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 ...::: Long Distance Relationship Version 3:::...., The Fellowship of LDR

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darklight79
post Apr 23 2007, 07:09 PM

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QUOTE(lelong1234 @ Apr 22 2007, 10:14 PM)
hey...i am also in an ldr...

got a small problem... lately my gf has been returning to her room late.. like past 2am (i know coz i call her room then no 1 answer, then the following day i ask her what time she come back then she says 2am)... she says that she was in a friends room watching drama and chatting...

would you guys allow your gf to behave like this?? especially since you are so far away and dont know what shes up to.

i dont know but i just cant help felling insecure because of this...
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No, you're just an insecure wuss. She has a life too you know. You think too much.
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post Apr 25 2007, 01:52 PM

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QUOTE(Rena_blue @ Apr 25 2007, 12:54 PM)


Joshua , no need so worry !!
sometimes , gals memang bla 1..dun care tham , say u not caring , care too much ask too much , say u "fan " !
u just do ur best ... okay ??


hhhehe , saw some lovely couple pic on the 1st pic ...
i also want to post eerrrr.....
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This is pretty rare. A female who admits the occasional flaws of her own gender (not saying all females are like that). Hats off. smile.gif

Post the pics.
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post Apr 27 2007, 01:04 PM

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Don't get it why you people are so scared to put your faces up. Y'all know each other no? It;s not like everyone's got a conspiracy against you.
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post Apr 27 2007, 01:08 PM

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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Apr 27 2007, 01:06 PM)
There are too many reason... Especially online. smile.gif

Even offline, people just don't simply show pic or give pic wink.gif
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Ok, well that's your reason. Our Health section, we post our face pics in there a lot. We're all friends over there. No problems there. I think it's lovely to see couple pics. Pictures say a thousand words with just watching the expressions of bliss on their faces.
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post Apr 27 2007, 01:12 PM

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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Apr 27 2007, 01:09 PM)
All those muscle pic? Later will go and see... Nice body you have....
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Thanks bro. No, not only body pics. We have pretty regular gatherings although i haven't been to an official one yet, just met one or 2 Health regs at a time. I'm going for the one this Saturday thoguh. At Williams. We've got a progress pic thread there, so quite a lot of the member's faces are there.


Added on April 27, 2007, 1:14 pm
QUOTE(Rena_blue @ Apr 26 2007, 02:42 PM)
hehe ...
this is the pic ....
u can't see me also ...
i am so mysterious..nyu nyu nyu nyu laugh.gif
[attachmentid=223442][attachmentid=223433][attachmentid=223442]

LDR supporter ....ke ke ke
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For example, if you actually had faces in there instead of looking like someone chopped off your heads, it would've looked a lot better. I'll bet both of your expressions would be pretty sweet with both of you holding each other like that.

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post Apr 27 2007, 01:21 PM

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QUOTE(King83 @ Apr 27 2007, 01:19 PM)
goodluck getting CC to turn into H&F
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You're being an idiot. I'm talking about them posting couple (gf/bf) pics. What has that got to do with conversion of any kind? You know what's your problem? You read posts too fast and jump to conclusions at the speed of light. Who said anything about asking them to take body shots?

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post Apr 27 2007, 02:26 PM

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QUOTE(wassap @ Apr 27 2007, 02:12 PM)
wa...wa...wa... v 3 already? i take off few days so many things happen. i miss out anything ma?hehehe... reporting in.
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post Apr 27 2007, 03:50 PM

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QUOTE(free_enuf @ Apr 27 2007, 03:30 PM)
Define LDR?

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This couple had been seperated by 400km for 5 years and yet they made it to meet 2days a week! Been married lately!
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Nice!!! Go get 'em tiger!

Btw, she's beautiful.

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post Apr 27 2007, 04:06 PM

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Haha here she is:-

LDR too. I get to see her just once or twice a week. Maybe even less. No possessiveness involved, no problems with trust, and total freedom within limits of respect.

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post Apr 27 2007, 09:08 PM

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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Apr 27 2007, 06:17 PM)
Bro, is your girl name Radiance Leong? sweat.gif
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Ok. This is like the 3rd time people have asked me this. No, no and i repeat, no! Lol.

Who is she btw?


Added on April 27, 2007, 9:17 pm
QUOTE(Mrsinner @ Apr 27 2007, 04:20 PM)
/pats on back, you done good.
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Thanks bro. She's one of the blessings in my life.

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post Apr 28 2007, 01:30 AM

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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Apr 28 2007, 12:45 AM)
She is someone from Penang.

The 1st time doesn't look like her, but the 2nd pic really do look like her.
I think I have ask u before, do I? blush.gif

http://www.friendster.com/user.php?statpos=bc&uid=3246569
Then you will know why. smile.gif
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Haha. Ok ok. I admit there's a slight resemblance I guess.


Added on April 28, 2007, 1:32 am
QUOTE(Tereno @ Apr 27 2007, 11:20 PM)
Wooo nice pics.!! Wow..this thread already reached version 3 liao!! Congrats man.. and keep on going all of you

Me.. I don't know if I was in version 1 or not.. but I was in an LDR 2 years ago..for about 2 years. I still miss her and I think that maybe I still love her. Although a lot of things have passed..I had a gf after we broke up..but it just wasn't the same as my ex. sad.gif Now I'm single again.. She's single too..We're both communicating.. but don't know how it's going to work out. Any thoughts, questions?
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The more you expect something, the less likely it'll happen. Go with the flow and take things naturally.

