SDR).. we always argue and have different point of view in most of the thing, we dont understand each other but we are trying so hard to make thing work.. she controlled me so much.. i got no more friends, no more hobbies, just want me to stick with her ALL the time.. my friends and family oso dun like her.. b4 i paktoh with her, im a happy ez going person with lotz of friends and joking around... after with her, i've change myself.. i get angry vz easily... i used to go out and take pics, im into photography but she just dun allow me to go out.. keep my car keys, keep my wallet and i scold her for not understanding... reason she gave me: she so sked to lose me thatz y she wanna OWN me... i changed myself a lot try to make things better untill i realised that im not myself anemore.. im another person that i dun recognize... i cant stand it anemore.. so decided to break off... i lost my confident in RELATIONSHIP, fetup.. decided not to start a relationship and njoy my freedom... wana get myself back with lotz of friends, a cheerful person...

she facing same experience with her ex.. her ex controlled her even worst... reason? same.. sked lost her... he keep on check her incoming calls, outgoing calls, even credit limit!!! less 10cent oso he will question her... she oso change herself a lot to another person that she duno... she oso no more friends, family dun like tat guy, she cried everyday... she decided to to break off... she lost confident in RELATIONSHIP also, fetup oso.. decided not to start a relationship and njoy her freedom... wana get back with lotz of friends, a outgoing person...

we have same experience, sked of relationship, we hav same view of a relationship... we know wat we want, we want a partner that understand ourself, no control, all trust, all freedom... but we know that kinna person is vy vy vy vy hard to find... thatz y both of us dun think we can start a new relationship for a long period...

end part 1.... sweat.gif sweat.gif
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continue with part 2 til the end lah... wei, you think what? pirattes of caribbean meh?
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continue with part 2 til the end lah... wei, you think what? pirattes of caribbean meh?
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personally i think the part 1 sux.... tongue.gif
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QUOTE(ky_khor @ May 16 2007, 01:56 PM)
personally i think the part 1 sux.... tongue.gif
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not uz sux, iz super suxxxxx... thatz life in hell....!
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I am also sick!!! wu wu wu~~~!!!!

Keep on coughing till my stomach also pain pain, haiz!!!

By the way, I am just back from my trip with my dear to Langkawi smile.gif

Kokuryo, waiting for your Part II. Hope that I wont need to wait too long as my popcorn is going to be finished tongue.gif
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Ah..? Part one like that ah? How you two start? (feels like the story is giving us suspense tongue.gif)
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who's sick? i'm a doctor wannabe here, let me give some tips on how to have a healthy life.
- plenty of H2O
- fruits & vege
- enough rest
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kokuryo, so both of you share the same opinion on relationship, so you got together but you never tell us why you are attracted to her..kekeke
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Haha... Come on... Let's say how you guys started. Pirates of Caribbean is on show. What about Spiderman 3 and Shrek 3?

Come come... Just play the movie.... I am ready with my popcorn and coke. rclxms.gif

Added on May 16, 2007, 4:20 pm
QUOTE(chocolatepallette @ May 16 2007, 04:18 PM)
who's sick? i'm a doctor wannabe here, let me give some tips on how to have a healthy life.
- plenty of H2O
- fruits & vege
- enough rest
- exercise
kokuryo, so both of you share the same opinion on relationship, so you got together but you never tell us why you are attracted to her..kekeke
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Pretty? Haha...

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walau... so many popcorns...

part2: getting know wach other...
after i broke off with her, im FREE like a bird.. can u all imagine the freedom after being locked for 2 yrs??? i can do anything i can, go anywhere i want... i reli njoying my life!!! calling my friends for clubbing all the time, drink, drunk, joke, laugh.. iz a perfect life for me...
one saturday i ajak my fren for clubbing again.. i dun like the music there so i just sit, drink and chitchat with friends.. then 1 of my fren bring in 2 girls... so i just intro myself lo and then since she sit beside me and im kinna bored with the music, i started to tok with her (btw im a vy talkative person)... my fren said she usually will not say much and just sit there drink.. but that day we both communicate vy well.. she become so talkative also (she oso cant explain y she so talkative that time)... we chitchat, joke, laugh, drink togather till half drunk... we chat from 11pm till 3am non stop... in my mind, shes a lady with special character... a feeling of vy interested to know who is this lady... we exchange number and then my fren and i sent them back.. soon after we left, i got an sms from her saying that vy happy chatting with me and wish me goodnite (after we togather i ask her izzit normal for her to sms everyone that she newly meet? she said NOT AT ALL.. then i ask her what makes her sms me that night.. she said she got no idea, just wanted to... wub.gif wub.gif )... but i ignore the sms coz i didnt think anything special with that and somemore im almost drunk...

so that day, we know each other... end part 2....
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QUOTE(kokuryo @ May 16 2007, 06:20 PM)
walau... so many popcorns...

