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emiwy
post Jul 5 2007, 06:12 PM

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Hm. Hello. Never thought i'd be dropping by this topic. But the boyfriend is going overseas in 5 months time.. for 5 bloody years.

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post Jul 5 2007, 06:42 PM

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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Jul 5 2007, 06:34 PM)
Welcome to the family. When your bf is not around, here is the best place for you to hang out.  smile.gif
but. i dont know how am i going to cope with it. i know, there's still 5 months more, but time flies ya know. i'm so used to having his sms-es, daily. & whenever i need him, he'll be just right there for me.

im really scared ):

how do you guys even cope with it?
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post Jul 5 2007, 09:11 PM

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QUOTE(suiteng @ Jul 5 2007, 07:10 PM)
5 bloody years..

Well, there's always msn and skype. Just have faith on each other and treasure every moments you guys have together right now. He will still come back for holidays right? Think positively.. slowly, you will get used to it.
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5 years seem so... long ):
Yeah, i know there are MSN, Skype.. better still, 3G. But but.. T_T
I'm not sure about his holidays, previously he told me there'll be 3 months holiday in a year; but yesterday i overheard his dad says that there'll only be 7 days holiday in a year! (i hope i misheard it, really. will ask him later)
&& yes, i guess all i can do now is, appreciate and treasure every moment in this 5 pathetic months ):

QUOTE(BlueWind @ Jul 5 2007, 07:57 PM)
First of all, welcome to the thread~

Have confident, yeah at first you will not used to the absence of your bf and it's not an easy thing to get used to. My piece of advice is manage the time well.. You two should discuss when is the best time for you two to contact each other and when is not.. Last but not least, good luck wink.gif
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Thank you for your advise (:
I'll talk to him about it.
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post Jul 6 2007, 03:07 AM

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post Jul 6 2007, 12:29 PM

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post Jul 6 2007, 02:22 PM

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QUOTE(wassap @ Jul 6 2007, 01:58 PM)
actually sat she went back to her home town. then her hp no batt. i tried to call her but cant get through. so i try to contact her through friends. they manage to contact her so i called the number. she is surprised. then thats how the arguement starts. then the topic revolves round too many calls.
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What about if you've the chance, just tell her that you were worried, that's all? & that you'll cut down the calls?
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post Jul 6 2007, 04:49 PM

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QUOTE(wassap @ Jul 6 2007, 02:38 PM)
nope. not my first love. ya i v kan cheong bit.

maybe i worried gua. maybe i think too much also.

told her di i reduce my call. but still she off hp. i ask her di she off it cuz of me is it o wan to avoid me. she say no. then rili i dunno why she off it. she keep say no. and ask me why i don trust her.
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Sometimes, when she doesn't feel like answering your question, you could've just stop, ya know. Don't go all, asking, "You off the phone because wanna avoid me isit?" I mean, even if she did say yes, what can you do but asking more questions, like why? It might be frustrating to her.. :|
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post Jul 6 2007, 11:13 PM

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Where are your partners now?
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post Jul 6 2007, 11:28 PM

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If it's already this hard. I'm really afraid now. >_<
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post Jul 6 2007, 11:48 PM

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QUOTE(wassap @ Jul 6 2007, 11:37 PM)
ha?

wad u mean?
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Like, although you guys are still in the same country (or near, not near near, but you got what i mean, right?), yet it's so tough. I dowan to imagine what will happen to me.

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Okay! Stop thinking! *slaps self*

p/s; sorry, suck at explaining, haha.
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post Jul 7 2007, 10:52 AM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Jul 7 2007, 09:39 AM)
Aiya.. It's not to say tough anot just the thing is ah we both want to see our partner only...at least thats what i think.. im correct ah wassap? haha laugh.gif
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Yeah. Presence.. blek!

QUOTE(jdreamer @ Jul 7 2007, 10:22 AM)
Meh, don't worry guys. I know one LDR that is working very well now. They used to be in different states (West-East Malaysia) too. And now they're in Aus-Malaysia LDR. The most exciting part is that they're getting married soon! See, it works if both sides are committed and trust each others. smile.gif
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Good to hear (:
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post Jul 8 2007, 01:04 AM

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QUOTE(wassap @ Jul 8 2007, 12:32 AM)
tough luck. some good news and some bad news. bad news is we argue badly. worse than before.

good news is. roughly we know what each other wants. and have a rough idea hw the solution shud be.

at least it doesnt end up breaking up.
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Meh. I guess it usually goes like this? (after a break and the fight?)
I guess communication is very important, aye?

Stay strong xD
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post Jul 9 2007, 02:27 AM

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QUOTE(2kia @ Jul 8 2007, 10:24 PM)
LDR user owner (insert a noun here) reporting in, sir!
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Hello (:
Where's your partner? tongue.gif


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People!
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He might be leaving in 2 months instead of 5 months! i dont know what to do now!
*cries*
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post Jul 9 2007, 01:04 PM

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QUOTE(lelong1234 @ Jul 9 2007, 09:57 AM)
Can someone please advise me? Really dono if i should accept her back or not. After she treat me like this a part of me says dont waste time. Then another part says to give it a try.

Aiyo, confused....
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Seriously, like what mandysu said, ask yourself, if you really wanna go on. If yes, i guess you really have to talk to her, heart to heart? If no well. yeah.
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post Jul 9 2007, 02:08 PM

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The only person who can answer all your doubts, is her.
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post Jul 12 2007, 03:03 AM

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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Jul 12 2007, 01:08 AM)
Guys, I planning to do something for my gf on my b'day. Wish me luck....

Still on the planning, planning very hard.... smile.gif

P/S: Don't think dirty....!!!
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luck!!!11
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post Jul 13 2007, 08:15 PM

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meh. my parents know about my boyfriend, but i dont really feel like letting them know that he's going overseas, because i have a feeling that they'll give me negative feedback.

but but i somehow told her this evening, she didn't make a big deal outta it tho..
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post Jul 14 2007, 09:55 PM

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woot. somehow told my dad about it too. he didnt say anything either. lalalala.
but the boyfriend is having a hard time. );
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post Jul 14 2007, 10:33 PM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Jul 14 2007, 10:27 PM)
Heh, good to hear that there's no objection from your parents I think at least.. Anyway about your bf heh good luck to him then.. I think he needs to convince his parents laugh.gif
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nono. okay. he's going overseas with the parents lar, although.. yes, his parents think he's too young to be in a serious relationship.

the point is. he thinks i shouldnt wait for him >.>
maybe he's just feeling insecure with LDR. idk what to do T_T
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post Jul 14 2007, 10:49 PM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Jul 14 2007, 10:42 PM)
Simple, just talk to him.. Discuss whatever you both think that it's possible to happen if you both were to really commit in this LDR in a calm way of course.. So remember that!! That's my advice..
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i did. but he's still a bit tad insecure. trying hard now. ><

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