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praetorian
post Jul 18 2019, 03:52 PM

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QUOTE(HumbleDragon @ Dec 18 2018, 11:07 AM)
After having our first baby boy early this year, my wife has been sengaje carik pasal with me. Always express how she regret marry me.
Like some small2 thing, she wanna shout at me. Sometimes randomly bring out past mistakes I did back from college times mistakes which was back in 2008.
I try talking to her, maybe she stressed with having baby. But already almost one year, things just getting worst only. I rather just leave but can't because I love my son very much and definately everyone will blame me.

I don't know what to do... she really hates me but don't wanna leave me as well. Not sure what she wants. Any advice?
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Please don't give up on your marriage!!!
Very easy to give up and walk away.... Your son will suffer....

I suspect you still love your wife very much.... But because of this sudden change of mood you feel life abit unbearable.

You must soldier through this...

Remind your wife that she is the most important person thing in your Life.
Remind to give her thanks for bringing your son into this world.

I suspect your wife could be suffering from postpartum syndrome... She feels you love the baby more than her....
You know woman la bro.... They need special attention etc

My suggestion help out more at home... Doing cooking cleaning even if you got money to get a maid or the maid already helping out... You help a bit loh...
Sayang your missus more.. Encourage her.... Hopefully all will be well.


 

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