part2: getting know wach other...
after i broke off with her, im FREE like a bird.. can u all imagine the freedom after being locked for 2 yrs??? i can do anything i can, go anywhere i want... i reli njoying my life!!! calling my friends for clubbing all the time, drink, drunk, joke, laugh.. iz a perfect life for me...
one saturday i ajak my fren for clubbing again.. i dun like the music there so i just sit, drink and chitchat with friends.. then 1 of my fren bring in 2 girls... so i just intro myself lo and then since she sit beside me and im kinna bored with the music, i started to tok with her (btw im a vy talkative person)... my fren said she usually will not say much and just sit there drink.. but that day we both communicate vy well.. she become so talkative also (she oso cant explain y she so talkative that time)... we chitchat, joke, laugh, drink togather till half drunk... we chat from 11pm till 3am non stop... in my mind, shes a lady with special character... a feeling of vy interested to know who is this lady... we exchange number and then my fren and i sent them back.. soon after we left, i got an sms from her saying that vy happy chatting with me and wish me goodnite (after we togather i ask her izzit normal for her to sms everyone that she newly meet? she said NOT AT ALL.. then i ask her what makes her sms me that night.. she said she got no idea, just wanted to... wub.gif  wub.gif )... but i ignore the sms coz i didnt think anything special with that and somemore im almost drunk...

so that day, we know each other... end part 2....
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See told you.. He PURPOSELY give us the suspense one.. laugh.gif
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See told you.. He PURPOSELY give us the suspense one.. laugh.gif
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For you only ah? Must call for all of us lor and we don't let kokuryo eat tongue.gif He must tell the story laugh.gif
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aiya... dun think too much la.... i mean she juz wanted to sms me la... kakakakak
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QUOTE(BlueWind @ May 16 2007, 09:21 PM)
For you only ah? Must call for all of us lor and we don't let kokuryo eat tongue.gif He must tell the story laugh.gif
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Haha. I didnt eat my dinner yet, so large pizza for me. You guys want call yourself lor tongue.gif

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aiya... dun think too much la.... i mean she juz wanted to sms me la... kakakakak
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Haha. Sms you need to put wub.gif wub.gif ?? I Sms and wub.gif is different o tongue.gif

Part 3? When coming?
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lol interesting real life trilogy, ur ex so dahsyat leh, i bet u will being lock up in a cage right now if u continue dating her. hahahaha

btw my gf is kinda controlling too but not until ur level. Since we are in LDR, i only happen to be in malaysia 2-3 months a year so she expect me to spend all my time with her sweat.gif
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*Protests* MANA PART 3?!?!?! DON'T RUN AWAY FROM US MAN!! XD

Ya, where's the part three? You owe us the whole story dude. tongue.gif
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Aiya the pizza are for ALL of us to SHARE.. EXCEPT for the guy who is going to tell us the part 3 story rolleyes.gif biggrin.gif
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soli la fellows... today got no mood... need to wear bullet proof west to meeting later... reli my mood vy down... tomoro go tioman with her and her 20 friends (all i duno 1..) she hope i wont bring a sad face facing her friends and she warned me that she is going there to njoy with her friends and might left me out a side, she said she is like that and im gonna accept it, she hope i wont get mad...
i understand her so am i gonna 'pretent' to be happy for the whole trip??? im stressed out bcoz of my work, and this is the time i need her most...
so im kinna worry howz that trip will be...
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QUOTE(kokuryo @ May 17 2007, 12:38 PM)
soli la fellows... today got no mood... need to wear bullet proof west to meeting later... reli my mood vy down... tomoro go tioman with her and her 20 friends (all i duno 1..) she hope i wont bring a sad face facing her friends and she warned me that she is going there to njoy with her friends and might left me out a side, she said she is like that and im gonna accept it, she hope i wont get mad...
i understand her so am i gonna 'pretent' to be happy for the whole trip??? im stressed out bcoz of my work, and this is the time i need her most... 
so im kinna worry howz that trip will be...
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Hey. I am sure you go to tioman you could relax too. Do not think so much. Just join in as though they are your friend too. Your gf friend = your friend. smile.gif Just have fun and temporary don't think about the work. After have fun then only worry. Let your brain have a rest. nod.gif
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Dude, since you are going to Pulau Tioman, and most of your gf friends you don't know one, so why don't you just take this chance and join their group? Maybe it's fun.. And yeah, just try not to think about work at that time, go there and enjoy yourself because its a vacation... not the time to think of work.. Maybe she just hoping you don't get too stressed and want you to have fun? Anyway, work only then work holiday then only holiday.. I know la sometimes we can't do that but then just try your best to enjoy yourself la ok? Don't worry, be happy smile.gif

Cheers man smile.gif
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Take this chance to befriend her friends. Next time when you two talk about her friends, she doesn't has to say friend A and B because she can immediately tell you the names as you've met them already. smile.gif
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im talkative, i planned to join in the group and njoy togather... but my work juz not allow me to njoy... just back from a tough meeting and my mood now is -20... so with this mood, how can i njoy my trip??? have to control my mind ERASE everything regarding work??

can i ask u fellows a question.. if ur partner is in bad mood, and your partner sms to you and told u that he/she have a tough life and he/she feel so bad now... but that time u r bz with work oso.. i mean not bz till cant send sms la.. wat will u do... sms back and comfort your partner?? or just ignore and continue working???

well, she ignoring my sms and im hoping for a sms and comfort me..
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I'll concentrate on my work first. I will let her settle down on herself but I'll still send her a sms to let her know that I'm still around for her.
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ May 17 2007, 04:57 PM)
I'll concentrate on my work first. I will let her settle down on herself but I'll still send her a sms to let her know that I'm still around for her.
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thatz wat im toking... but anyway, we are ok... she is beside me now...
hope we can have a nice trip...
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thatz wat im toking... but anyway, we are ok... she is beside me now...
hope we can have a nice trip...
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Alright. Enjoy! smile.gif
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kokuryo, remember to take some photo o~ smile.gif
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maann...I'm so bored these days..
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You could always start an RLDR (Rebound LDR, haha), go for some hot casual MSN flirting  sweat.gif
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ROFL that's what I've been doing on my DotA server actually...have a big bunch of friends in there. been <3<3<3 two of them for a while now...it's too funny
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I'm happy today. smile.gif
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Hahax, he won't. biggrin.gif
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Clever boy. biggrin.gif I am still rclxms.gif rclxms.gif rclxms.gif

