Anyway, I'm reporting in
Kokuryo..so sweet of you! Best of luck to you ya!
...::: Long Distance Relationship Version 3:::...., The Fellowship of LDR
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Wah................I am soooooooooooooooo slow
Anyway, I'm reporting in Kokuryo..so sweet of you! Best of luck to you ya! |
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Apr 19 2007, 12:34 PM
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Joshua, read your blog this morning. What happened? Mind to share?
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Apr 19 2007, 12:48 PM
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Emn, actually it's his friendster blog oh. Do you have his friendster nick?
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Apr 20 2007, 09:46 AM
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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Apr 19 2007, 04:33 PM) Actually, I dun plan to tell. I am too stress now for my assignment, so decide to have a break and tell you guys my story. Dear Joshua,Recently, her house rental increase and she start to face financial problem. I tried to advice her, console her, help her, etc.... In the end... She said I am kaypo. That's the 1st thing. Then I keep quiet and continue my kindness and try to help her... Again, she said none of my business and it is her business.  Come on man.. 1 time is enough, 2 times to hurt me? Fine fine fine.. I understand her situation and forget about it... Complained to her that I am unhappy.Ok, the next day... She told me she wanted to go for cabin crew interview. Although I don't like her doing this work as I know it is very complicated in this line(my brother told me as he was air steward before), but I just support her all the way because I knew I must support her and not to stop her future or her ambition. So, I find all the interview procedure and so on. Told her everything, advice her, blah blah blah... She said it is because of the salary is interesting that's the reason she wanted to go for that interview. But she worried about her future, her studies and so on.. I advice her again... She then she said she will just find a rich man and just marry him. I really got upsad. Come on man... This is not the way to get merajuk, lepas geram also lar not this way. Over the limit already. Seems like she treat me like outsider. Sigh... I don't know what to say lar... I just tell her she did not respect me at all blah blah blah.... She said it is all because of her 'Qi Hua'(angry word in chinese), but that's not the way.... SIGH  I can understand your feeling. Well, from what you typed here, I really can say it's really her 'Qi Hua' cause gals tend to say things that they dont really mean at all for e.g. you are kaypoh, none of your business..it's my business or even find a rich man and get married..honestly I will also say those things to my bf too  It's because gals' behaviours are greatly affected by their feeling at that very moment but after they have calmed down, they will realise automatically their mistakes without need to be told. Joshua, honestly to tell you that sometimes we dont realise that what we are saying will hurt the feeling for those who listen them cause 'shuo zhe wu yi, ting zhe you xin'Well, like you said, what has been said, cant be taken back. All just depend on both of you on how to mend back the mistakes and you also have to try to forget what has past. Hope that this wont affect the relationship between both of you. Well, my advice to you is that at the time you feel very disappointed with the relationship, why dont sit back and think back on the sweet memories between both of you?For sure, after that, you will think that it's kind of silly to be upset over such small matters  Dont be unhappy anymore oh ok  |
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Apr 20 2007, 02:47 PM
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QUOTE(firewire @ Apr 20 2007, 01:03 PM) from my understanding, you mean to say girls like to let it all out instead of keeping something inside? words hurt and kill even more when it's being uttered from someone so important to you. *sigh* Dear firewire,I understand what do you mean but for what I have said just now does not really apply to ALL gals. Some gals will tend to speak out all from their hearts while there are some who tend to keep all those in their heart. But I tell you, it doesnt mean that when the gal prefers to keep all in her heart is better cause it might be more hurtful and killing in the end. Well, you can try to tell them their mistakes after they have calm down and if they really care about you, they are sure willing to change their bad habits |
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Apr 26 2007, 12:37 PM
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Apr 26 2007, 10:49 AM) She has been smsing & msging me these few days. She says she's depressed, tired and pressured. All that. She has been complaining about her new bf, this and that. jdreamer, dont care her la! later you made yourself more depressed.What can I do? |
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Apr 26 2007, 08:57 PM
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Apr 26 2007, 06:02 PM) I replied her.. Whether I'm fine already or not, I don't think that telling me about him is a good idea still. After all, you leave me for him. So, what do you want me to say? Encourage you to quarrel with him or wish you two good luck? If you understand. Good job jdreamer!! I am so proud of you! You are telling her the truth and I believe that she will aware that she doesnt really care about your feeling...Then, I ignored her next few sms. Ah, did I make the right move?  |
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May 3 2007, 08:09 AM
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Let me be the first one to answer the question...Emn....my age is 24...
