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 ...::: Long Distance Relationship Version 3:::...., The Fellowship of LDR

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post Apr 19 2007, 03:38 PM

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reporting....photo will be up later. XD

EDIT: OR how about now? Hehehehe.
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This was taken when he came to Japan to visit me for two weeks during my spring break holidays.

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post Apr 20 2007, 09:06 PM

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Like read a book...play an instrument...
I find banging on the piano to release tension really helpful..like I play whatever song I feel like playing...
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post Apr 22 2007, 10:02 AM

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aiyah, as if I'm not naughty with my bf. XD
my gosh all the innuendo I can come up with in a normal conversation.

I adore him. hahahahaha!!
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post Apr 22 2007, 09:09 PM

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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Apr 22 2007, 07:08 PM)
If it is in joking way, of course everyone can take it. Of course we can know when you are joking, and we will of course don't bother or return the 'attack'  tongue.gif
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joking of course. XD
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post Apr 24 2007, 04:18 PM

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definitely not your fault. it's everybody's. One, you shouldn't have asked her the question then. Two, she should have known better than to go to the bathroom without turning off or locking her screen. Three, that stupid nosy colleague it's none of his/her business!
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post Apr 24 2007, 10:06 PM

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oh and this has nothing to do with LDRs...but isn't my avatar awesome? XD
that's me in the boys' bathroom in school. HAHAHAHA
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post Apr 25 2007, 06:48 AM

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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Apr 25 2007, 01:26 AM)
Are you she-male? tongue.gif
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ahaha not a shemale...definitely female. biggrin.gif
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post Apr 26 2007, 06:14 PM

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ahahhahaha you know, there really isn't a point in posting pics if you can't see the faces. XD
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post Apr 29 2007, 05:27 PM

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Okay...I've got something for you guys. Need advice.

So you all know I've been in a long distance relationship for about a little over four months now...and it's been going pretty okay. My bf and I play Warcraft III DotA together...and last night was one of those nights. After the game, he started to tell me off about my attitude and how I didn't listen to him when he told me which items to buy first. It escalated into a big argument. No worries, slept on it and we're okay again today.

Then we get on the subject of my two tattoos and the two piercings that I'm planning to get when I get back to KL. Turns out he doesn't like one of the piercings that I want to get (rook) and says it's disgusting. Just the other day too, he was telling me No Physical Contact With Any Other Guys.

Is it just me, or is he getting a little more possessive and irritating me?
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post Apr 29 2007, 09:10 PM

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I thought so. I understand the no physical contact with other guys...but I thought that it's MY body and I can do whatever I please with it. He said he thinks they're disgusting and look very painful so he doesn't want me to get them...

...when I've been wanting to get them for a year now.
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post Apr 29 2007, 10:32 PM

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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Apr 29 2007, 10:28 PM)
What kind of physical contact? Pat at the shoulder, touch your hair, hold your hands?

Hmm.. if normal physical contact, it should be fine right?

For the stuff that you wanna buy, just go for it.
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it was to the point I couldn't hug other guys..but I told him off about it. It's like he didn't trust me anymore...and that bugged me.
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post Apr 30 2007, 11:00 AM

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thanks. I know that already...but I think he's being a little bit too much sometimes. *sigh*
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post Apr 30 2007, 12:13 PM

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QUOTE(kokuryo @ Apr 30 2007, 12:09 PM)
actually is there anything that u stopped him for doing something that u dun like?
did he actually stopped? iz same thing... he might think u r too much oso but as i said, GIVE AND TAKE...
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No, I've never told him what not to do.

Physical contact by him meant all sorts of touching with other guys, including arm around the shoulder, friendly hugging and all that...which I thought was over the line. I talked to him about that, and he's withdrawn the order.

I have two tattoos, one on my lower back and one on my ankle. I currently have four ear piercings and will want to get two more the next time I'm back in KL. One of these piercings (rook piercing as mentioned) is the one he said was "disgusting" and asked me if I would still get it even if he didn't approve. I said yes.

I'm not one who likes being controlled or restricted. I know my limits and I stick to them. I don't need someone else to tell me those limitations. He IS a possessive person, and maybe the thing that makes us so different is that I'm English ed and he's Chinese Ed.

I don't discriminate nor want to stereotype, but there ARE differences between the two eds and you can tell.
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post Apr 30 2007, 06:33 PM

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QUOTE(miyoko @ Apr 30 2007, 03:55 PM)
i dont have one, though i wanna have one. i'm still looking for a nice pattern and gathering my courage to have it done. i'm very damn afraid of pain. hahaha... i know i'm gonna love it when it's done.
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jahahhaha miyoko dear, I'm deathly afraid of pain too...but I got two done. smile.gif
yeah I suppose I'm gonna calm down for abit...

I reckon i'm better off single for life though.

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post Apr 30 2007, 09:42 PM

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QUOTE(darklight79 @ Apr 30 2007, 08:34 PM)
I got your pm. That's very good stuff! They look great on you. My sis has got a gothic design in the middle of her back, something with a red rose. It's pretty big though not as large as your design.
All i can say is you know what to do with your body and it shows well. Your bf must be blind not to appreciate what you've done to enhance its appearance. Great work!
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Thanks a lot. smile.gif

you know what my bf says? he got jealous cos my tattoo artist is/was a guy. *sigh* I don't know what to do with him sometimes. He loves me for who I am...but he gets jealous and possessive really easily. Sometimes I feel like just running off...not with someone else, just RUNNING OFF.
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post May 1 2007, 06:38 PM

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QUOTE(miyoko @ May 1 2007, 06:47 PM)
My friend had it done in Japan. The design is super nice. I wanna have a butterfly design. been looking through around KL, but didnt seems to find a nice design and i didnt get a shop which i have faith on. hehehe... most of the time, i got chicken out cos i'm afraid of pain. hahaha... malu...

hey, i want a photo of your tattoo too! send it to my PM, yeah. thanks.
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I specifically avoided butterflies and roses and scorpions cos EVERYBODY gets those...it's boring now. lol
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post May 2 2007, 05:30 PM

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QUOTE(miyoko @ May 2 2007, 04:02 PM)
I wanna have something that me/my dear design for me. waiting for him to have the mood to start designing for me. i'm not artistic, but he is. My friend's a butterfly, but she designed it herself. so very special and pretty.
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hey Ive sent you my tats. )
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post May 3 2007, 04:10 PM

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I'm 18..will be 19 this June smile.gif
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post May 4 2007, 11:21 AM

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must really suck y'know, losing someone...

I lost my great grand-aunt to a sudden heart attack on the 2nd day of CNY. The thing that hit me the most was that I talked to her the day before.
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post May 4 2007, 12:30 PM

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I was in shock. I was just walking around the house in shock.

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