Just married Nov 2017.

Wife and I planning for kid soon.

Yeah, I just read this article here: https://says.com/my/news/140-people-have-di...-ops-selamat-15

Stay safe on the roads this festive season for those who are driving!

And for those in Klang Valley area.. KL still got people wan. Still kindly check for traffic when merging lanes.
I almost took out an Alza that just not only turned and merged into my lane but also just cut across 3 lanes.
Lady driver lah.. but let's look out for them especially when traffic is silky smooth

got into accident with another car (alza) which hentam my car from behind. traffic was crawling only but the car hit from behind quite hard. no screeching from braking heard. guess she wasn’t paying attention. teenager still with P license. luckily both my children was wearing seat belts and were in their car seat. unlucky for my car and lucky for my kids and wife and me self for wearing seat belts.

stay safe peeps!

This post has been edited by powerbarr: Jun 9 2019, 12:24 AM

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This post has been edited by wallaby: Jun 19 2019, 08:38 AM

Hi there

i am expecting my daugther this October. At the moment, i am getting consult from a doctor in Hospital Wanita & Kanak Kanak Maluri. basically, its not like a hospital like Columbia or Pantai. Its located in a shoplots with 4 levels.

recently i went to a clinic for dengue checking. The doctor not recommending me to go that hospital, and proposed me to go Tungshen/Tungshin hospital. The doctor said there is a need to standby 3 types of doctor (O&G, bius, and one more i cant remmeber) which Maluri might not have it except O&G.
Initially i chose the maluri cause its just opposite my house.

me and my husband is in dillema as this is our first child.

badly need your advise.


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Why not consider government hospital? They have all the doctors and facilities. Not to mention it is cheaper too. I heard and seen alot of cases whereby those hospitals in shoplots when face complications, they will proceed to do operation to take out the baby first so they can charge a fee. Then they will suggest family members to admit the baby to government hospital. In the end, it is the government hospital who need to clean up their mess.

This post has been edited by lil_flank: Jul 11 2019, 11:55 PM

I would say just go for the government hospital. Private hospital got case also send to government hospital

hey, just want to share something. maybe can act as reminder to myself.

so usually after got back home from work i will look on my phone, browse social media without realizing i have been neglecting my attention to my kids. and i noticed my kids become more annoying.

realizing it was my fault playing with phones and neglecting attention to my kids, i totally avoid my phone whenever i'm at home and when the kids still awake. giving full attention to them. i realized how much precious time i have and would have missed if i continue with the bad habits of looking at phones whenever my kids are around.

not saying we cannot look at phones, but please do so responsibly.

Please don't give up on your marriage!!!
Very easy to give up and walk away.... Your son will suffer....

I suspect you still love your wife very much.... But because of this sudden change of mood you feel life abit unbearable.

You must soldier through this...

Remind your wife that she is the most important person thing in your Life.
Remind to give her thanks for bringing your son into this world.

I suspect your wife could be suffering from postpartum syndrome... She feels you love the baby more than her....
You know woman la bro.... They need special attention etc

My suggestion help out more at home... Doing cooking cleaning even if you got money to get a maid or the maid already helping out... You help a bit loh...
Sayang your missus more.. Encourage her.... Hopefully all will be well.

what is the best diapers for baby 6 month old weight 7.5kg?

If u can afford, u can go to any private hospital, if u want something practical u can always go to government hospital such as putrajaya, selayang, sungai buloh and others newer ones.

congratulation and all the best

yeah pay more attentions to them or u can set playtime, tv time, homework time and etc...

we tried a few brands only drypers and mamypoko are suitable for our boy

"we tried a few brands only drypers and mamypoko are suitable for our boy"

Just bought huggies. So far ok. Last time use mamypoko the poo leak to outsite layer.

last week my 2 kids having diarrhea.

today i have diarrhea. maybe got infected because of improper handling of the soiled pants/diapers.

Gonna be a father in a few weeks time...wish me luck guys

Good luck n share some joy!

I will be next in few months time

good luck.

Thanks bro!