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 ...::: Long Distance Relationship Version 3:::...., The Fellowship of LDR

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kokuryo
post Apr 18 2007, 01:08 PM

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Kokuryo reporting in...!

yest i mentioned in v2 bout giving my gf a surprise visit... it was a nice one... when i almost reach her house, i purposely called her and say im driving, just out of office going back home kekekeke...
then 10min later i showup infront of her,
1st expression: a scream! biggrin.gif
2nd expression: smile jumping up and down... sweat.gif sweat.gif
3rd expression: gimme a big big hug.... wub.gif wub.gif
4th expression: happy tears start falling down.... rolleyes.gif rolleyes.gif

can see that she is vy vy vy vy happy and surprise lo.. altho this morning i wake up 6am and straight go work from her house (2 hrs drive), but it's all worth it..!!
she appreciate my effort and thank me for that, even till now she is still thanking me in MSN.... blush.gif blush.gif
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post Apr 18 2007, 04:22 PM

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QUOTE(miyoko @ Apr 18 2007, 02:08 PM)
^kokuryo...

that's so sweet! really very very sweet. i can imagine your gf's feeling when she see you. you are really her sweetest gift.
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thanks miyoko...
me and my gf so in lov with each other... trust and understanding lead us to this stage.. actually im planing to giv her another surprise kekeke... she will be training in Miss Tourism Malaysia camp in sunway for 1 whole week next week.. which give me more time to plan for the surprise.. ekkeke actually im planning to propose to her... blush.gif blush.gif blush.gif
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post Apr 18 2007, 05:19 PM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Apr 18 2007, 04:57 PM)
Har.. propose sommore ah.. Very good leh.. So means its going to end of the LDR and move on to another stage?
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er... hopefully lo... still duno leh.. mayb after marry oso still LDR ler sweat.gif sweat.gif .. coz she need to help her father bizz on accounts... mayb another LDR for 2 more yrs... but i understand and i dont mind.... icon_idea.gif icon_idea.gif
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post Apr 18 2007, 06:04 PM

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QUOTE(wangpr @ Apr 18 2007, 05:38 PM)
U r lucky coz not every guy is lucky.....

SOme will said, why u come in surprise ar...........

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got gal dun like surprises 1 a??? i think im not lucky, it's the one who get a gf that dun like surprises UNLUCKY lo.... sweat.gif sweat.gif


QUOTE(BlueWind @ Apr 18 2007, 05:48 PM)
Nevermind la, after married at least you both already tied the knot smile.gif
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actually i dun think like tat ler.. coz even after marry, if u think 'she is already urs aneway', then soon u wont care bout her and may lead to broken marrige ler... so, even after marry, still need to continue giv her surprises geh... agreed??
kokuryo
post Apr 18 2007, 06:23 PM

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QUOTE(miyoko @ Apr 18 2007, 06:06 PM)
kokuryo...

double surprise at one time. but then, just an advice, if you wanna propose to her, and if you plan to propose to her at the Miss Tourism camp, then try not to kacau with her job oh... just in case, so that things didnt turn havoc smile.gif just a friendly advice. all the best oh...
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thanks for your advice miyoko... actually i didnt plan to propose to her at the camp la.. iz a close door training camp and if not mistaken they not allow anyone visit them... i sure will let her concentrate on the training lo coz i giv her my full support by not kacau her ma.. kekekeke
actually i planned to book a hotel room, either Hilton KL (near KL sentral) or JW Marriot, i oredi ordered Bouquet of 99 roses, another 100 roses to deco around the room, a propose ring and booked for a romantic dinner @ Bonton...
actually i not yet calculate the total cost leh... mayb iz a good time to do it now..
Hotel - RM500
200 roses - RM220 (cheap coz know people from cameron.. kkeke)
ring - RM3K
dinner - RM250
TOTAL: almost 4K...! sweat.gif sweat.gif sweat.gif


Added on April 18, 2007, 6:24 pm
QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Apr 18 2007, 06:20 PM)
Wow... Good 1. I been planning for that but always fail. Couldn't find a suitable time. sad.gif
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the time sure will come... just be patient... thumbup.gif thumbup.gif thumbup.gif

This post has been edited by kokuryo: Apr 18 2007, 06:24 PM
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post Apr 18 2007, 06:47 PM

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QUOTE(miyoko @ Apr 18 2007, 06:31 PM)
Wow, sweet! haha... i love surprises. hmm... i wonder whether i'll get mine or not. i mean surprises, not proposal. well, maybe let me comment on your plan. how are you gonna show the flower and the room to her? are you gonna propose to her first, or show her the room first? well, maybe my expectation is high, if it's me, i would prefer not to be done in hotel cos it seems to be a common place to me. I dont want many people at the place of proposal. Cos i want it to be exclusive to only me and my love. cos i dont want any other people copy my dear's idea. i want it to belong only to me ---> selfish leh... hehehe... I would prefer the proposal to be done at somewhere memorable to both me and my dear. but of course with lots and lots of preparation before hand. smile.gif
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good idea u hav... hope your dear will know wat u thinking then he will fulfill your wish... kekekek

sure sure pls giv any comment to me, actually im still wondering the sequence of event... kekeke i will make a heart shape on the bed using 花瓣 (duno wat call in english) and the ring cover by 1 of it.
actually i will ask her to close her eyes 1st b4 enter the room.. after that lead her to the center of the room b4 open her eyes, banquet of 99 roses oredi in my hand... then ask her open her eyes and i straight hand over the flower 'darling, just for you...' then let her hav a look on the surrounding... after she sattle down, ask her to sit on the bed, and i will take the propose ring and ask the golden question.... icon_idea.gif icon_idea.gif any comment fellow LDRs???
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post Apr 19 2007, 10:11 AM

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QUOTE(miyoko @ Apr 18 2007, 06:58 PM)
i cant see the chinese character that you typed. but anyway, how are you gonna close her eyes when you are holding the flower? dont tell me you gonna ask her to just close her eyes... she might peep and spoil the fun. hmm... maybe prepare a black piece of ribbon to seal her eyes?

then, you could let her open the "dunno what's that" one by one and let her find it herself.

