QUOTE(spanker @ Feb 24 2010, 05:40 PM)
Ya true.. I realize that long time ago. All the praying in this world could not help me get the girl I want.Serious Dear All : "I'm falling for my best friend.", Moral : Learn from my downfall
Serious Dear All : "I'm falling for my best friend.", Moral : Learn from my downfall
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Feb 24 2010, 05:45 PM
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Feb 24 2010, 05:50 PM
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ya know, i have been visiting some temples and wats (the siamese temples) after some encouragement from some people. And from my patronage to these houses of worship I realized something.
People misinterpret the idea of prayer, in the sense that they want some higher power to bring them what they want. But what they fail to realize is that prayer is actually a method of focusing one's wishes and desires and prioritizing over them as time passes and each prayer is revised. There is no higher power, there is only you and the choices you make. This post has been edited by spanker: Feb 24 2010, 05:51 PM |
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Feb 24 2010, 05:55 PM
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QUOTE(spanker @ Feb 24 2010, 05:50 PM) ya know, i have been visiting some temples and wats (the siamese temples) after some encouragement from some people. And from my patronage to these houses of worship I realized something. Lets tell that to the billions of people in this world who still constrain by their so called religion.People misinterpret the idea of prayer, in the sense that they want some higher power to bring them what they want. But what they fail to realize is that prayer is actually a method of focusing one's wishes and desires and prioritizing over them as time passes and each prayer is revised. There is no higher power, there is only you and the choices you make. |
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Feb 24 2010, 08:18 PM
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Introducing the revolutionary product that would blow your mind away
http://www.tenga.com.my/ lol .. btw i've no need for that equipment. one more thing there is a saying the more you want it the more you wont get it and the lest u want it then you would have it |
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Feb 25 2010, 12:01 AM
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QUOTE(lokideangelus @ Feb 24 2010, 08:18 PM) Introducing the revolutionary product that would blow your mind away those are quite some products for satisfaction http://www.tenga.com.my/ lol .. btw i've no need for that equipment. one more thing there is a saying the more you want it the more you wont get it and the lest u want it then you would have it |
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Feb 25 2010, 09:04 AM
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Feb 25 2010, 04:02 PM
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So that's Tenga. Haha sorry but have to pass. Prostitution more better.
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Feb 25 2010, 04:03 PM
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Feb 25 2010, 04:07 PM
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Feb 25 2010, 04:22 PM
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Feb 25 2010, 04:27 PM
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Mar 1 2010, 03:07 PM
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I know im a little bit late but i sense so much anger and emotions even years after the event that took place in your life but i do know that When we encounter any problem that stirred our emotions so bad it actually clouds our judgement and shut our reason to accept the truth in your case for such an extended period of time.We human tend to blame god, how do we even blame something we can't even see and said he is the decider of our fate?All of this are told by a human and its the same human who played your feelings. You must not let this human cling to your live and dictate on how you view yourself,others(especially women),and the world around you while her innocence in this matter is protected by your denial and inability to accept that this angel caused all this, not your escapism tool which you call god.It's funny as Your consistent on saying god doesn't exist
yet still putting the blame on him.Doesn't this shows your faith in his existence?Or perhaps you're just angry at him for betraying your faith and leaving you in despair? .If you really don't believe in god congratulations you have just wasted all this years bashing your energy and emotion to something that doesn't exist. You should have accepted and confronted the "real problem" when it first occured not to run away and cultivate that anger to "god" whom will not be affected by your anger but eventually it will destroy you or people that are close to you. One more thing human also use religion as an escapism to not act but just pray and hope that it will turn out the way we want it to be and when it doesn't just blame god. cheers |
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Mar 1 2010, 03:19 PM
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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Feb 24 2010, 05:45 PM) Ya true.. I realize that long time ago. All the praying in this world could not help me get the girl I want. Actually, maybe you prayed so hard, god pity you and dont want you to suffer with that girl. Coz sometimes, what you want is not what is good for you. So you have chance to pick someone good for you lah.QUOTE(lokideangelus @ Feb 24 2010, 08:18 PM) Introducing the revolutionary product that would blow your mind away You bought one?http://www.tenga.com.my/ lol .. btw i've no need for that equipment. one more thing there is a saying the more you want it the more you wont get it and the lest u want it then you would have it i want to buy one for my science teacher in school. will she accept it? QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Feb 25 2010, 04:02 PM) my daddy knows alot of these places, coz he fetches tourists there. I heard from vey99 gor gor that Lisa D Inn in SS2 has nice spa and massage and special service.Added on March 1, 2010, 3:21 pm QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Feb 19 2010, 06:27 PM) I think I'm way passed my boiling point. It erupted years ago. Nothing can revert me back to the way I was when I was young, naive and foolishly thought that the world is a nice place. The autism is my little brother not me. It's hard to see him like that. And I always wonder, is THIS the God's creation? Why He created him like that? Don't tell me it's a blessing in disguise because I honestly don't believe it. I consider people who told me bullsh1ts like that are plain ignorant. The only moment I can calm down is either with my cats, or "punishing" the hookers I've paid to abide. what if your prayer was answered with a YES and you end up marrying a monster who rules over you with an iron rod and give u no freedom?This post has been edited by ah-kow: Mar 1 2010, 03:21 PM |
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Mar 1 2010, 10:18 PM
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Added on March 1, 2010, 3:21 pm what if your prayer was answered with a YES and you end up marrying a monster who rules over you with an iron rod and give u no freedom? [/quote] yup thats a possibility, and what if you confronted the problem in the first place and let her know how deeply you are affected by her actions and you will absolutely help you heal faster emotionally rather than lose all trust in women because of one as to not want to be hurt anymore This post has been edited by satoshi.mifune: Mar 1 2010, 10:19 PM |
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Mar 2 2010, 10:28 AM
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You guys are wrong! I'm not angry with the powers that be for that girl. I blame the powers that be for moulding me to this ugly guy.
