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Gr3yL3gion81
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 Jul 16 2007, 09:39 PM
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QUOTE(lelong1234 @ Jul 16 2007, 09:35 PM) For those who know my story, The last contact i had with my "gf" was a few days ago. I tried calling her then she didnt answer. Then i got annoyed and sent an sms saying that i woudnt be wasting my time and money calling her and she not answering (like this for more than a month already) Anyways, today she sent me a long email saying some stuff and asking me some questions. Anyways, mostly are small questions. Then at the end she asked me if i can handle this LDR or not. I was like 'WTF, shouldnt I be the one asking you this!?' Anyways, my answer to her questions was "the distance doesnt bother me. But if your going to continue acting like this, then i see no point in continuing" Aiyo, she really make my head spin alot. Sometimes i really dono what to do about this relationship. To continue or to stop. Could hardly eat my dinner earlier. Ask her back the same question. Tell her it takes 2 to clap. This post has been edited by Gr3yL3gion81: Jul 16 2007, 09:39 PM |
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lelong1234
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Jul 16 2007, 09:46 PM
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Anyways, this is what she said at the end...
"Anyways, the purpose I sent you this e-mail just want you to understand how I feel. If I going to give you one more chance and who's going to give me chance in the future???
It's not that I trying to blame anyone or what, just want to make it clear.
So, now, I just want to ask you once more, do you REALLY want to continue in this relationship???
Because I just want you to think about it again and I wonder you can tolerate this kind of LONG-DISTANCE relationship."
I know its a bit confusing because there are a couple of grammatical errors.
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Gr3yL3gion81
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Jul 16 2007, 09:51 PM
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She's avoiding you all the time and she's pinning all the blame on you?
Something is fishy man...Be prapared.
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lelong1234
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Jul 16 2007, 09:55 PM
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Hehe
Yea, i am prepared for whatever. In my reply to her i said that I had already more or less given up.
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spunkberry
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Jul 17 2007, 03:26 AM
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危ない人です
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she's pinning everything on you and basically implying that YOU can't handle the "long distance" relationship when she's the one who's treating you like crap? Tell her that and leave dude...save yourself.
Relationships never take presidence over your life and your future. Your life and future takes control of your relationships.
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kokuryo
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Jul 17 2007, 09:08 AM
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why she tok so wired 1...? itz like u r the 1 who canot handle...
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mandysu
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Jul 17 2007, 09:34 AM
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@@" help..i am blur already....lelong1234, both of you better discuss seriously cause relationship is a serious matter (except both of you just want to fool around then I have nothing to say  ) |
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jdreamer
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Jul 17 2007, 10:03 AM
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It's really confusing here. If she doesn't give you assurance about this, or clear the doubt, you'll continue to be insecure. Try to talk about it (probably for one last time). If she is still acting like this or so, I think it's better to shake it off then torturing yourself like this.
My ex blamed me for this and that as the excuse for the breakup. But the exact reason was because she fell in love with another guy.
This post has been edited by jdreamer: Jul 17 2007, 10:04 AM
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emiwy
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Jul 17 2007, 10:31 AM
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omg. She can really spin things. lol.
Anyways, yeah, talk to her for one LAST time. If she's still acting like this, i'm sorry :/
@jdreamer. My ex blamed me & took distance as a reason to break up too, padahal, he fell in love with someone nearer to him physically. lol.
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jdreamer
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Jul 17 2007, 10:34 AM
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QUOTE(emiwy @ Jul 17 2007, 10:31 AM) omg. She can really spin things. lol. Anyways, yeah, talk to her for one LAST time. If she's still acting like this, i'm sorry :/ @jdreamer. My ex blamed me & took distance as a reason to break up too, padahal, he fell in love with someone nearer to him physically. lol. Same as my ex. She said that she's tired of the distance.  |
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emiwy
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Jul 17 2007, 10:37 AM
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yeah. seriously, that's the suckiest excuse ever.
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yywoei
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Jul 17 2007, 12:25 PM
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Hey all, new here.. start off LDR 18months ago.. still struggling.. haha..  I'm in mlk and he is in PD. was previously in PJ.. His company going to sent him to Indonesia and will b staying there for 2 years or the most 3years... huh..  not sure when, but mostly is within this year. Hoping his site wud have internet connection so tat we can skype.. cos phone billing wud cost a lot.. Anyway, Hi to you all!!!  |
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wassap
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Jul 17 2007, 12:32 PM
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welcome to da club. u from mlk? haha... i am in swk and she's in mlk. so sad.
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mandysu
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Jul 17 2007, 01:43 PM
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Welcome yywoei..free to leave any message here ya  |
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suiteng
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Jul 17 2007, 01:50 PM
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Morning peeps~
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wassap
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Jul 17 2007, 02:12 PM
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afternoon di lo suiteng jie
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suiteng
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Jul 17 2007, 02:52 PM
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Sorry lor.. today I a bit siao siao..
Sigh... LDR is hard but hold on~ <-- saying to myself.
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emiwy
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Jul 17 2007, 03:15 PM
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QUOTE(yywoei @ Jul 17 2007, 12:25 PM) Hey all, new here.. start off LDR 18months ago.. still struggling.. haha.. I'm in mlk and he is in PD. was previously in PJ.. His company going to sent him to Indonesia and will b staying there for 2 years or the most 3years... huh.. not sure when, but mostly is within this year. Hoping his site wud have internet connection so tat we can skype.. cos phone billing wud cost a lot.. Anyway, Hi to you all!!! Hellos (: |
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wassap
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Jul 17 2007, 03:19 PM
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hard yes but in the end we will all succeed. right? right?
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emiwy
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Jul 17 2007, 03:22 PM
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YEEAAAAAPPP
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