I love secret rclxm9.gif
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Clever boy.  biggrin.gif  I am still rclxms.gif  rclxms.gif  rclxms.gif

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How's everyone? So quiet? tongue.gif
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Hahax, secret your head.  laugh.gif

How's everyone? So quiet?  tongue.gif
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Akhem... Continue from msn 1... tongue.gif

QUOTE(boom_bread @ May 19 2007, 02:07 AM)
can join here? im the fellowship of LDR too ..hohoho..my gf went abroad to further her study...sigh:: ...only can hear her voice n chat wif her... can't meet sad.gif
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You are most welcome to join here. smile.gif
But, picture plz. rclxm9.gif
Went where to study o? Try to learn how to maintain LDR from here ya. biggrin.gif
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So quiet coz u no share ur secret  mad.gif
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can join here? im the fellowship of LDR too ..hohoho..my gf went abroad to further her study...sigh:: ...only can hear her voice n chat wif her... can't meet sad.gif
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Sure. Welcome to the family.

Its like that. You have to be patient. Gambateh! tongue.gif

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Maybe I know you know..

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hello, everyone. me been so busy working, lately. go back straight away fall flat sleeping on bed... hmm... i think i'm slowly turning into a workaholic. probably gonna love working in the future. hahaha...
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i dont wanna be a workaholic, hahaha... anyway, jdreamer, why are you happy?
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QUOTE(miyoko @ May 19 2007, 08:26 AM)
hello, everyone. me been so busy working, lately. go back straight away fall flat sleeping on bed... hmm... i think i'm slowly turning into a workaholic. probably gonna love working in the future. hahaha...
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Well the fact that you're even commenting/mildly-complaining about it means you're not a hopeless case yet biggrin.gif

Real workaholics would be like, "ohmigawd, I got home at 11pm today and you know I just was so unhappy cos there wasn't enough work for me to do at the office" haha.
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Haha. This is so sweet and weird at the same time. My girl bought me flowers. 7 white roses surrounded by 16 red roses arranged in a handmade bouquet. She arranged everything herself.
We had a lil' argument so she didn't say a direct sorry so this was her way of apologizing. Damnn......

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QUOTE(darklight79 @ May 20 2007, 05:12 AM)
Haha. This is so sweet and weird at the same time. My girl bought me flowers. 7 white roses surrounded by 16 red roses arranged in a handmade bouquet. She arranged everything herself.
We had a lil' argument so she didn't say a direct sorry so this was her way of apologizing. Damnn......

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QUOTE(darklight79 @ May 20 2007, 05:12 AM)
Haha. This is so sweet and weird at the same time. My girl bought me flowers. 7 white roses surrounded by 16 red roses arranged in a handmade bouquet. She arranged everything herself.
We had a lil' argument so she didn't say a direct sorry so this was her way of apologizing. Damnn......

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I was kind of shocked but happy. And no, I didn't cry. Lol. Her reason was since I usually get her flowers, it's her turn. Haha. The last time i got roses from a girl was on Valentine's day in high school.
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QUOTE(darklight79 @ May 20 2007, 03:52 PM)
I was kind of shocked but happy. And no, I didn't cry. Lol. Her reason was since I usually get her flowers, it's her turn. Haha. The last time i got roses from a girl was on Valentine's day in high school.
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Of course it is very obvious that is not the main reason. The main reason is to apologize with you. And yet, she is too shy(maybe?) to say sorry. So, she using this method to apologize.

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Of course it is very obvious that is not the main reason. The main reason is to apologize with you. And yet, she is too shy(maybe?) to say sorry. So, she using this method to apologize.
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Yeah, that's what I suspect. There was a reason for the flower arrangement though. Something about the white roses being me and the red roses being her love for me or something.
Then she paid for the movie we went to see yesterday night. Lmao! I felt like i was the girl yesterday.

But it's all good. How could i not forgive her after all that? I mean i would have forgiven her sooner or later but i guess the flowers sped up the process. tongue.gif
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QUOTE(darklight79 @ May 20 2007, 04:01 PM)
Yeah, that's what I suspect. There was a reason for the flower arrangement though. Something about the white roses being me and the red roses being her love for me or something.
Then she paid for the movie we went to see yesterday night. Lmao! I felt like i was the girl yesterday.

But it's all good. How could i not forgive her after all that? I mean i would have forgiven her sooner or later but i guess the flowers sped up the process.  tongue.gif
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QUOTE(darklight79 @ May 20 2007, 04:01 PM)
Yeah, that's what I suspect. There was a reason for the flower arrangement though. Something about the white roses being me and the red roses being her love for me or something.
Then she paid for the movie we went to see yesterday night. Lmao! I felt like i was the girl yesterday.

