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 ...::: Long Distance Relationship Version 3:::...., The Fellowship of LDR

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mumuz
post May 22 2007, 09:19 PM

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tongue.gif i'm new to this thread n also new to LDR....
he is 200km away from me... cry.gif
mumuz
post Jun 4 2007, 01:46 PM

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weee....i went bak n met him........
but now bak in kl...have to wait another 3 weeks only can see him again....sigh......
mumuz
post Jun 7 2007, 10:24 PM

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just curious...
isit too much to be demanding?
this ldr of mine has just started...barely 1 mth..
but i m already feelin paranoid when he didnt call or msg for 2 days...
he said he was busy
i find it lame...isit me being demandin or him being ignorant?
mumuz
post Jun 8 2007, 12:39 AM

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bluewind: neh...u didnt sound offensive n all...

sigh...i guess i m being just too paranoid...
must really get used to this...
mumuz
post Jun 9 2007, 03:50 PM

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QUOTE(radical85 @ Jun 9 2007, 11:58 AM)
what? didnt contact for 2 whole days? how busy oso muz at least send a goodnite or good morning msg la... It doesnt take long time to type 1 sms rite? thats my 2cent...

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that was what i thought...
but i should be considerate as well..he is workin, n i m studyin...i suppose this is one of the struggle we both have to go thru...
like what bluewind, spunkberry, cameltoe n jdreamer said, trust, space n commitment are more important...
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post Jun 9 2007, 08:20 PM

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QUOTE(radical85 @ Jun 9 2007, 05:34 PM)
I am trying to say that dont cause any unnescessary tension. In LDR u are not by ur partners side, sense of insecurity will surely be there. I dont believe that anyone will be so busy till got no time to even send one sms. I have college from 8.30 morning till 4.30pm everyday except sunday, and after that i have to write report, do read up for next class and finish off my practical work at night. And it gets worse during my exam time. But still i will send gd nite sms or sms her while im eating my dinner just to let her know what am i busy about so that she got updated about my situation.

The point here is be "responsible". Its not that they will always think u cheating on them if u didnt contact for days. They are worried about you, they concern about you because you are the one. One sms might not mean much to you, but it means a lot to them.
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its funny cuz i'm not so worried bout the cheating part.....in fact, it was more like i'm not used to it cuz we used to chat 3 hours almost everyday....

shanshan>>u should be honest with him....tell him how u feel...when my bf didnt call or msg for 2 days, i told him i was unhappy...n then he apologized...
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post Jun 15 2007, 12:58 PM

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jdreamer>>i supposed u shouldnt do something to make her forget u...she's really outta your life now...she should know that...n its now completely not your responsibility...
ignore her...n after a few days she should get the msg n leave u alone...
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post Jun 25 2007, 07:47 PM

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i just ended mine...
only 1 mth...
awesome..i'm single again...

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