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 ...::: Long Distance Relationship Version 3:::...., The Fellowship of LDR

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miyoko
post Apr 17 2007, 06:33 PM

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miyoko reporting in.!
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post Apr 18 2007, 12:29 PM

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wow... i am the 3rd poster for V2. hmm... slight decrement from version one. hahaha...
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post Apr 18 2007, 02:08 PM

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^kokuryo...

that's so sweet! really very very sweet. i can imagine your gf's feeling when she see you. you are really her sweetest gift.
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post Apr 18 2007, 06:06 PM

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post Apr 18 2007, 06:31 PM

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QUOTE(kokuryo @ Apr 18 2007, 06:23 PM)
thanks for your advice miyoko... actually i didnt plan to propose to her at the camp la.. iz a close door training camp and if not mistaken they not allow anyone visit them... i sure will let her concentrate on the training lo coz i giv her my full support by not kacau her ma.. kekekeke
actually i planned to book a hotel room, either Hilton KL (near KL sentral) or JW Marriot, i oredi ordered Bouquet of 99 roses, another 100 roses to deco around the room, a propose ring and booked for a romantic dinner @ Bonton...
actually i not yet calculate the total cost leh... mayb iz a good time to do it now..
Hotel - RM500
200 roses - RM220 (cheap coz know people from cameron.. kkeke)
ring - RM3K
dinner - RM250
TOTAL: almost 4K...!  sweat.gif  sweat.gif  sweat.gif
Wow, sweet! haha... i love surprises. hmm... i wonder whether i'll get mine or not. i mean surprises, not proposal. well, maybe let me comment on your plan. how are you gonna show the flower and the room to her? are you gonna propose to her first, or show her the room first? well, maybe my expectation is high, if it's me, i would prefer not to be done in hotel cos it seems to be a common place to me. I dont want many people at the place of proposal. Cos i want it to be exclusive to only me and my love. cos i dont want any other people copy my dear's idea. i want it to belong only to me ---> selfish leh... hehehe... I would prefer the proposal to be done at somewhere memorable to both me and my dear. but of course with lots and lots of preparation before hand. smile.gif

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post Apr 18 2007, 06:58 PM

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i cant see the chinese character that you typed. but anyway, how are you gonna close her eyes when you are holding the flower? dont tell me you gonna ask her to just close her eyes... she might peep and spoil the fun. hmm... maybe prepare a black piece of ribbon to seal her eyes?

then, you could let her open the "dunno what's that" one by one and let her find it herself.

Or... you could buy lots of roses, with a few different colours. then, take out the rose petals of one colour and put it all over the bed. maybe you make a few spots of petals with different colours---> maybe pink, yellow, white, bla bla bla... and you hide your ring below one of the group. on others, hide aluminium tin cap, or any cheap ring. and ask her to guess which one and open one by one. hint: maybe you put the ring below the one with the colour she loves the most.

just an idea...
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post Apr 19 2007, 06:02 PM

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kokuryo,

your action might be correct. can avoid quarrel. however, sometimes, you need to let the girls aware of their mistake too. you get what i mean? sometimes i did that too. my bf will keep quiet. then when i'm calm down, he will say out his feeling and say my wrong doings that i hurt him. i apologize and i try to correct my mistake. he in turn try to guide and of course, gave me time to improve myself.
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post Apr 20 2007, 11:35 AM

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QUOTE(kokuryo @ Apr 19 2007, 09:55 PM)
i agreed with you to let them know their mistake.. but my gf, thatz her style, she behave like that since long time ago and i personality think that dun 'ASK' your lover to change something that is already build inside her... coz she can change now but i think her behavior will still come out 1 coz itz inside her... i will have to learn to accept her behavior to aviod quarrel lo....
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yeah, the changing has to be done by her for HERSELF. not for you. you get what i mean? well, like me, i changed cos i wanna be a better me. cos sometimes, my bf could take my attitude and compromise it but not other people. so it's for my own good also.
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post Apr 20 2007, 03:47 PM

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QUOTE(firewire @ Apr 20 2007, 01:03 PM)
from my understanding, you mean to say girls like to let it all out instead of keeping something inside? words hurt and kill even more when it's being uttered from someone so important to you. *sigh*
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Well, it goes with mood and situation. i tend to let all things out if i couldnt handle it myself. but some of the time, i keep it to myself if i know that it would hurt the one whom i love.
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post Apr 24 2007, 03:18 PM

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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Apr 23 2007, 09:02 PM)
Guys, I got my gf into trouble accidentally. We were on MSN and I ask her some question, which I don't know she suddenly went toilet and left her MSN on. Her colleague went and read her MSN.  mad.gif

And now, she is angry of me..... I feel very 'Nei Jiu' and feel very sorry to her. How? Grrrr... Stupid me....

Recently, she keep on say I ask too much questions, and she said asking much questions will bring trouble. She now blaming me that..... sad.gif
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actually, it isnt your fault that her colleague saw what you asked in MSN. it's in fact her colleague's fault for going to see her things without your gf's permission.

and believe it or not, it is also your gf's fault for not turning off the screen or her msn chatting before she goes to washroom.


Added on April 24, 2007, 3:21 pmkokuryo...

Aren't so proud of your gf. she's pretty... that's so sweet ... wub.gif


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post Apr 25 2007, 08:52 AM

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spunkberry,
nice photo. i so wanted to do something like that, but i couldnt get a male toilet with no one in it. hahaha... cool. love the posture. hehehe...
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post Apr 25 2007, 12:30 PM

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me dear's birthday coming! gotta get him present. Suggestions please...
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post Apr 30 2007, 11:59 AM

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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Apr 26 2007, 10:49 AM)
She has been smsing & msging me these few days. She says she's depressed, tired and pressured. All that. She has been complaining about her new bf, this and that.

