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TSMoonRider
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Sep 13 2016, 08:37 PM
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if you going to labor room.. few things to take note.. once the baby deliver.. the nurse will pat the baby buntut n cry.. make sure u follow closely with the nurse n carefully observed.. things to observed including baby name tag is written ur wife name.. face body leg of baby especially the birthmark..recognize ur baby .. reason most of the baby is look alike so you need to observed properly.
if you subs tl stemlife.remeber to bring the stemlife kit to hospital and call the agent when ur wife admit to the hospital
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panda-man
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Sep 13 2016, 09:52 PM
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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Sep 13 2016, 07:41 PM) Haha thanks is a boy boy..Tung Shin hospital. Thanks, Ohh..what brand is that? can apply during breastfeed? Chemical free? Dunno the brand but I bought from jusco. It's organic and safe for baby consumption in case some still left on the nipple.
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lanusb
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Sep 19 2016, 04:47 PM
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Hi Guys, I just gotten this tommy tippee bottle warmer. Its quite large and can keep the heat in very well, as well as convenient. Easy for us father when taking the baby out alone and it's time for feeding. Got this from 11street as they are having some discount now, plus with vouchers got this under RM50 when mothercare selling for rm105. Recommended if you have not gotten your flask+bottle warmer. Get the vouchers to get it cheaper http://www.11street.my/productdetail/tomme...le-food-9407515This post has been edited by lanusb: Sep 19 2016, 04:49 PM Attached thumbnail(s)
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panda-man
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Sep 19 2016, 05:04 PM
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QUOTE(lanusb @ Sep 19 2016, 04:47 PM) Hi Guys, I just gotten this tommy tippee bottle warmer. Its quite large and can keep the heat in very well, as well as convenient. Easy for us father when taking the baby out alone and it's time for feeding. Got this from 11street as they are having some discount now, plus with vouchers got this under RM50 when mothercare selling for rm105. Recommended if you have not gotten your flask+bottle warmer. Get the vouchers to get it cheaper http://www.11street.my/productdetail/tomme...le-food-9407515saw the link. so just use the flask and then pour hot water into the top part and can heat up the bottle ya? thats pretty convenient for jalan jalan. especially as you said for when going out alone. and less than RM50 is damn good deal. forget the special one, but for any thermos really hahah. im using a cheapo one for emergencies, our hardcore one left at my in-laws place, but my son drinks only 3x per day now so dont need to carry thermos anymore yay! damn heavy...
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lanusb
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Sep 19 2016, 05:59 PM
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ooo good good, i got no choice, cos mummy works, now baby is just moving into 2 mths old, so its good when i have it to reheat breast milk. since i also end work at 3pm so i take care of bb until the mom comes back
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Ash1988
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Sep 21 2016, 05:32 AM
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Hi all, My son was born on Malaysia's day. Roughly 1 month premature from expected date. Doc says he is healthy so no incubation or nicu. Thanks God! He is weighed in at 2.9kg. Over the couple days I have experienced my first parenting which is good. I just don't know why my boy will cries at night every 2 to 3 hrs even though we have feed him.
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TSMoonRider
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Sep 21 2016, 08:39 AM
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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Sep 21 2016, 05:32 AM) Hi all, My son was born on Malaysia's day. Roughly 1 month premature from expected date. Doc says he is healthy so no incubation or nicu. Thanks God! He is weighed in at 2.9kg. Over the couple days I have experienced my first parenting which is good. I just don't know why my boy will cries at night every 2 to 3 hrs even though we have feed him. is normal.. if wife breast feed.. do more often.. baby hungry then cry.. might be wife not enought breast milk as baby is premature.. additional effort required to ensure the weight is consistent increase.. This post has been edited by MoonRider: Sep 21 2016, 08:40 AM
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panda-man
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Sep 21 2016, 09:24 AM
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Sep 21 2016, 08:39 AM) is normal.. if wife breast feed.. do more often.. baby hungry then cry.. might be wife not enought breast milk as baby is premature.. additional effort required to ensure the weight is consistent increase.. the more the baby drinks, the more mama produces normally. its like supply and demand. but of course may take a while for body to catch up to demand.
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dark90
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Sep 21 2016, 11:22 AM
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QUOTE(lanusb @ Sep 19 2016, 05:47 PM) Hi Guys, I just gotten this tommy tippee bottle warmer. Its quite large and can keep the heat in very well, as well as convenient. Easy for us father when taking the baby out alone and it's time for feeding. Got this from 11street as they are having some discount now, plus with vouchers got this under RM50 when mothercare selling for rm105. Recommended if you have not gotten your flask+bottle warmer. Get the vouchers to get it cheaper http://www.11street.my/productdetail/tomme...le-food-9407515Too little too late.. already bought one, an Endo brand or something..