But it's all good. How could i not forgive her after all that? I mean i would have forgiven her sooner or later but i guess the flowers sped up the process.  tongue.gif
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Heh.. thanks. How're you btw? YOu don't beep me on msn much.
Uhmm... I don't want to answer that. Lol. We pamper each other a lot but she did it more yesterday.
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You're most welcomed. I'm fine, going on very well. Take your advise wisely and.. hehe.. I'll tell you more next time.  tongue.gif

Pamper each other a lot, nice. Pamper us too. I want a car.  laugh.gif
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You're most welcomed. I'm fine, going on very well. Take your advise wisely and.. hehe.. I'll tell you more next time.  tongue.gif

Pamper each other a lot, nice. Pamper us too. I want a car.  laugh.gif
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1st time, no any encourage msg from her at all, till I told her whether she notice a not. Sigh

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Joshua.. good lulck in your exam..!!

came back from Tioman trip with gf and her 18 friends.. total 20ppl.. and guess wat, we njoy the trip vy well.. we both happy playing togather and she is so happy that i can join into her group...! will post some pic too soon... kekekek... thumbup.gif thumbup.gif
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came back from Tioman trip with gf and her 18 friends.. total 20ppl.. and guess wat, we njoy the trip vy well.. we both happy playing togather and she is so happy that i can join into her group...! will post some pic too soon... kekekek...  thumbup.gif  thumbup.gif
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QUOTE(kokuryo @ May 21 2007, 09:09 AM)
came back from Tioman trip with gf and her 18 friends.. total 20ppl.. and guess wat, we njoy the trip vy well.. we both happy playing togather and she is so happy that i can join into her group...! will post some pic too soon... kekekek...  thumbup.gif  thumbup.gif
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HI HI you in an LDR TOO? coolios...I WAS in one...

I like you people loads you know? XD I only come to this thread when I'm on LYN. =D
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I screwed up my 1st paper. No mood to do also. Sigh
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STFU, take the negative thoughts out and slam it on the next paper.
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Well the fact that you're even commenting/mildly-complaining about it means you're not a hopeless case yet biggrin.gif

Real workaholics would be like, "ohmigawd, I got home at 11pm today and you know I just was so unhappy cos there wasn't enough work for me to do at the office" haha.
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QUOTE(darklight79 @ May 20 2007, 05:12 AM)
Haha. This is so sweet and weird at the same time. My girl bought me flowers. 7 white roses surrounded by 16 red roses arranged in a handmade bouquet. She arranged everything herself.
We had a lil' argument so she didn't say a direct sorry so this was her way of apologizing. Damnn......
She's so sweet. i've done that before. mine was handycraft.
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Stfu, take the negative thoughts out and slam it on the next paper bro. wink.gif You'll do fine! Best of luck!
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Thanks everyone. Will not let my second paper easily run off from my hand already rclxm9.gif
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haiz... just had an arguement with my gf.. she can sometimes me a bit too much...

kinda down right now..

thinking if this relationship is worth it or not...

heres a snippit of at conversation..,,

advice me on what i should do plz...


I says:
u treat me so good i think i should send u a lot

she says:
ha..
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u not even sending me my present..
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i doubt u will send flowers to me...

hehe...


I says:
yea la.. for u presents n gifts are like the most important things in life..

right??

dont hv 2 deny

for u presents + gifts = happiness

doubt got any other variables involved


she says:
yeah rite...
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nonsense!!!

ok then...

u tell me so far wat have u gave me?other than those presents n gifts...


I says:
well seems like u think i hv given u nothing other than those

fine...

if u cant think of what i hv done 4 u...

then i really got nothing else 2 say to you

if u want 2 know..u really hurt me when u said that...

just go study or do whatever u want 2 do... no mood 2 carry on this conversation with u


She says:
wat did i say that hurt u?

but when u hurt me, i din say ..

then niow u like that la..

ok..

tell me la..

wat does it mean?

tell me la..


I says:
i have never done anything for u besides buy u presents la..

so everything else i did i wasted my time n effort la..


She Say:
ok then u tell me la,.

ok then...

I say
sigh...u need me to tell u this kind of thing also...

well since u think i hv done nothing for u... then i hv done nothing for u


She says:
hehe..

I says:
haha haha... so funny ah..

She says:
haha...
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dunno...


I says:
yea la.. this is all one big joke for u la..
She says:
not really..

ha...

I says:
if u say so.. actting like a small kid...


She says:
not small kid...
she says:
it's YOUNG ADULT~~~@!!!!!


I says:
there...this is perfect example...

haiz..u go do what u want la.. i got better stuff 2 do..


She says:
okok..

so, which gf u going to find now?

hehe..


I Say:
c what i mean about acting like a kid??

sometimes u should grow up a bit and act a little bit more mature

not everything in like is a joke in case u dont know




will you get annoyed if you bf/gf treat/act like this towards you?? i am overreacting??

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QUOTE(lelong1234 @ May 21 2007, 11:33 PM)
haiz... just had an arguement with my gf.. she can sometimes me a bit too much...

kinda down right now..

thinking if this relationship is worth it or not...

heres a snippit of at conversation..,,

advice me on what i should do plz...
I says:
u treat me so good i think i should send u a lot

  she says:
ha..
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u not even sending me my present..
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i doubt u will send flowers to me...

hehe...
I says:
yea la.. for u presents n gifts are like the most important things in life..

right??

dont hv 2 deny

for u presents + gifts = happiness

doubt got any other variables involved
 

she says:
yeah rite...
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nonsense!!!
 
ok then...
 
u tell me so far wat have u gave me?other than those presents n gifts...
I says:
well seems like u think i hv given u nothing other than those

fine...

if u cant think of what i hv done 4 u...

then i really got nothing else 2 say to you

if u want 2 know..u really hurt me when u said that...

just go study or do whatever u want 2 do... no  mood 2 carry on this conversation with u
  She says:
wat did i say that hurt u?
 
but when u hurt me, i din say ..
 
then niow u like that la..
 
ok..
 
tell me la..
 
wat does it mean?

tell me la..
I says:
i have never done anything for u besides buy u presents la..

so everything else i did i wasted my time n effort la..
 

