i thought u didn't know that, so..what u plan to do now? killing ure self n hoping that u will b born to be somebody? crying every night cursing god?...

u know, i read a bit about what you posted, take a good side of this ya, she reject u n din call u ever since for what ever reason that mayb, at least she should just talk to u or something,, b4 this u said she was an angel(duh..), perfect friend she can b,, n guess what u know after u went out wit her, everything opposite of what u know her, she totally fooled u with her good acting skills that she was a nice girl..talking about angel from the outside n demon from the inside,, if u were sincere about your feeling towards her, u should thanks god for making her reject u n showing her true color..end.

I was not referring to her alone. There's more. All rejected me. That's why I'm so pissed !!! End.

Just get on with your life. Seriously. Really don't see the point in being so pissed for such a long time, just learn to accept it and move on.

Evangelistica don't want to know her liao, can intro to me liao

One does not need a point to be enraged with the unfairness of life.

You're quite a good looking dude (judging from your avatar pic, if its really you). So you can't possibly understand the agony of being ugly. You live your life everyday, seeing those people with couples, seeing pretty girls here and there but knowing bottom-line they will never accept you. Day by day, that sting feelings and frustrations will kept on bottled up inch by inch until it consumes you totally. But like I said, you will never know. Accept and move on? Try exchange body then..

This post has been edited by Evangelistica: Mar 3 2010, 01:31 PM

Yeah, that's me. And thanks for the compliment (or at least I think it's a compliment).

How do you know that those girls will never accept you? I've seen a lot of hot chicks with not so good looking guys around (no offense meant to anyone, just stating an observation). The point is, if you claim to be fat, why not you do something about that? Go to the gym, lift weights for a couple of months. You'll look better, and definitely feel better about yourself too. Instead of being bitter about life, channel the frustrations and anger and do something more productive. Improve yourself so that you won't have to go through the shit that you went through before.

And it's not good to keep things bottled up, go find an outlet for your anger and frustrations. And please don't assume I don't know what you're going through. I've been through my fair share of heart break. But then, just let the bygones be bygones. Move on.

I've worked out and managed to go from 130 to 100 but that's it. I'm stuck at 100. And don't assume and didn't work my a$$ off. Even i manage to slim down, I still need thousands to reconstruct my face problemo...

sometimes, its not the looks that matter.

its the "skill"

From my experience, looks does matter.

ah kow looks worse than his avatar in real life but he got gf also man.

Ya guys know each other?

Stuck at a 100? Keep on working out then. Don't give up.

And I really doubt you're as ugly as you claim to be. I have a friend who has scars all over his face and body because of a car accident he was involved in when he was at a very young age, but he's doing quite well with the opposite sex. I don't see him complaining about his looks all day long.

Yeah. I agree with you there, but we can't totally take looks out of the equation.

True, but not all the time. Trust me.

HAHA.

Well, I guess it only show how much "experience" you actually have in life. Dude, I'm 20 this year and I was 6 feet tall at 17. Sounds cool right? Well not necessarily when you tip the scales at 128kg! I f***ing worked my ass of at the gym and with proper guidance and bloody self discipline, I managed to bring my weight down to 92kg in 5 months. Since then, things have been looking bright for me and I'm currently 6"3, 83kg. Come on man, stop being a f***ing retard (no pun intended) and believe in yourself. Sure, its hard at the beginning, but trust me,if you REALLY wan'tto make a change, you can f***ing do it! You don't have to be rich or good looking to get a girl you want, all you need to have are balls the size of church bells, and the only way you're gonna GROW them is by having self confidence in yourself. Trust me dude, I could be doing so many other things at this time rather than typing this for you, but it just goes to show that you're not the only one out there who HAD a repeated f***ed up series of events in your life. Let me tell you this dude, you wanna be mad at God, go ahead...you wanna be mad at society, be my guest....but when it comes to f***ing up your own life just because YOU think that YOU'VE been treated unfairly, reality check my friend, there are others who are worst off than you.

Come to think of it, I remember this really overweight dude who used to sell burgers down my street, Nizam...let me share with you a true conversation that I dare swear on all things divine is not made up,

Vinesh : Abang, bagi burger ayam special 3..
Nizam : Sorry bro, malam ni abang tutup awal..
Vinesh : Laaaaaa, asal pulak ni, takkan nak jumpa awek kot...
Nizam : Eh ko ingat abang ni tak seksi ke ha?!
Vinesh : Err, tak..=P
Nizam : Ko nak tengok gambar tunang abang *whips out his cellphone*
Vinesh : Ni gambar masa tunang ke?! *With a HOLY f*** expression across my face*
Nizam : Habis tu, takkan masa tengah mandi..
Vinesh : Perh, terra la abang, lawa la gf abang..
Nizam : GF wak lu, 2 bulan lagi dah nak khawin, kita dah tak main bf, gf ni semua la..

The fella got married 2 and a half months later, I know for sure because I went for his wedding as it was in my housing area. His bride looked similar, if not EXACTLY like that "MyEg" advertisement girl, Fazura (I did a quick Google to find her name)

All I'm trying to say is, you've got your entire future in front of you. Whether you wanna continue going around searching high and low for whore houses that would eventually serve you a nice cold dish of herpes, that's your call mate.
To end this,all I have to say is this, I too fell for my best friend of 4 years, and yes I TOO was rejected, but let me tell you this, it WASN'T[I] because of my looks, neither was it because of my weight. It was because she wasn't ready for a relationship and she didn't want to loose faith by bickering and having small arguments with her best friend, and you know what man, we're still best friends even after I "imploded" for a couple of days because if there's one boundary that love CAN'T cross, that would be true, sincere and honest friendship and respect for one another.

Cheers mate, hope you have a great life ahead of you, and just pm me if you need to talk. I know I'm only 20, but hey, experience doesn't necessarily always come with age.


Holy f***ing banana, I need to sleep...

falling for your best friend? that's lovely~ =)

Me too have worked my ass off. Practically torturing myself from 130 kg to 100, but it seems to stuck there. Please dont assume so much you wise-typo-dude..

Haha, I'm not assuming anything mate, its just that different people have different metabolisms etc. Like they say, TRY and TRY again. Going from 130kg to 100kg is no easy feat, I totally agree with that AND I know where you're coming from because I've been there. Heck if someone just wrote to me or told me what I typed in my previous post, I would have probably replied something similar.
No hard feelings bro, just trying to help out....I'll you some tips that worked for me, maybe they could work for you, cheers!

Other than beating myself, please PM me your methods...

Just did bro, trust me, they'll work for people like US who were not genetically gifted to begin with

Thanks bro...