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Serious Dear All : "I'm falling for my best friend.", Moral : Learn from my downfall

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roxxor89
post Mar 2 2010, 11:35 AM

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QUOTE(satoshi.mifune @ Mar 1 2010, 03:07 PM)
I know im a little bit late but i sense so much anger and emotions even years after the event that took place in your life but i do know that When we encounter any problem that stirred our emotions so bad it actually clouds our judgement and shut our reason to accept the truth in your case for such an extended period of time.We human tend to blame god, how do we even blame something we can't even see and said he is the decider of our fate?All of this are told by a human and its the same human who played your feelings. You must not let this human cling to your live and dictate on how you view yourself,others(especially women),and the world around you while her innocence in this matter is protected by your denial and inability to accept that this angel caused all this, not your escapism tool which you call god.It's funny as Your consistent on saying god doesn't exist
yet still putting the blame on him.Doesn't this shows your faith in his existence?Or perhaps you're just angry at him for betraying your faith and leaving you in despair? .If you really don't believe in god congratulations you have just wasted all this years bashing your energy and emotion to something that doesn't exist. You should have accepted and confronted the "real problem" when it first occured not to run away and cultivate that anger to "god" whom will not be affected by your anger but eventually it will destroy you or people that are close to you. One more thing human also use religion as an escapism to not act but just pray and hope that it will turn out the way we want it to be and when it doesn't just blame god. cheers  tongue.gif
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Not everyone experiences one girl who scarred them. Some twice, even thrice in a row. Naturally, the human mind responds by resorting to different sense of rationality to protect themselves from further emotional harm in the future. No one is to blame, only circumstances. Despite knowing that, most will continue living life cold heartedly. Because without such self-preservation, they would've never gotten out of the depression rut.

QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Mar 2 2010, 10:28 AM)
You guys are wrong! I'm not angry with the powers that be for that girl. I blame the powers that be for moulding me to this ugly guy.
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Ive been reading quite a few of ur posts throughout the week Evangelistica, and i believe what ur going through is a hard response to failure of obtaining the girl u wanted. Although it is normal to blame god for it, (He's biased to certain humans isnt he?) do remember that 'ugliness' and 'being fat'(based on ur display pic quote) are mostly OUR own problem of lifestyle. Once ur emotional bitterness stablizes, decide on whether u want to subject urself to the shitty fate god has given u or fight against it and make a change. There's going to be TONS of people around you who has never experienced ur shit will try to convince u into being ur innocent self once again. Consider these ppl the bystanders of heaven who, blessed with a good life did nothing but watched u get thrown into the hellhole.
roxxor89
post Mar 3 2010, 01:16 PM

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QUOTE(harris92 @ Mar 3 2010, 01:11 PM)
Just get on with your life. Seriously. Really don't see the point in being so pissed for such a long time, just learn to accept it and move on.
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