She Say:
ok then u tell me la,.

ok then...

I say
sigh...u need me to tell u this kind of thing also...

well since u think i hv done nothing for u... then i hv done nothing for u


She says:
hehe..

I says:
haha haha... so funny ah..

She says:
haha...
:
dunno...
I says:
yea la.. this is all one big joke for u la..
She says:
not really..

ha...

I says:
if u say so.. actting like a small kid...
She says:
not small kid...
  she says:
it's YOUNG ADULT~~~@!!!!!
I says:
there...this is perfect example...

haiz..u go do what u want la.. i got better stuff 2 do..
 

She says:
okok..

so, which gf u going to find now?
 
hehe..
I Say:
c what i mean about acting like a kid??

sometimes u should grow up a bit and act a little bit more mature

not everything in like is a joke in case u dont know

will you get annoyed if you bf/gf treat/act like this towards you?? i am overreacting??
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IMO, she seems like done nothing wrong. Just a little need you to manja, and you are very angry over it. sweat.gif I guess you are just overreacting?

But, after the half part where you really get angry and she laugh, my gf also will did that rclxub.gif But then she really gave me a real good reason, you angry why I should angry. If I get angry, we both won't benefit at all. I straight blush.gif
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she seems to be childish and seems to take your feelings very lightly...but remember, it takes two hands to clap so this argument is also your fault. smile.gif
cool down and then talk to her again.

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I don't know you two well so I'm not going to say much. - IMHO, she never meant to make you angry and maybe she doesn't really know what are you talking. My suspect is that you're giving her some hints but she didn't get it, so why don't you just tell her straight? Yes, in the conversation she seems a bit childish but I don't think she really meant to make you upset. Try to talk to her more, be straight forward but don't be too harsh on her just talk to her in nice and calm way. That's all I want to say, some of my statements could be wrong, bear me because I don't really know you two well so I'm just looking based on the conversation.

Peace bro.
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First of all, yes you're overreacting. I think she just doesn't exactly gets what you're trying to tell her. However, she's fine in what I read though because you're singing the praise of her in the beginning and telling her that you're going to buy her something or so. Then, she's hinting you that she wants flowers from you and then next, what I can see that is you're going berserk after you're accusing her that presents are everything to her. Take note, when you mention that it's a big joke to her.. well she does reply you "not really".

Girls are to be pampered and not to be shouted at. Yes, at times.. they play reverse psychology and that's the natural aspect of girls. Calm down and try to talk to her again. I'm sure that two of you will solve this together peacefully because its unnecessary to go deeper arguments about this. Understand her, honour her and of course love her.

P/s: I'm just giving my opinion based on the conversation and I think it's not her fault but yours. Same as BlueWind, I don't know you two well so..... smile.gif

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Dude, you light up my life man! That "not really" is indeed a hint that she wants the flowers and I didn't realise it laugh.gif
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well about the flowers part.. on her msn she had a picture with a bouquet of flowers.. so i just asked her who bought it. well i said it in a jokingly manner. i think i said something like "which bf bought you those flowers." then she said she bought it herself and that i woudnt be sending her flowers anyways.

well the thing i dont like is someone asking you to buy them stuff.. i dont know la.. but to me it feels like i am being used.. if i want 2 get her something i should be able to get it by myself right? i dont need her to tell me 2 get her stuff.. just my opinion

anyways i sent her an sms saying that i was sorry for overreacting but she still hasnt replied...
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You know sometimes when it comes to this kind of relationship we really need to pamper our partner to keep them happy. Your gf is not using you, she just want flowers or a gift from you just to keep herself happy and thus make her feels that you do really love her. smile.gif
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she seems to be childish and seems to take your feelings very lightly...but remember, it takes two hands to clap so this argument is also your fault. smile.gif
cool down and then talk to her again.
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You know sometimes when it comes to this kind of relationship we really need to pamper our partner to keep them happy. Your gf is not using you, she just want flowers or a gift from you just to keep herself happy and thus make her feels that you do really love her. smile.gif
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ok.. thanks for all your advice... really appreciate it...

about the presents... she is thousands of km away from where i am. she was insisting i get her smgt so i did... but i told her i will give it to her when she gets back. she seems to want me to mail it to her. haiz.. some people ar.. cost of mailing it will be like rm50 or more.. coz its abit big..

both of us are gona be having our exams soon so i guess we should just concentrate on that for now..
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QUOTE(lelong1234 @ May 22 2007, 04:27 PM)
ok.. thanks for all your advice... really appreciate it...

about the presents... she is thousands of km away from where i am. she was insisting i get her smgt so i did... but i told her i will give it to her when she gets back. she seems to want me to mail it to her. haiz.. some people ar.. cost of mailing it will be like rm50 or more.. coz its abit big..

both of us are gona be having our exams soon so i guess we should just concentrate on that for now..
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That's way too much.
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Yeah.. thats what i feel. Well she had mailed me a shirt and sometimes by what she is saying she is like telling me "if i can mail u smgt, why cant u." i mean like wtf! if u want to mail me smgt thats up to you right.. i really apperiate it be u cant be expecting me to mail u smgt just because you did.

i mean me all have to act and live within our means right??

anyways.. planning to pass he some stuff through her friend who will be coming back soon.
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hmmm...its usually like that alot of girls would go for convenience. I find that nowadays girls are getting more and more practical. 3 Cs apply here also lo......basic needs ma.

but LDR better not, its incredibly difficult. Even when I had the money, I could feel her distancing herself from me. I treat my girl like crystal. I don't intend to lose her just yet.