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mamata
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Sep 21 2016, 12:43 PM
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just asking on a 8 weeks plus what food should i provide for my wife? since she eat less . Kinda worries
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TSMoonRider
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Sep 21 2016, 12:50 PM
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QUOTE(mamata @ Sep 21 2016, 12:43 PM) just asking on a 8 weeks plus what food should i provide for my wife? since she eat less . Kinda worries should talk to your gynae.. ur wife stressful?
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panda-man
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Sep 21 2016, 01:23 PM
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QUOTE(mamata @ Sep 21 2016, 12:43 PM) just asking on a 8 weeks plus what food should i provide for my wife? since she eat less . Kinda worries as moonrider mentioned, check with your gynae, it may be due to post natal depression. but she needs to eat to produce more milk (if breastfeeding). BF also supposed to help with depression. but if hard to eat, maybe just make some very boring/plain food likes soups and porridge. sometimes strong tasting foods are off putting.
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mamata
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Sep 21 2016, 02:12 PM
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Sep 21 2016, 12:50 PM) should talk to your gynae.. ur wife stressful? she's 8 weeks pregnant not really stressful, just a bit of dizziness and sleep a lot
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panda-man
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Sep 21 2016, 02:15 PM
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QUOTE(mamata @ Sep 21 2016, 02:12 PM) she's 8 weeks pregnant not really stressful, just a bit of dizziness and sleep a lot oh i thought baby 8 weeks hahah. if first 8 weeks all ladies will feel like crap. because of nausea, hormones all over the place. first trimester will be like that. feed her plain foods without strong flavour or smell as they can make her nauseous and wanna throw up. make sure rooms are airy and not too hot. make sure she keeps up with her vitamins, esp. folic acid. find a food she likes. normally all ladies got one. my wife, my mom, and my sister when pregnant loved french fries.... you can try hahah.
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Ash1988
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Sep 21 2016, 02:18 PM
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So sad..baby was admitted to hospital for a 2 days phototherapy due to jaundice.....
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TSMoonRider
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Sep 21 2016, 06:06 PM
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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Sep 21 2016, 02:18 PM) So sad..baby was admitted to hospital for a 2 days phototherapy due to jaundice.....  my first kid also kena under light at hospital. second n third.. listen to old people advice jemur under morning sun 8am.. no kuning
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Ash1988
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Sep 22 2016, 09:47 PM
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Any tips for staying awake at midnight? I need to feed my son every 2hours...kinda sleepy at night.
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Yveatel
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Sep 23 2016, 08:19 AM
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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Sep 22 2016, 09:47 PM) Any tips for staying awake at midnight? I need to feed my son every 2hours...kinda sleepy at night. your wife? how many weeks your baby? Mine just 8 weeks yesterday, rotate with wife and so far still ok. Wife breastfeed until 1am last round, while I sleep from 9pm - 3am. Estimate baby awake by 3am, I still got about 6 hours of sleep, my wife sleeps from 2am to 7/8am. I reached home around 6.30pm, cook, and dinner by 7.30/8pm. Sleep from 9pm - 3am. I feed baby at 3am, 5am, and 7am before I go to work.
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panda-man
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Sep 23 2016, 09:11 AM
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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Sep 22 2016, 09:47 PM) Any tips for staying awake at midnight? I need to feed my son every 2hours...kinda sleepy at night. you need to work in shifts with your wife. otherwise you will really burn yourself out. at that time i was out of a job so in a way that was lucky haha. so can sleep during the day. because better to get 4-6 hours straight then wake up every two hours.
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Ash1988
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Sep 23 2016, 10:53 AM
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QUOTE(Yveatel @ Sep 23 2016, 08:19 AM) your wife? how many weeks your baby? Mine just 8 weeks yesterday, rotate with wife and so far still ok. Wife breastfeed until 1am last round, while I sleep from 9pm - 3am. Estimate baby awake by 3am, I still got about 6 hours of sleep, my wife sleeps from 2am to 7/8am. I reached home around 6.30pm, cook, and dinner by 7.30/8pm. Sleep from 9pm - 3am. I feed baby at 3am, 5am, and 7am before I go to work. QUOTE(panda-man @ Sep 23 2016, 09:11 AM) you need to work in shifts with your wife. otherwise you will really burn yourself out. at that time i was out of a job so in a way that was lucky haha. so can sleep during the day. because better to get 4-6 hours straight then wake up every two hours. Baby only 6days old. My wife is in confinement so she doesn't breastfeed and only do pump in bottle. While I Wan to let my wife rest during this 1 month. I have to do all these bottle feeding.
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