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kohchuup
post Mar 23 2019, 10:58 AM

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QUOTE(farscope @ Mar 17 2019, 08:03 AM)
hi all!

just got the good news from waifu a week ago and we are guessing is about 4 or 5 weeks now.

since it is our first one and we had no idea on certain things.

would you guys recommend to go to clinic for a ultrasound checkup first or straight engage the hospital directly? or a nearby clinic + preferred hospital if need consultation?

any good gyrea or hospital to recommend for delivery? thumbup.gif

i'm staying at Kepong and if anything around KL or PJ will be fine. biggrin.gif
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Congratulation bro, u can go to any gynae nearby or convenient for u n wife for the time being.

We went to tung shin hospital dr bux then dr edson cheah. After birth bb went to dr chew bee bee

all the best bro


QUOTE(PirateKing @ Mar 22 2019, 06:35 PM)
Hi, since registration for new members is full I'm borrowing my friends forum acc.

This may bit over-boundaries question but i guess i can start here. Click on spoiler tag.
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Bro, the amount of the fluid u saw from your semen are not the way to count your sperm count, both of u got to go for a medical checkup to check what is the real problem.

BTW my fren took more than 1 year n less than 3 years to conceive, he is older than u 2-3 years old. didnt go for any medical checkup. Sometimes timing bro.

But if both r healthy, can conceive very fast. If u believe in TCM, try to ask around ur fren for a reliable TCM n see how

good luck.


QUOTE(yoshiki81 @ Mar 23 2019, 12:02 AM)
Husband and father of 2 baby girls..
1 advice..always patient..calm and relax
+1

need to check or think whether what makes bb cranky or crying or throwing tantrums... sometimes is our fault that make them does that....


kohchuup
post Mar 24 2019, 03:24 PM

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QUOTE(farscope @ Mar 23 2019, 09:20 PM)
yeah.. just went to nearby gynea for first ultrascan today

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estimate 2 months ady  icon_idea.gif

next is to decide on the delivery hospital

any recommendation? so far shortlisted tung shin, SJMC, pantai..

prince court / gleneagles a bit over the budget  sweat.gif
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my wife natural birth, both discharge the same day or the next day forgotten, around 3+++.++ tung shin

others no experience.
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post May 31 2019, 11:26 AM

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QUOTE(vince01 @ May 30 2019, 04:10 PM)
Hi all,

My 14 month old son start to refuse to sit on his car seat. Can share any tips on how to make him to sit his car seat?. We got a road trip coming up this weekend.
Thanks.
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My son since after birth, the next day send him home till now 28 months old already get used to it. So better to start them young,

like powerbarr said, safety 1st.


Try to bring along his favorites toys or things so that he can play while u r driving. Most parents dun really agree on letting their kids watch cartoons, if u r ok, try to play his favorites cartoons, just get a phone or tab holder for him to watch. They will fall asleep after awhile, turn off after he fell asleep.

Do not let him eat too much of sweet stuff while travelling, they will vomit, fruits or etc.... a few pieces good enuf, hydrate him with water will do.

safe trip ya
kohchuup
post Jun 8 2019, 08:32 AM

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QUOTE(navilink @ Jun 4 2019, 12:27 PM)

well the phone definitely can divert a bit longer than toys.. but not so good viewing phone when in car.. motion sickness for some
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post Jul 20 2019, 09:00 AM

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QUOTE(cutemiao @ Jul 11 2019, 12:53 PM)
Hi there

i am expecting my daugther this October. At the moment, i am getting consult from a doctor in Hospital Wanita & Kanak Kanak Maluri. basically, its not like a hospital like Columbia or Pantai. Its located in a shoplots with 4 levels.

recently i went to a clinic for dengue checking. The doctor not recommending me to go that hospital, and proposed me to go Tungshen/Tungshin hospital. The doctor said there is a need to standby 3 types of doctor (O&G, bius, and one more i cant remmeber) which Maluri might not have it except O&G.
Initially i chose the maluri cause its just opposite my house.

me and my husband is in dillema as this is our first child.

badly need your advise.
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If u can afford, u can go to any private hospital, if u want something practical u can always go to government hospital such as putrajaya, selayang, sungai buloh and others newer ones.

congratulation and all the best

QUOTE(Hardcore Leveling Warrior @ Jul 18 2019, 03:36 PM)
hey, just want to share something. maybe can act as reminder to myself.

so usually after got back home from work i will look on my phone, browse social media without realizing i have been neglecting my attention to my kids. and i noticed my kids become more annoying.

realizing it was my fault playing with phones and neglecting attention to my kids, i totally avoid my phone whenever i'm at home and when the kids still awake. giving full attention to them. i realized how much precious time i have and would have missed if i continue with the bad habits of looking at phones whenever my kids are around.

not saying we cannot look at phones, but please do so responsibly.
yeah pay more attentions to them or u can set playtime, tv time, homework time and etc...

QUOTE(1000armoured @ Jul 19 2019, 06:01 PM)

what is the best diapers for baby 6 month old weight 7.5kg?
we tried a few brands only drypers and mamypoko are suitable for our boy

kohchuup
post Jul 25 2019, 02:36 PM

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QUOTE(1000armoured @ Jul 20 2019, 11:10 AM)
"we tried a few brands only drypers and mamypoko are suitable for our boy"

Just bought huggies. So far ok. Last time use mamypoko the poo leak to outsite layer.
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so far both brands never leak, got to check bb's private parts and others covered area develop any rashes or pinkish or not, if yes got to change.



All the best to tomato people & farscope

get well soon Hardcore Leveling Warrior
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post Feb 15 2020, 07:51 AM

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QUOTE(Garenyu @ Feb 14 2020, 05:06 PM)
We are expecting a baby girl in next two months.

So far the big item that we decided to get before the baby says Hello World :

Baby Bed - Ikea
Baby Storage - Ikea
Carrier + Isofix Base + Stroller - Chicco Bravo Set.

Any other suggestions what to prep beforehand for newbie daddy? biggrin.gif
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U dun have to buy alot of bb diapers, bb grow very fast. cloths too.

Have u get ready mummy's and bb's essential bag for her delivery?
kohchuup
post Feb 17 2020, 08:32 AM

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https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/4716488

try the above link


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post Feb 17 2020, 01:33 PM

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QUOTE(Garenyu @ Feb 17 2020, 01:12 PM)
Interesting, will definitely checkout on this....

Any other big item that we should lookout for? 
Thanks to the silent reading habit, i did grab up some info beforehand and we just bought 1 Pack of Small Size Baby Diapers, 6 set of cloths, milk bottle and along some miscellaneous baby related item.  notworthy.gif

We also just started prepping up some essential bag item yesterday.  thumbup.gif
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imho, i didnt use baby changing table.

for bb is NB - new born, cloths up to individual, some do not mind to use prelove from family members or friends or etc...

for milk bottles, depends how u n ur wife's arrangement, my wife full time house wife can bb direct latch so i only have a few only.

bb oil, bb diaper's cream can trial n error, most ppl use drapolene cream, my wife handmade them.

bb swaddle blanket, mittens and etc...

all the best ya
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post Feb 18 2020, 01:39 PM

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same here haha

 

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