we have a big argument. She asked me not to call anymore. Feeling very very sad now. I can't give up the things here. I don't know how to write it... 2 years, I still can't decide whether to let go things here or the relation. I have been delaying decisions for very very long.

Don't know what to do now...



This post has been edited by whycare: Jul 16 2007, 01:32 AM

more like I meant that those are three things a couple in an LDR may choose to let happen. SDR not really...

just move on whycare ...

My condolences.

What happened actually?

back... so many things happen here also wo. haih... bad year?

2007 is definitely a better year than 2006 for me. I had several breakthroughs in my life in 2007.

Apa jadik oh... dun cry first oh..

Yeah. The one that you're thinking. He said he doesn't want to be selfish and leave me alone here for 5 years. Meh.
But i managed to convince him, for the time being. It hurts to see him like that ):

Guys and girls please help me this time.. My gf cared a lot about her weight.. she's not to say fat you know, I mean she's ok.. I did everything that I possibly could to help her in reducing her weight since she insisted in losing weight. I advice her that if she really wants to lose weight then lose in a healthy way, but then seems like I couldn't help much. But because of her menses she gained weight and that she plans to skip lunch, she already want to lose weight so many times by skipping meals but I've told her countless not to skip her meals even if she wants to lose weight and I even told her if she wants to lose then lose it in healthy way but then now.. I'm extremely worried about her and I just don't know what I can do for her and really really worried that she later will be come too over-sensitive with her weight.. I really really don't know what to do.. If darklight you're reading this now.. Please give me some advice.. Thanks..

haih, girls always like that. well, you can tell her eat right. don skip meals but don take tidbits in between meals. 3 meals a day. dinner eat less. no supper. lunch eat average. enough to not feel hungry. morning can just drink some milk o take 1 slice of bread o sth. not too heavy. but tell u wad if she like oats even better. its good too and not fat. reduce rice intake. take more fruits. wish u all the best.

Sponsor her to those body slimming centre or something.

As I said, I told her not to skip meals and all but still she did and also she eats a little bit each time when she thinks that she is gaining weight but the reason why is she eating a little bit is because she promised that she won't skip. If it wasn't because of the promise she wouldn't eat at all. She eats bread each morning and also during lunch and dinner milk she drinks a lot. So again what can I do?


Gr3yL3gion81, do you know this is a LDR? READ please

This post has been edited by BlueWind: Jul 16 2007, 08:23 PM

well, the only thing u can do is talk nicely to her. joke a bit like e.g. tell her she is pretty. then if she say she fat, say don trust me di wo? stuff like that.

its hard. but at least she promise nt to skip meals thats a good start. try advice her take fruits. its better than eating nth.

or maybe u try convince her that u make a meal schedule for her. and make sure she follow it.

This post has been edited by wassap: Jul 16 2007, 08:33 PM

You could bank in the money to enrol into such centres.

What's wrong with that? It's just a suggestion...

I've been into LDR too, i could relate man.

I did.. I did everything that I possibly could.. haih dunno la..

I'm not like you, who has some savings in bank and support. I'm a student. I do have some savings but I can't afford.

Sorry about that mate. Just be there for her, and be as patient as possible

This post has been edited by Gr3yL3gion81: Jul 16 2007, 09:08 PM

Haih, yeah.. right now we are sorting things out.. Anyway thanks for your suggestion and my apology to you that I was being rude with you because I was a bit angry with myself for not being able to help her and I'm really worried of her.. Thanks anyways

BlueWind, girls will never say they are thin. They will always say they are fat. Even they are thin, they will say they are fat.

For your gf case, ask her don't skip lunch. Everyday have a good and healthy breakfast, have a normal lunch but not too full, and allow her to skip dinner. Dinner is ok to skip.

Anyway, I tell you what, girls never learn until they are seriously sick due to didn't eat and admitted to hospital. Just be there for her and keep on advice her.

I did tell her that never ever skip breakfast because breakfast is really really important. Also I told her it's best not to skip meals but then what to do? Cannot la.. haih.. Anyway, having my patients now.. Thanks

For those who know my story, The last contact i had with my "gf" was a few days ago. I tried calling her then she didnt answer. Then i got annoyed and sent an sms saying that i woudnt be wasting my time and money calling her and she not answering (like this for more than a month already)

Anyways, today she sent me a long email saying some stuff and asking me some questions. Anyways, mostly are small questions. Then at the end she asked me if i can handle this LDR or not. I was like 'WTF, shouldnt I be the one asking you this!?' Anyways, my answer to her questions was "the distance doesnt bother me. But if your going to continue acting like this, then i see no point in continuing"

Aiyo, she really make my head spin alot. Sometimes i really dono what to do about this relationship. To continue or to stop. Could hardly eat my dinner earlier.