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May 16 2007, 02:06 PM
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I am also sick!!! wu wu wu~~~!!!!
Keep on coughing till my stomach also pain pain, haiz!!! By the way, I am just back from my trip with my dear to Langkawi Kokuryo, waiting for your Part II. Hope that I wont need to wait too long as my popcorn is going to be finished |
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May 19 2007, 08:15 AM
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Are there anyone who misses me here?
So quiet oh this thread, how come??? |
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May 21 2007, 08:43 AM
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Joshua~~~Good luck in your exam!!! I will pray for you to have great result in your exam. Dont give yourself too much stress and just believe in yourself ya!
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May 21 2007, 03:08 PM
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QUOTE(HughieRmX @ May 21 2007, 10:37 AM) Hello EveryOne .. Of course you are welcome hughie!!!! You have even posted msg here before Mind I join this thread ? Regards, HughiE QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ May 21 2007, 12:42 PM) I screwed up my 1st paper. No mood to do also. Sigh Dear Joshua,Well, hope that it didnt turn up as bad as what you thought. Try to relax yourself and dont think of other things first. Pay full concentration in your next exam. All the best ya |
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May 24 2007, 10:20 AM
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I am in LDR too. My bf is currently working at KL while I am stucked in my hometown, Sabah. Well, I have planning to go KL to work next year (if there is no objections from my mum
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May 24 2007, 01:00 PM
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QUOTE(suiteng @ May 24 2007, 10:25 AM) Good news wo... then can invite me liao XD QUOTE(kokuryo @ May 24 2007, 10:27 AM) wa.... good news good news...!!! so many good news in LDR fellows this yr..!!! invite invite!!!! QUOTE(jdreamer @ May 24 2007, 10:45 AM) MANDY!!! CONGRATULATION!!!!!  Invite us yah!!!! I'll try to go if you invite us. QUOTE(BlueWind @ May 24 2007, 12:23 PM) Haha, good to hear that Mandy. Congratulations~! Wah, suddenly all so hyperactive and hyperexcited Everything still not confirmed cause he still needs to pass through my mum's stage first before everything can really settled, haha! Anyway, he will come over to my place to see my mum for the 1st time this coming August so wish us luck so that my mum loves him, haha  Well, he plans to register either on 08.08.08 or 31.12.08 but the wedding dinner wont be so early la....Wait till everything confirmed only say ya!!!Added on May 24, 2007, 1:02 pm QUOTE(sucka3 @ May 24 2007, 12:46 PM) jus broke up from a LDR.......too many barrier.....she cant stand it anymore.... Well, like what I have said before, not ALL suitable for LDR as not all can sustain the barriers, stress, loneliness, emptiness etc....Anyway, hope that you wont be too sad and I believe that you sure can find a better one in the future..All the best ya! This post has been edited by mandysu: May 24 2007, 01:02 PM |
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Wah, what happened here? So long didnt drop by here and seemed like a lot of couples here have problems
Lelong1234, take it easy ya! Take this time to calm yourself down while putting all your attention to your exam first. I believe that your gf can also use this time to clear up her mind, maybe she has some problem which is troubling her mind now. Just try not to think negatively ya! Shanshan, I agree with you. A couple will sometimes take the relationship for granted if it is too smooth and I always believe that if the couple could face the problem together, the relationship will become stronger and firmer. |
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 What happened?I am always here just that didnt leave any message, haha Well, about the reporting matter actually depends strongly on both whether they want to do it or not as my bf and I will tell each other what happens in our day as well as share some jokes that happened on that day itself Actually by doing this, it will make our relationship closer though we are separated so far away from each other. Communication is the only method to maintain LDR!!! |
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Actually can use webcam while skyping ah?
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Jun 14 2007, 08:50 AM
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Morning all
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=.=""" What happened here? Anyway, feel free to contact me through 103...I am 24 hrs accessible
Morning guys and gals!! |
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