What can I do?
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you dont have to do anything. the fact is that she left you for this guy whom she think is better than you. so what's with the complaining? made me wonder whether she got complain about you to other guy who have feeling for her or not when you guys are together. i totally feel that complaing about current bf to an ex-bf is totally wrong. no respect at all, both to the ex-bf and bf. she's really got attitude problem.

QUOTE(jdreamer @ Apr 26 2007, 06:02 PM)
I replied her.. Whether I'm fine already or not, I don't think that telling me about him is a good idea still. After all, you leave me for him. So, what do you want me to say? Encourage you to quarrel with him or wish you two good luck? If you understand.

Then, I ignored her next few sms. Ah, did I make the right move? unsure.gif
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yeah, correct, you absolutely have the right to ignore her stupid sms complaining about bf to you. you have no obligation to reply to her.

QUOTE(spunkberry @ Apr 29 2007, 05:27 PM)
Okay...I've got something for you guys. Need advice.

So you all know I've been in a long distance relationship for about a little over four months now...and it's been going pretty okay. My bf and I play Warcraft III DotA together...and last night was one of those nights. After the game, he started to tell me off about my attitude and how I didn't listen to him when he told me which items to buy first. It escalated into a big argument. No worries, slept on it and we're okay again today.

Then we get on the subject of my two tattoos and the two piercings that I'm planning to get when I get back to KL. Turns out he doesn't like one of the piercings that I want to get (rook) and says it's disgusting. Just the other day too, he was telling me No Physical Contact With Any Other Guys.

Is it just me, or is he getting a little more possessive and irritating me?
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Apr 29 2007, 10:32 PM)
it was to the point I couldn't hug other guys..but I told him off about it. It's like he didn't trust me anymore...and that bugged me.
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erm... i think about tattooing and piercing, your bf can give his opinion, but it's absolutely your decision on your body. he gotta respect you decision. whether he likes it or not, he gotta learn to accept it cos it is how you think and how you see things. respecting each others decision and respecting each other's different point of view is really important. maybe you ought to talk to him nicely about this.

As to him stopping you from hugging other guy, what kind of hugging do you mean? is it placing the hand on the shoulder type of hugging or hugging front to front, or romantic kind of hugging, or friendly hug. well, i guess, this you gotta try to judge for yourself. there some kind of hugging or physical contact that you might think is OK, but he think is being not respectful of him. so, what you ought to do is compromise. i wish you all the best yeah.
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post Apr 30 2007, 12:52 PM

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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Apr 30 2007, 12:13 PM)
No, I've never told him what not to do.

Physical contact by him meant all sorts of touching with other guys, including arm around the shoulder, friendly hugging and all that...which I thought was over the line. I talked to him about that, and he's withdrawn the order.

I have two tattoos, one on my lower back and one on my ankle. I currently have four ear piercings and will want to get two more the next time I'm back in KL. One of these piercings (rook piercing as mentioned) is the one he said was "disgusting" and asked me if I would still get it even if he didn't approve. I said yes.

I'm not one who likes being controlled or restricted. I know my limits and I stick to them. I don't need someone else to tell me those limitations. He IS a possessive person, and maybe the thing that makes us so different is that I'm English ed and he's Chinese Ed.

I don't discriminate nor want to stereotype, but there ARE differences between the two eds and you can tell.
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since you have made up your decision, then try to talk to him nicely lorr... sure will ok geh...

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post Apr 30 2007, 02:43 PM

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QUOTE(suiteng @ Apr 30 2007, 02:39 PM)
Ah.. physical contact is ok lah.. but not too extreme. My ex dun like me to have close physical contact with guy or gals..  sweat.gif But I still do, dun let her know can already. Hehe.. right now I have freedom coz I'm single tongue.gif

Same like u, I have 8 piercings on my ear itself. Have a tattoo on my back. And might be getting one on my arms. My ex ok with those, as long as I dun have close physical contact with people.
You want mine?  brows.gif
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i want! i want! drool.gif drool.gif
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post Apr 30 2007, 02:55 PM

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i dont have one, though i wanna have one. i'm still looking for a nice pattern and gathering my courage to have it done. i'm very damn afraid of pain. hahaha... i know i'm gonna love it when it's done.
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post May 1 2007, 05:47 PM

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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Apr 30 2007, 06:33 PM)
jahahhaha miyoko dear, I'm deathly afraid of pain too...but I got two done. smile.gif
yeah I suppose I'm gonna calm down for abit...

I reckon i'm better off single for life though.
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My friend had it done in Japan. The design is super nice. I wanna have a butterfly design. been looking through around KL, but didnt seems to find a nice design and i didnt get a shop which i have faith on. hehehe... most of the time, i got chicken out cos i'm afraid of pain. hahaha... malu...

hey, i want a photo of your tattoo too! send it to my PM, yeah. thanks.
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post May 2 2007, 03:02 PM

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QUOTE(spunkberry @ May 1 2007, 06:38 PM)
I specifically avoided butterflies and roses and scorpions cos EVERYBODY gets those...it's boring now. lol
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I wanna have something that me/my dear design for me. waiting for him to have the mood to start designing for me. i'm not artistic, but he is. My friend's a butterfly, but she designed it herself. so very special and pretty.
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post May 3 2007, 09:31 AM

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Spunkberry,
nice tattoo you've got there. Big one too. I dont intend to get a big one. hehe... just a small one smile.gif
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post May 7 2007, 02:58 PM

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hehehe... me paiseh to post my picture leh... dont want lah... can ah?

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