Or... you could buy lots of roses, with a few different colours. then, take out the rose petals of one colour and put it all over the bed. maybe you make a few spots of petals with different colours---> maybe pink, yellow, white, bla bla bla... and you hide your ring below one of the group. on others, hide aluminium tin cap, or any cheap ring. and ask her to guess which one and open one by one. hint: maybe you put the ring below the one with the colour she loves the most.

just an idea...
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the chinese character is rose petals... kekekeke
the flower already in the room b4 she enter lo.. but i believe if i just ask her to close her eyes, she wont peep 1... thanks for your idea..

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post Apr 19 2007, 11:31 AM

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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Apr 19 2007, 10:35 AM)
Now, my relationship is quite tough... Not smooth.... sad.gif
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can share??? mayb we able to give some opinion??
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post Apr 19 2007, 12:43 PM

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QUOTE(mandysu @ Apr 19 2007, 12:34 PM)
Joshua, read your blog this morning. What happened? Mind to share?
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wats the URL for his blog? can share???
kokuryo
post Apr 19 2007, 12:54 PM

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QUOTE(mandysu @ Apr 19 2007, 12:48 PM)
Emn, actually it's his friendster blog oh. Do you have his friendster nick?
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no wor.... i dun hav his friendster nick oso...
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post Apr 19 2007, 01:11 PM

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QUOTE(trafox10 @ Apr 19 2007, 01:05 PM)
HEY ppl~ back here~..happy for ya kokuryo..so sweet to ya GF..all the best for ya proposal..

Anyway my girl's quite okie now...will keep on encouraging her no matter what happens...results will be out in the beginning of May *keeping fingers cross* hope everything goes the good way smile.gif
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thanks...

your encouragement to your gf is priceless and so meaningful... she will be fine..
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post Apr 19 2007, 04:24 PM

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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Apr 19 2007, 03:38 PM)
reporting....photo will be up later. XD

EDIT: OR how about now? Hehehehe.
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This was taken when he came to Japan to visit me for two weeks during my spring break holidays.
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sweet sweet couple...... happy for both of u....!! thumbup.gif thumbup.gif thumbup.gif
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post Apr 19 2007, 04:45 PM

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Joshua_0718, sad to hear that.... hum.... actually u are exacly like my style, u know somehow u dun like your gf do something but u will still support her all the way, help her all the way... me same too, coz we really cant stop what the other party wish to do, if u stopped it will turn out ugly...
but after we support even we not really agree on what they wannt do, all we need is they APPRECIATE our effort, understand why we support them so much...
*touchwood* my gf really appreciate things that ive done.... but as what i can see, mayb your gf oso appreciate wat u did, just that currently she hav some financial problem and that bother much of her thinking now, so she really doesnt mean to say something to hurt you gua.... unsure.gif unsure.gif
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post Apr 19 2007, 04:56 PM

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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Apr 19 2007, 04:47 PM)
I know she doens't mean it. But.... sometime it is just too much, and I got feeling too.... sad.gif
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i duno izzit most of the girl are like tat.. sometimes when something bothering my gf, her mood will change, say things that kinna rude and yes sometimes hurts me too... but i will have to understand her situation and juz dun add oil into the fire.. normally i will just diam diam let her say watever she wanna say...
after her mood back to normal, she will apologize to me...
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post Apr 19 2007, 09:55 PM

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QUOTE(miyoko @ Apr 19 2007, 06:02 PM)
kokuryo,

your action might be correct. can avoid quarrel. however, sometimes, you need to let the girls aware of their mistake too. you get what i mean? sometimes i did that too. my bf will keep quiet. then when i'm calm down, he will say out his feeling and say my wrong doings that i hurt him. i apologize and i try to correct my mistake. he in turn try to guide and of course, gave me time to improve myself.
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i agreed with you to let them know their mistake.. but my gf, thatz her style, she behave like that since long time ago and i personality think that dun 'ASK' your lover to change something that is already build inside her... coz she can change now but i think her behavior will still come out 1 coz itz inside her... i will have to learn to accept her behavior to aviod quarrel lo....
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post Apr 20 2007, 09:01 AM

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QUOTE(suiteng @ Apr 19 2007, 10:44 PM)
What's her horoscope?
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if ur asking my gf, she's Pisces...
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post Apr 20 2007, 12:02 PM

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QUOTE(miyoko @ Apr 20 2007, 11:35 AM)
yeah, the changing has to be done by her for HERSELF. not for you. you get what i mean? well, like me, i changed cos i wanna be a better me. cos sometimes, my bf could take my attitude and compromise it but not other people. so it's for my own good also.
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yup... i know what you mean... i hope she thinking the same way too...
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post Apr 21 2007, 10:47 AM

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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Apr 20 2007, 09:06 PM)
Like read a book...play an instrument...
I find banging on the piano to release tension really helpful..like I play whatever song I feel like playing...
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for me, if i wanna release tension, i go clubbing... icon_idea.gif icon_idea.gif icon_idea.gif
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post Apr 22 2007, 09:41 AM

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yeah.... another sweet couple leh........ wub.gif wub.gif wub.gif
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post Apr 22 2007, 10:45 PM

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lelong1234... listen to Joshua's advice... be in LDR, TRUST is vy vy important.. dun ever try control your gf... give her space...
hope she can see your effort and appreciate the relationship..

GANBATEH!

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