But if any of you want to commit to LDR, please consider everything especially $$$.
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oh.. btw.. what are the 3C's??

actually i dont really spend that much.. i think spend less in LDR than when SDR.
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I think sending her something once in a while is okie though. I do that when I'm in the previous LDR.
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QUOTE(darklight79 @ May 22 2007, 04:32 PM)
That's way too much.
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Huh? For me I don't think so ler.

Although it is costly, but the effort you done for her is priceless.
This seems to be money matter.

Money can earn back, gf can't earn back. smile.gif
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QUOTE(lelong1234 @ May 22 2007, 04:53 PM)
Yeah.. thats what i feel. Well she had mailed me a shirt and sometimes by what she is saying she is like telling me "if i can mail u smgt, why cant u." i mean like wtf! if u want to mail me smgt thats up to you right.. i really apperiate it be u cant be expecting me to mail u smgt just because you did.

i mean me all have to act and live within our means right??

anyways.. planning to pass he some stuff through her friend who will be coming back soon.
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tongue.gif i'm new to this thread n also new to LDR....
he is 200km away from me... cry.gif
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200km only? XD
jk...yeah I Know it sucks. I've only been in two relationships and both of them were LDR. Sheesh serves me right for preferring locals. LOL
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QUOTE(darklight79 @ May 22 2007, 04:22 PM)
Both need to pamper each other once in a while. It doesn't matter if it's the guy or the girl.
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Uh, yeah that was what I'm trying to say. I forgot to add pamper each other inside laugh.gif

QUOTE(mumuz @ May 22 2007, 09:19 PM)
tongue.gif i'm new to this thread n also new to LDR....
he is 200km away from me... cry.gif
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Don't cry.. tongue.gif You should be happy that your bf is willing to commit this kind of relationship with you. So cheer up girl smile.gif Haha, like me when I first post this in this thread somebody told me don't be sad I should feel happy but the thing is I forgot who is it.. blush.gif paiseh paiseh..

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hehe.. 200km.. want to trade?? mine more than 2000km... even when she does come back for holiday, we will be 300km apart.. sigh.. forever LDR.. lol

anyways.. i msged her saying sorry earlier in the afternoon but she still hasnt replied..

i am guessing she is mad

what should i do?? give her a call tmr or wait a few more days???

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It's about time for u to buy flowers for her. laugh.gif
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haha.. i wish i could.. i thnk it will cost more than rm300 for them..

its abit too i think...
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lelong 1234 , i wish u luck!!
gals need to be pamper...
she showed u her sincerity also wat...u know..relation sometime need some surprise ...human tends to 4get easily u know~~
so..post her a card with some handmade stuff o , eg. a paper flower ...
dun give excuses ~
don't have time ? better dun start a relation..
love need sacrifices ...need time ...need money of course!!! ( in some aspects)
so...dun say wtf ...
u cant think as a guy !!!!!
not caring enuff ??? beware , later other steal ur gal!!

every1 need love n caring..show her la!!
RM300 dun have ..RM 30 got gua!!
dun have go to work part time lurrr...
RM 30 for mailling a handmade postcard + a lil handmade present ( paper flower , paper love ...) juz small things onli wat!!

Darklight 79 , don be so mean la !!!
although u are "VIP" here ...
love is so beautiful !!!!
some time childish a bit in love is ok ma~
dun jz matured matured..rational thinking .....
later u killed all the fairy !!!

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It is not complicated. Different ppl different view.

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Ah study! Me too.. need to study, exam coming. sad.gif
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good luck n ganbateh!!
i juz start coll onli..now ~*boing~~^^** boing.....boin...
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yea... have to concentrate on my studies now..

msged her again in the morning today but again got no reply up till now..

should i give her a call today?? or let things settle down for a while and give her a call during the weekend??
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isnt it 3B now? bungalow, BMW and ...? hahaha... i forgot what it is. anyway, actually, not all girl look for 3Cs. well, i would say different girl, got different requirement and needs.
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isnt it 3B now? bungalow, BMW and ...? hahaha... i forgot what it is. anyway, actually, not all girl look for 3Cs. well, i would say different girl, got different requirement and needs.
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Was wondering, are you guys all involved in LDR?? or most of you all just come here for fun??

well you guys mind telling abit of your relationship?? ie where you are.. where ur gf/bf is.. how long you have been togeather.. how long in LDR... etc..

well for me i am in malaysia while my gf is in australia...
been togeather for about 6 months.. of that almost 4 months has been in LDR...
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Mine is seriously in LDR my gf is a Singaporean, and we have been together for 9 months.. I'm in Malaysia.. smile.gif
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oh ok.. cool.. thats not too bad if u compare with me.. even when my gf comes back for holidays.. we are still kinda in LDR.. i'am in kl she in jb.. sigh..

how often to you get to see her?? btw, i was just wondering, how much communication you guys have with your partners while in LDR?

