Guys and girls please help me this time.. My gf cared a lot about her weight.. she's not to say fat you know, I mean she's ok.. I did everything that I possibly could to help her in reducing her weight since she insisted in losing weight. I advice her that if she really wants to lose weight then lose in a healthy way, but then seems like I couldn't help much. But because of her menses she gained weight and that she plans to skip lunch, she already want to lose weight so many times by skipping meals but I've told her countless not to skip her meals even if she wants to lose weight and I even told her if she wants to lose then lose it in healthy way but then now.. I'm extremely worried about her and I just don't know what I can do for her and really really worried that she later will be come too over-sensitive with her weight.. I really really don't know what to do.. If darklight you're reading this now.. Please give me some advice.. Thanks..

Gr3yL3gion81, do you know this is a LDR? READ please

I'm not like you, who has some savings in bank and support. I'm a student. I do have some savings but I can't afford.

For those who know my story, The last contact i had with my "gf" was a few days ago. I tried calling her then she didnt answer. Then i got annoyed and sent an sms saying that i woudnt be wasting my time and money calling her and she not answering (like this for more than a month already)

Anyways, today she sent me a long email saying some stuff and asking me some questions. Anyways, mostly are small questions. Then at the end she asked me if i can handle this LDR or not. I was like 'WTF, shouldnt I be the one asking you this!?' Anyways, my answer to her questions was "the distance doesnt bother me. But if your going to continue acting like this, then i see no point in continuing"

Aiyo, she really make my head spin alot. Sometimes i really dono what to do about this relationship. To continue or to stop. Could hardly eat my dinner earlier.

Now i am confuse. should i go to kl? i know most probably she won wan to see me. shud i make a surprise for her? please advice.

Now my hand shivering.... What should I do huh? Tried drinking hot drink still cant help

aiyo.. this 'gf' of mine ah.. really got no words for her sometimes. I came home, sign into msn and recieve an offline message from her. She asked me to ask my sister to her buy some stuff for her. Then said she will pay later when she come back to malaysia and take it.

What she trying to do? Still want to be togeater with me ah?

Btw, she got time to ask me all this but still haven't reply my email. (2 days liou)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VNfgCJGAAS4#GU5U2spHI_4

i made this for her. what you guys think?

not too free. it took me one whole day la. but i made it cuz i really mean it.

i will try till really cannot. but deep inside i am really scared.

no worries.. yr gf gonna like it...

hmm.. I would like to ask guy if on LDR will you reluctant to let yr gf to go out with another guy individually? Actually today will go out with so called 'ex coll' for dinner. But I dint go out with him coz I can feel that my bf don't like it.