No worries welcome welcome

HELL YEAH DUDE!!

Thanks for all the support and comments. Appreciate it alot.

Anyways, i am still waiting for her reply. I have to agree with you all on what you have said. If she gives me a disappointing response, i am going to tell her its over. I know that I probably wont be getting a new gf anytime soon if i do break up with her, but i think that would be better than just hanging on for the sake of it.

Will keep you people up to date.

i'm so sorry to hear that lelong.

i am almost in the same situation. that day i called her. she said leave her alone this few weeks. then i say i will go over in august. hope i can see her. she said the answer is no. i ask why she said she don wan me to spoil her holidays. i really dunno wad to do and wad to say. then after talking a while she said just leave her alone for this few weeks and start anew. now i am confuse. should i go to kl? i know most probably she won wan to see me. shud i make a surprise for her? please advice.

Well, it's your call.

If she doesn't want to see you, a suprise would only make the matter worst, with sour face from both sides and all that.

If you do go to see her, get ready to face the truth, she might give you a big suprise as well(in a bad way ).

I'm not saying that you shouldn't trust your partner, but just be prepare for the worst.

I feel for you bro.

Wish you the best of luck to you with your relationship. Must hurt alot when someone that means alot to you says what your gf said.

I think you should listen to what Gr3yL3gion81 said. Anyways, you still have quite a while to deal with your problems before August. Hopefully all will be settled and you are able to visit her. All the best to you...

Give her space... write a stack of letters detailing how much your life has changed ever since u met her...
mind you, i mean snail mail letters, not email...
Surprise her after a month... tell her you wrote a letter for each day you 2 are not talking but never got to deliver them. If she still insist on giving you the boot.... well, at least you tried

nice idea king. maybe its worth the try. i made an mv and sent her. but she has yet to take it. it reach her place but she need to go and collect it from the office.

ya i am scared that something bad might happen too. but she suggest a new beginning. i don really understand why. maybe i really made sth bad this time?

and don't forget to say sorry....
men are egoistical creatures...
if you can bring urself to apologize, i'm sure she'll understand.

I say sorry in my case, and she said she hear till bored already

You don't have to apologize if you didn't do anything wrong.

don't just say sorry

king sounds pro wo. where u got it?

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Added on July 17, 2007, 9:16 pmso bottomline is go in august?

This post has been edited by wassap: Jul 17 2007, 09:16 PM

Up to your own decision man, you know yourself the best.

if its up to me i will go. its worth the try. plan sth big as well.

In any case, best of luck

greetings folks!

my gf has just gone back to perlis to pursue her diploma..and wont be coming back to penang as often as before!

Penang - Perlis... not that far.

Wassap, remember TAMBAH kicap, TAMBAH air, don't forget TAMBAH petrol!! Haha add oil ya..

@ wassap; cant really tell you what to do. and you still have time to decide whether to go or not. but i'd say, go for it. better try, than sit there and wonder "what ifs"''

@lelong; *tranfers luck*

It is hurtful when people humiliate and disgrace you, especially your loved one