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Mar 2 2010, 11:35 AM
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QUOTE(satoshi.mifune @ Mar 1 2010, 03:07 PM) I know im a little bit late but i sense so much anger and emotions even years after the event that took place in your life but i do know that When we encounter any problem that stirred our emotions so bad it actually clouds our judgement and shut our reason to accept the truth in your case for such an extended period of time.We human tend to blame god, how do we even blame something we can't even see and said he is the decider of our fate?All of this are told by a human and its the same human who played your feelings. You must not let this human cling to your live and dictate on how you view yourself,others(especially women),and the world around you while her innocence in this matter is protected by your denial and inability to accept that this angel caused all this, not your escapism tool which you call god.It's funny as Your consistent on saying god doesn't exist Not everyone experiences one girl who scarred them. Some twice, even thrice in a row. Naturally, the human mind responds by resorting to different sense of rationality to protect themselves from further emotional harm in the future. No one is to blame, only circumstances. Despite knowing that, most will continue living life cold heartedly. Because without such self-preservation, they would've never gotten out of the depression rut. yet still putting the blame on him.Doesn't this shows your faith in his existence?Or perhaps you're just angry at him for betraying your faith and leaving you in despair? .If you really don't believe in god congratulations you have just wasted all this years bashing your energy and emotion to something that doesn't exist. You should have accepted and confronted the "real problem" when it first occured not to run away and cultivate that anger to "god" whom will not be affected by your anger but eventually it will destroy you or people that are close to you. One more thing human also use religion as an escapism to not act but just pray and hope that it will turn out the way we want it to be and when it doesn't just blame god. cheers QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Mar 2 2010, 10:28 AM) You guys are wrong! I'm not angry with the powers that be for that girl. I blame the powers that be for moulding me to this ugly guy. Ive been reading quite a few of ur posts throughout the week Evangelistica, and i believe what ur going through is a hard response to failure of obtaining the girl u wanted. Although it is normal to blame god for it, (He's biased to certain humans isnt he?) do remember that 'ugliness' and 'being fat'(based on ur display pic quote) are mostly OUR own problem of lifestyle. Once ur emotional bitterness stablizes, decide on whether u want to subject urself to the shitty fate god has given u or fight against it and make a change. There's going to be TONS of people around you who has never experienced ur shit will try to convince u into being ur innocent self once again. Consider these ppl the bystanders of heaven who, blessed with a good life did nothing but watched u get thrown into the hellhole. |
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Mar 2 2010, 11:36 AM
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My fair share, i feel for my best friend and it's exactly like your case, just another average joe and she's like the preetiest girl in school, we were best freinds and we started dating, thing got complicated, then it ended, now i dont even talk to her anymore, i wish thing could be the same before the dating part, never never ever fall for your best friend
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Mar 2 2010, 12:13 PM
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Everyone is created in their own, uniqely. Like what the rest of the forumners said. Don't blame on what u are.. But be happy for who you are and i'm sure there will be somebody that can accept everything u are. your talents that others do not see like the previous girl 2 years ago. I did gone through what u did. I thought that she would accept me and all but eventually she actually looked down on me saying that my results werent good in my A levels. So judging me too early. Which now am moving on to study engineering and having another gf which accepted me for who I am.. It is true that GOD love us that he sometimes do not wanna give us the way we want, and the things we want for this case the girl. We need to understand that the girl may not be so suitable for u that's why.. Cheers BRO.. =D
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Mar 2 2010, 12:53 PM
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what?..now u hoping that god should made u brad pitt at 1st place?..incase u wonder, there r million more worse fate than yours, just take it easy n stop whining, if u cant except ure own self, what make u think that other people can except u..its all start from u, either u want to make it good or horrible for ure self, its all in your hand..
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Mar 3 2010, 11:35 AM
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QUOTE(ELm_ELm @ Mar 2 2010, 12:53 PM) what?..now u hoping that god should made u brad pitt at 1st place?..incase u wonder, there r million more worse fate than yours, just take it easy n stop whining, if u cant except ure own self, what make u think that other people can except u..its all start from u, either u want to make it good or horrible for ure self, its all in your hand.. I've listened to this preach more than a thousand times. It's (sorry) BULLSH1T!!!! |
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