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QUOTE(lelong1234 @ May 23 2007, 09:13 PM)
oh ok.. cool.. thats not too bad if u compare with me.. even when my gf comes back for holidays.. we are still kinda in LDR.. i'am in kl she in jb.. sigh..

how often to you get to see her?? btw, i was just wondering, how much communication you guys have with your partners while in LDR?
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Lol, mine only get to meet her only once this year.. Then in future, I really don't know when we can meet again...
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Lol, mine only get to meet her only once this year.. Then in future, I really don't know when we can meet again...
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Wow.. serious?? how come so few times??

The both of you are students or working??

Huh??? dont know if can meet again?? how to be a couple if cant meet rclxub.gif rclxub.gif rclxub.gif rclxub.gif

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i feel you... in the beginning we used to communicate alot through skype..

but now she is never in her room.. dono her la.. she says she is always studying with her friends.. so now adays hardly get to talk. maybe one week talk once or twice for total of 10 min. been like this for the past one month. previously we talked everyday for 30min+. Now like this.. sigh..

Too expensive for me to call her hp, so thats why i keep the calls down to once or twice a week.

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Well, we not like you all young adults dude. smile.gif

Besides you know Malaysian currency against Singapore its double.. Can't afford much while I'm still studying.. But I can work for the money smile.gif
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QUOTE(lelong1234 @ May 23 2007, 09:42 PM)
Wow.. serious?? how come so few times??

The both of you are students or working??

Huh??? dont know if can meet again?? how to be a couple if cant meet rclxub.gif  rclxub.gif  rclxub.gif  rclxub.gif

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i feel you... in the beginning we used to communicate alot through skype..

but now she is never in her room.. dono her la.. she says she is always studying with her friends.. so now adays hardly get to talk. maybe one week talk once or twice for total of 10 min. been like this for the past one month. previously we talked everyday for 30min+. Now like this.. sigh..

Too expensive for me to call her hp, so thats why i keep the calls down to once or twice a week.
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QUOTE(BlueWind @ May 23 2007, 10:46 PM)
Well, we not like you all young adults dude. smile.gif

Besides you know Malaysian currency against Singapore its double.. Can't afford much while I'm still studying.. But I can work for the money smile.gif
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oh.. well i am a student also.. anyways i wish u the best of luck where ever ur relationship takes you..

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feel for you man. at least you can keep your cool. which is good
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well i kind of lost it for awhile.. but yeah.. i guess i just have to accept it..

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If you really want your relationship to work, sometimes you really have to keep your cool.. Like what it says, give and take.. tolerate and things like that smile.gif

By the way, thanks for the wish and same it goes to you too man. wink.gif

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Akhem... Continue from msn 1... tongue.gif
You are most welcome to join here. smile.gif
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yest im vy upset bout my work... after back from a upset meeting, my mood down to negative, i hope my fiancee can calm me down (her voice will always calm me down).. but in MSN, i start msn her and tok nonsence coz i was just too fetup.. and soon after that, i know i said something wrong.. she feel sked toking to me coz my mood aint good and she dun like the way i tok when im in bad mood...

i know i make her uncomfortable yest.. so after work, i brought 3 roses and rush down 2 hrs drive to giv her a surprise... when i 1st saw her, i giv her the flowers and said im sorry, pls forgive me... she hugged me and cried.... blush.gif blush.gif blush.gif ... i dun wish to left any unhappy marks in our journey, thatz y i make sure it wont happen...
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I'm jealous...almost. XD
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I am in LDR too. My bf is currently working at KL while I am stucked in my hometown, Sabah. Well, I have planning to go KL to work next year (if there is no objections from my mum tongue.gif) and he plans to get married next year too, haha!
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QUOTE(mandysu @ May 24 2007, 10:20 AM)
I am in LDR too. My bf is currently working at KL while I am stucked in my hometown, Sabah. Well, I have planning to go KL to work next year (if there is no objections from my mum tongue.gif) and he plans to get married next year too, haha!
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MANDY!!! CONGRATULATION!!!!! rclxm9.gif rclxm9.gif rclxm9.gif

Invite us yah!!!! I'll try to go if you invite us. tongue.gif
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post May 24 2007, 12:23 PM

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Haha, good to hear that Mandy. Congratulations~! smile.gif

Kokuryo, I don't know what to say.. But I feel like want to say something to you but then I just don't know what lol.. anyway, it's really good that you patch things up quickly and don't want the relationship get affected just because of that matter.. smile.gif
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post May 24 2007, 12:42 PM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ May 24 2007, 12:23 PM)
Kokuryo, I don't know what to say.. But I feel like want to say something to you but then I just don't know what lol.. anyway, it's really good that you patch things up quickly and don't want the relationship get affected just because of that matter.. smile.gif
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wa... like tat oso can a??? feel want to say but duno wat to say... notworthy.gif notworthy.gif
yeah... i always patch things up quick... now her MSN title: 谢谢你总是让我那么的开心...我爱你!!! .. (thanks you always make me so happy... i love you!!! ..)
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QUOTE(kokuryo @ May 24 2007, 12:42 PM)
wa... like tat oso can a??? feel want to say but duno wat to say...  notworthy.gif  notworthy.gif
yeah... i always patch things up quick... now her MSN title: 谢谢你总是让我那么的开心...我爱你!!! .. (thanks you always make me so happy... i love you!!! ..)
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That's sweet.. wub.gif
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post May 24 2007, 12:46 PM

