Yes ah, good morning.

Wah, sounds pretty good eh. Glad that both of you enjoy the trip. Share the photos yah!

See dude, we already told you not to worry mah... Just enjoy your trip and now you see you came back with happy mood. Haha anyway, Good to hear that and faster post the pics man we are WAITING

Hello EveryOne ..

Mind I join this thread ?

Regards,
HughiE

HI HI you in an LDR TOO? coolios...I WAS in one...

I like you people loads you know? XD I only come to this thread when I'm on LYN. =D
Good luck in your exams Joshua..>I'm done with high school FOREVAH

Hughie, everyone is welcome to this thread

Joshua, all the best to you ya

I screwed up my 1st paper. No mood to do also. Sigh

Of course you are welcome hughie!!!! You have even posted msg here before

Dear Joshua,
Well, hope that it didnt turn up as bad as what you thought. Try to relax yourself and dont think of other things first. Pay full concentration in your next exam. All the best ya

agreed with mandysu.. think ahead, dun think behind.. concentrate on your coming papers... good luck..!

Stfu, take the negative thoughts out and slam it on the next paper bro. You'll do fine! Best of luck!

I like that line...
STFU, take the negative thoughts out and slam it on the next paper.

haha... or maybe "ohmigawd, i wish i have more time to do my work". hahaha...

She's so sweet. i've done that before. mine was handycraft.

Haha. I double look whether he got type wrong a not

Thanks everyone. Will not let my second paper easily run off from my hand already

Should I say "Welcome back to the group" or.. macam mana?

Good boy. Ganbatte for your second paper oh!

haiz... just had an arguement with my gf.. she can sometimes me a bit too much...

kinda down right now..

thinking if this relationship is worth it or not...

heres a snippit of at conversation..,,

advice me on what i should do plz...


I says:
u treat me so good i think i should send u a lot

she says:
ha..
:
u not even sending me my present..
:
i doubt u will send flowers to me...

hehe...


I says:
yea la.. for u presents n gifts are like the most important things in life..

right??

dont hv 2 deny

for u presents + gifts = happiness

doubt got any other variables involved


she says:
yeah rite...
:
nonsense!!!

ok then...

u tell me so far wat have u gave me?other than those presents n gifts...


I says:
well seems like u think i hv given u nothing other than those

fine...

if u cant think of what i hv done 4 u...

then i really got nothing else 2 say to you

if u want 2 know..u really hurt me when u said that...

just go study or do whatever u want 2 do... no mood 2 carry on this conversation with u


She says:
wat did i say that hurt u?

but when u hurt me, i din say ..

then niow u like that la..

ok..

tell me la..

wat does it mean?

tell me la..


I says:
i have never done anything for u besides buy u presents la..

so everything else i did i wasted my time n effort la..


She Say:
ok then u tell me la,.

ok then...

I say
sigh...u need me to tell u this kind of thing also...

well since u think i hv done nothing for u... then i hv done nothing for u


She says:
hehe..

I says:
haha haha... so funny ah..

She says:
haha...
:
dunno...


I says:
yea la.. this is all one big joke for u la..
She says:
not really..

ha...

I says:
if u say so.. actting like a small kid...


She says:
not small kid...
she says:
it's YOUNG ADULT~~~@!!!!!


I says:
there...this is perfect example...

haiz..u go do what u want la.. i got better stuff 2 do..


She says:
okok..

so, which gf u going to find now?

hehe..


I Say:
c what i mean about acting like a kid??

sometimes u should grow up a bit and act a little bit more mature

not everything in like is a joke in case u dont know




will you get annoyed if you bf/gf treat/act like this towards you?? i am overreacting??

This post has been edited by lelong1234: May 21 2007, 11:46 PM

IMO, she seems like done nothing wrong. Just a little need you to manja, and you are very angry over it. I guess you are just overreacting?

But, after the half part where you really get angry and she laugh, my gf also will did that But then she really gave me a real good reason, you angry why I should angry. If I get angry, we both won't benefit at all. I straight

she seems to be childish and seems to take your feelings very lightly...but remember, it takes two hands to clap so this argument is also your fault.
cool down and then talk to her again.

This post has been edited by spunkberry: May 22 2007, 08:16 AM

I don't know you two well so I'm not going to say much. - IMHO, she never meant to make you angry and maybe she doesn't really know what are you talking. My suspect is that you're giving her some hints but she didn't get it, so why don't you just tell her straight? Yes, in the conversation she seems a bit childish but I don't think she really meant to make you upset. Try to talk to her more, be straight forward but don't be too harsh on her just talk to her in nice and calm way. That's all I want to say, some of my statements could be wrong, bear me because I don't really know you two well so I'm just looking based on the conversation.

Peace bro.

First of all, yes you're overreacting. I think she just doesn't exactly gets what you're trying to tell her. However, she's fine in what I read though because you're singing the praise of her in the beginning and telling her that you're going to buy her something or so. Then, she's hinting you that she wants flowers from you and then next, what I can see that is you're going berserk after you're accusing her that presents are everything to her. Take note, when you mention that it's a big joke to her.. well she does reply you "not really".

Girls are to be pampered and not to be shouted at. Yes, at times.. they play reverse psychology and that's the natural aspect of girls. Calm down and try to talk to her again. I'm sure that two of you will solve this together peacefully because its unnecessary to go deeper arguments about this. Understand her, honour her and of course love her.

P/s: I'm just giving my opinion based on the conversation and I think it's not her fault but yours. Same as BlueWind, I don't know you two well so.....

This post has been edited by jdreamer: May 22 2007, 12:10 PM

Dude, you light up my life man! That "not really" is indeed a hint that she wants the flowers and I didn't realise it

well about the flowers part.. on her msn she had a picture with a bouquet of flowers.. so i just asked her who bought it. well i said it in a jokingly manner. i think i said something like "which bf bought you those flowers." then she said she bought it herself and that i woudnt be sending her flowers anyways.

well the thing i dont like is someone asking you to buy them stuff.. i dont know la.. but to me it feels like i am being used.. if i want 2 get her something i should be able to get it by myself right? i dont need her to tell me 2 get her stuff.. just my opinion

anyways i sent her an sms saying that i was sorry for overreacting but she still hasnt replied...