QUOTE(BlueWind @ Apr 27 2007, 11:26 PM)
Guys, is there anything you can do when you really feel like hugging your partner?
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If you're in an LDR, what can you do? Nothing except giving her a call or a text message. Then if all else fails there's always porn...................


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post Apr 29 2007, 07:49 PM

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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Apr 29 2007, 05:27 PM)
Okay...I've got something for you guys. Need advice.

So you all know I've been in a long distance relationship for about a little over four months now...and it's been going pretty okay. My bf and I play Warcraft III DotA together...and last night was one of those nights. After the game, he started to tell me off about my attitude and how I didn't listen to him when he told me which items to buy first. It escalated into a big argument. No worries, slept on it and we're okay again today.

Then we get on the subject of my two tattoos and the two piercings that I'm planning to get when I get back to KL. Turns out he doesn't like one of the piercings that I want to get (rook) and says it's disgusting. Just the other day too, he was telling me No Physical Contact With Any Other Guys.

Is it just me, or is he getting a little more possessive and irritating me?
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I...... think the no physical contact with other guys may be fine, but it's all relative. About the rest, he's being a d!ck. It's YOUR body, you have every right to do what you want with it and he should respect that.
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post Apr 30 2007, 12:00 PM

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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Apr 30 2007, 11:00 AM)
thanks. I know that already...but I think he's being a little bit too much sometimes. *sigh*
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Tell him to stop being such a control freak. Over possessive guys are a major turn off to a lot of women and screws up relationships, period. I never ever tell my girl how to dress or what not to do with her body. Mutual respect is very important in a relationship and your guy needs to learn some of that respect.


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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Apr 30 2007, 12:13 PM)
No, I've never told him what not to do.

Physical contact by him meant all sorts of touching with other guys, including arm around the shoulder, friendly hugging and all that...which I thought was over the line. I talked to him about that, and he's withdrawn the order.

I have two tattoos, one on my lower back and one on my ankle. I currently have four ear piercings and will want to get two more the next time I'm back in KL. One of these piercings (rook piercing as mentioned) is the one he said was "disgusting" and asked me if I would still get it even if he didn't approve. I said yes.

I'm not one who likes being controlled or restricted. I know my limits and I stick to them. I don't need someone else to tell me those limitations. He IS a possessive person, and maybe the thing that makes us so different is that I'm English ed and he's Chinese Ed.

I don't discriminate nor want to stereotype, but there ARE differences between the two eds and you can tell.
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First of all, in order for me to properly advise you, i need some personal shots of that tattoo on your lower back.





















































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post Apr 30 2007, 01:09 PM

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sad.gif I guess i won't be getting that tattoo shot.
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QUOTE(suiteng @ Apr 30 2007, 02:39 PM)
Ah.. physical contact is ok lah.. but not too extreme. My ex dun like me to have close physical contact with guy or gals..  sweat.gif But I still do, dun let her know can already. Hehe.. right now I have freedom coz I'm single tongue.gif

Same like u, I have 8 piercings on my ear itself. Have a tattoo on my back. And might be getting one on my arms. My ex ok with those, as long as I dun have close physical contact with people.
You want mine?  brows.gif
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Apr 30 2007, 02:43 PM)
i want! i want!  drool.gif  drool.gif
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Well, all 3 of you can pm me your tattoo shots, that is if miyoko has one too. So it's spunkberry and the 2 of you. Thanks.
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post Apr 30 2007, 07:34 PM

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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Apr 30 2007, 06:33 PM)
jahahhaha miyoko dear, I'm deathly afraid of pain too...but I got two done. smile.gif
yeah I suppose I'm gonna calm down for abit...

I reckon i'm better off single for life though.
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I got your pm. That's very good stuff! They look great on you. My sis has got a gothic design in the middle of her back, something with a red rose. It's pretty big though not as large as your design.
All i can say is you know what to do with your body and it shows well. Your bf must be blind not to appreciate what you've done to enhance its appearance. Great work!
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Apr 30 2007, 09:42 PM)
Thanks a lot. smile.gif

you know what my bf says? he got jealous cos my tattoo artist is/was a guy. *sigh* I don't know what to do with him sometimes. He loves me for who I am...but he gets jealous and possessive really easily. Sometimes I feel like just running off...not with someone else, just RUNNING OFF.
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Your bf seems to have some serious insecurity issues if he cannot trust a guy who's profession is to tattoo designs on your body. Lol. you need to have a serious talk with him before it starts boiling over and believe me you don't want that. I sent you a pm. Take it easy babe. You'll be fine. You can talk to me anytime.
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Was MIA. Y'all talking like from LYN died.
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post May 7 2007, 03:52 PM

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QUOTE(spunkberry @ May 7 2007, 03:32 PM)
hehehe congrats kokuryo. to be honest, marriage scares the crap outta me. XD
but I do sometimes dream of a romantic proposal and planning my wedding...

Nuh-uh. Scares the crap outta me. XD
Or even if I do get married, I don't want kids.
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I make beautiful kids. Don't be scared of me. sad.gif

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