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jus broke up from a LDR.......too many barrier.....she cant stand it anymore.... bye.gif
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QUOTE(sucka3 @ May 24 2007, 12:46 PM)
jus broke up from a LDR.......too many barrier.....she cant stand it anymore.... bye.gif
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Hush, mate. You still have us here..
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QUOTE(suiteng @ May 24 2007, 10:25 AM)
Good news wo... then can invite me liao XD
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QUOTE(kokuryo @ May 24 2007, 10:27 AM)
wa.... good news good news...!!! so many good news in LDR fellows this yr..!!! invite invite!!!!
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ May 24 2007, 10:45 AM)
MANDY!!! CONGRATULATION!!!!!  rclxm9.gif  rclxm9.gif  rclxm9.gif

Invite us yah!!!! I'll try to go if you invite us.  tongue.gif
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QUOTE(BlueWind @ May 24 2007, 12:23 PM)
Haha, good to hear that Mandy. Congratulations~! smile.gif

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Wah, suddenly all so hyperactive and hyperexcited tongue.gif Everything still not confirmed cause he still needs to pass through my mum's stage first before everything can really settled, haha! Anyway, he will come over to my place to see my mum for the 1st time this coming August so wish us luck so that my mum loves him, haha biggrin.gif Well, he plans to register either on 08.08.08 or 31.12.08 but the wedding dinner wont be so early la....Wait till everything confirmed only say ya!!!

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QUOTE(sucka3 @ May 24 2007, 12:46 PM)
jus broke up from a LDR.......too many barrier.....she cant stand it anymore.... bye.gif
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Well, like what I have said before, not ALL suitable for LDR as not all can sustain the barriers, stress, loneliness, emptiness etc....Anyway, hope that you wont be too sad and I believe that you sure can find a better one in the future..All the best ya!

This post has been edited by mandysu: May 24 2007, 01:02 PM
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the weird part is she said that she wanted to b alone......... blink.gif
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post May 24 2007, 02:06 PM

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Mandy,
congrats. he proposed to you liao! happy for you.

Kokuryo,
you really are a romantic guy. glad for you too.
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QUOTE(mandysu @ May 24 2007, 01:00 PM)
Wah, suddenly all so hyperactive and hyperexcited  tongue.gif  Everything still not confirmed cause he still needs to pass through my mum's stage first before everything can really settled, haha! Anyway, he will come over to my place to see my mum for the 1st time this coming August so wish us luck so that my mum loves him, haha biggrin.gif  Well, he plans to register either on 08.08.08 or 31.12.08 but the wedding dinner wont be so early la....Wait till everything confirmed only say ya!!!

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Well, like what I have said before, not ALL suitable for LDR as not all can sustain the barriers, stress, loneliness, emptiness etc....Anyway, hope that you wont be too sad and I believe that you sure can find a better one in the future..All the best ya!
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Sure will accept one lah, don't worry ler haha biggrin.gif


Yeah, that's when all sorts of patience kicks in if you want it to last.. lol..
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post May 24 2007, 02:39 PM

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Woi, look at the 1st post of this page!!! You guys left out boom_bread doh.gif Pity him

mandysu, sure 1 table for us. Put us at the corner corner also we don't mind. We can treat it as our gathering also.

So, we guys going to have to LDR wedding dinner. kokuryo and mandysu rclxm9.gif

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QUOTE(boom_bread @ May 24 2007, 05:13 AM)
ya lor...hope i can maintain dis LDR...my 1st luv too  .  how to tell ah...she told me dat she has no feeling anymore to me...but we always contact each other... n we really2 like a close couple...she told me many things like she still luv me...wut shud i do  cry.gif
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Give her some time.... Carry on see how 1st. wink.gif

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QUOTE(boom_bread @ May 24 2007, 05:13 AM)
ya lor...hope i can maintain dis LDR...my 1st luv too  .  how to tell ah...she told me dat she has no feeling anymore to me...but we always contact each other... n we really2 like a close couple...she told me many things like she still luv me...wut shud i do  cry.gif
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slowly lah... probably she's blur of what she wants. just be there for her if you want her. you know what, loving a person means seeing them to be happy. keep in touch with her and if she loves you, she'll definitely come back to you.
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ May 24 2007, 12:46 PM)
That's sweet..  wub.gif
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yup... warmed in my heart... blush.gif blush.gif


QUOTE(jdreamer @ May 24 2007, 12:55 PM)
Hush, mate. You still have us here..
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agreed!! we are still here for u... life on...

QUOTE(miyoko @ May 24 2007, 02:06 PM)
Kokuryo,
you really are a romantic guy. glad for you too.
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thanks... romantic guy?? i dun feel like im... sweat.gif


QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ May 24 2007, 02:39 PM)
So, we guys going to have to LDR wedding dinner. kokuryo and mandysu rclxm9.gif
most probably dun hav any wedding dinner lo... coz both family oso dun wan 'fan' on the planning of the dinner... save the money for honeymoon... kekek MALDIVES here i COME!!!!! thumbup.gif thumbup.gif thumbup.gif

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